The Intentional Parents Podcast

In this meaningful conversation, we sit down with Katherine Wolf, whose story has deeply impacted our lives and understanding of faith and suffering. At 26, Katherine experienced a massive brain stem stroke that nearly took her life. Now, 18 years later, she lives with significant disabilities, yet continues to live with purpose, joy, and a resilient faith. She shares the long journey of learning to believe that even in hardship, “the boundary lines have fallen in pleasant places,” and how her early years were marked by deep struggle before discovering a renewed sense of calling. Katherine reflects on holding both joy and pain at the same time, and how suffering can shape not only us, but our children and families in meaningful ways. We talk about marriage in the midst of hardship, which includes choosing to come together as a team, extending grace, and recognizing the sacredness of caring for one another. She also speaks to grieving unmet expectations, embracing the life in front of you, and trusting that God’s presence, not a perfect life, is what defines true goodness. This episode is a powerful reminder that our pain is not wasted. Through honest perspective shifts and a deep dependence on Jesus, Katherine points us toward a hope that heals and a life that is still, even now, full of purpose. Katherine Wolf: Hope Heals: Instagram, Books, Camps + Retreats, Speaking + Podcast Scripture Mentioned: Psalm 16:6, Acts 13:36, Matthew 7:24-27, Psalm 84:11, Romans 8:28 + 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 Books Mentioned: Treasures in the Dark by Katherine Wolf + Domestic Monastery by Ronald Rolheiser Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brookmosser @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

So many parents carry an unspoken “I should…” list: “I should be more patient, more present, doing more, doing better.” In a world full of parenting advice and constant input, it’s easy to feel like we know so much and yet, still aren’t doing enough. In this episode, we talk about how that pressure often leads to shame and guilt, and why it matters to understand the difference: guilt says “I did something bad,” while shame says “I am bad.” One leads us toward repentance and growth, while the other keeps us stuck, isolated, and disconnected. We explore how shame has been part of the human story since the beginning, and how it still shows up today in the subtle lies we believe about ourselves as parents. But instead of striving for perfection, we’re invited into dependence, trusting that God meets us in our weakness, just as He did with Moses. We also talk about practical ways to respond when shame creeps in: quieting the noise, getting honest about where our expectations come from, pursuing vulnerable relationships, and practicing repair when needed. At the end of the day, parenting isn’t about getting everything right. It’s about walking in faith, holding onto hope, and learning to love our kids well, even in our imperfection. Brook’s Interview on the Open Spaces Podcast: YouTube, Spotify + Apple Podcasts Scripture Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 7:10, Genesis 3:9-11, Hebrews 11:24-28 + Hebrews 10:23-24 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brookmosser @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In this spontaneous conversation from the Bless God Summit, Brook sits down with magician Dustin Tavella — best known for winning America’s Got Talent — to hear the powerful and inspiring story behind his life, faith, and calling. Dustin shares about his difficult childhood, marked by addiction and instability in his home, and the couple who stepped in to love and invest in him consistently. Through their presence, he encountered a God who cares personally and pursues the heart, not just circumstances. That experience sparked a transformation in his entire family, leading to restored relationships and a new direction. Throughout the conversation, Dustin reflects on how God uses the things we love to serve others, from launching a homeless ministry that grew into the D PLUS Project, to discovering magic as a way to connect with people and share hope. He opens up about seasons of financial struggle, anxiety, miscarriage, and the journey of adopting their son, all while learning to trust God’s redirection in moments that didn’t go as planned. From early rejection on America’s Got Talent to ultimately winning, Dustin emphasizes that true success wasn’t the platform; it was the daily choice to say “yes” to Jesus. His story is a reminder that following God isn’t complicated: it’s about loving people well, embracing the unseen moments, and trusting that even the detours are part of a greater story. The episode closes with Dustin performing a mind-blowing magic trick, highlighting the beauty of play, joy, and meaningful connection. Scripture Mentioned: Matthew 13:1-23, 1 Corinthians 10:23 + John 2:1-11 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brookmosser @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

Is parenting harder than it used to be? In many ways, yes. Today’s parents are navigating a faster, louder, more complex world than generations before us — marked by decision fatigue, rising costs, less community support, and the constant mental load of trying to care for both our kids’ emotional needs and our own. Add in technology, shifting family dynamics, and the pressure of “intentional parenting,” and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But these challenges aren’t excuses; they’re the context we’re parenting in. And the good news is that God meets us right here, not in our perfection but in our limits. His strength shows up most clearly in our weakness. Parenting isn’t about getting everything right. It’s about humility, repair, and learning to depend on Him. In our moments of distress, we’re invited to release the burdens and anxieties we were never meant to carry alone. We also talk about practical steps: starting small instead of waiting for a full “village,” and learning to regularly release fear. Thankfully, we’re not doing this alone — God is with us, strengthening and sustaining us in the middle of it all. Parenting today may be hard, but He has already provided the help we need. Scripture Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 12:8-10, Psalm 55:22, Isaiah 66:2, 1 Peter 5:7, Psalm 61:2, Isaiah 41:10-13 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brookmosser @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, Brook and Elizabeth sit down for an honest conversation about sex, intimacy, and connection in marriage. We begin with a few updates — including reflections from the Fatherhood Retreat, the upcoming Intentional Motherhood Retreat, and an update on Elizabeth’s back surgery — before diving into the topic. Just as the gospel reminds us that we are fully known and fully loved, marriage invites that same kind of vulnerability. Yet many couples carry shame from past experiences, including sexual abuse, pornography, cultural messages, or purity culture wounds, and those things often affect intimacy in marriage. We also discuss some of the common differences between men and women. Many men tend to feel emotionally connected after physical intimacy, while many women need emotional connection in order to feel open to physical intimacy. For many moms especially, exhaustion and constant demands can make intimacy feel like one more need to meet. Often, simple shifts in communication and care can make a significant difference. Throughout the conversation, we emphasize that intimacy is not just about physical consumption or emotional communication alone — it’s about a deeper connection where emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy work together. That requires honest conversations, clear expectations, and a willingness to serve one another rather than compare our marriage to outside expectations. We close with a few practical invitations for couples this week: have one calm conversation about sex, initiate non-sexual affection, and spend time praying together. Husbands might also ask their wives a simple question: “What helps you feel safe with me?” If this conversation was helpful and you’d like to hear a part two on this topic, email us at [email protected]. Scripture Mentioned: Genesis 2:25, 1 Corinthians 7:4 + Ephesians 5:22-33 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brookmosser @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In this follow-up episode on anger, the four of us sit down to respond to your honest, relatable questions — especially where anger shows up in parenting, marriage, and our own personal healing. We start with a common parenting struggle: when it feels like kids only listen after we get angry. We talk about identifying what’s underneath that reaction, learning to respond calmly, and following through with consistency. Sometimes that means creating space, by either separating kids in conflict or stepping away yourself, so you can respond with clarity and calmness instead of raw emotion. We also address the discouragement of slow growth. When it feels like “one step forward, ten steps back,” it’s easy to lose heart, even in prayer. But real transformation takes time. Prayer is never wasted; it’s like small, faithful deposits that eventually lead to lasting change. We also explore how anger directed at us can leave deeper wounds, and what it looks like to begin healing by finding safety in God, telling the truth about our story, and grieving what was lost. In marriage, we talk about the challenge of responding to a spouse’s anger without taking it on ourselves. We can’t control one another, but we can choose compassion, wisdom, and healthy boundaries. And for those navigating anger in young children, we highlight how normal those big emotions are developmentally, and how creating structure, paying attention to triggers, and patiently training over time can make a meaningful difference. Finally, we touch on engaging with anger from our families of origin. Healing doesn’t require cutting people off, but it does require forgiveness and bringing our pain to Jesus, who understands and cares deeply for us. Scripture Mentioned: Proverbs 4:7, Galatians 6:1-6, Hebrews 3:12, James 1:20, 1 Peter 3:1-2, Matthew 6:9-15, Isaiah 53:3 + 1 Peter 5:7 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brookmosser @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

This week, all four of us sit down for an honest and hopeful conversation about anger — where it comes from, why it’s such a universal part of being human, and how pain so often fuels it. We share a few personal updates on what we’ve been up to, including an update on Elizabeth’s health, and then dive into the reality that simply being alive gives us plenty of opportunities to feel angry. Anger is something everyone experiences, but it’s often a secondary emotion pointing to deeper pain beneath the surface. We talk about how hiding anger in shame can actually enslave us to it, while bringing it into the light opens the door to real transformation. Rather than just managing our anger, we explore the hope that Jesus can actually heal us from it. We discuss how anger can be generational, how we’re raising kids in an increasingly angry culture, and the different ways anger shows up — from explosive reactions to simmering resentment to an underlying critical spirit. We also reflect on righteous anger, the need to hold both justice and mercy together, and what this looks like, especially in motherhood. We then turn to practical ways to engage our anger by slowing down to ask why we’re angry, inviting God to show us what needs healing or repentance, and taking responsibility for how we move toward repair. We talk about how anger is often a response to feeling threatened, the power of confession and bringing our struggles into the light, and the slow, faithful work of healing through the Holy Spirit. We end with real hope, as Diane shares how the anger she struggled with early in marriage and parenting no longer has the same hold on her by God’s grace — reminding us to be patient with ourselves and trust that anger can be transformed as we walk the path of humility and healing. Scripture Mentioned: John 17:20-23, Micah 6:8, Psalm 97:2, Proverbs 25:23, Proverbs 4:5, Genesis 4:6, Jonah 4:4, 1 John 3:12, James 4:1-3, James 5:16, Psalm 139:23-24, Romans 2:4, Galatians 5:22-23 + Exodus 34:6-7, Psalm 107:1-2 + Romans 8:29 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brookmosser @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

This episode features five of our most-listened-to moments from 2025. These conversations clearly resonated with listeners and sparked meaningful reflection for parents trying to follow Jesus in everyday family life. We reflect on how pride shows up when we’re corrected and how parenting gives us daily opportunities to model humility, drawing from Scripture to show why God consistently meets humility with grace and makes it the starting point of a usable life. We also talk about emotional intelligence, learning to name what’s happening inside us without letting emotions rule us, and how many of us are developing these skills in adulthood because they weren’t modeled for us growing up. We explore the tension between wanting to shield our kids from pain and learning to trust God with their formation, emphasizing the importance of repair, helping our kids make sense of emotional pain, and trusting that God is present and purposeful even in what we can’t control. We unpack the biblical call to discipline as loving training rather than punishment, why passivity and harshness both exasperate our children, and how rupture and repair are central to healthy parent-child relationships. Finally, we reflect on daily spiritual habits, letting go of legalism, and forming simple, life-giving rhythms with God — following Jesus’ example of regularly withdrawing to meet with the Father, not out of obligation, but out of relationship. These clips are taken from our five most-loved episodes of 2025. To hear the full episodes, click on your podcast platform of choice below. 5 Necessities to Being a Calm, Regulated Parent in the Midst of Chaos + the Power of Meekness and Humility (Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube) Unlocking the Power of Emotional Intelligence In Ourselves and In Our Kids (Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube) Being Emotionally Present with Toddlers Amidst Responsibilities, Dealing with Overstimulation as a Parent + Shielding Kids from Emotional Pain (Q+R) (Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube) Tools of Discipline: Gentle Correction, A Loving Rebuke, Patient Instruction and Encouragement (Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube) Daily Habits, Formation, Why Did God Create My Kids, and Authority (Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube) Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 4:2, Matthew 11:28-30, Numbers 12:3, 1 Peter 5:5, Genesis 50:20, Genesis 39:21, Romans 8 + Psalm 91, Ephesians 6:4, Proverbs 29:17, Hebrews 12:11 + Ephesians 1:15-20 Books Mentioned: Morning and Evening by Charles Spurgeon, Streams in the Desert by L. B. Cowman and James Reimann + Edges of His Ways by Amy Carmichael Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brookmosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

During the Intentional Motherhood Retreat 2025, Elizabeth sat down with her older brother, John Mark Comer, for a deeply honest and encouraging conversation about spiritual formation in the thick of motherhood. For so many mothers, life feels crowded with the dailyness and busyness of caring for little ones, making it easy to believe the lie that we must do more or try harder to grow spiritually. But what if spiritual formation isn’t something you add to your already overloaded life — what if it’s already happening? John Mark and Elizabeth explore how every mom is being spiritually formed through the ordinary moments of motherhood, becoming a certain kind of person through how she lives, responds, and loves. Drawing from Dallas Willard’s teachings on practices of engagement vs. abstinence, they talk about removing rather than adding — taking an honest audit of your life and recognizing that so much of motherhood is already shaping your soul. They discuss the difference between active and passive spirituality, the surprising ways pain and sacrifice become places of growth, the generational shift in how we view parenting, and what it means to join Christ in His suffering. They also reflect on Jacques Philippe’s idea of “choosing what you have not chosen” and learning to respond to life’s constant interruptions with consent rather than contempt. Ultimately, this conversation is an invitation back to relationship — with God, with others, and with your own soul. It’s about noticing and naming what you’re feeling, staying responsive instead of reactive, and returning again and again to the cross in the ordinary rhythms of your day. Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, Brook and Justin sit down with Fr. Ronald Rolheiser, one of the most trusted and influential spiritual voices of our time, and someone whose work we deeply admire and return to often. A Catholic priest, theologian, and author, Fr. Rolheiser has spent more than 50 years teaching and writing about prayer, vocation, and the interior life, helping countless people understand how God meets us in ordinary, everyday faithfulness. Now 78 and a cancer survivor of more than a decade, Fr. Rolheiser reflects on this current stage of life and what it means to finish well. Drawing from his framework of getting your life together, giving your life away, and giving your death away, he shares wisdom shaped by experience, suffering, and surrender, reminding us that the way we die is the spirit we leave behind. Much of the conversation centers on restlessness, particularly in midlife. Fr. Rolheiser explains that our restlessness is not something to eliminate but a sign that we are “built too big for this world.” Rather than escaping it, he invites us to listen for what God may be teaching us through it, especially as parents learning to integrate spiritual life with ordinary responsibilities. We also explore ideas from his book, Domestic Monastery, where daily obligations — alarm clocks, mortgages, and kids’ schedules — become monastic bells calling us to faithfulness. Parents, he says, don’t raise kids; kids raise parents. The episode closes with reflections on surrender without passivity, responsibility without control, righteous anger, and the quiet power of fidelity. His final encouragement is simple and enduring: stay with your commitments, just show up for prayer, and trust that God is at work in your staying. Ronald Rolheiser: Website + Books (New Book: Insane for the Light: A Spirituality for Our Wisdom Years) Scripture Mentioned: John 21:15-19, Mark 15:37 + John 4:21 Books Mentioned: Domestic Monastery by Ronald Rolheiser, Sacred Fire by Ronald Rolheiser, Finding God at Home by Ernest Boyer Jr. + Naming the Whirlwind by Langdon Gilkey Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In today’s episode, we sit down with new friends we have a lot in common with: Addison and Juli Bevere of At Home with the Beveres. We talk about life, ministry, parenting four kids, and what it means to steward faith across generations in a world where the gap between young and old can feel wider than ever. Addison and Juli share honestly about the beauty and challenges of being part of a multigenerational ministry legacy, what they hope to pass on to their kids, and what they’re committed to redeeming. We talk about humility, how true formation often happens through difficulty, and how brokenness can deepen love, wisdom, and compassion. We also dive into the heart behind Addison’s 40-day prayer devotional, born out of a season of anxiety and sleeplessness. Together, we explore why prayer can feel like pressure and performance for so many people, and how God invites us into something far more relational, grounding, and life-giving. A place where prayer is not as another task but the thing that centers everything else. And finally, Addison and Juli open up about their marriage in this season, sharing both joys and honest struggles, including the ways grief has shaped their relationship. It’s a hopeful, vulnerable conversation about family, faith, formation, and encountering God in real life. At Home with the Beveres: Instagram, YouTube, Spotify + Apple Podcasts Scripture Mentioned: Genesis 18:18-19, Psalm 68:6, Psalm 127:2, 1 Thessalonians 5:17, Romans 12:12, Ephesians 6:18, John 16:7, Hebrews 4:16, Hebrews 2:17, Hebrews 5:5, Hebrews 9 + 10, Psalm 142:2 Books Mentioned: Words with God + Words with God Prayer Journal by Addison Bevere Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, we sit down for a “co-pod” with Dave Barnes and Jon McLaughlin from the Dadville podcast for an honest, funny conversation about parenting, podcasting, and why intentionality matters in the first place. We share the heart behind Intentional and Intentional Fatherhood, getting back to the basics of why we do this work and what we hope it creates. Along the way, there’s plenty of laughter and a shared acknowledgment that none of us have this figured out. Intentionality isn’t about getting it right all the time — it’s about consistently showing up in small, ordinary ways, even when things feel messy or overwhelming. Dave and Jon tell the story of how Dadville began, how the show has grown and changed over the years, and what it’s really like behind the scenes of hosting a long-running podcast. Together, we talk about the importance of repair in relationships, how owning our mistakes can actually deepen connection, and why keeping the lines of communication open with our kids matters more than almost anything else. We also wrestle with the downside of intentionality — when information turns into pressure and fear starts to drive our parenting. Grounded in Jesus’ words from Matthew 18:1-5, the conversation keeps circling back to the simplicity of “becoming like little children.” The question underneath it all is this: do our kids know our heart? At the end of the day, this episode is about helping our kids know they are deeply loved — and learning to lead from love rather than fear. Dadville: Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Dave Barnes: New Music on Spotify + Apple Music Jon McLaughlin: New Music on Spotify + Apple Music / Tour with Ben Rector Scripture Mentioned: Matthew 18:1-5 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In this end-of-year episode, we reflect on 2025 and look ahead to 2026 through the practices of reflection and projection, rooted in Scripture and focused on formation rather than pressure or performance. We revisit meaningful moments from the year, both personally and within Intentional, including the Motherhood Retreat, Intentional Fatherhood, and the launch of Sowing a Hidden Seed. Reflection helps us tell the truth about our lives with God, while projection invites us to trust Him with that truth as we move forward, anchored in the hope of Hebrews 11:1. The conversation explores Scripture’s repeated call to remember, naming remembrance as an active, embodied practice that leads us toward gratitude, courage, and faith rather than fear. Remembering is not only about the past, but about how the past shapes the present and forms the future — helping us remember, return, and reorder our lives. Elizabeth shares openly about living with chronic pain, reflecting on how the most difficult season of her life has also been deeply formative, and how remembering past suffering can give us hope for what God is able to do with our current and future pain. Drawing on Dallas Willard’s wisdom, the conversation turns toward projection: how we look ahead to 2026 through simple, faithful habits. Faith is described not just as belief, but as action: praying bold, repeated prayers, reading Scripture regularly, and obeying what God commands us to do. The episode closes with a prayer over you, reminding us that unoffered prayer is the greatest tragedy, that prayer moves the hand of God, and that we are invited to partner with Him through both reflection on where we’ve been and projection toward where He is leading us. Prayer: God, as we stand at the edge of this year, we slow ourselves before you. We look back over 2025 with honesty, joy, the loss, the prayers answered and the prayers still open. Help us notice where you were faithful, even when we didn't see it at the time. Let remembrance form trust in us. As we step into the new year, we lean forward with hope. Teach us to pray without giving up, form our habits — not just our intentions — and help us act as though your kingdom is real, because it is. We release what we cannot carry forward. We receive the grace we will need for what lies ahead. Make us people who remember well and hope faithfully. Amen. Scripture Mentioned: Hebrews 11:1, Luke 18:1, Romans 8:22, Romans 8:26-27 + Hebrews 11 Book Mentioned: The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Reclaimwell Prayer Challenge: This January, we invite you to do one simple thing: pray for your child every day. Use your own rhythm or Intentional’s 31-day devotional, Sowing a Hidden Seed, as a helpful guide. The book includes a daily verse, a quote and a prayer on topics like mental health, shame and discernment, plus you’ll receive five bonus days on your child’s digital redemption. Sign up for Intentional’s daily “verse of the day” text and spend just 5 focused minutes in prayer. Download the Reclaimwell app and join the challenge! Intentional’s Year-End Match Campaign: Every $25 equips a family for a full year of spiritual formation. All gifts given through December 31 are matched up to $200,000. Make a donation to double your impact! Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In this special end-of-year episode, we’re joined by our two oldest kids — Duke (16) and Scarlet (13) — for an honest, funny, and unfiltered conversation about what it’s really like to be a teenager right now. From public high school to middle school in a Christian co-op, they share what daily life looks like in their worlds, complete with sibling jokes, family banter, and plenty of real-life messiness. We talk about the unique pressure of growing up as the kids of parents who lead a family ministry — the sense of being watched, the expectation to perform, and how that shapes their experience. Duke and Scarlet also open up about social pressures, anxiety, comparison, cancel culture, gossip, and the high standards — especially for girls — around appearance and image, even beyond social media. Throughout the conversation, we return to deeper truths about identity, insecurity, and remembering that we are God’s beautiful handiwork. We also discuss technology and social media, including how boundaries around technology have affected them and what’s been most helpful from a parenting perspective. The episode wraps up with a lighthearted bonus question: what they love and don’t love about each of us as parents — a reminder that our family is far from perfect. Our hope is that this conversation encourages you to keep showing up with humility, curiosity, and trust in God’s steady work in your family. Merry Christmas! Books Mentioned: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional’s Year-End Match Campaign: Every $25 equips a family for a full year of spiritual formation. All gifts given through December 31 are matched up to $200,000. Make a donation to double your impact! Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, we sit down with our dear friend Joey Odom of Reclaimwell for a timely and challenging conversation about reshaping our relationship with our phones. Reclaimwell exists to help people put technology back in its proper place, and Joey shares his own story of struggle and growth, along with honest examples of both failure and success. He names the urgency of our moment, reminding us that the opposite of hope isn’t hopelessness, but resignation — and that without action, distraction quietly forms our lives. Joey explains why our phones have such a powerful grip on us, highlighting the “PID Loop,” where proximity leads to interaction, interaction to dependence, and dependence back to constant proximity. With most of us (91%!) living near our phones at all times, the solution sounds simple but feels difficult: put the phone down. Like Jesus’ teachings, it’s straightforward, yet costly. Rather than relying on willpower, Joey invites us to shape our environments and remove shame from the conversation. We explore practical ways to reduce proximity, including spending intentional time away from your phone each day, aligning with your spouse around sacred times and spaces, and implementing simple practices like a date-night phone swap. The conversation names distraction for what it is: anything that gets in the way of our intentions, and connects it to Scripture’s call to remove what hinders love. Joey frames our phones as modern “digital thorns” that choke out intimacy through constant worry, striving, and pleasure. The episode closes with a compelling vision of presence as witness — preaching the gospel not just with words, but by being fully present and off our phones in order to notice and tend to the world around us. Scripture Mentioned: Matthew 5:30, Matthew 13:1-23 + 1 Corinthians 13:13 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional’s Year-End Match Campaign: Every $25 equips a family for a full year of spiritual formation. All gifts given through December 31 are matched up to $200,000. Make a donation to double your impact! Download the FREE Reclaimwell App + Join Our Prayer Challenge in January Purchase the Aro Box Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

It may be the most wonderful time of the year, but it’s also one of the most stressful. In our Christmas episode, we explore how to foster peace — not striving for perfection, but accepting the Spirit’s invitation to enter the season with intention, humility, and grace. The holidays can stir up dysregulated kids, busy schedules, grief, and unrealistic expectations, so we walk through the acronym PEACE as a reminder of how we might bring peace to our families this season. We start with Presence, setting aside our phones to be fully available to the people in front of us. Engagement draws from Philippians 2:2–4, reminding us to stay curious, humble, and willing to disagree without being disagreeable. Affection encourages slowing down to show loved ones that they matter, while honoring different comfort levels with touch. Compassion and Care helps us look beyond outward behavior to the burdens others may be carrying; instead of asking “What’s wrong with them?” we ask “What might they be walking through?” And with Empathy, we practice feeling with others rather than trying to fix them, living out 2 Corinthians 1:3–4 as those who comfort because we’ve first been comforted by God. Anchored in Scripture, we remember that Christ, the Prince of Peace, is the one who makes true peace possible. Prayer from Amy Carmichael: Love through me, love of God. Shine through me, joy of God. Speak through me, word of God. Flow through me, peace of God. Scripture Mentioned: Psalm 26:2-3, Philippians 2:2-4, 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, Colossians 3:15 + John 14, Isaiah 9:6 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Reclaimwell: Download the free app Intentional’s Year-End Match Campaign: Every $25 equips a family for a full year of spiritual formation. All gifts given through December 31 are matched up to $200,000. Make a donation to double your impact! Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, all four of us respond to your questions on marriage, parenting, and discipleship. We begin with a listener who feels stuck navigating a blended family and a husband who wants another child while she feels content with their current season. We talk about honoring both present realities and future hopes, acknowledging the unique weight moms carry, communicating clearly, and seeking unity through prayer and counsel. We reference passages like 1 Corinthians and Ephesians 5 to remind couples to love well, listen well, and move forward on the same page. We also tackle the challenge of parenting kids with very different personalities. Rather than trying to change them, we encourage learning from each other as parents, recognizing differences as gifts, and affirming each child’s place in the family. Finally, we revisit a previous comment about being a better follower than leader and explore why followership matters deeply in your spiritual walk. Before building influence, we must learn to listen, serve, and follow Jesus faithfully. As Mark 8 reminds us, leadership grows out of surrender — those who follow well are the ones God often entrusts to lead. It’s a concise but meaningful conversation packed with encouragement and practical wisdom. Scripture Mentioned: 1 Corinthians 1:10, Ephesians 5:25-27, Mark 8:34-35 + Luke 18:15-17 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional’s Year-End Match Campaign: Every $25 equips a family for a full year of spiritual formation. All gifts given through December 31 are matched up to $200,000. Make a donation to double your impact! Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Raising Passionate Jesus Followers The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, we explore what Scripture really means when it calls us to leave and cleave. Leaving isn’t just moving out, it’s a purposeful, decisive shift of loyalty and identity so a new family can truly become one. This kind of separation can feel confusing or even painful, especially for parents who have spent years nurturing their children. But leaving is not rejection; it’s the healthy foundation God designed for a flourishing marriage. We look at what this requires; physically, emotionally, spiritually, and socially, and how both parents and adult children can navigate these transitions with grace together. From that foundation, we move into the biblical command to honor our parents. We clarify what honoring is, and just as importantly, what it’s not. It isn’t blind obedience or ignoring unhealthy patterns. Instead, honor means giving weight and dignity to the person and the role, even when it’s challenging. We offer six practical ways you can live into honoring your parents today! Six practical ways to honor your parents: • Speak with kindness and dignity • Appeal rather than criticize • Speak the truth in love • Express gratitude for what they did right • Forgive ongoing or past wounds • Seek to understand their story Whether you’re forming a new family or parenting adult children of your own, this conversation offers a hopeful, grounded path toward healthier relationships across generations. Scripture Mentioned: Genesis, 1 thessalonians 2:7-8, Ephesians 1-4, Proverbs 1:23+31, Proverb 15:1, 1 Timothy 5:1, Ephesian 4:15, Colossians 4:2-4, Luke 4:22 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, we explore the growing “aura farming” movement — the cultural pressure to project effortlessness, curate our image, and step into our “main-character era.” While the world urges us to amplify our greatness, Jesus invites us into something entirely different. We look at Jesus’ call to become like children in Matthew 18:1–5, a posture marked by humility, dependence, and openness. Aura farming pushes us to present ourselves in a certain light, but spiritual formation pulls us into honesty, groundedness, and a truer way of being. Drawing from Henri Nouwen’s reflections on the Church’s long struggle with relevance, power, and success, we examine the deeper tension between cultural curation and kingdom transformation. From there, we walk through five practices that help move us from aura farming to the way of Jesus. We choose hiddenness over hype, leaning into quiet righteousness rather than performing for others. We pursue honesty and vulnerability, acknowledging that beauty and pain often coexist. We embrace slowness instead of the spectacular, allowing our souls to catch up with our schedules. We cultivate childlike dependence by asking for what we need rather than proving we can manage everything on our own. And we trade curation for authentic presence, resisting the urge to hustle for attention and choosing instead to simply be where we are. As we navigate new seasons — in which the old ways of striving may no longer work — we return to Jesus’ invitation in Matthew 11:28 (MSG): “Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life.” Scripture Mentioned: Matthew 18:1-5, Matthew 6 + Matthew 11:28-30 (MSG) Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, we’re talking about one of the biggest parenting challenges today — raising kids in a digital world. Many of us have overprotected our children in the physical world but underprotected them in the digital world. To help you add some guardrails, we share the practical tools and boundaries our family uses around technology — from phones and iPads to TV — and the eight foundational rules that guide us. We’re not speaking as experts, just practitioners learning through trial and error. We start with the “why.” The data is clear about what technology is doing to us — especially our kids — and now it takes courage to respond wisely. Parenting in this area isn’t black and white, but it’s possible to approach it with grace and hope. In our home, that looks like saving smartphones for older teens, starting with basic phones, keeping devices out of bedrooms overnight, and using contracts and monitoring tools to stay accountable. Technology is always changing, which means our family’s digital rules should too. In fact, it’s okay to adjust your strategy along the way. Above all, we want our kids to grow into freedom — not be thrown into it. As parents, we can lead with empathy, stay connected, and offer a safe place for our kids to learn how to navigate the digital world with maturity and wisdom. Books + Resources Mentioned:  Gabb Phone Pinwheel Phone The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt Refurbished Phones: Back Market The Mossers’ iPhone Contract Parental Controls: Life360, Bark, Canopy, Screen Time + iPhone settings like locking apps and setting up downtime 10 Rules for Raising Kids in a High-Tech World by Jean M. Twenge, PhD The Opt-Out Family by Erin Loechner The Hang 10 Movement Protect Young Eyes Greta Eskridge Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Recorded live at the Intentional Motherhood Retreat in Portland, Oregon, this special Q+R features our entire Intentional team, with Joey Odom of Reclaimwell guiding the conversation as we move from humor to depth. From lighthearted moments — like where Diane and Elizabeth’s pant suits came from — to honest questions about self-care, marriage, grief, and limitations, this episode captures the heart of our weekend together. Together, we reflect on the generational swing from overextending ourselves to idolizing self-care, inviting us instead to pursue soul care — a rhythm of rest and renewal with God that enables us to love well. We also share wisdom for marriages: that husbands and wives are both called to lay down their lives in love, not through grand gestures but through small, consistent acts and words that build one another up. We speak tenderly about grief and child loss, pointing to the reality that while suffering is never good, God meets us in it. Grief and joy can coexist, and community is where we help one another carry both. The conversation closes with reflections on social media boundaries and discerning our limitations, reminding us that humility and dependence on God are where true peace and growth begin. Scripture Mentioned: Acts 20:35, Ephesians 5:22-33, Isaiah 53:3, Psalm 116:15, Romans 8:28-29, Luke 16:10, Philippians 1:4-6, 2 Corinthians 10:13, Philippians 1:12 + Psalm 131:1-3 Book Mentioned: A Grace Disguised by Jerry L. Sittser Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: April 23-25, 2026 in Franklin, TN Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Note: This episode contains mature themes that may not be suitable for younger listeners. Please use discretion. This week, we’re joined by our new friends Jeff and Jourdan Johnson, hosts of the Open Spaces Podcast. They share their remarkable story — a journey marked by honesty, redemption, and deep faith. Jeff opens up about his decades-long battle with same-sex attraction and how bringing his struggle into the light marked the beginning of real freedom. From childhood trauma to seasons of breaking up and coming back together, their story is one of radical acceptance, surrender, and the relentless kindness of God. After years of wrestling with faith and learning to let go of control, Jeff and Jourdan eventually got married and are now raising three children together. Their relationship stands as a living testimony that vulnerability truly leads to freedom. Jeff describes it as a daily surrender — dying to himself, trusting God’s goodness, and finding hope in the truth that even in life’s “unfinished symphony,” God is still writing a story of redemption. In a cultural moment filled with confusion and competing messages about sexuality, Jeff and Jourdan share how important it is for parents to speak about these topics early and without fear — to create space for honesty, and even share their own stories, so their kids know they’re not alone. Through Open Spaces, Jeff and Jourdan invite others to bring hidden struggles into the light, reminding us that God can use even our deepest brokenness and pain for His glory. Open Spaces: Website, Instagram, YouTube + Contact (with Questions) Scripture Mentioned: Romans 8:28 Book Mentioned: Wrestling with God by Ronald Rolheiser Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Intentional Motherhood Retreat: October 23-25, 2025 in Portland, OR Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

In this special episode, we’re sharing a powerful recorded teaching from Diane and Elizabeth at our 2024 Motherhood Retreat. This session dives deep into our God-given desire for connection — the longing to be seen, soothed, safe, and secure — and how that shapes our relationships with one another. Our female relationships can often feel complicated, yet Scripture reminds us that we were created for blessing and belonging. From Genesis to 2 Corinthians, we see that God blesses us so that we might bless others — calling out the good we see in our children, our husbands, our friends, and others we come in contact with. Diane and Elizabeth walk us through what it looks like to cultivate a culture of encouragement: getting curious about what gets in the way (old hurts, insecurities, or fear), learning to speak life over people, and practicing the language of encouragement in everyday moments. Through passages like Proverbs 27:17 and John 1:35–51, we see the power of vulnerability and how Jesus models truly seeing others for who they are. When we learn to see others as God sees them — and to speak that truth out loud — we participate in His work of building one another up. As Proverbs reminds us, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” Our words matter. They shape the culture of our homes, our friendships, and the next generation. Scripture Mentioned: Genesis 1:27–28, Genesis 1:22, Genesis 2:3, Genesis 5:22, Genesis 9:1, Genesis 12:2–3, 2 Corinthians 1:3–4, Proverbs 27:17, John 1:35–51, Romans 12:10, Proverbs 18:21, Proverbs 16:24 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

In this Q+R episode, we’re tackling your questions about parenting through some of the more complex seasons — from helping phone-free tweens stay connected to navigating sibling rivalry and reflecting on what we might have done differently with our younger kids. We start with communication and technology, sharing practical ways to help teenagers connect with friends without giving them full phone access. From using your own devices intentionally to trying creative tools like the Gabb Watch, Gabb Phone, or even a landline, we talk about modeling healthy communication in a digital world. We also look back on the preschool years and what we’ve learned since — how much those little minds absorb, and how we wish we’d focused less on behavior and more on heart formation. Rhythms like reading Scripture at meals (1 Timothy 4:13) and recognizing the difference between willful disobedience and emotional dysregulation have shaped how we parent now. Finally, we dig into sibling rivalry and the hope that our kids will one day be close friends. We share thoughts on speaking that vision over them, teaching repair in relationships, and remembering that these seasons ebb and flow. Proverbs 31:26 reminds us that “the law of kindness” should guide our words — especially when helping our kids learn to love each other well. Scripture Mentioned: 1 Timothy 4:13 + Proverbs 31:26 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: February 19-21, 2026 in Costa Mesa, CA Motherhood Retreat 2025: October 23-25, 2025 in Portland, OR Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, we dive into what it looks like to raise kids in today’s clickbait culture. With endless information at our fingertips, outrage-driven headlines everywhere, and our children frequently walking through traumatic national events, it can be hard to know what’s real, what matters, and what doesn’t. No matter how many boundaries we put in place, outside voices are loud — and that makes it more important than ever to raise critical thinkers who can stand against the noise. Together, we explore what Scripture says about having a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7) and why this matters so much in a world full of half-truths and emotional extremes. We talk through how to help our kids not just think with the masses, but instead form opinions rooted in reality and truth. This means giving them space to wrestle, normalizing curiosity, and asking good questions to help them develop discernment and wisdom for themselves. It is an ongoing process — one that requires conversation after conversation, guided by the Holy Spirit. We also look at practical tools: delaying social media use (based on Jonathan Haidt’s brilliant research), talking openly about tragedies and current events, and modeling what it looks like to think critically and empathetically. Along the way, we highlight how teaching kids to sit in the tension, see the gray, and understand others’ stories helps them grow in empathy — and ultimately shapes them into leaders with their own convictions. You’ll also hear about the “3M Parent Trap” (model, mimic, mad) from Joey Odom and the importance of relying on God’s Spirit to do what we cannot in our own strength (1 Peter 1:14). Because without His power, all of this falls flat. We wrap up with a look ahead to our upcoming episode: what to do when the time finally comes to give your kids technology. If you have questions or ideas you’d like us to cover, email us at [email protected]. Scripture Mentioned: 2 Timothy 1:7, Proverbs 14:15, Philippians 1:9-10, Romans 12:2 + 1 Peter 1:14-16 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

In this Q+R episode, we dive into some real-life questions about family patterns, parenting decisions, and initiating difficult conversations. First, we talk about the fear of repeating unhealthy family patterns. How can we learn from our past while creating a different path for our own kids? And what do we do when we notice ourselves falling into the same habits? We share how naming those fears — sometimes even out loud to our kids — can strip them of their power. Recognizing patterns is half the battle, and when we fail, honesty and apology go a long way. From there, we explore the hard but necessary work of saying no to even good things in order to live more Spirit-filled lives. Whether it’s homeschooling or another pursuit, it’s not always a black-and-white issue — it’s about prayerfully discerning our true capacity. God often uses our kids to bring hidden struggles to the surface, and part of leading them well is letting them see us wrestle with weakness and lean on Jesus. Finally, we answer a question about starting conversations with parents who don’t understand or accept the idea of breaking generational patterns. We talk about starting with curiosity — inquiring about their story — and then sharing honestly about what we’re noticing in ourselves and what we don’t want to pass on to our kids. We talk about the difference between being peacekeepers, who avoid conflict, and peacemakers, who bring truth with gentleness. Honoring our parents doesn’t mean we can’t have these conversations; it means we approach them prayerfully, carefully, and with grace. Throughout these responses, we explore how honesty, grace, and intentional choices can help us break old patterns, lead our kids well, and walk more faithfully in the freedom God offers. Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 6:2-3, Psalm 138:3, Psalm 131:1-2, Hebrews 12:1-3 + Hebrews 12:7-11 Previous Episode Mentioned: Breaking Generational Patterns, Knowing Your Story, Healing Family Wounds, Finding Freedom, and Passing On Faithfulness (Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube) Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, all four of us sit down for an honest and emotional conversation about trauma and crisis — how to respond when it strikes, and how to navigate it as a family. The reality is that at some point in life, you will walk through seasons of pain, and the question becomes: how do we carry each other’s burdens as Galatians 6:2 calls us to? Together, we share raw, personal stories of both acute trauma and ongoing struggles, reflecting on how presence in the middle of crisis can bring healing even when it can’t remove the burden. Simply being seen and acknowledged matters deeply. We talk about the power of prayer, the importance of lowering expectations for those in crisis, and how fumbling words are always better than silence. Scripture reminds us of the value of deep, intimate knowing — taking extra steps to learn, acknowledge, and show up for others in their suffering. Drawing from our own mistakes, we also warn against having a savior complex or tying everything up with a bow. Practically, we encourage families to get good at asking for help, develop a care team, guard their energy, and be honest about where they’re at so they can know what they specifically need in hard seasons. Phil closes the conversation with Scripture, reminding us of Galatians 6:5 and Psalm 46:1 — that each one shall bear his own load and pointing us back to the truth that God is a very present help in times of trouble. Scripture Mentioned: Galatians 6:2, Matthew 7:12, Romans 15:1, 1 Thessalonians 5:14, Psalm 139:1, 1 Thessalonians 3:1-5, Galatians 6:5, Psalm 46:1 + Colossians 1:24 Previous Episode Mentioned: Tragedy, the Most Beautiful Women in the World, and Children with Special Needs: The Story of Birdie James (Spotify + Apple Podcasts) Book Mentioned: A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows through Loss by Jerry L. Sittser Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, we explore how generational sin, trauma, and family stories shape who we are — and how God invites us into healing and freedom. Scripture reminds us in Numbers 14:18 that the effects of sin can ripple through generations, but through the power of the Holy Spirit, those patterns don’t have to define us. We talk about epigenetics — how experiences like stress and trauma can actually impact us on a biological level — and why understanding our parents’ and grandparents’ stories matters. Context doesn’t excuse the harm done, but it helps explain it, leading to empathy, compassion, and deeper healing. When we begin naming the wounds, lies, and patterns we’ve inherited, they start to lose their power over us. We also unpack what a healing apology looks like, why repentance is essential, and how God can redeem even the darkest parts of our stories (Romans 8:28). While the pain you’ve experienced may not be your fault, your response is your responsibility — and it’s never too late to choose a different path. The good news is that just as trauma can be passed down, so can faithfulness. Each generation has the opportunity to take intentional steps toward freedom, wholeness, and hope. Scripture Mentioned: Numbers 14:18, Romans 8:28, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 3:13, Psalm 32:5 + Psalm 51:1-4 Previous Episode Mentioned: Generational Trauma, Wounded Parts and How Trauma is Passed Down Interview with Sally Lemos, MS, LPC (Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube) Book Mentioned: Forgive: Why Should I and How Can I? by Timothy Keller Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Sowing a Hidden Seed Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, we are releasing one of the most-loved episodes from our Intentional Fatherhood podcast, all about knowing your story, facing generational sin, and trusting God to bless what’s broken. Note: This episode contains mature themes that may not be suitable for younger listeners. Please use discretion. We are storied people, living within the grand narrative of the kingdom of God. And as a father, you need to know your story. Not just the highlights or heroic moments — but the whole of it. The truth is, your past shapes your present: in your work, your marriage, your friendships, and your fatherhood. To lead well, you must face the story that formed you — including both your own childhood and the generations that came before. In this powerful episode, Justin and Brook look back to move forward. Together, we explore how our family of origin — with all its beauty and brokenness — deeply influences the families we are building now. Brook opens up about the story he comes from: one marked by abuse, secrecy, and chaos. He shares honestly about the slow and painful work of healing, and how unaddressed generational sin began to surface in his own work, relationships, and family — which nudged him toward the hard work of transformation. Justin shares a different story: one of inherited blessing, and how he nearly squandered it. But ultimately, he chose to surrender and let God build something new from the foundation he was given. Together, we reject the lie that we’re doomed to repeat the past — that we’re destined to become our fathers or perpetuate the cycles we grew up in. Through grace and intentionality, there is a better way. God longs to redeem what’s been broken and restore what’s been lost. This Spirit-led conversation offers practical steps for examining your story, seeking help, and moving toward healing. It’s an invitation to believe in the promise of Joel 2:25: “I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten.” Scripture Mentioned: Joel 2:25-26, Romans 8:28 + Matthew 25:14-30 Books Mentioned: The Common Rule: Habits of Purpose for an Age of Distraction by Justin Whitmel Earley Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Sowing a Hidden Seed Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

As the school year begins, we’re diving into the hopes, pressures, and rhythms of this season. We start with the myth of “you only get 18 summers,” a phrase that can put unnecessary pressure on parents. Instead of viewing time with our kids through a lens of scarcity, Scripture reminds us that God’s kingdom is one of abundance (2 Corinthians 9:8). We also explore the power of words in shaping our children’s sense of identity. Casual comments like “I can’t wait for my kids to go back to school” may seem harmless, but they can unintentionally communicate feelings of shame, insecurity, or being unwanted. Proverbs 12:18 reminds us that words carry weight — they can wound or they can heal. Instead of viewing the school year as an escape from our kids, we can reframe it as a hopeful new season and an opportunity to speak life over them. From there, we turn to routines — how to set clear expectations, build in patience, and ease our families back into structure. Jesus Himself modeled rhythms that were not rigid but rooted, often withdrawing to pray in lonely places (Luke 5:16). As parents, we can create steady but flexible rhythms with tools like chore charts, gentle reminders, and spiritual practices at the center. Finally, we talk about the trap of comparison. Looking at how others parent or how other kids are doing can rob us of joy and presence, yet Galatians 6:4 calls us to focus on our own race with gratitude and faithfulness. This episode is an invitation to step into the school year without fear, but with hope — speaking life, embracing rooted rhythms, and staying present to the abundance God has placed right in front of us. Scripture Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 9:8, Proverbs 12:18, Luke 5:16 + Galatians 6:4 Sowing a Hidden Seed: 31-Day Prayer Devotional by Brook Mosser Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Parenting can feel confusing. Many of us grew up in homes focused on rules and behavior, while today, there’s more awareness around emotions and connection. Both matter — but what do we actually do about our kids’ behavior? In this episode, Brook, Elizabeth, and Diane talk about what discipline really is, why it’s important, and how to approach it with wisdom and love. Discipline isn’t punishment — it’s training and guidance. Our conversation touches on how approaches to parenting have shifted over the decades, what the Bible says about discipline, and how to walk the line between too much and too little. We also talk about why each child is different, how parenting changes as kids get older, and how to handle it all with grace rather than anger. Along the way, we share four simple tools of discipline: gentle correction, loving rebuke, patient instruction, and encouragement. These give parents practical ways to guide their kids and build trust along the way. At the heart of this episode is hope. None of us get discipline right all the time, but it’s an important and biblical part of parenting. With God’s wisdom and a posture of grace, you can begin to discover what healthy discipline looks like for your family. Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 6:4, Proverbs 29:17, Hebrews 12:11, Ephesians 1:15-20 + 2 Timothy 4:2 Previous Episode Mentioned: Procedural Memory: How God Redeems Reflexes, Rewrites Patterns and Renews the Mind (Spotify + Apple Podcasts) Books Mentioned: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Also available in audiobook!) + Sowing a Hidden Seed Submit Questions: Send a one-minute voice memo to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, all four of us sit down to respond to your thoughtful questions about parenting and marriage. We start by exploring what to do when your parenting style differs from your spouse’s. Differences don’t have to be a problem — in fact, they can be a gift. But what about when the stakes are high, like deciding on the best schooling option for your child? We share how to find unity in your approach without erasing your unique perspectives. Next, we wrestle with this challenge: when your child is hurting, how do you tell the difference between their pain and your own emotional response? And more importantly, how do you carry both with grace? This leads to a conversation on communication, repairing relationships, and allowing spiritual formation to shape the way we respond in the moment — offering the same comfort God gives us. Finally, we talk about the beauty and challenge of change in marriage. Over a lifetime together, you will inevitably be married to different versions of your spouse — and they to you. How do you support each other’s growth, let go of the past, and move forward together? Parenting and marriage are both marathons, not sprints — and we hope this conversation encourages you to lean into the differences, tend to the pain with compassion, and keep choosing each other in every season. Scripture Mentioned: 1 Corinthians 1:10, 2 Corinthians 1:3-7, Exodus 34:5-7, Colossians 3:12, 1 Peter 3, Galatians 5:22-23, Romans 15:7, Ecclesiastes 4:9 + 1 John 3:2 Sowing a Hidden Seed: 31-Day Prayer Devotional by Brook Mosser Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

It’s no secret that we live in an anxious world — and we are raising an anxious generation. One in eight kids will be diagnosed with an anxiety disorder, and that number is rising. So how do we parent through this? What exactly does anxiety look like in our kids? How do we recognize it — especially when it hides under the surface? What tools can we use to respond? And what hope does Scripture offer us along the way? In this episode, we’re not speaking as experts or clinicians, but as parents — daily practitioners walking through anxiety with our own children. We explore the truth that anxiety, left unchecked, tends to grow over time. We talk about the two most common responses parents fall into: demanding and protecting, and how neither is helpful in equipping your kids with the tools to face anxiety as they mature. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of accommodation — trying to prevent every trigger or meet every need — we offer some honest reflections and a few practical steps to shift that pattern. We also share how we’re learning to spot anxiety in our kids and walk with them through it — not around it. Above all, we look to God’s Word, where we’re reminded again and again: Do not fear. Not because fear is never present, but because His presence meets us in it. At the heart of this conversation is a call to slow down. To truly see our kids — not just their behavior, but what’s driving it. Slowing down allows us to meet them where they are, build resilience together, and remind them they’re not alone. With God’s help, our kids can develop the courage to face their fears — and even experience freedom in the midst of anxiety, not just from it. That kind of growth is slow, often messy, but deeply meaningful — and one of the most rewarding parts of parenting we’ve encountered. Scripture Mentioned: Exodus 4:1-7, 1 Kings 19, Matthew 1:18-25, Joshua 1:9, Isaiah 41:10 Books Mentioned: Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You by John Ortberg, Raising Worry-Free Girls: Helping Your Daughter Feel Braver, Stronger, and Smarter in an Anxious World by Sissy Goff + The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Jonathan Haidt Sowing a Hidden Seed: 31-Day Prayer Devotional by Brook Mosser Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

We’re thrilled to introduce Sowing a Hidden Seed — a 31-day prayer devotional for parents faithfully planting spiritual seeds in their children’s lives, even when the fruit feels far off. Each day features Scripture, a meaningful quote, and a guided prayer, with flexible themes you can make your own. Right now, Sowing a Hidden Seed is available exclusively to monthly donors who give $25 or more. As a nonprofit, Intentional relies on monthly giving to sustain this work — it makes resources like this possible and helps us equip families everywhere to raise children with intention. This devotional is our way of saying thank you — a small gift to express our deep gratitude for your ongoing support. In this episode, we share the heart behind the devotional and talk about how to foster a culture of prayer at home. We discuss the power of praying with and for your children — not perfectly, but consistently — and address the barriers that often hold us back, such as busyness, shame, or feeling inadequate. You’ll also hear simple, practical ways to make prayer a natural, life-giving rhythm in your home. Because it’s not about eloquence or intensity — it’s about showing up, day after day, with a posture of surrender. As Walter Wink reminds us: “History belongs to the intercessors, who believe the future into being.” Learn more about Sowing a Hidden Seed and become a monthly Legacy Builder here. Questions: Email us at [email protected] Scripture Mentioned: Philippians 4:6-7, 1 Thessalonians 5:17, Psalm 116:1-2, Proverbs 18:21 + Ephesians 3:20 Episode Mentioned: The Boring Years, Spiritual Formation in the Shadows, Beneath the Routine, and Praying the Ordinary (Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube) Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, Brook sits down with Andrew Damazio — pastor of Rose Church in Portland and author of My Heart Hurts: A Guide to the Theology of Pain and Suffering. After walking through deep, personal suffering — often multiple losses at once — Andrew emerged with a burden to help others navigate pain with both truth and tenderness. When enduring pain, he was either approached with a highly theological response void of care or a purely pastoral response void of biblical truths. What he wanted — and what he needed — was both. In My Heart Hurts, Andrew brings together sound theology and sincere pastoral care — offering not quick fixes, but a framework for walking through pain with both hope and honesty. Still in the midst of grief after the loss of his father and while walking with a close friend through their own suffering, Andrew speaks not from theory, but from lived experience. In our conversation, Andrew shares his story of growing up as a third-generation pastor’s kid, coming to faith in adolescence, and eventually stepping into ministry. We talk about the difference between suffering in circumstance and suffering in perspective, the way ancient Christians expected suffering while modern believers often try to avoid it, and how we’re prone to unintentionally strip the humanity from Jesus in our search for tidy answers. This is not a conversation that ties everything up neatly. Instead, it's an invitation to sit in the tension — to look honestly at pain, and to find Christ in the middle of it. Whether you're in a season of sorrow or simply preparing for the reality of life in a broken world, this episode offers wisdom, comfort, and the kind of truth that holds up under pressure. Andrew Damazio: Rose Church, Rose Church Podcast, Instagram Scripture Mentioned: Matthew 26:36-46, Luke 22:44, John 21:1-14, 1 Kings 17:1-6, 2 Corinthians 11:23-28, 1 Peter 1:5, James 5:16 + 1 John 1:9 Book Mentioned: My Heart Hurts: A Guide to the Theology of Pain and Suffering by Andrew Damazio Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, Brook sits down with Tyler Staton — pastor of Bridgetown Church in Portland, author, husband, and father of three boys — for a profound, powerful conversation about mortality, margin, weakness, and prayer. Tyler shares his journey through an unexpected and grueling cancer diagnosis, offering a raw look into the spiritual refinement that comes when you’re suddenly faced with your own limitations and mortality. As he puts it, “You don’t know the prayers you’ll pray until someone says, ‘We don’t know whether you will live or die.’” Through that crucible, Tyler discovered that suffering can be an invitation — a call to live fully present, to reorder your life around what matters most, and to let go of the pressure to make everyone happy. He shares the practical steps he took to prioritize his family, build in margin, and live more intentionally on the other side of crisis. We also explore how his wife walked through the experience in her own way, and how childhood narratives around strength and weakness shaped his ability to be vulnerable. Tyler reflects on the beauty of being met in weakness — how vulnerability creates space for others to come close in love. Finally, we close with a rich conversation around prayer — specifically, how we can guide our children into a vibrant, Spirit-filled prayer life. Tyler offers a simple and powerful framework for praying with and for our kids, reminding us that they may be far more spiritually attuned than we often realize — and how we might inspire them to “carry the fire.” Books Mentioned: Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools + The Familiar Stranger Tyler Staton: Website, Instagram, 24-7 Prayer + Bridgetown Church Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, all four of us sit down for another Marriage Q+R, diving into your questions about navigating tension and other difficult dynamics in marriage. We talk through when it might be wise to extend forgiveness face-to-face versus process it privately, and explore the nuance between sin in thought and sin in action — while remembering that all sin must ultimately be brought before God. We share practical ways to re-prioritize your marriage in the midst of busy seasons, especially when kids, work, and other relationships start to crowd out your connection. We also tackle the challenge of navigating disagreements about your children’s commitments — from extracurriculars to therapies — and how to unify around your family’s core values. Finally, we close with a tender conversation about how to bring your children into the broken parts of your own family story — honoring the truth while walking in wisdom toward those still living and involved. Whether you're in a season of clarity or conflict within your marriage, we hope this episode gives you language, encouragement, and direction for the road ahead. Scripture Mentioned: Matthew 5:23-24, Ecclesiastes 1:9 + Proverbs 25:11 Previous Episode Mentioned: Hopelessness, Bitterness, Simmering Resentment, Passive-Aggressiveness, and Everyday Forgiveness in Close Relationships (Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube) Submit Questions: [email protected] Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Fresh off the Intentional Marriage Retreat, we sit down for a special Q+R episode — answering your thoughtful questions about marriage. In this conversation, we discuss a variety of topics with a special focus on one overarching theme: growing in spiritual connection with your spouse. We talk about how to nurture spiritual intimacy in your marriage by creating space for regular, meaningful conversations about your faith. We also tackle some of the more challenging dynamics: how to lovingly invite your spouse to reflect on unhealthy patterns even if there is resistance, how to encourage a reluctant husband to step into spiritual leadership, and how to navigate past wounds together with grace. This episode offers practical tools and biblical perspective for deepening spiritual connection, healing past pain, and becoming more of who God created you to be — together. Whether your marriage feels strong or strained, there’s wisdom here for every couple walking the journey of faith together. Scripture Mentioned: Proverbs 16:20-21, Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, Ephesians 4:29, Psalm 139:23, Proverbs 16:24, 1 Peter 3:1-4 + Ephesians 5:33 Intentional Fatherhood: Website, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts + YouTube Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Do you ever feel stuck in a reactive cycle as a parent — responding in ways you wish you wouldn't, again and again? Like Paul in Romans 7:15, you might find yourself saying, “I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do.” Here’s the good news: you’re not broken — you’re patterned. And patterns can be healed. In this episode, we unpack what it means to be shaped by behavioral patterns, where they come from, and how they show up in our parenting and marriage. We explore the early steps toward recognizing and healing these patterns, and how God’s redemptive work can bring real change. Through scripture, personal stories, and practical steps, we guide you toward deeper awareness — and point you to the healing that leads to freedom and greater connection in your home. We also make an exciting announcement on the podcast today: Intentional Fatherhood is officially launching on Friday, June 13! In the meantime, visit the website, follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram, and subscribe to the podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Steps for Experiencing Healing From Patterns: 1. Name the story 2. Grieve the loss of what should have been but wasn’t 3. Invite Jesus into that wound 4. Practice new patterns Reflection: Reflect on one pattern that shows up often in your marriage, parenting or friendship Question: What is that pattern protecting you from and what is it trying to say? Prayer: Ask Jesus to help you be curious and kind about your story. Scripture Mentioned: Romans 7:15, 1 Corinthians 11:1, 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, Romans 7:14-18, Romans 7:22-25, James 1:19-20 + Isaiah 53:3 Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, we’re getting honest about our inadequacies as parents — when all we can say is, “I can’t.” Inspired by The Fellowship of the Withered Hand, a concept from John Ortberg’s Steps, we explore how embracing our weaknesses can actually be a gateway to deeper healing and growth. Rather than hiding our shortcomings, what if we brought them into the light — to both God and to trusted community — and found strength in surrender? Rooted in the story from Mark 3 where Jesus heals a man’s withered hand, we talk about the courage it takes to stretch out the broken parts of ourselves. As parents, that might mean owning our impatience, our fears, or the lies we tell ourselves about needing to have it all together. Because the truth is, we all have withered hands. The question isn’t if we’re broken — it’s whether we’re willing to hold out our hands for healing. Steps to Addressing Our Inadequacies: Admit: Acknowledge that you have “withered hands” and name what they are.Invite: Ask God for help in your weaknesses.Release: Let go of control over your shortcomings and the outcomes of them.Remember: You are not alone in this journey! Questions to Ask Yourself: Where in my parenting do I say, “God, I can’t?”What would it look like to make prayer my first parenting move — not my last? Prayers to Pray: God, what keeps me from admitting my weaknesses? What shame is hurting me and keeping me from admitting?God, point me to the books, podcasts, teachings and people you want to use to speak into my life. Books Mentioned: Steps: A Guide to Transforming Your Life When Willpower Isn’t Enough by John Ortberg + Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You by John Ortberg Scripture Mentioned: Mark 3:1-6, Matthew 5:3, 1 Corinthians 10:12, Isaiah 66:1-2, Psalm 8:4, Mark 5:25-34, Matthew 8:23-27, Hebrews 4:14-16, 2 Corinthians 12:10, Matthew 7:7, 2 Corinthians 12:5, 2 Corinthians 12:9 + James 5:16 Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting PDF FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, all four of us sit down for a meaningful conversation about everyday forgiveness — small, often-overlooked moments of hurt that show up in our closest relationships and call for repair. Whether it's with a spouse, parent, friend, or coworker, these minor offenses can quietly accumulate and widen the distance between us — unless we learn to close the gap before it becomes a chasm. Diane shares a personal story of a generational pattern of unforgiveness in her family of origin and how it shapes the way she responds to hurt. We each reflect on how unforgiveness can quietly manifest in our lives — as self-pity, hopelessness, bitterness, simmering resentment, passive-aggressiveness, or even “scanning for rejection.” Turning to Scripture, we explore powerful examples of radical forgiveness — including some of Jesus’ final words on the cross — and what it means to forgive not just once, but “seventy times seven.” Drawing from our own relationships, we talk about why forgiveness becomes easier when we understand a loved one’s story and emotional triggers. We also offer three practical ways to express everyday forgiveness and return to a truth we’ve seen time and again: rupture and repair build resilience. Forgiveness isn’t a one-time act — it’s ongoing, relational, and essential. Tune in to discover how you can begin practicing this spiritual rhythm in your daily life. Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 4:32, Psalm 23, Matthew 6:9-13, Philippians 4:6, Psalm 119:11, Hebrews 12:15, Matthew 18:21-22, Luke 23:34, Acts 7:54-60, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Romans 12:18 Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, we’re thrilled to welcome back our dear friend A.J. Swoboda — author, professor, theologian, lay pastor, and fellow podcaster — for an honest conversation about what it means to parent while carrying our own scars. Like physical ones, emotional scars tell the story of pain endured and healing found. We talk about the reality that many of us are giving our kids something we never received — emotional health, spiritual guidance, or intentional presence. While that’s a beautiful gift, it can also bring up unexpected feelings of shame or even jealousy as we confront the gaps in our own stories. We discuss some practical tools for parenting with scars, including Jon Tyson’s Primal Path, a discipleship program for fathers and sons. We also reflect on how our children often become the ones who draw our scars into the light, asking questions that push us to face painful parts of our past. Ultimately, we highlight the fact that healing is a slow, intentional process — and how parenting through our scars invites both challenge and redemption. We found our conversation with A.J. to be rich, emotional, and full of hope — and we think you will too. Book Mentioned: His Face like Mine: Finding God's Love in Our Wounds by Russell W. Joyce Previous Episode Mentioned: Procedural Memory: How God Redeems Reflexes, Rewrites Patterns and Renews the Mind (Spotify + Apple Podcasts) Scripture Mentioned: Genesis 2:24 A.J. Swoboda: A Teachable Spirit Subversive Sabbath Other Books Website Slow Theology Podcast Newsletter Instagram Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Do you ever catch yourself wishing away the ordinary, mundane days of parenting — those moments that feel repetitive, exhausting, or spiritually dry? Maybe you carry guilt for not “praying enough,” or wonder when you’ll ever have space for deep spiritual encounters again. In this week’s episode, Brook and Elizabeth invite you to reimagine what prayer looks like in the midst of diapers, dishes, and daily routines. They explore the idea of praying the ordinary — cultivating an inner posture of attentiveness, availability, and surrender in even the most mundane moments. Drawing from real-time personal experiences, they share how to incorporate breath prayers into your day, practical ways to invite God into the small things, common obstacles to practicing ordinary prayer — and how to overcome them. With honesty and hope, Brook and Elizabeth remind us that you are never too ordinary for the presence of God. He delights in showing up in the unnoticed spaces, and there is a heavenly reward for living in righteousness and rejoicing in the ordinary. Breath Prayers You Can Borrow: Inhale: “Lord, you’re my strength.” Exhale: “Help me love with patience.”Inhale: “You know my child.” Exhale: “Better than I do.”Inhale: “Father, shape my heart…” Exhale: “…to reflect yours”Inhale: “I surrender control.” Exhale: “I trust your care.”Inhale: “Come, Holy Spirit.” Exhale: “Guide my parenting today.” Scripture Mentioned: Colossians 3:17, Genesis 1:26-28, Revelation 3:19-20, Psalm 23 + Romans 12:1 Books Mentioned: Prayer by Richard Foster, Domestic Monastery: Creating Spiritual Life at Home by Ronald Rolheiser, The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence + Liturgy of the Ordinary: Sacred Practices in Everyday Life by Tish Harrison Warren Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, Brook sits down once again with author, professor, theologian, lay pastor, and podcaster A.J. Swoboda to talk about the importance of having a teachable spirit in today’s world. Centered around his latest book, A Teachable Spirit, this episode invites listeners to see teachability not just as a personality trait, but as a deeply spiritual discipline. We begin by naming a sobering truth: “We have become a culture that demands repentance but shames people who actually do it.” In response, A.J. points us to a better way — the way of Jesus — urging us to become teachable people rooted in humility and grace. Starting with the definition of a teachable spirit, we explore the role of humility, the difference between teachability and impressionability, how we remain teachable in marriage and parenting, the value of repair with our kids, and the gift of childlike faith — pointing out the countercultural idea that “things are better when kids are in the room.” A.J. also previews the groups in his book that we must learn how to learn from: experts, the dead, strangers, culture, children, and more — even when it's uncomfortable for us as Christians. Ultimately, we land on the “why” behind it all: why is this posture essential to the mission of the Church? A.J. ends with a moving picture of extreme humility and teachability — carried all the way to our last dying breath. Our conversation is full of humor, vulnerability, depth, insight, and, of course, humility. If you’re longing to grow — or simply wondering what it means to become a more teachable person — don’t miss this one. A.J. Swoboda: A Teachable Spirit, Subversive Sabbath Other Books, Website, Slow Theology Podcast, Newsletter Instagram Scripture Mentioned: 2 Peter 3:16, Daniel 1, Genesis 2:20-24, Matthew 19:13-15, Luke 6, John 7 + Matthew 16 Motherhood Retreat 2025 Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Do you ever find yourself at a loss when it comes to disciplining your children as they move beyond the toddler years? Do you wish you could instantly curb the pushback, mood swings, and moments of disrespect? This week, we discuss our Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting resource, which reframes how we respond to our children’s behaviors by emphasizing both correction and connection. After all, God has hard-wired us all for connection — and this should dictate how we relate to our kids, no matter the circumstances. Looking to Jesus as the model for demonstrating both kindness and firmness, we emphasize not only the importance of each, but also the order in which we respond to outbursts or misbehavior. We explore the two extremes we often see in parenting: 1) the authoritarian, emotionless “because I said so” style focused solely on squashing the behavior and 2) the overemphasis on emotional validation without any sense of firm boundaries or consequences. So how do we strike that balance? Tune in to find out! Scripture Mentioned: Romans 11:22, Romans 2:4, Proverbs 3:11-12, Proverbs 22:6, John 1:14, Psalm 94:19, Proverbs 15:1 + 4, Proverbs 29:17 + Matthew 11:28 Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting Resource Forest Home Family Camp: Week 6 (All four of us are speaking!) Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, Brook sits down with actor, author, and producer Kirk Cameron for a powerful conversation about faith, marriage, and what it means to live as a man of God. While many remember Kirk from his prominent roles in the Growing Pains TV series and the Left Behind films, his story goes far beyond the screen. He shares how a shift from atheism to Christianity as a teenager altered the trajectory of his life, leading him to become a devoted husband, father of six, and now a grandfather. We talk about Kirk’s new kids’ show, Iggy and Mr. Kirk, streaming on BRAVE+, created to offer low-stimulation, character-focused content in a world full of noise. Kirk also shares rich wisdom on marriage, describing it as “a school you enroll in to learn how to die to yourself.” He challenges the cultural narrative that marriage is about happiness, reframing it as a path to holiness and covenantal love. Kirk dropped this memorable alliteration when it comes to marriage: “If you focus on rights, you’ll promote rebellion. But if you focus on responsibilities, you create the conditions for revival.” The episode closes with a meaningful reflection on biblical manhood — how to model it for our sons, even if we didn’t have it modeled for us. Kirk points to meekness as a defining trait: strength and power, willingly submitted to the authority of God. This episode is packed with truth, encouragement, and clarity for anyone striving to live and lead with purpose. Don’t miss it! Kirk Cameron Resources: Iggy and Mr. Kirk, BRAVE+ Streaming Platform + Website Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, we explore procedural memory — the unconscious, long-term memory that drives us to perform actions automatically. Shaped by childhood experiences and behaviors modeled by our parents, procedural memory often feels like running on autopilot or slipping into default mode, especially in how we respond under pressure. It’s that reflexive reaction, internal or external, that surfaces when we’re provoked — sometimes leading to an action you once promised yourself you’d never repeat, perhaps because it’s something you watched your parents do. Once we define the concept, we unpack how to break harmful procedural memory patterns and how, in turn, we can form healthier reflexive habits. While acknowledging our shortcomings and the reality that we will inevitably pass down some forms of negative behavior to our children, we quickly reach a place of incredible hope. We examine the process of transformation and redemption outlined in Scripture, drawing from the hopeful call in Romans 12:1-2 to offer ourselves as living sacrifices and be transformed by the renewing of our minds. By sharing personal stories of generational healing and redemption within our own family, we testify to the ways God has reshaped our hearts and minds, unveiling His power, patience, and grace in the process. This episode is packed with practical tips, scriptural truths, raw vulnerability, and radical hope. Prayers to Pray: “God, help us unlearn what hurt us and relearn what heals us.” “Help us live in ways that our bodies, our families and our children will remember as love.” Scripture Mentioned: Romans 12:1-2, Hebrews 5:14, 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 1:17, Romans 5:8, Psalm 118:27, 1 Corinthians 11:1, Philippians 4:9, Matthew 12:34, Romans 7:15-20, 1 John 3:19-20, Romans 8:1, Romans 8:6, Genesis 50:15-21, Romans 5:10,  Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, Elizabeth and Diane make an exciting announcement: The Intentional Motherhood Retreat is BACK for 2025 — this time, in Portland, Oregon from October 23-25! They discuss what the retreat is all about, why you should come, and what to expect if you haven’t been before. As retreat speakers and hosts, Elizabeth and Diane reflect on the deep connections, vulnerability, and transformation experienced in past years — building anticipation for what’s to come in 2025. This retreat is for women who desire to be mothers some day, all the way to grandmothers, and everyone in between — mothers of babies, toddlers, young children, teenagers, and adult children. This intergenerational gathering is a chance for all ages and stages of mothers to learn from one another, encourage each other, and simply be together. Because motherhood isn’t meant to be done alone. The late Dallas Willard said “Spiritual formation…can’t be a private thing… It is a matter of whole-life transformation. You need to seek out others in your community who are pursuing the renovation of the heart.” And that is exactly what we are going to do together. So come join us October 23rd through 25th for the Intentional Motherhood Retreat in Portland. We can’t wait to see you! Scripture Mentioned: Colossians 2:2-3 Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, we’re diving into the topic of emotional intelligence — the ability to recognize, understand, and manage emotions in both ourselves and those around us. Developing emotional intelligence helps us navigate life with maturity and stability, while also equipping us to guide our children in naming and managing their emotions with confidence and care. At its core, emotional intelligence is built on four key components: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management. These elements work together to shape how we understand ourselves, navigate our emotions, and connect with others. In this episode, we explore each of these components, acknowledging that some may come more naturally than others. We also take a closer look at generational differences in emotional intelligence and how we can break unhealthy patterns to cultivate emotional well-being for both ourselves and our kids. Join us for a candid and thought-provoking conversation filled with wisdom, reflection, encouragement, and scripture! Book Mentioned: Emotional Intelligence 2.0 by Jean Greaves, Travis Bradberry and Patrick M. Lencioni Scripture Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 7:10, Ephesians 4:26, Genesis 4:6, Ephesians 4:25-32, Jonah 4, Psalm 4:4, Proverbs 16:32, Proverbs 17:22, Psalm 32:3-5, Psalm 19:11, Psalm 19:14, Philippians 2:3-4, Galatians 4:19 + Romans 13:8-10 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, the entire Intentional team sits down to respond to your questions, covering a range of topics, including emotional availability, attachment, overstimulation with kids, physical intimacy in marriage, and navigating emotional pain with our children. We discuss the difficult task of staying emotionally present with toddlers while tending to household responsibilities. Elizabeth unpacks common misconceptions about attachment, explaining that secure attachment isn’t about being constantly available but is instead about a continued pattern of relating and knowing how to repair when we inevitably fall short. We delve into the reality of overstimulation and feeling “touched out” with kids — and how that may dissuade us from desiring physical intimacy with our spouse. We discuss practical ways to navigate this challenge, including clear communication and strategies for regulating your nervous system. We also acknowledge that while this season of parenting young children is emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually demanding, it also strengthens our resilience, helping us build tolerance for life’s everyday stresses. Finally, we tackle the question “Can we shield our children from emotional pain?” Instead of striving to protect them from every hardship, we discuss the importance of naming and acknowledging their pain, equipping them with tools to process their emotions, and ultimately pointing them to their heavenly Father as their true source of comfort and strength. Tune in for an honest, encouraging conversation about the complexities of parenting — and the grace we need to navigate it all. Scripture Mentioned: Luke 8:1-3, Luke 9:1-2, Psalm 32:7, Genesis 50:20, Genesis 39:21, Romans 8 + Psalm 91 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, the whole Intentional team comes together to unpack five essential practices for maintaining calm and regulation as parents — even in the midst of chaos. We explore how our response to our children must be rooted in humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, and contentment. We discuss the fleshly desire to respond to heightened emotions and dysregulation in our kids by matching their intensity — and how that never works out well in the long run. Instead, we look to Jesus’ words in the Sermon on the Mount, where meekness is not weakness but strength under control, and ultimately, how “humility is the beginning of usability.” This scripture-rich conversation offers both a framework for responding when your child acts out and a way to proactively cultivate peace in your home. It’s a reminder that none of us parent perfectly — but by continually reorienting ourselves toward the words and ways of Jesus, we can navigate even the most intense moments with grace. Scripture Mentioned: Matthew 5:5, Romans 7:15-20, Proverbs 15:1+4, Ephesians 4:2, Matthew 11:28-30, Numbers 12:3, 1 Peter 5:5, Proverbs 24:16-18, John 8, 2 Peter 3:9, James 5:7, 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 + Matthew 18:21-22 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, we welcomed Sally Lemos, MS, LPC back on the show for a continued conversation around generational trauma, this time focused on the path to healing. Drawing from her own history of significant childhood trauma, Sally walked us through what it can look like to find healing and restoration, offering a raw account of her transition from denial and blame to naming and claiming. Sally’s healing process didn’t involve a clean, step-by-step checklist, but rather an openness to the One who saves — the One who provided resources and people to sit with her in the pain. We delve into the crucial aspects of healing, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when professional intervention is necessary and the need to avoid spiritual bypassing. Sally stresses that genuine healing demands personal transformation before one can effectively support others, and that it is a lifelong process. Together, we looked to heaven as the ultimate source of comfort, knowing that keeping an eternal perspective will give us strength in the midst of present struggles. Our conversation with Sally was raw, vulnerable and filled with hope — as again and again, we returned to the comforting reality: “But God.” NOTE: Please be advised the topics discussed in this show may not be suitable for younger audiences; please use your discretion when watching or listening. Listen to Part 1: “Generational Trauma, Wounded Parts and How Trauma is Passed Down (Interview with Sally Lemos, MS, LPC)” Sally Lemos, MS, LPC: New Bloom Therapy, Instagram Books Mentioned: “Heaven” and “Heaven for Kids” by Randy Alcorn Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 1:5, Matthew 3:17, Philippians 4:4-7 + Exodus 20:3-6 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Have you ever felt stuck in your decisions, as if changing your mind would mean admitting defeat? This week, we’re talking about the beauty and bravery of pivoting, whether it’s within your marriage, the way you parent your children, or other areas of life. We unpack the reasons we may have trouble granting ourselves permission to change, whether that’s worry, fear, pride, ignorance, identity, or even dynamics within our family of origin. Sometimes, the ideals we held before marriage or parenthood no longer fit the reality of our lives. Maybe your spouse or kids don’t match the expectations you once had — or maybe you have changed. And that’s okay! A willingness to adjust requires humility and a deep dependence on God, acknowledging that we are “poor in spirit” (Matthew 5:3) and are in need of His guidance to discern what needs to shift. In this episode, we explore practical ways to zoom out, reflect, and ask God, “Is this actually working?” We discuss tools like scripture, prayer, and the wisdom of community to navigate these changes. Plus, we share our own stories of moments, both big and small, where we’ve had to change course — and how those shifts brought unexpected peace and growth. If you’ve been waiting for permission to pivot, this is it. Join us for an encouraging, hope-filled conversation about embracing change with grace and courage. Scripture Mentioned: Proverbs 16:9, Genesis 18:22-33, Acts 27 + 28, Matthew 5-7, John 8:29, Daniel 1:8-10 + Ephesians 5:21-33 Book Mentioned: “Searching for and Maintaining Peace: A Small Treatise on Peace of Heart” by Jacques Philippe Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week, we welcomed author, speaker, fellow podcaster, and overall inspiring, vibrant and magnetic human Annie F. Downs to the show. First, we highlighted the children’s book Annie co-wrote with her sister, ”Where Did TJ Go?”, which helps kids navigate grief and loss. The story was born from personal tragedy. After her sister’s family lost a baby, Annie wrote it for her nephew, Sam, to help him understand where his baby brother, TJ, had gone. What began as a heartfelt story for one child became a beautiful illustrated book that offers comfort to many. Annie wrote the book her family needed at the time but couldn’t find — a visual story that kids can connect to, pointing them to heaven, while acknowledging the deep sorrow they feel here on earth. Our conversation was hopeful yet honest, embracing the tension of holding both joy and suffering at once. We found comfort in the truth that “there is good news even in sad stories.” We also discussed singleness in the church, a topic Annie is passionate about through her work in the Single Purpose League as well as within her own personal life. She instilled wisdom on ways to bridge the gap between single people and married couples within the church, emphasizing the pressing need for increased communication across the board. While acknowledging the church’s shortcomings in embracing and empowering single people, Annie continually returns to grace. It was an absolute joy to have Annie F. Downs on the show — and we have a feeling this won’t be our last conversation! Materials + Resources Mentioned: Where Did TJ Go? (Released February 18, 2025) Pastoring Singles: A Free Resource for Church Leadership Single Purpose League Annie F. Downs: Website, That Sounds Fun Podcast, Books, Instagram Scripture Mentioned: Romans 5:3-5, 1 Peter 1:6, Hebrews 11:6 + Hebrews 11:1 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week on the podcast, all four of us (Brook, Elizabeth, Phil and Diane) sat down to respond to some questions centered on avoiding bitterness in your marriage while dealing with sickness and the unique challenges of parenting neurodiverse children alongside neurotypical children. We discussed the reality of living out the marriage vow, “in sickness and in health,” and how it requires a deep loyalty to one another, a shared sense of suffering and oneness, and a desperate dependence on God. We addressed how to avoid bitterness towards your spouse suffering from sickness, which demands honesty about the situation, acceptance that this is your reality, and understanding that faith is not a “fix-it” system. We also responded to two related questions about parenting children with neurodiversity — 1) How do you parent both neurodiverse and neurotypical children in a way that is God-honoring and full of compassion, grace and truth towards each individual child and their needs? And 2) How do you work through disagreements and differences with your spouse in how you parent neurodiverse children? Drawing from our own experiences happening in real time, we talked about our unrelenting reliance on God, our larger family system, our community, and each other — as well as many other helpful strategies, such as getting on the same page AND staying on the same page. This episode is packed with scripture references, personal examples, and lots of light and hope — even amidst some heavy, complex questions. Poem by Jane Kenyon: Otherwise “The cross means the acceptance of limitation on desire.” — Dallas Willard Scripture Mentioned: Hebrews 12:15, Matthew 5:3, Genesis 2:24, Lamentations 3:1, Romans 12:15, Romans 8:22, and Philippians 2 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

This week on the podcast, we welcomed back Ruth Chou Simons — author, artist, podcaster, and mom of six(!) boys — for an inspiring conversation about nurturing relationships with our kids. Ruth shared her wisdom on fighting for connection, especially during the teenage years, emphasizing the importance of leading with vulnerability. We explored the idea of viewing parenting as a journey rather than a destination, the importance of feeling empowered in our role as parents, the art of consistently pursuing our kids at every stage, and so much more. We also discussed Ruth’s beautiful new children’s book, Home Is Right Where You Are, inspired by Psalm 23. Ruth shared how a personal, unexpected challenge solidified the very message of her book — that God, as our Shepherd, calls us to abide in Him. This truth has transformed how she entrusts her kids to His care, realizing that home isn’t a place but a posture of resting in God’s presence. Ruth’s Books: Previous Podcast with Ruth Chou Simons Ruth’s Podcast with her son’s story: The Ruth Chou Simons Podcast Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube GOT QUESTIONS? Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

In this episode, we take a heartfelt and insightful dive into the unique challenges and profound joys of parenting neurodivergent children. We acknowledge the emotional, spiritual, and practical complexities that come with raising children who experience the world differently, while also embracing the beauty and growth that can emerge from these experiences. Throughout our discussion, we explore how faith plays a vital role in navigating the uncertainties and trials that parents often face, offering a source of strength and hope amid moments of grief and self-doubt. Parenting children with special needs demands an extraordinary level of humility, adaptability, and grace. It requires a willingness to learn, unlearn, and continuously evolve as both a caregiver and an advocate. In this episode, we address some deeply personal and thought-provoking questions from our listeners—questions about how to cultivate a spirit of gratitude even in the midst of struggle, how to deepen trust in God during challenging times, and how to effectively communicate with family, friends, and the broader community to foster understanding and support. Whether you are a parent, a loved one, or simply someone looking to better understand the experiences of neurodivergent families, we invite you to join us in this enriching conversation. Enjoy! Birdies Story  Tim Keller Book  Scripture Mentioned: Romans (I will boast in my weakness…) Joshua 1 Psalm 26 Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube GOT QUESTIONS? [email protected] Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Today on the show, Brook+Elizabeth and Phil+Diane answer your marriage-related questions, offering practical strategies and heartfelt wisdom for navigating the challenges and celebrations of married life. They tackle everything from difficult in-law dynamics and moments of overstimulation to prioritizing your spouse during the busiest or most exhausting seasons. With a focus on communication, respect, and prayer, this discussion is packed with advice, encouragement, laughter, and essential tools to help you build a stronger, more resilient relationship. Don’t miss it! Scripture Mentioned: 1 Peter 3 Psalm 34 Marriage Retreat - SOLD OUT Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

We wholeheartedly welcome back Sally Lemos, MS, LPC, to our show today to talk about trauma as it relates to families through generations. In this episode, we want to lay a foundation and start at the beginning by defining what trauma and abuse are and how they can show up in different ways in us, in our families, and how it’s passed down to future generations. Sally shares with us through the wisdom of her professional lens and her lived experience to teach us some tools to name the trauma, be with the wounded parts, and sit with our healer. Please be advised the topic of today's show may not be suitable for younger audiences; please use your discretion when watching or listening. Enjoy! Scripture Mentioned: Exodus 20 Romans 7 Resources: What Is Epigenetics? Intergenerational Trauma Infographic Finding your ACE Core What Is Intergenerational Trauma? Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Merry Christmas! Welcome to our special Christmas episode! Today, Brook and Elizabeth, along with Phil and Diane, dive into the challenges of navigating interpersonal relationships, especially in a culture where it’s often easier—and even socially accepted—to cancel those who feel inconvenient. Together, they share eight essential principles for handling difficult relationships and explore the better, more compassionate way that Jesus teaches. Along the way, they open up about their own personal experiences with relational tension, offering honest and heartfelt stories that bring these lessons to life. We’re so glad you’re here! Year End Match…Give Here! Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series

In this episode, Brook+Elizabeth, and Phil+Diane tackle three insightful questions about navigating relationships and faith. They explore how to foster deeper connections with family members who struggle with vulnerability by modeling openness, inviting honest conversations, and listening without judgment. They also share how they have learned to support self-critical loved ones through the power of specific encouragement and patience while speaking the truth in love. Lastly, they share thoughts about responding to loved ones who have drifted from faith with prayer and compassion. Enjoy! Year End Match…Give Here! Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

On the show today, Brook and Elizabeth and Phil and Diane talk about complaining. They unpack how complaining often masks deeper issues like grief, unmet expectations, or a lack of acceptance. True lament invites God into our pain, helping us process grief without getting stuck, while godliness with contentment reorients our perspective. By repenting of entitlement, embracing suffering as part of our calling, and teaching others, including our children, to lament with God, we grow in faith and resilience. Enjoy! Scripture mentioned: Philippians 2 1 Timothy 6v6 Phillippians 4 Genesis 6v6 Psalm 119 Romans 8 Job Jerry Sittser’s books: Year End Match…Give Here! Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Conflict, conflict, conflict! We all have it, none of us really want it, and we usually don’t handle it well. What are we to do with the complexities of relational tension and dynamics in our closest relationship? What are some tried and true strategies that are effective now, and how do we heal the emotional wounds that come from conflict? What does the Bible say about this pivotal dynamic in our homes? Listen as Brook, Elizabeth, Phil, and Diane discuss this topic and share their hearts and failures. Enjoy!  Year End Match…Give Here! Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! On today’s show, Brook, Elizabeth, Phil, and Diane sit down to respond to some great questions you all sent in. They open with an important question: is cooking a turkey necessary at Thanksgiving? They also cover some questions like how to find a spiritual mentor, how to keep fighting for your spouse when your spouse is struggling with an addiction, and how to focus on our children's flaws as well as their strengths. We hope you have a great Thanksgiving, Enjoy! Scriptures Mentioned: Romans 15v1 Galatians 6v5 Galatians 5v16 Philippians 4v13 James 4v7 1 Peter 3 Hebrews 12v1-3 Philippians 2 Marriage Retreat Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

On today’s show, we are so pleased to welcome Glenn Packiam. Glenn is a Pastor, author, podcast host, husband, and father of four. We are excited for you to get to know Glenn and the work he has been up to, not only as an author with the book he co-wrote with his wife, Holly but also to learn what God has been teaching him about fatherhood and his relationship with Jesus. Join us in this deep and encouraging conversation as we talk about what it means to have an Intentional year, to start new habits instead of New Year’s resolutions, discipling your kids with the heart of connection first, and how to find pathways to your child’s heart. Enjoy! The Resilient Pastor Podcast  Learn About Glenn Marriage Retreat Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Join us today as Brook, Phil, and Diane discuss their best daily habits. Spoiler alert: it’s reading their Bibles each day. Some stories and reflections are shared today about how God has transformed each of them over the years by reading the scriptures daily. Reading the Bible is not meant to be legalistic; God’s heart is an invitation, wanting to bless, meet, and help you. To keep it simple, they break it down into five different ways to read the scriptures. Enjoy! 5 different ways to read the scriptures: *First, find a place you like to be in where you won't be interrupted. You may have to wake up earlier for this, so don’t forget your journal. 1) Read Prayerfully  2) Read Carefully 3) Read Humbly 4) Read Expectantly  5) Read Joyfully Marriage Retreat Submit 1 min Video Here!  Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Today is all about marriage. Join Brook and Elizabeth as they share from a place of humble transparency how God has taught them to love one another. Brook and Elizabeth share crucial elements that have shifted their relationship, like care before criticism, being aware of the little foxes, and finding ways to encourage one another. They also discuss four things to try in your marriage to bring more care and life to your relationship. You are not alone if you find marriage hard, but it is worth the fight. Enjoy! 4 things to try: 1) Beware of the little foxes 2) Believe in your spouse’s goodwill 3) Find what you can encourage 4) Breath prayers Marriage Retreat Submit 1 min Video Here!  Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Today, we talk all about time! We cover different topics like letting our dreams die. What does that process look like? How do we accept the pain of life effectively and fruitfully? What do we do in the waiting when one season has not yet come but one season has already passed? What’s the right time to let something painful go? When is it time to conquer the next mountain? We cover many questions like this and even more. Enjoy! 4 Movements to help A time of waiting A time to turn A time to set out A time to take possession  Marriage Retreat Submit 1 min Video to: [email protected] Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

We welcome Jay Kim as our guest on the show today! Jay is a pastor, author, speaker, husband, and father. Jay has dedicated so much of his work to the topic of examination in the areas of technology, Christianity, and family. This delightful conversation dives into the Ignatian practices and how we can incorporate them into our daily lives, especially with our children. There are genuine moments and examples in this conversation that are refreshingly humble and helpful as Jay shares his passion for the truth that we were made for face-to-face, embodied experiences and points out how that is precisely how God meets us through Jesus. Enjoy! 5 movements to help you slow down with God 1) Invite God to make you aware of His presence 2) Gratitude- thank Him for one thing 3) Reflect on your day and offer one hard thing to Him 4) Confess and repent from one thing that day 5) Offer one thing you need help with tomorrow Marriage Retreat Submit 1 min Video Here!  Where to find Jay Kim: Books: Analog Church  Analog Christian  Listen Listen Speak Learn More about Jay Jay Thinks Westgate church in Silicon Valley Jay’s Podcast The Digital Examen Podcast Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram:  @intentional_parents  @brook_mosser  @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH:  Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book:  Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Today, we’re joined by Darren Whitehead to discuss his book, The Digital Fast. He highlights the crucial role of community in helping us break free from excessive phone use and invites us on a 40-day journey toward less digital noise and more spiritual peace. The average person spends 7 to 9 hours a day on their phone, and while we know it’s not a healthy habit, changing it can feel incredibly challenging—especially when we try to do it alone. In this conversation, we’ll explore the four key movements of the digital fast and how to rediscover joy and balance. Enjoy!   The 4 Movements: 1. Detach 2. Discover 3. Delight 4. Determine   The Digital Fast   Join our Legacy Builders   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Blogs   The Intentional Film Series

You are in for a special treat; we did our first-ever live Q+R recording from the Motherhood retreat! We had hundreds of women send in questions from the weekend that touch on many deep topics like giving care before criticism, how to encourage your husband, is anything off-limits when you are lamenting with God, how to cut the deadly loop of envy, how to offer help to your friends in a way they can say yes and so much more. We hope you join us today for a tiny taste of our 2024 Intentional Motherhood retreat. Enjoy!   Join our Legacy Builders   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Blogs   The Intentional Film Series

Get ready to take some notes with this conversation! We have Justin Whitmel Earley on the show today. Justin is a full-time lawyer, writer, speaker, husband, and father to four boys. Justin’s books, especially Habits of the Household, center around habit formation, how our habits affect our family and personal well-being, and the idea that things can change when we bring those habits into the light of the gospel. Join our conversation as we talk about tickle blessings, bedtime liturgy, new habit-forming tips, and how reconciliation is a gift God gives us, and we give to each other. Enjoy!     Connect with Justin   Justin’s Books Habits of the Household The Common Rule Made for People   Ronald Rolheiser Against the Infinite Horizon   Join our Legacy Builders!!!   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

We have a guest on our show today who is going to help you lower your defenses when it comes to the topic of technology use while at the same time giving you tools and encouragement to build a healthy relationship with it. We are so pleased to have Joey Odom on the show. This conversation is rich, deep, intelligent, and packed with practical help. Get ready to laugh at some great stories, connect with relatable examples, and encourage you to take a step closer to a healthy relationship with technology for yourself and your kids.   3 things you can do today   1. Spend one hour physically distance from your phone a day (it’s a muscle to build) 2. In your home establish sacred times/places where you do not have your phones (either dinner table or kid's room) 3. Search for moments of connection with kids and spouse   How to connect with Aro: Digital Fast Aro Podcast goaro.com Aro App   Join our Legacy Builders!!!   Motherhood retreat   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

On today’s show, Brook + Elizabeth and Phil + Diane respond to three questions that were sent in. This episode may be helpful to you if you have kids that express their emotions in big ways, if you want to understand your parent’s culture of Christianity to understand how it affected your upbringing, and if you have a neurodivergent child or grandchild and you want to cultivate hope and learn ways to support your child, your spouse and your grown kids. Enjoy!     Join our Legacy Builders!!!   Motherhood retreat   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

What does it look like to not only follow Jesus but also share Jesus in our time? We welcome the one and only Josh White back to the podcast today. Josh White is the pastor at Door of Hope in Portland, Oregon. He’s also an author, speaker, and musician. Join us for this deep and helpful conversation as Josh speaks the truth in love. We explore how sharing our faith is an excellent medium for sanctification and how our faith is communal, confessional, and personal. We also sit in the beautiful truth of grace and the depth of Jesus’ love for us. Enjoy!   Josh White’s Book: Stumbling Toward Eternity by Josh White   Episode with Josh White: Fatherlessness Interview with Josh White   Join our Legacy Builders!!! Motherhood retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: Blog The Intentional Film Series

Is it our responsibility to do it all? Is there a better way? We have ideals, sometimes we feel like it’s all up to us, other times we have fears that show up in our thoughts and responses and we don’t always see our limitations, especially with the perspective that they can be a gift to us. Join us today as we explore these 5 questions to ask yourself:   1: Is this Striving? 2: Is it fear? 3: Are we accepting our limitations and the limitations of our family? 4. Is it obedience? 5. is it yours to do?   Scripture mentioned: Acts 17v 25-27 Psalm 46v10 Proverbs 14v23 Psalm 127 Hebrews 4v2 Luke 12v24-34 1 Corinthians 12v26 Galatians 5v25   Book rec: The Gift of Limitations by Sara Hagerty   Motherhood retreat   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

We are privileged to sit and talk with Jerry and Pat Sittser today. If you don’t know this couple you are in for a treat. They deposit thoughtful and Godly wisdom about marriage and blended families. They share how blended families and marriage are incredible gifts while acknowledging the dynamics are complex. As you will hear from their stories today, they are passionate about serving each other, their grown kids, and their grandchildren. They have learned to ask themselves helpful questions to bring about the most fruit in their lives. Enjoy!   Previous interviews with Jerry Sittser: Part 1 Part 2   Motherhood retreat   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

It’s Q+R time today! All four of us are here to answer some really great questions. We first dive deep into the question; how do you allow Jesus to change you so you can convert head knowledge into action? We also explore how to keep your relationship with God fun and lastly, we offer a few things we have learned about parenting teens as we experience our own in real time. Enjoy!   Book Recommendation: Seen by Will Hutcherson and Chinwé Williams   Scriptures mentioned: Psalm 103v14: Philippians 2v12 John 15v4 Proverbs 24v16 Luke 1+2 Proverbs 31 1Timothy 6v6 Proverbs 27 Ecclesiastes 2v26 Proverbs 3v11-12   Motherhood retreat   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Today, we welcome back one of our favorite guests and good friend, Greta Eskridge. Greta and her husband have four kids of their own. They are navigating this cultural moment when it comes to protecting their kids from pornography, and understanding how to be proactive with technology. In today’s conversation, Greta shares her wisdom about big issues our kids are facing like sexing, sexploitation, pornography, smartphones, mental health, and how important it is for parents to have regular conversations to be their children’s source of information. Enjoy!   Greta Eskridge Podcast:   Greta’s New book will be released on March 5th 2025   Motherhood retreat   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Today, we welcome back John Mark Comer to the podcast. Get ready to take notes on many key moments in this conversation that will have you hitting replay! John Mark deposits some helpful thoughts around information versus spiritual formation, stages in our spiritual journey, refreshing views on what parents really need- rest, and how we can practically keep taking one more step in the right direction. If you are feeling weary in parenting you will not want to miss conversation. ENJOY!   John Mark Comer: The latest book: Practicing the Way   Books mentioned: Iron John by Robert Bly Domestic Monastery by Ronald Rolheiser Critical Journey by Janet Hagberg and Robert Guelich   Podcast mentioned: Andy Crouch   Motherhood retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Today we have Megan Fate Marshmon on the show! If you know, you know! Megan is determined to use her life to spread hope, share truth, and celebrate others. She is finishing her Doctorate of Ministry as she serves as a teaching pastor at Willow Creek Community Church and the Director of Women’s Ministries at Hume Lake Christian Camps. She also shepherds women at Arbor Road Church in Long Beach, California. We cover grief, loss, anger, sadness and what happens when life blows up and what is life like as a single parent and a widow? You don’t want to miss this episode. Enjoy!   Quotes: “A gift from loss: You start to care a whole lot less about things that don’t matter and you care a whole lot more about things that do.”   “Half of you is in heaven...just love a bunch of people.”   Sanctification gap: “What do you do in the moments when you realize you are not where you should be?”   Temptations of the Flesh:   1) Never going to figure it out/ despair 2) Not going to care about immoral temptation 3) Moral temptation, to try to just do better by myself in the weakness of the flesh   Pre-order Megans Book!   Megan’s Website Megan’s IG: Megan’s FB   Intentional: Why Go to Church   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Join us today with our special guests and dear friends, the Jauregui’s. They share their family’s story of longsuffering and loss. If you are in a season or have been in a season of suffering and loss we pray today’s conversation blesses your heart as you continue to bring your pain to Jesus. The Jauregi’s teach us a few things they have learned along their journey and we hope you will be encouraged by their hearts and character. Enjoy!   Gaetano’s Music: Spotify Youtube   Scripture: 2 corinthians 1v3   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

The culture of comparison is thick around us. It can be so easy to get caught up in it, even when it’s not as obvious and sneaks up on you. It’s constantly in our faces through social media or media of any kind. Today’s conversation is all about the ways comparison shows up in our lives and how God feels about it. There are 6 major areas that we often get stuck in comparison, but we don't have to stay stuck there. Join us as we name these spots and explore how to healthily combat them. Enjoy!   6 Areas of Comparison: OurselvesGiftingCallingParentsOur livesOur stage   Scripture: John 8 2 corinthians 10v12 Matthew 25 1 Peter 4v10 Ecclesiastes 12v13   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

We all are leaving a legacy. The question is, what legacy will you leave behind? Parenting adult children and grandchildren can be tricky because it means you have to let go while still staying present and supportive. Today, Brook and Elizabeth interview Phil and Diane about what it means to be an intentional grandparent. Phil and Diane share a few key elements they have learned through the years. They share how their perspectives have changed as the world has changed and how humility, grace, and love can go a long way. Enjoy!   Scripture: Proverbs 13v22 Romans 14v13 Romans 15v7   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

What are the lies you are believing? On today's show, we walk through three common lies that many of us are prone to believe. We explore where lies entered our story as humans and how we can combat them. So often, our enemy carefully crafted the lies we hear for each of us. We hope today's conversation brings hope and healing to a lie you believe. Enjoy!   Three lies that we believe: 1) Our worth is based on what we can produce 2) I'm just a bad parent/human 3) It's all up to me   Scriptures: John 1 John 8v44 2 corinthians 11v14 James 5v16 2 Chronicles 20 Psalm 139 Matthew 11v 28-30 Jeremiah 31v 3 Mark 14v5   Book Recommendations: Treasures in the Dark by Katherine Wolf Live No Lies by John Mark Comer   Watch on YouTube   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

We have an incredible guest on the show today; Andy Crouch joins Brook for an insightful and rich conversation about technology and the family. You may know Andy Crouch from his books The Techwise Family or The Life We Were Looking For. In this episode, we ask Andy questions like, what is the family for? And what worked or didn’t work as Andy and his wife raised their two kids? Brook and Andy also explore the superpowers we are drawn to and rely on and how choosing to be happy now or happy later can either transform us in the way we want to go or the way we don’t want to go. Enjoy!   Andy Crouch Books: The Tech-Wise Family The Life We're Looking For   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Complaining is not new to the human experience. We all suffer on this side of heaven; some is circumstantial, and some is perspective. Thankfully, the Bible has a lot to share with us about complaining. We hope you will join us for our conversation today, where we talk about perspective in suffering, some sneaky ways the enemy likes to fuel the fire and a few helpful questions to ask amid your grumbling. We also talk about negative development and some essential tools to help you escape a cycle of complaining. Enjoy!     Scriptures mentioned: Philippians 2v14+15 Exodus 16 2 Corinthians 5 Psalm 136 1 Peter   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Join us today for a Q+R where we respond to a few of your wonderfully, honest questions. This episode is for you if you are a highly sensitive person or are parenting one, if you struggle to connect with your child or they rub you the wrong way, and if you find yourself in a season of obscurity wondering when your life’s work will begin. We talk about all this and more and get down to the root of these questions to lend hope and encouragement for the season you find yourself in today. Enjoy!   Scriptures mentioned: Romans 15 Psalm 139 James 1v12 3 John 4   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

We have the whole crew here today, and we are diving into a great question that was submitted to us: How do you talk to your kids about alcohol in a culture that normalizes it? There are a lot of nuances to this topic and it’s not black and white. We discuss conviction versus preference, parenting out of relationship, and how easy it is to turn to external things rather than God. We hope you join us as we talk about what the Bible says about alcohol and how to live in a way that we can offer our bodies as a living sacrifice to Jesus. Enjoy!   Scriptures mentioned: Ephesians 5v18 Proverbs 23v30 1 corinthians 6v19 Romans 14v23 1 Corinthians 10v23   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website:   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

How do we practically train our children to walk with Jesus and do what He did? On today’s show, we talk about a 4- step process that shows us how to bring our children on the journey with us. Just like Jesus involves us in His work, He wants us to do the same with our children. There are different stages in training our children and as you walk through each stage you give them the gift of leadership and equip them for their individual God-given callings. Enjoy!   4-step process 1) I do- you watch 2) I do- you help 3) You do- I help 4) You do- I watch   Scriptures mentioned: Deuteronomy 6 Luke 9v13-17 Mark 6v7 Mathew 28v19-20 Hebrews 12v1   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Our culture is highly individualistic, but is this the way of the Kingdom? When we look at the early church in Acts, there is a marked difference in how they lived beyond themselves. They lived for their community and God. In today’s show, Phil+Diane and Brook+Elizabeth talk about three key elements to living a life counter to our culture and our natural desires. Enjoy!   Three Things to Live Beyond Ourselves: 1) Hospitality 2) Generosity 3) Service   Scriptures mentioned: Acts 2v42 Romans 12 Romans 15v7 Proverbs 21 2 Corinthians 9   Why go to church episode: So Why Go To Church   Book recommendations: When Sorry Isn't Enough by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

We probably all have experienced a poor apology or even given one. On today’s show Phil+Diane and Brook+Elizabeth all sit down to discuss what a good apology looks like. It is so much more than the words you say or don’t say, although they are important. They unpack God’s heart for forgiveness and how it goes hand in hand with apologies. They also go through the 5 steps to apologize from the book, When Sorry Isn’t Enough by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas. Enjoy!   5 steps to an apology: 1) Expressing Regret 2) Accepting responsibility 3) Making restitution 4) Genuinely repenting 5) Request forgiveness   Book recommendations: When Sorry Isn't Enough by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

A.J. Swoboda is back on the show today! A.J. and Brook sit down to talk and laugh about deep thoughts that are vulnerable and real. Their conversation gets into desires and how critical it is to live in a place of satisfaction in Christ. In this topic of desires, the conversation covers so many facets, from unwanted desires, practical desires, the balance of naming our desires and knowing when to die to them, how we bless our children, how we can learn from those closest to us to be transformed, and how we need to see Jesus in his humanity to relate to God. Enjoy!   Book recommendations: The Gift of Thorns by AJ Swoboda Subversive Sabbath by AJ Swoboda   Intentional Podcast: Subversive Sabbath interview with AJ Swoboda   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Brook, Elizabeth, and Phil are here today to answer more of your questions. They cover three that range from how to align our bodies and emotions with the truth that our hearts already know, what true repentance looks like as a parent who wants to teach it to your children, and how to navigate church hurt. With each of these questions, they dive into scripture and practical wisdom that has helped them in their personal and parenting journeys. Enjoy!   Scripture: Phil 4v8-9 Romans 8v1 Acts 26 2 Corinthians 7v8-12 Hebrews 10v25 Deuteronomy 12v5 So Why Go To Church episode:   Book Recommendations: Your Best Self and Boundaries for Your Soul by Dr. Alison Cook   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Dallas Willard said it so well when he said, “Feelings are good servants, but they are disastrous masters.” We live in the “I feel, therefore I am” culture and no longer live in truth. In today’s show, we discuss how our emotions are tools given to us by God. God values emotions and feelings, but we must have them in the right order. We discuss how parenting is a space where emotions come up often, not just for our kids but for us as parents. We go over six big emotions that arise within us and our children, and then we explore different ways to relate to these emotions. Enjoy!   6 Big emotions: 1) Jealousy 2) Fear 3) Anger 4) Grief 5) Guilt 6) Anxiety   4 Things we all need as humans: 1) Focused attention 2) Acceptance 3) Guidance 4) Protection   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Today’s show explores the question, What is God’s Heart with our capacity? Just because we are capable of something doesn’t mean we have the capacity for it. The questions we discuss in today’s show will challenge you in self-awareness to help you discover your gifts, your capacity in them, and the season in which God is asking you to use them. We dive deeper into more areas around this topic, like our insecurities, how our community can help us discover our calling, and most importantly, how our calling is not about us. Enjoy! 4 Questions to ask yourself: 1) Am I striving? 2) Am I living in fear? 3) Am I accepting my limitations and my family’s limitations?  4) Is it Obedience?     Book recommendation: Sacred Fire by Ronald Rolheiser   Scripture: 1 Peter 4v8-11 Proverbs 3v5-6 Ecclesiastes 3v1-8 James 1v12 Psalm 131   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

We have Michael Handler, the Chief Innovation Officer at Awana, on today's show. Brook and Michael talked about becoming emotionally healthy and safe parents when this was not the model they grew up knowing. Michael reminds us that Christ is in the business of redeeming our stories and how God often uses our children in this formation process. In this conversation, you will hear about how multigenerational churches are a gift, how it's essential, to be honest about your story while honoring your parents, how our children can be a mirror to help us gain understanding, how hurt can become our identity, how we can give our children safety even if we never experienced it and how when we bring our children safety God can use it to provide us with the safety we may not have received. Enjoy!   Book recommendation:   Resilient: Child Discipleship and the Fearless Future of the Church Coming out August of 2024 Forming Faith: Discipling the Next Generation in a Post-Christian Culture   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Marriage is hard, but it is worth the fight. On today’s show, we talk about marriage and things we can do or not do that will allow your marriage to thrive. Phil and Diane have been married for 45 years and Brook and Elizabeth just celebrated 17 years and they have some helpful insights that they have learned along the way to share with you today. Grab your spouse, take some notes, and be ready for some practical tips and some refreshing encouragement. Enjoy!   A few key takeaways: -Learn your spouse -Love them for who they are -It will be imperfect, but try to love your spouse better each day -Husbands cherish your wives   Book recommendation: Resolve conflict God’s way by Dr. Bill Graybill   Scriptures mentioned: Ephesians 5v25-33   Quotes: Richard Foster: The many mini-deaths of going beyond ourselves Richard Foster: Freedom is a byproduct of discipline and commitment Unknown-“Because women are so rarely cherished, they settle for being occasionally desired”   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

How long has it been since someone- anyone- poured into you?   In 2023, over 600 mothers gathered together to learn, to worship, to grow, to encourage, and to be encouraged. We are still in awe of what God did!   The Spirit moved, the Father spoke, and Jesus healed. It was so incredible that we can’t wait to do it again!   We want to invite you to join us October 3rd - 5th, 2024, for a three-day retreat designed to pour into you.   We know the task of motherhood is both beautiful and hard, life giving and exhausting, and we want to create a space for the Spirit to refresh you on your journey.   We will press into how motherhood gently leads us to spiritual formation, how relationships are essential for the journey, and how our connection with God spills over to our connection with our families.   Come to where we live, in Bend, Oregon… a place of startling beauty, a place to come away from it all.   Come with your best friend, your sister, your mom— come together, or come alone.   This is a retreat for any stage of motherhood you find yourself in… from mothers of infants to grandmothers and women who hope to be mothers someday. There will be something for all of you! We all need each other!   We truly believe that the greatest gift you can give your children, young and old, is your transforming self.   It was Dallas Willard who said, “If you don’t come apart for a while, you’ll come apart after a while.”   So come! Come apart for a while with us. Come, planning to be surprised by God, to find in Him the delight your soul craves.     Sign Up Today!

On today’s show, we are asking some questions to get us thinking about conflict in a helpful way. What does conflict bring up internally for us and What do we do when we are overwhelmed with the feelings that surround conflict? We not only take a deep dive into what we feel when conflict arises but also how to see others in the conflict and how it affects them. When we interact with each of our relationships we are not just interacting with the person, but also with their story and their woundings. We hope today’s show helps you get a little more curious, have a little more compassion, and bring in a little more calm. Enjoy!   3 Ways people often handle or respond to conflict: 1) Attack 2) Ignore 3) Manage   3 Things to ask yourself: 1) Be curious about what is coming up 2) Have Compassion for yourself 3) Calmness   Book recommendation: Resolve conflict God’s way by Dr. Bill Graybill   Scriptures mentioned: Philippians 2v3-4 2 Timothy 2v23 James 4   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events: Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Welcome to our living room! Today is our first Intentional video podcast! We hope now more than ever you feel like you are sitting in our living room conversing with us and that you leave with hope and encouragement to keep stepping into the person God sees you becoming.   Today, we sit down to talk about mentorship and our influence in our families and out in the world. We discuss why mentorship is important, what makes a great mentor, and how we can become great mentors ourselves. We discuss the pressures we face in our culture today to be an influence, how we can become a better mentor with age, and something we call accidental influencing. We cover six ways to become an intentional mentor and five reflection questions to help you process where to begin. Enjoy!   6 ways to become intentional mentors (applies to accidental mentoring): 1) Slow down 2) See people 3) Say encouraging things 4) No shame 5) Be Safe 6) Make it Simple   5 Reflection questions: 1) Think back on your life -who are the people who inspired and influenced you to press in and follow Jesus in a deeper way? 2) Who needs to be seen by you? 3) What do you see in them? 4) What regrets can you pass on so that someone else can learn from your mistakes, what do you wish you would have done differently? 5) What are the top 3 spiritual practices that have opened your whole self to come near to God and where has He transformed you most radically?   Scriptures mentioned: 2 Timothy 2v2 Deuteronomy 6v7 1 corinthians 11v1   Watch on YouTube   Speaking events:   Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

We have a fun show for you today. All four of us recently traveled to a great church in San Diego called Rise City, and we got to sit down at the end of the conference to do a live question and response time. Their community asked many fantastic questions that many of you have asked us, so we thought we would share this with you today. We cover questions about discipline, parenting children with special needs, our best advice for marriage, what we would do differently in our parenting, blended families, parenting when you blew it in the early years, is therapy Biblical, and cultivating digital rule of life for your family. Enjoy!   Speaking events:   Forest Home Family Camp  June 23-29   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we are covering the topic of one of the eight primary emotions, anger. Anger reveals what matters to us- both good and not good. Anger becomes a warning signal, compelling humble people to look inside to identify what emotion they are experiencing and why. Fear? Hurt? Sadness? Resentment? Anger is possibly the most important feeling we experience as emotional and spiritual beings because it is the first step to authentic living. It shows our yearnings and hunger for life. We will also cover five ways to start working on being aware of your anger and how to live in the power of the Spirit. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Interview with Aundi Kolber! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000537701695

When we teach our children to accept the word no, we give them a gift to help them as they mature into adulthood. On today’s show, Phil, Diane, Brook, and Elizabeth share some recent events where teaching the word no has proven challenging and has also provided a ton of fruit in their family. Join us today as they unpack the stories and lean into how God teaches us to accept the word no, how welcoming the word no brings contentment in life, and how we can give our children a no without breaking their spirit. Enjoy!   3 Dont’s: 1. Don’t be avoidant, if you ignore these conversations it won’t help 2. Don’t be dismissive, sometimes you have to slow way down to be fully present 3. Don’t be snarky or sarcastic, it’s belittling   3 Do’s: 1. Do put on compassion, you don’t have to feel it, put it on like clothes 2. Do listen and reflect back, it’s powerful! “I hear you saying...Do I have that right?” Go into it with curiosity 3. Do practice humility, be open   Digital Rule of Life PDF   Speaking events:   Rise City Church January 26-28   Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Scriptures mentioned: 1 John 5v14-15 Romans 2v4 1 Timothy 6v6 Colossians 3v12 2 Thessalonians 2v16-17   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

Today, we discuss all things digital. How does technology form us? How does technology influence our children? What is our responsibility? The primary thing technology does is change our minds, and God invites us into the renewal of our minds. If it feels hard not to be conformed to the culture around you, you are not alone. On the show today, Brook and Elizabeth share what a digital rule of life is and what their digital rule of life looks like in their home. We have some tools that we hope are helpful as you figure out what guardrails you and your family need.   Digital Rule of Life PDF   Book: Andy Crouch, The tech-wise family   Book: Johann Hari, Stolen Focus   Speaking events:   Rise City Church January 26-28   Forest Home Family Camp June 23-29   Scriptures mentioned: Romans 12v1-2 Proverbs 29v18   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional   MERCH: Gear for the journey   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders:   Blog   The Intentional Film Series

In today’s show, we have Diane, Elizabeth, and Sally Lemos Lpc sharing a conversation about Christmas and all the expectations and pressures that can come up. So often, we strive to do everything, but do we know why we are doing everything? Is it to perform for others or even to prove something to ourselves? It’s so easy to make Christmas about what we want instead of focusing on something far more important: how we make others around us feel. We hope this conversation feels like you are sitting with Sally, Diane, and Elizabeth as they dive into some great stories of missing the mark and how it led them to ask these three helpful yet challenging questions:    1.    How do we not miss this Christmas?    2.    Who or how do I want to be?    3.    What kind of culture am I trying to create? Merry Christmas and Enjoy!   Scriptures mentioned: 1 John 3v19-20 2 Corinthians 10v13   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼 https://intentional.flocknote.com   MERCH: Gear for the journey https://www.intentionalparents.org/store   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Sally’s Website / Instagram https://www.newbloomtherapy.com/about https://www.instagram.com/sallylemos  

Today, we continue answering your questions. Thank you for sending in such great ones! The first one we respond to is how to parent children who have the opposite personality as you; there is a challenge and a blessing that comes with that. Then, we discuss what repentance can look like after you have responded in anger to your kids. Listen in for some hope and helpful practices, even if you blew it. The last question for today is about how to have a conversation with your kids when someone is having a baby outside of marriage. We touch on so many common situations in parenting; there is something for every parent in this show today! Enjoy!   Scripture mentioned: Psalm 127v3 Proverbs 24v16 James 5v16 James 1v19 Ephesians 4v15 John 4   The episode on Anger with Sally Lemos(LPC): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659? i=1000634877215   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼 https://intentional.flocknote.com   MERCH: Gear for the journey https://www.intentionalparents.org/store   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Phil+Diane and Brook+Elizabeth respond to a few great questions in today's show. First, they talk about what to do when you feel overwhelmed with the load God has given you. Do you constantly feel like you are living outside of your capacity with no margin? Secondly, they discuss how to navigate the subject of death with your kids. This can be a tough subject when your kids feel afraid and even harder when you, as a parent, have fears around death, too. Lastly, they respond to a question about fathers cultivating a vision for their family and what to do if you never had a good father to show you how to do that for your family. This episode has loads of hope to share! Enjoy!   HOPE: Heaven, Oriented, Perspective, Everyday   Verses Mentioned: Psalm 54:4 Isaiah 40:31 Phil 4:13 James 2: 14-17 Matthew 26:38 John 14:1-14 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14   Book recommendation: Randy Alcorn: Heaven and Heaven for Kids   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼 https://intentional.flocknote.com   MERCH: Gear for the journey https://www.intentionalparents.org/store   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

It’s our pleasure to welcome back Katharine Hill on our podcast today. Katherine Hill is an Author, speaker, and director for Care for the Family. In our conversation today, we discuss challenges like busyness, distractions, striving, and the digital age. Katharine shares some brilliant thoughts on attentive stillness even when life is busy and the value of being interruptable. We dive deep into finding a slower pace with God despite facing many challenges that want to pull us away. Katharine also shares four helpful habits that she does in her own life to help bring her and her family closer to Jesus. Enjoy!   1) Calm 2) Comfortable 3) Concealed 4) Care-free   Katharine Hill: https://www.katharinehill.co.uk/   Katharine’s Book: Born Free: A call to be still, know God, and Flourish in a Hectic World https://www.amazon.com/Born-Free-Still-Flourish-Hectic/dp/1914553187/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2ZMREVYTI4I6J&keywords=born+free+by+katharine+hill&qid=1701198451&sprefix=born+free+by+katharine+hill%2Caps%2C165&sr=8-1   Book recommendation: Domestic Monastery https://www.amazon.com/Domestic-Monastery-Ronald-Rolheiser/dp/164060670X/ref=sr_1_2_sspa?crid=MBMWZ6NF70YO&keywords=domestic+monastery+by+ronald+rolheiser&qid=1701198500&sprefix=domestic+m%2Caps%2C175&sr=8-2-spons&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGY&psc=1   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼 https://intentional.flocknote.com   MERCH: Gear for the journey https://www.intentionalparents.org/store   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Anger is a part of the human experience and can be unpleasant, but our anger can be a gift when we listen to what it wants to communicate. The incredible Sally Lemos, MS, LPC, is on the podcast again today. Sally shares some helpful ways to learn to be aware of our anger before it turns into rage. We discuss storytellers, limits, how to slow down to go faster, and the unforced rhythms of grace. We give you four practical tools in today's show that will help you as you practice becoming a peaceful presence in your home. Enjoy!   Practical tools: 1. Notice what is happening in us 2. Slow down to pay attention 3. Make Repair 4. Grounding Practice (Air, Earth, Light, and Water)   Where to find Sally Lemos MS, LPC: https://www.newbloomtherapy.com/about Sally’s Blog: https://www.newbloomtherapy.com/my-blog   Verses mentioned: Matthew 11:28-30 Philippians 4:8   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼 https://intentional.flocknote.com   MERCH: Gear for the journey https://www.intentionalparents.org/store   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Our culture is fascinated with fear, but as Christians, how is God calling us to walk with him amid our fears? Today, the whole crew is here, and we talk all about fear, how we naturally respond to fear, how shame comes into play, how we can moralize our fears, and most importantly, how we fear not. We cover 4 points today to help you in your spiritual formation journey that God wants to use to transform us into who we really are. This process takes time, so remember to give yourself loads of grace. Enjoy!   4 Things      1.    Notice and Befriend fear    2.    Invite    3.    Speak truth over yourself    4.    Choose trust     Book: Resilient Child Discipleship https://www.amazon.com/Resilient-Discipleship-Fearless-Future-Church/dp/1946680648   Book: The faith of our children https://www.amazon.com/Faith-Our-Children-Discipling-Generation/dp/1614841683/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2VRAVEFTMM9J8&keywords=the+faith+of+our+children&qid=1698171150&s=books&sprefix=the+faith+of+our+children%2Cstripbooks%2C185&sr=1-1   Links: https://childdiscipleship.com/ https://childdiscipleship.com/resilient-child-discipleship-training/   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   MERCH: Gear for the journey https://www.intentionalparents.org/store   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4     Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series  

Today, we have Matt Markins on the show. Matt is the president and CEO of Awana. Some of you may have grown up in Awana, and others have never heard of it; Awana is a child discipleship and formation program that focuses on helping parents thrive in the daily mundane formational process with their children. In this episode, we talk about the three pillars of discipleship, how to work these into our families, a vision for your home, a culture of transparency, how parenting is both mundane and miraculous, and how the church community can shape a child's faith journey, to name a few. Enjoy!   Three Pillars of Discipleship   1)Be with Jesus 2)Become like Jesus 3)Do what Jesus did   Book: Resilient Child Discipleship https://www.amazon.com/Resilient-Discipleship-Fearless-Future-Church/dp/1946680648   Book: The faith of our children https://www.amazon.com/Faith-Our-Children-Discipling-Generation/dp/1614841683/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2VRAVEFTMM9J8&keywords=the+faith+of+our+children&qid=1698171150&s=books&sprefix=the+faith+of+our+children%2Cstripbooks%2C185&sr=1-1   Links: https://childdiscipleship.com/ https://childdiscipleship.com/resilient-child-discipleship-training/   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4 Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today, We have Elizabeth Smith on the podcast. Elizabeth Smith is a professor at Moody Bible and an author. In this conversation, Brook and Elizabeth cover transparency with your kids, humility, and allowing shame to propel us to repair our relationships. Elizabeth shares the question she is researching in her doctorate: Is the Church a spiritually supportive community for children or families recovering from trauma? You will hear a few of her perspectives on crucial characteristics like empathy, fear of failure, and being faithful. Enjoy!     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   MERCH: Gear for the journey https://www.intentionalparents.org/store     Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series     Links for Elizabeth Smith:   Book: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Changes-Family-Always-Does/dp/1687790507/ref=sr_1_1? crid=PFV5AQPXVT1U&keywords=god+never+changes+but+my+family+always+does&qid=169 7586235&sprefix=god+never+changes+but+my+family+%2Caps%2C160&sr=8-1 Moody Bible: https://www.moody.edu/academics/faculty/smith-elizabeth/

Today, we have ALL the speakers from our recent Motherhood Retreat sitting down and responding to your questions! There were hundreds of questions to respond to, but some to highlight in this episode are "How do I connect with boys emotionally"? "How do I interact with my parents when my maturity has grown past them"? "When it comes to saying no, how do we gracefully decline without sounding dismissive or uncaring"? We discuss these questions and many more. Enjoy!       Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4     Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today, we are diving into the waters of resentment, the pleasure principle, and what happens when we operate from a place of busyness and not rest. Often, in our very full lives, we can forget our end goal, Christ-likeness and being people of love. We walk through the pleasure principle and how we can move to become people who embrace maturity and not resentment. Enjoy   How to move towards maturity and away from the pleasure principle      1.    Acknowledge your disappointment    2.    Remember Hope    3.    Daily Surrender    4.    Choose to notice ‭‭     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today, we have Jon Tyson on the podcast! So many fun and exciting topics are covered on the episode. We cover the problem of men in our time and what we can do to help our fathers, especially young boys. We talk about breaking them out of their childish thinking, bringing them into a liminal space, and then walking them through becoming men. We also cover how we can help form our daughters into adulthood and prepare them for womanhood? We lastly cover forming men, and how to get what you maybe never got. Enjoy!   How do men put away childish things?   The Five Shifts      1.    Ease to difficulty    2.    Self to other    3.    Whole to a part    4.    Control to surrender    5.    The temporary to the eternal       Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   The Primal Path Primalpath.co   The Intentional Father (Book) https://www.amazon.com/Intentional-Father-Practical-Courage-Character/dp/0801018684/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2S48SUKHN062F&keywords=the+intentional+father+jon+tyson&qid=1695758938&sprefix=The+intentional+%2Caps%2C144&sr=8-1   Forming Men www.formingmen.com

Today, on the podcast, we walk through what it looks like to create a culture of mercy instead of judgment. We cover how God's awareness can shape our awareness and how we create this culture in our homes. We also cover the four necessities needed to cultivate mercy in your homes. Enjoy!   The Four Ways: 1. Create a culture of self-awareness 2. Create a culture of curiosity rather than judgment 3. Create a culture of discernment 4. Create an others-centered culture     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat

Consecration is a blessing for you, your family, and generations to come. It's a beautiful gift you can give your family. In today's Show, Phil and Brook break down what consecration means and what it looks like to live a life consecrated to God. They get honest about how it is so easy not to live this way and how we can push against the current culture to move closer to holiness. Life is hard, and we all find things that help us cope or soothe our pain, but it leads us away from consecration and brings us more pain. Brook and Phil squash any elements of shame in this process and bring hope through small, practical ways when we choose little acts of obedience daily. A common theme of this episode circles around the truth that when you give up more of yourself and live a consecrated life, you receive more of God's spirit, which helps you continue to live a holy life and receive His blessings. This work of consecration is so important because what we don't deal with becomes a trap for our children. It is our responsibility to stop sin and release blessings to our children. May this be a part of your legacy in your family? Enjoy! Three things that make up the idea of consecration:   1)Cleansing 2)Sacrificing 3)Dedication   3 Reasons that hold us back from Consecration:   1)Compromise 2)Carelessness 3)Cowardess Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4     Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat

Mean girls are not just in the movies. Today, Diane and Elizabeth talk about bullies, in particular mean girls. Our culture tolerates a level of speech towards one another that we have never seen before, especially online. It's everywhere, from prominent leaders to our families and children. The culture our children are navigating through is tricky, and the method of killing them with kindness doesn't always work. Diane and Elizabeth share some wisdom about what to do if your daughter is facing a mean girl. What does it look like to follow Christ and also draw boundaries? How do we teach our daughters to hold space for empathy so they can see that there is a story behind each mean girl? And finally, how can we teach our daughters to forgive the mean girl or bully even if repairing the relationship isn't possible? We hope this conversation today will help you navigate the problematic relationships that your daughters will encounter at some point. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Grandparenting Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659? i=1000621606751   Homeschool course link: https://www.intentionalparents.org/homeschooling-signup

The whole crew is here today to answer more of your thoughtful questions. We cover topics like what to do when your kids test the boundaries with grandparents or other caregivers. We tease out some tricky elements like the parent's role and the grandparent's role in these situations. We also answer the question, how do we deal with catastrophic fears in parenting? We dive into the root of fears and turn to the Bible for wisdom about what God says about anxiety and our troubles. We differentiate concerns from true evil and learn how to listen and support a friend when fears arise. The last topic we cover today is homeschooling. We talk about the good and the complex parts of homeschooling, practical ways to homeschool multiple kids at once, and how setting your expectations can make or break your school year. We hope this episode brings hope and practical help to you and your family. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4     Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Grandparenting Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659? i=1000621606751   Homeschool course link: https://www.intentionalparents.org/homeschooling-signup

 In today's show, Brook and Elizabeth, desire to bring you hope in the painful parts of your story. They answer your questions about kids with special needs, chronic illness, when to start testing your kids for a diagnosis, and how to help them walk through trauma. Because Brook and Elizabeth are so familiar with the pain and trauma in their own family, they want to speak to those of you who are also suffering. They share personal examples and lessons of what they have learned along their journey, from grief and disappointment to planning for the hard days. We hope today's show encourages you and gives you some tools as you walk this tough road so that you and your family can walk even closer with Jesus and one another.   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4     Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Birdie’s story https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659? i=1000450191917

In today's show, we have the privilege of talking to a beautiful couple, our friends Ryan and Annie Miller, about a challenging and sensitive subject. Ryan and Annie started a non-profit called Share the Struggle. Share The Struggle is a non-profit organization that seeks to showcase God's redemptive power through media. This ministry began out of a profoundly sorrowful experience of the miscarriage of their first baby. As they walked through this trauma, it became clear that so many couples were silently grieving this same loss. They found that this trauma was not being talked about nearly enough, even though 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage, leaving many couples suffering alone, especially women. Today's conversation is raw and super helpful if you have experienced a miscarriage or if you know someone who has. We go into practical help, like, things you do not want to say to someone going through a miscarriage as well as what words and actions are beneficial. We are so grateful for our friends and their ministry and all the tools they provide. We know this subject is deeply felt by many, and we hope this conversation brings help and healing. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Share the Struggle Ministry: https://www.sharethestruggle.org/   Coaching: https://www.sharethestruggle.org/coaching   Course for Miscarriages: https://sharethestruggle.mykajabi.com/offers/6RLonPFc/checkout   Email: [email protected]  

In today's show, we respond to some of your great questions. We cover praying over your children, what it looks like, and what it doesn't look like. We discuss how easy it can be to use prayer to manipulate our children into the version we hope to see more of in them. We dive into some helpful and practical tips on praying over our children that you can start doing today! The second question we respond to is connected to the first because so much of parenting comes down to the connection between God and our children, the relationship between parents and their children, and sibling to sibling, to name a few. We talk about practicing truth and love with our kids to build trust and respect in our connection with them. We explore the difference between discipline and punishment and why being willing to be the bad guy sometimes as a parent is essential. Also, some funny stories in today's show illustrate our responses to these excellent questions. We hope you laugh and learn and find room for grace as you practice these tips in your families. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Books Mentioned: Seen: Despair and Anxiety in Kids and Teenagers and the power of connection by Will Hutcherson and Chinwé Williams, PH. D   https://www.amazon.com/Seen-Healing-Despair-Anxiety-Connection/dp/B09JL53NK7/ref=sr_1_5? crid=11DC55PABSZPI&keywords=seen&qid=1690254128&sprefix=seen%2Caps%2C169&sr=8-5 

In a culture that puts a high value on retirement as the ultimate destination, this insightful conversation invites you to a different perspective on Grandparenthood. We talk about a mindset shift from grandparenting being a burden to a mindset of a joyful responsibility. Phil and Diane share their insights on what they have learned through their 17 years of experience while Brook and Elizabeth talk about what adult children are needing from their parents as they raise the next generation. We explore 6 practical ways of what it looks like to be an intentional, Godly grandparent. Enjoy!   The 6 ways are: 1. Humbly 2. Helpful 3. Respectful 4. Prayerful 5. Careful 6. Hopeful   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat

On today's show, Brook interviews Lead Pastor, Songwriter, and author Josh White. Josh White lives in Portland, Oregon, with his wife and two kids and leads a beautiful church called Door of Hope; he has been in the music industry from a young age and has just released his first book, Stumbling Toward Eternity (see the link below). In this conversation, Brook and Josh explore Josh's childhood wounds, from bullying to becoming a parent as a child to his younger brother. This interview is full of depth and profound one-liners. Josh has a story of how God captivated his heart and shifted his life and his family's life in a way that shows the power of God on display from one generation to the next. Josh explores how he learned to be a Dad when he didn't have a healthy father relationship to base his parenting on. He also shares a moving story about how God softened his heart toward his Dad and how God revealed what honoring his father meant in his specific situation. You won't want to miss this episode's fun and touching ending. We hope you enjoy this show today!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Josh White’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Stumbling-Toward-Eternity-Finding-Ourselves/dp/0593193938

Today we cover the critical topic of not getting what we need as we are growing up. We cover emotional neglect, trauma, and how we recover. We talk through what happens when others accept us. Acceptance of who you are, acceptance of your idiosyncrasies, your bents, your personality. Then we cover focused attention and the idea that maybe you never received the needed attention, but God is waiting and can’t wait to give you all of his. We also cover how God gives us direction and especially moral guidance as we slow down long enough to listen, and lastly, we discuss how God truly protects us. Enjoy!   The four ways are: 1. Acceptance 2. Focused attention 3. Guidance 4. Protection   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat

Today's show talks about five ways moms are called to be shepherds in their homes. We define what a Shepherd is and what it looks like for moms of all ages. Our conversation circles around some vital elements like mom guilt, God's sovereignty, guarding what God has entrusted to you, pursuing wholeness, and continuing to grow in each stage of motherhood. As moms, it is easy to feel like we have to do this all perfectly, and if we don't, we are messing up our children. Still, we invite you into this conversation today to pause and consider a different perspective of walking toward transformation instead of perfection. It's a journey of holding your kid's hands as you walk closer to your Father in heaven and bringing your children along the walk. The five steps we discuss today are trusting in the sovereign God, Heeding the shepherd's call, Embracing obscurity, pursuing an integral life, and cultivating leadership competency. We hope you enjoy this episode today! Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat

Today we respond to one of your questions that we think deserved some thoughtful conversation. The question was asked, "If you could do one thing differently, what would it be?" In our response to this great question, we explore a variety of insights and wisdom that God has taught us through the years. Some topics we discuss are shame versus regret, understanding the need behind our kid's emotions, how God deals with our emotions, our need for control, limitations that are gifts, the secret to having a healthy relationship with your adult children, and so much more. We hope this show blesses you today! Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional 👇🏼   https://intentional.flocknote.com   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Interview with Pete Scazzero https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/ id1462206659?i=1000469435042

We have the executive director for the non-profit Risen Motherhood and talented Author Laura Wifler, on today's show. This interview is a sweet and transparent conversation about children with disabilities. Laura shares stories from her own life about how God has used motherhood, in particular mothering a child with disabilities, to transform her, as well as her family and her ministry. She has a beautiful purpose to help create conversations, normalize disabilities, and train others to interact with people of all ages with disabilities. We hear how Laura educates her kids through great family phrases and helpful heart-to-heart conversations. Laura gives us some wise advice in handling the complexities of being in a family with disabilities, and she speaks to the grace God gives us each day. We also explore the healthy practice of holding grief, sorrow, hope, and joy. We hope today's show is an encouragement to families that have members with disabilities and to help serve as an education to those who don't. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Risen Motherhood website: https://www.risenmotherhood.com/   Instagram: @laurawifler   Laura’s Book: https://laurawifler.com/likeme   Risen Motherhood Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/risen-motherhood/id1072833310   Birdie’s Story: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000450191917

In today’s show, we talk about the different processes by which we make decisions. We make decisions every day, and sometimes they can be life-changing. Our culture tells us one way, but as followers of Jesus, how do we discern God’s will with the choices that come our way? We break down three different ways people make decisions: The way of Logic, The ignition way, and The way of discernment. We share some real-life stories where we learned the hard way and explore the lessons from those experiences. We dive into practical ways to help you navigate the discerning process. We cover topics such as how our egos or false self can affect our decision-making abilities and how some may have misconceptions about suffering related to God’s will for our lives. Today, we ask a couple of essential questions that can help you uncover some patterns that may make you stuck; What do I believe about God, and Does he want the best for me and my family? We also discuss balancing our feelings while not letting our emotions rule our decisions. We have been working thoughtfully to develop a process to help our own family make big decisions and discern God’s will for our lives. We genuinely hope these nine steps bless and assist you as you walk through your moments of discernment that arise. This process takes time, and we hope to encourage you to practice these steps slowly.   The process:   Focusing your attention on GodConsider what it means to be totally attached to God’s agenda and willLay your choice before God and examine the matter thoroughly.Share your desires with God. What is it you want?Use ReasonAttend to your feelingsListen to God as your read ScriptureSeek the counsel of those gifted in discernment who can listen to you and with youOffer your choice to God     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Some scriptures mentioned today: John 16:7, Philippians 1:9-10, 1 John 4:1, James 1v5, 1 chronicles 4:10, Psalm 23   Books mentioned: Adele Ahlberg Calhoun: Spiritual disciplines handbook https://www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Disciplines-Handbook-Practices-Transform/dp/0830846050   Ruth Haley Barton: Pursuing God’s Will Together https://www.amazon.com/Pursuing-Gods-Will-Together-Transforming/dp/0830835660/ref=sr_1_1?crid=16QKGMD1P1Q1T&keywords=ruth+haley+barton+pursuing+gods+will+together&qid=1683580826&s=books&sprefix=ruth+haley+barton+pursuing+gods+will+together%2Cstripbooks%2C162&sr=1-1

We are thrilled to have the co-founder and creative director of The Bible Project, Tim Mackie, on the show today. Brook and Tim dive into some big questions like what it looks like to be faithful to Jesus in our time, where we need to put our attention, and how some desires will lead us to life and others will not.   We get to listen in as Tim shares some fun inside stories of finding Jesus through skateboarding and what life in the Mackie house looks like now. He shares how he looks for opportunities in his parenting to teach big concepts to his children, even while building with Legos. Brook and Tim also unpack the creative and in-depth process behind making each Bible Project video. Tim imparts some practical wisdom about teaching our children the ability to discern that there is a story behind every voice that’s trying to grab our attention. And finally, Brook and Tim discuss chasing desires and how sometimes denying what we really want is the way to get what we really need. We hope you enjoy this show today filled with fun conversation and wisdom.   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   The Bible Project Links: Website: https://bibleproject.com/ App: https://bibleproject.com/app/

Today we have Strahan Coleman on the show. Strahan is a writer, spiritual director, and award-winning musician from New Zealand. In this rich conversation, Brook and Strahan discuss chronic pain, depression, anxiety, and how to find a vibrant faith amidst these challenges. They talk about the importance of shifting our prayer lives from following a prayer formula and seeking to perform for God to prayers that are intimate and purely about beholding the presence of God. In Strahan’s words, “Prayer equals nakedness with God.” They also discuss the constant noise in our culture and why bringing the volume down in our homes is essential. Strahan shares with Brook some practical ways he teaches his kids to hear from God. He gives us an inside view of his intentionality in teaching his kids to bring their heart posture to a constant awareness and integration of God in their everyday lives. We hope you enjoy this interview.   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat   The Intentional Motherhood Retreat https://www.intentionalparents.org/motherhood-retreat   Strahan’s Book: https://www.amazon.com/Beholding-Deepening-Our-Experience-God/dp/0830785183 Strahan’s website: https://www.commonerscommunion.com/ Strahan’s Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beholding-prayer/id1669562572

Why is it that sometimes close personal family and extended family are the hardest? Occasionally well-meaning family members can be your worst enemies, but why? What does the Bible say about this paradigm, and how can we live at peace even in tension? We discuss our responsibility in the relationship and the part we can play. What does Matthew 10v34-37 mean when Jesus talks about not bringing peace, but a sword and "turning man against father, a daughter against a mother"? We break down the context of this scripture and define what an idol is, the purpose of not having idols, and how idols can be good things, just in the wrong order. We also discuss nine ways to honor your convictions and your family. Enjoy!   Nine ways to move towards health.      1.    Pray    2.    Have a conversation    3.    Treat them with honor    4.    Let your words be full of grace    5.    Is this a hill you want to die on?      6.    Share the truth in Love    7.    Keep short accounts    8.    Seek counsel    9.    Recognize it is up to them     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat

Today is a fantastic meaningful conversation. We have Sally Lemos on the show. We cover attachment, attunement, how to NOT parent from our woundedness, connection before correction, how to noitice when your flooded and so much more! Enjoy!   A little about Sally... Sally Lemos, MS, LPC, is a mental health therapist providing services to adults, adolescents, and children experiencing various mental health challenges. She is certified in EMDR with advanced training in treating complex developmental trauma and dissociation with adults, adolescents, and children, attachment-informed EMDR treatment working with parents and children to heal intergenerational trauma, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT). She has extensive experience and training working with children and families involved in the foster care system and with children who have experienced abuse and neglect.     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat       Episodes Mentioned (Interview with Aundi Kolber) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000537701695   Sally Lemos https://www.newbloomtherapy.com/about

How long has it been since someone- anyone- poured into you?   How long has it been since your soul brimmed so full of beauty, hope, healing, and joy that every jolt of real-life motherhood spilled overflowing abundance onto those you love?   We know the answer: too long, if ever. As a mom, you give and give and give, until there’s nothing left.   We want to invite you to join us for a three-day retreat of being given to. We know (and live) the beautiful challenge of motherhood. We know the feelings of aloneness, of inadequacy, of fear— of weariness— that so often weigh us down in the midst of all it means to be a mother.   We’ve designed this retreat with your needs in mind. Your need for connection with like-minded women, your need for the gentleness of spiritual formation, and ultimately, your need to be strengthened for the task of motherhood.   Come to where we live, in Bend, Oregon— surrounded by snowcapped mountains, with rivers and trails and alpine lakes— a place of startling beauty. A place to come away from it all. Come with your best friend, your sister, your mom— come together or come alone.   It was Dallas Willard who said, “If you don’t come apart for a while, you’ll come apart after a while.”   So come! Come apart for a while with us. Come, planning to be surprised by God, to find in Him the delight your soul craves.   Join us October 5th-7th 2023 in Bend OR   Motherhood Retreat Sign Up  

Today in this Intentional essential, we discuss the bottom-up vs. top-down parenting method. We talk about getting to the heart of your child's behavior and getting curious instead of angry. We also cover three ways to do this with the spirit's help. Enjoy!     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat

Today we have the excellent Mark Batterson on the show. We talk about having a non-anxious curiosity, the importance of kindness, and the three words that change everything. Enjoy!     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat   Marks Books   The Best Worst Day Ever https://amzn.to/3TTMIFG   Please, Sorry, Thanks. https://amzn.to/3JMWtRA

Today we have Matthias J. Barker on the show. Matthias is a psychotherapist based in Nashville, TN, and is all about moving towards what's meaningful amid hardship. You may know him from the various social media platforms that he creates content for, but whatever the case, you are in for a treat. We define words like wounds, trauma, and triggering and how God heals these parts of our lives. We also talk about self-criticism in parenting and the importance of going on the inner journey with Jesus.   Trauma = An overwhelming experience that inspires a manner of engaging in the world around or with yourself that creates dysfunctional self-reinforcing cycles.       Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat   Matthias J. Barker https://linktr.ee/matthiasjbarker   Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@matthiasjbarker?lang=en

Today we discuss the idea of optimal deprivation. What is it, why does it matter, and how can we develop from it? How do we build optimal deprivation for kids with more than they need, and what does it look like to invite suffering and life's challenges as a way of formation to Jesus? We cover these topics and touch on many scriptures to help us. Enjoy!     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat

Today we are just giving one thought essential in your parenting journey to raise passionate Jesus followers. We cover the importance of speaking the truth in love, how kindness rewards you, how mercy is not giving somebody something they deserve, and a few more fun nuggets! Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat

Today we talk about a parent's responsibility to help their children understand who they are. We also cover the importance of attunement and what to do if you're emotionally dysregulated. Lastly, we cover five things your children must learn to understand who they are. The five things are    1.    Teach them how to care for their body.    2.    Help them identify what they are feeling or thinking about something.    3.    Teach them how to identify and ask for what they need.      4.    Help them establish healthy boundaries with others.    5.    Help them respect a healthy "no" they might receive from another person.     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat   Books: The Best of You https://amzn.to/3kwvWj1  

Today we talk about a parent's responsibility to help their children understand who they are. We also cover the importance of attunement and what to do if you're emotionally dysregulated. Lastly, we cover five things your children must learn to understand who they are. The five things are    1.    Teach them how to care for their body.    2.    Help them identify what they are feeling or thinking about something.    3.    Teach them how to identify and ask for what they need.      4.    Help them establish healthy boundaries with others.    5.    Help them respect a healthy "no" they might receive from another person.     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/legacy-builders   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Intentional Leadership Retreat: https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat   Books: The Best of You https://www.amazon.com/Best-You-Painful-Patterns-Discover/dp/1400234549/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1677013216&sr=8-1

Today we talk about how we mold and unfold our children and discover their exceptional gifts. What is our responsibility? How do we find out who God has given us to steward? We cover five questions to ask yourself in this discovery process. We also cover how to pass on a compelling faith and what it looks like to steward your children well.   The five questions to ask yourself... How do you see your child?What are you doing to steward the gift of your child?Are you listening to God about your child?Ask the Father to explain us to us.Is your faith worthy of following?  Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/legacy-builders Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today is ALL about marriage! Many have sent in questions about marriage, and we have compiled as many responses as possible in this episode. We cover the importance of date nights, how to be emotionally available to one another, and how to handle unspoken expectations with our spouse and even tithing. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we talk about a fantastic woman named Saint Thérèse of Lisieux. She resolved to live a small life, the little way of love. We cover how practicing the little way in everyday life creates an opportunity for us and our families to flourish. Saint Thérèse lived an obscure life in a secluded monastery in a small town in France and died of tuberculosis at age 24. Thérèse was acquainted with deep pain, yet she often said, "It was through the practice of these nothings that I prepared myself to become the fiancée of Jesus." Enjoy! How to practice these nothings?    1.    Be aware of the bigger story you're in    2.    How is God using these nothings to help shape you?    3.    Do you feel better than the "Little way?"    4.    What is God inviting you into today?     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Be angry, but don’t sin, but how? Many of us struggle with this question on a day-to-day basis, especially in our marriages and parenting. So today, we look at what the Bible and psychology say about anger and how we should be angry and NOT sin. We cover the six ways to be angry and not sin, which are 1. Take a think 2. Take a walk 3. Take responsibility 4. Take help 5. Take a word 6. Take grace. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we open our lives to you, the listener, and share our highs, lows, and what our biggest takeaways of 2022 have been. Phil, Diane, Brook, and Elizabeth open up, discuss the deepest pains and most significant gifts of this past year, and deposit tons of wisdom in the process. We talk about greif, why doesn't God heal, and how to be people who are always growing in Jesus especially when suffering. We also share our favorite verses, and what we've been learning. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we open our lives to you, the listener, and share our highs, lows, and what our biggest takeaways of 2022 have been. Phil, Diane, Brook, and Elizabeth open up, discuss the deepest pains and most significant gifts of this past year, and deposit tons of wisdom in the process. We talk about greif, why doesn't God heal, and how to be people who are always growing in Jesus especially when suffering. We also share our favorite verses, and what we've been learning. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Merry Christmas! Today as a gift, we want to answer your questions. Thank you so much to everyone who sent in your queries; they were good ones. We cover many topics like how to be intimate and close but constantly feeling overstimulated and over-touched, how to quiet our lives even in business, how to not parent out of shame, and parenting through deep grief. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   2021 Christmas Episode https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000545021601

Merry Christmas from Intentional! Today we dive into all the fun Christmas topics. We cover favorite Christmas traditions, how to approach the topic of Santa Clause and what perspectives are life-giving during the holiday season. We also talk about the "To-Done" lists. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   2021 Christmas Episode https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000545021601

We are back with season 10! Today Brook and Elizabeth discuss, so why in the world go to Church?!? They walk through the nine reasons Church is so important for you, your family, and your flourishing. But if we are honest, Church is messy, and people are HARD. It is so important to dispel our fantasies about ourselves, help others, carry their pathologies, dream with others, practice for heaven, and more! Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Holy Longing https://www.amazon.com/Longing-author-Ronald-Rolheiser-published/dp/B01BOECDKK/ref=sr_1_2?crid=34H1C93GOIJ0M&keywords=the+holy+longing+by+ronald+rolheiser&qid=1669761288&sprefix=The+holy+lon%2Caps%2C362&sr=8-2

Happy Thanksgiving from Intentional! Today is a special bonus episode that you DO NOT want to miss. Brook sits down with his therapist Dr. Barry Gridley to cover a myriad of topics. To mention a few, they discuss dysfunctional family systems and how family's identities change as trauma or chronic sickness ensues. They talk about the fatigue of grief work and how to do it, the four "a's that shame leads us to, and how to be an excellent spouse to someone who has experienced or is experiencing trauma. Enjoy!   Dr. Barry Gridley (Marriage & Family Therapist, D Min, LMFT) Barry brings 30 years of counseling experience to his work with individuals and couples. He has worked as a counselor in a wide variety of settings, including pastoral counseling, private practice, a drug and alcohol residential treatment center, and a community mental health center. He is a counselor because he wants to help people rebuild their lives out of the rubble of life's storms, help people raise new ways of solving life problems, help people repair the broken places in their hearts, and help them restore meaningful relationships in their lives. Dr. Barry specializes in…Anxiety, Chronic Illness, Chronic Pain, Coping Skills, Depression, Divorce, Grief, Infidelity, Marital and Premarital, Men's Issues, Relationship Issues, Sexual Abuse, Spirituality, Trauma and PTSD   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we respond to your questions! Thank you for volunteering your questions, and they are good ones. We discuss how phones can be a barrier to your children becoming the full version of themselves mentally, emotionally, socially, and spiritually. We also touch on the topic of mom burnout and how that impacts moms and their families, and lastly, we talk about how to be an intentional grandparent. How to become one, and how to talk to your parents about being intentional grandparents if they are not. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Marriage Retreat https://www.joniandfriends.org/event/california-marriage-getaway-4/   Intentional Legacy Builders Fundraiser Livestream https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpVCTTXO8lUdCxEM3IWAJFg

Today we respond to your questions! Thank you for volunteering your questions, and they are good ones. We discuss how phones can be a barrier to your children becoming the full version of themselves mentally, emotionally, socially, and spiritually. We also touch on the topic of mom burnout and how that impacts moms and their families, and lastly, we talk about how to be an intentional grandparent. How to become one, and how to talk to your parents about being intentional grandparents if they are not. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomerr   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Marriage Retreat https://www.joniandfriends.org/event/california-marriage-getaway-4/   Intentional Legacy Builders Fundraiser Livestream https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpVCTTXO8lUdCxEM3IWAJFg  

Children are growing up with anxiety, uncertainty and low self-esteem, and the Covid-19 pandemic, bringing lockdown and yet more life online, has intensified these things. Often parents can feel helpless to care for their children’s mental wellbeing. Katharine Hill, UK Director of Care for the Family, has written A Mind of Their Own to equip parents to build resilience and care well for their children’s mental wellbeing, from toddlerhood to teenage years. Backed by solid, up-to-the minute research and grounded in real life experience, she tackles everything from body confidence, dealing with disappointment to strong emotions, and gives steps to take when challenges come. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Katharine’s Book   https://www.amazon.com/Mind-Their-Own-Emotional-Post-Pandemic/dp/1910012319/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1RNOPLV9RLSA3&keywords=a+mind+of+their+own&qid=1665524219&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjk4IiwicXNhIjoiMC42NCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMDAifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=a+mind+of+their+own%2Caps%2C481&sr=8-1   Marriage Retreat   https://www.joniandfriends.org/event/california-marriage-getaway-4/

Technology is advancing at top speed, heralding a world of choice and opportunity. Sometimes we struggle to navigate each new turn ourselves. So how can we equip our children to make good choices and not only deal with all the hidden dangers but also recognize and take hold of the positive opportunities? Today's guest, Katharine Hill, talks about her book "Left to Their Own Devices," which covers just that. Enjoy!     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Katharine’s Book https://www.amazon.com/Left-Their-Own-Devices-Post-Pandemic/dp/1914553063/ref=sr_1_3?crid=1GD24DPMSJZCJ&keywords=left+to+their+own+devices&qid=1664924042&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQwIiwicXNhIjoiMC40OCIsInFzcCI6IjAuNTkifQ%3D%3D&s=books&sprefix=Left+to+th%2Cstripbooks%2C201&sr=1-3 Marriage Retreat  https://www.joniandfriends.org/event/california-marriage-getaway-4/

Today Elizabeth and Diane sit down and discuss the epic challenge behind sibling rivalry. We all experience it, but what are we to do when our children seem to attack each other with no end in sight? Do we ignore it and hope for the best? We cover these questions and a lot more. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

How are we to sustain ourselves through the whole of life? How can we build disciplines and rituals that help us become who Jesus inspires us to be? We talk through some of our favorite rituals, from spiritual to practical. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we have the honor of having Ruth Chou Simons on the show. She just released a new book entitled "Emmanuel: An Invitation to Prepare Him Room at Christmas and Always." We talk about what it looks like to be an overachieving recovering perfectionist and what to do when God has put a big vision in your heart, but the time to live it out is not now. We also cover how to have more healthy traditions around the holidays. Enjoy!     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Ruth’s New Book https://www.amazon.com/Emmanuel-Invitation-Prepare-Christmas-Always/dp/0736984968/ref=sr_1_3?crid=348VRYXWUH61W&keywords=ruth+chou+simons+books&qid=1663098445&sprefix=Ruth+chou%2Caps%2C126&sr=8-3

Today we respond to your questions! Questions like how to handle chronic illness? What do you do when you have a neurodiverse child and a neurotypical child? How do you navigate the different levels of conflict in a marriage? We cover these questions and many more. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we go through the gamut of the importance of the Sabbath in your marriage, family, and formation to Jesus. We discuss being a foster parent and how to Sabbath as a family, single parent, or single person. We also cover sabbath sex, and the gift sabbath is to your marriage now and in the future. A.J. gives us a window into his family's Sabbath and ideas for parents with young kids who don't have family close to set up intentional sabbath communities. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series     A.J.’s Book https://www.amazon.com/Subversive-Sabbath-Surprising-Power-Nonstop/dp/1587434059/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3CR8KFQCAIBUK&keywords=subversive+sabbath+the+surprising+power+of+rest+in+a+nonstop+world&qid=1661884034&sprefix=subversive+sabbath+%2Caps%2C112&sr=8-1   A.J.’s Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-faith-doubt/id1556188087

Today is a bonus episode! Elizabeth and Diane sit down and have a candid conversation about regrets in educational choices, what they love about homeschooling, and how hard it is to make sacrifices for education when there is no end. They also talk about some strategic ways to weave education and life together in a way that can bring some relief for your this school year. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we are covering the topic of one of the eight primary emotions, anger. Anger reveals what matters to us- both good and not good. Anger becomes a warning signal, compelling humble people to look inside to identify what emotion they are experiencing and why. Fear? Hurt? Sadness? Resentment? Anger is possibly the most important feeling we experience as emotional and spiritual beings because it is the first step to authentic living. It shows our yearnings and hunger for life. We will also cover five ways to start working on being aware of your anger and how to live in the power of the Spirit. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Interview with Aundi Kolber! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000537701695

Here we go again! The much anticipated part two.  Today Jerry shares eight things that he has learned after looking back over thirty years after his catastrophic loss. Jerry Sittser is the author of A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows Through Loss. Jerry has suffered catastrophic loss and is no stranger to pain. He has done an outstanding job of helping those who suffer understand the more important story of their lives. In this episode, Brook and Elizabeth sit with Jerry and have a candid conversation about suffering, loss, trauma, and the way forward. Enjoy!     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   A Grace Disguised: https://www.amazon.com/Grace-Disguised-Revised-Expanded-through/dp/0310363594/ref=sr_1_1?crid=JM8GUYJZ1TKB&keywords=a+grace+disguised+by+jerry+sittser&qid=1660079101&sprefix=A+grace+%2Caps%2C191&sr=8-1

Today we have a treat for you! Jerry Sittser is the author of A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows Through Loss. Jerry has suffered catastrophic loss and is no stranger to pain. He has done an outstanding job of helping those who suffer understand the more important story of their lives. In this episode, Brook and Elizabeth sit with Jerry and have a candid conversation about suffering, loss, trauma, and the way forward. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   A Grace Disguised: https://www.amazon.com/Grace-Disguised-Revised-Expanded-through/dp/0310363594/ref=sr_1_1?crid=JM8GUYJZ1TKB&keywords=a+grace+disguised+by+jerry+sittser&qid=1660079101&sprefix=A+grace+%2Caps%2C191&sr=8-1

Ladies! Today is for you. We are wrapping up a mini-series on gender roles in marriage. Elizabeth, Brook, and Diane cover what a woman’s part is in marriage from a biblical perspective. We cover the foundational terms of the Hebrew word “helper”  (Ezer). We talk about the dance that wives and husbands play and how to live them together. We also cover the six questions for self-exam, which are: 1. Am I cultivating a life that has space to become the type of woman Proverbs refers to? 2. Am I relying on my own power or the power of the Holy Spirit to be a Godly wife, mother, and disciple? 3. Am I begrudgingly giving my husband respect because I don’t think he deserves it? 4. Have I willingly accepted my God-given role as a partner with my husband? 5. Am I continuing to develop the gifts and passions God has entrusted to me? 6. Are you trusting God with what you can’t control, fix, or understand? Enjoy   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Tim Keller Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/timothy-keller-sermons-podcast-by-gospel-in-life/id352660924

Ladies! Today is for you. We are continuing a mini-series on gender roles in marriage. Elizabeth, Brook, and Diane cover what a woman’s part is in marriage from a biblical perspective. We cover the foundational terms of the Hebrew word “helper”  (Ezer). We talk about the dance that wives and husbands play and how to live them together. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Tim Keller Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/timothy-keller-sermons-podcast-by-gospel-in-life/id352660924

We are continuing a mini-series on gender roles in marriage. Today Elizabeth, Brook, and Phil cover what a man's part is in marriage from a biblical perspective. We cover six things that husbands need to be aware of and focus on in their God-given role and so much more. The six things are 1. Are you serving your family currently? 2. Are you teachable? 3. Does your schedule indicate that your family is a top priority in time, energy, and focus? 4. Are you taking the initiative to lead your wife spiritually by sharing the things God is teaching you? 5. Are you a good listener? 6. Are you accepting equal responsibility for the children? Even if your wife is better at some aspects of parenting, your children are your responsibility. Your wife needs a partner who willingly shares the load with her. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we are starting a mini-series on gender roles in marriage. Recently Brook was asked to do a teaching on the topic of gender roles in marriage, and this launched us into the idea of talking more about the subject. We all have different expectations coming into marriages, whether from media, our family of origin, or even our other friend's marriages. We will cover what did God initially intended for gender roles in marriage? How have men and women corrupted that good? What has Jesus done to redeem gender roles? We will also cover six questions for husbands to ask themselves and six questions for wives to ask themselves to see how this is playing out in their marriage. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we have a BIG family update, but that’s not all! The team discusses how to discern God’s will for you and your family and the five ways to live led. The five ways are...1. Surrender 2. Reading Scripture 3. Counsel 4. Open Doors 5. Prayer. We also cover how to be the skin of God to our friends and family and how to be with your people during times of great suffering. Enjoy!     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Books Mentioned:   A Grace Disguised (Jerry Sittser) https://www.amazon.com/Grace-Disguised-Revised-Expanded-through/dp/0310363594/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1655222253&sr=8-1

Today we talk about Perfectionism and its cousin Idealism. How does that play out in our lives and marriage? Is Idealism that big of a deal? What about being a perfectionist? Can that hurt me or those I love? Carl Jung said, "Every form of addiction is bad, whether the narcotic is alcohol or morphine or idealism." So how are we to live differently and undo some of the cycles of pain that perfectionism and idealism cause? We cover three ways to begin healing your marriage and home with Jesus at the center and what happens to children that grow up in a perfectionist home. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Today we have C.S. Fritz on the show! Casey is an author, pastor, illustrator, and a phenomenal human! How do we give our greatest dreams over to God? How do we recover from intense trauma to not pass on our pain to our children? We talk through the importance of church for your family, how passivity destroy, and how God can heal and redeem your life even in spite of your pain and trauma. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   Check out C.S. Fritz https://www.csfritz.art   Check out Albatross Book Co https://www.albatrossbookco.com

Today we respond to YOUR questions! We cover what if you're struggling with self-worth as a parent? How to become a better man for your wife and children? How does God parent us? What is overexposing our kids in our current time and culture? We cover these questions and more. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

We are living in an attention crisis! What does this mean for us, our families, and our culture? How does our distraction impact our marriage and our children? Does your child know that you care for them more than your phone? Today we cover the four questions your children are asking, even if you know it or not. We cover how we can undo the cycle of distraction and how we can answer the deep questions your child's soul that need to be answered. The questions they are asking are 1. Do you see me? 2. Do you care that I'm here? 3. Am I enough for you, or do you need me to be better in some way? 4. Can I tell that I'm special to you by how you look at me?   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series   The Blessing Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000556388829   https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000557445138

Make no doubt: trauma shakes up our world and forces us to take another look at our cherished goals and dreams. We tend to rely on a particular set of beliefs and assumptions about the benevolence and controllability of the world and God, and traumatic events typically shatter that worldview as we become shaken from our ordinary perceptions. Today we walk through seven areas of growth that spring from adversity and how God uses our suffering and trauma to give us what we need most. The seven areas are: 1 Greater appreciation of life, 2 Greater appreciation, and strengthening of close relationships, 3 Increased compassion, 4 The identification of new possibilities or a purpose in life, 5 Greater awareness of personal strengths, 6 Creative growth, 7 Enhanced spiritual development. Enjoy!     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

It’s out!!!! The Intentional Film Series launches today! For quite some time it has been the dream of the Intentional to be able to invite anyone and everyone to learn how to raise the next generation of passionate Jesus followers. Though none of us claim to know it all— not even close!— this message has been the heartbeat of our calling for over four decades. Starting with very little understanding of how to pass a vibrant, compelling faith on to our children, we have now spent the better part of our lives listening, learning, researching, studying, and practicing what we teach in “The Intentional Film Series”. Will you join the generations of Jesus followers who have taken God’s words seriously— to intentionally make disciples of your own children, who in turn will make disciples of the next generation? Will you teach your sons and daughters to know Jesus intimately and follow Him faithfully? We hope The Intentional Film Series, Raising Passionate Jesus Followers, will help in what is your greatest calling. Enjoy!     Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   GET: The Intentional Film Series 50% off for the first month! https://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series

Of all the episodes we have done, this one potentially has the most significant impact on you and your family. Today we discuss the Biblical Blessing. What it is, why it matters and how it can change the course of your and your family's life. We cover five ways to give a Biblical blessing and what happens when you do. We walk through setting up an atmosphere of blessing in your home and how silence communicates confusion. The truth is your children will become who you tell them you see them becoming, so we need to know how to bless them in a way that profoundly impacts the future of their lives and God's kingdom. Enjoy!   Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Books Mentioned   https://www.amazon.com/Blessing-Giving-Gift-Unconditional-Acceptance/dp/0785229051/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?crid=3E5DQC3ZQK43Y&keywords=the+blessing+john+trent&qid=1649196554&sprefix=the+blessing+trent%2Caps%2C215&sr=8-2

Of all the episodes we have done, this one potentially has the most significant impact on you and your family. Today we discuss the Biblical Blessing. What it is, why it matters and how it can change the course of your and your family's life. We cover five ways to give a Biblical blessing and what happens when you do. We walk through setting up an atmosphere of blessing in your home and how silence communicates confusion. The truth is your children will become who you tell them you see them becoming, so we need to know how to bless them in a way that profoundly impacts the future of their lives and God's kingdom. Enjoy!  Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Books Mentioned   https://www.amazon.com/Blessing-Giving-Gift-Unconditional-Acceptance/dp/0785229051/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?crid=3E5DQC3ZQK43Y&keywords=the+blessing+john+trent&qid=1649196554&sprefix=the+blessing+trent%2Caps%2C215&sr=8-2

They're back! Some of our favorite people on the planet are sitting down with us again today on the show. Dino and Ashley Petrone are making the world better through their marriage, their design, and their intentionality with Jesus. Their new book is entitled Designed to Last: Our Journey of building an Intentional home, growing in faith, and finding joy in the in-between. This is more then just a book on marriage book it is a design guide! We cover design, fathers serving their families, discipline, and when do you need to relational right sizing. Enjoy!  Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Ashley + Dino’s book https://www.amazon.com › Designe...Designed to Last: Our Journey of Building an Intentional Home ...   Follow their story: @arrowsandbow @dinojpetrone   Joie Inn @joieinn

Today we have Greta Eskridge on the show! She has written another wonderful book entitled 100 Days of Adventure. We talk through how to connect with your teenagers, "not despising the day of small things," and how to be intentional with your kids and live out a new story. Greta also shares some practical ways to adventure with your kids to create long-lasting and deep connections.  Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Forest Home link. : https://bit.ly/3CgfQyo  The discount is $500 for new families and and additional $50 off if you use my discount code: greta22   The release date for Greta’s new book, 100 Days of Adventure,  has been pushed out to May 3rd. Pre-order 100 days of Adventure  here Secure pre-order gifts for 100 Days of Adventure here   Link to Greta’s first book, Adventuring Together, https://www.amazon.com/Adventuring-Together-Connections-Lasting-Memories/dp/0785231366/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=   Link to Greta’s website,  http://www.gretaeskridge.com/   Link to Greta’s feed here, https://www.instagram.com/maandpamodern/

Live Q+R! Today we answer as many questions of yours as possible. We recently sent out a request to ask you, the listener, what would be most helpful for us to talk about? Today we tackle as many of your questions as we can. Enjoy!  Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Episodes Mentioned:   Interview with Aundi. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000537701695   Diane and Elizabeth episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000544293827 Show notes:  Live Q+R! Today we answer as many questions of yours as possible. We recently sent out a request to ask you, the listener, what would be most helpful for us to talk about? Today we tackle as many of your questions as we can. Enjoy! 

Atten: Husbands and Fathers! This episode is for you. Today Brook and Elizabeth sit down and have an HONEST conversation about how husbands play a KEY role in shaping the motherhood experiences for their wives and can be intentional with their children. They talk through what sacrifices, time, and energy it takes to support your wife and live out 1 Peter 3:7. They also give 5 practical ways to support your wife in the early years of your kid's life.  Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Atten: Husbands and Fathers! This episode is for you. Today Brook and Elizabeth sit down and have an HONEST conversation about how husbands play a KEY role in shaping the motherhood experiences for their wives and can be intentional with their children. They talk through what sacrifices, time, and energy it takes to support your wife and live out 1 Peter 3:7. They also give 5 practical ways to support your wife in the early years of your kid's life. 

Today Elizabeth and Diane sit down and have an honest conversation about the loss of dreams. What do we do when some of our greatest dreams are on the verge of extinction? Elizabeth shares from her life and current struggles and what she is learning around the loss of dreams, acceptance, and how to move forward despite challenges. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Birdie’s Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000450191917

Today Elizabeth and Diane sit down and have a candid conversation about the genuine struggle of never feeling that you are enough and being overwhelmed in the routine of life, but what are your M.I.T.’s? How does the Bible say we can buy back time? Some helpful tools to practically plan our lives and days to thrive. We also touch on how hurry is detrimental to a Godly attitude. We hope this blesses you. Enjoy!  Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog

How do we parent if we have never had healthy models? What do we do if we have been wounded and traumatized and are now parents? How do we parent despite our brokenness? Today we talk through four ways we can parent despite our trauma. It is possible! The Bible speaks to this very thing, and there is hope for all through the Holy Spirit. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog

What do I do with my feelings of inadequacy as a mom? What is real guilt versus false guilt? Today Elizabeth, Diane, and Brook talk through the cultural pressures, social pressures, and personal pressures of what mom life is really like at times. We have three ways to help you combat lies and follow the spirit in your endeavor to raise passionate Jesus followers. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog

Many of you have asked us how to navigate this conversation with family, friends, and acquaintances. Jesus was clear about the way of love, and this isn't the first time in history when there have been strong disagreements. We talk through three ways to have these conversations and prioritize the way of Jesus and others. We touch on the need to turn to each other, not against each other, to hear each other with compassion, not judgment, and we need to sacrificially help each other through this challenging time, not withdraw into self-centered seclusion. Enjoy!   Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Episode Mentioned https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000542922403

Merry Christmas from the Intentional team! We hope you're ready to laugh! Today we walk through some of our favorite Christmas traditions and how we attempt to keep everything centered on Jesus. Also, we have a gift for you the listener. We will talk through our favorite tradition of all, and we have put together a detailed guide on how to do this Christmas Story tradition with your family. (details in our show notes, or head to our website) intentionalparents.org Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   A Christmas Gift to you!!! Intentionalparents.org (enter your email and we will send you the Christmas Story instructions)   Episode Mentioned https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000542922403

We are all being formed but by what? How do we as adult humans allow Jesus to form us in the midst and craziness of raising a family? Today Elizabeth and Diane sit down and talk through the reality of spiritual formation in motherhood. What is needed to be an effective parent and do we have the practices in place to sustain the needs of those in our care? How do we come into close worship to God? What is bringing you into the presence of God? This, and a lot more! Enjoy!  Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org   Donate: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate   Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Books Mentioned:   The Life You’ve Always Wanted https://www.amazon.com/Life-Youve-Always-Wanted-audiobook/dp/B0006IU7TA/ref=sr_1_3?crid=2WGLS5W60UAN2&keywords=the+life+you+always+wanted+by+john+ortberg&qid=1638905575&sprefix=The+life+you+always+%2Caps%2C221&sr=8-3   Domestic Monastery https://www.amazon.com/Domestic-Monastery-audiobook/dp/B0815TK51L/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=domestic+monastery&qid=1638910608&s=audible&sr=1-1

Today we tackle the topic of screen time. How do we rest from technology when a lot of our work is linked to our devices? Is it ok to give devices to toddlers? What are healthy boundaries? We cover the importance of boredom and how essential it is for creativity. We walk through our digital rule of life and how we can redeem the technological moment we are in. Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Books Mentioned: Tech Wise Family Digital Rule of Life (Brook & Elizabeth’s)  https://drive.google.com/file/d/1gZBFltgr4cwJWoGCGT74MB14_X9XQGeL/view?usp=drivesdk 

Have you ever had to confront someone in your family of origin or extended family about something they said or did that hurt you? Has this ever come to a boiling point around the holidays? We have and want to say we TOTALLY get it. So in hopes to help you the listener, we recently all sat down together and decided to capture a conversation about some family conflict we recently had just worked through. In this episode we will walk through what the conflict was and how we as a family worked it through to the other side, fully and completely resolving the issue. We will be sharing  the 7 steps we discovered and used to resolve the conflict and we share some eye opening stories along the way. Enjoy!  Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Podcast Episode: Interview with Jon Tyson https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000468754403  Miles Albritton:  Got it! I’ll get this scheduled!

Today Diane shares her heart on the healing power of our words. In case you missed Part 1: An Occasional Series: Words Matter (words heal) Part 1 Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog

Today we will be answering more of your questions! In our current cultural climate we find ourselves faced with challenging topics to discuss with our family and children. What are we to do? Do we avoid? Do we put our head in the ground? What does the Bible say? And how do we have an open culture of communication in our homes? We cover these questions and many more in today’s episode! Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Books: A War of loves https://www.amazon.com/War-Loves-Unexpected-Activist-Discovering/dp/0310538106/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=war+of+loves&qid=1634076204&sr=8-3   Episodes: Preston Sprinkle https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000466724147   Greta Eskridge https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000517073820

Today we will be answering more of your questions! In our current cultural climate we find ourselves faced with challenging topics to discuss with our family and children. What are we to do? Do we avoid? Do we put our head in the ground? What does the Bible say? And how do we have an open culture of communication in our homes? We cover these questions and many more in today’s episode! Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Books: A War of loves https://www.amazon.com/War-Loves-Unexpected-Activist-Discovering/dp/0310538106/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=war+of+loves&qid=1634076204&sr=8-3   Episodes: Preston Sprinkle https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000466724147   Greta Eskridge https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-parents-podcast/id1462206659?i=1000517073820

Today we interview the brilliant Aundi Kolber! Aundi the author or Try Softer: a fresh approach to move us out of anxiety, stress and survival mode and into a life of connection and joy. She also JUST released a companion book called Try Softer: a guided journey. In a world that preaches a “try harder” gospel—just keep going, keep hustling, keep pretending we’re all fine—we’re left exhausted, overwhelmed, and so numb to our lives. If we’re honest, we’ve been over-functioning for so long, we can’t even imagine another way. How else will things get done? How else will we survive?   It doesn’t have to be this way.   Aundi Kolber believes that we don’t have to white-knuckle our way through life. In her debut book, Try Softer, she’ll show us how God specifically designed our bodies and minds to work together to process our stories and work through obstacles. Through the latest psychology, practical clinical exercises, and her own personal story, Aundi equips and empowers us to connect us to our truest self and truly live. This is the “try softer” life.   We talk about parenting in our current climate of burnout and anxiety, how to stay within our window of tollorance, how to recognize when we are outside of it and how to acknowledge our own trauma and begin to heal.   Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog Books:   Try Softer https://amzn.to/3AdeXnC   The Try Softer Guided Journey https://amzn.to/3mrjXju

Here at Intentional we have put together something we are calling “An Occasional Series”. In these series we are going to have various members of the Intentional team share life lessons, wisdom, and encouragement to help you along the journey of life. Today we are going to start with a small series on the impact and power of words from our beloved Diane. Enjoy!  Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog

Today is part 2 of a a Q + A session we started last week. And this weeks episode we talk about the power of agreed-upon expectations, how we need to stop living under the pressure of “shoulds” An amazing power of what happens when we are winsome in the way that we talk in our marriages. Enjoy! Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Resources Mentioned:   Tim Keller Podcasts on Marriage and Gender Rolls: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/timothy-keller-sermons-podcast-by-gospel-in-life/id352660924i=1000522332522 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/timothy-keller-sermons-podcast-by-gospel-in-life/id352660924i=1000522636818   The Meaning of Marriage: By Tim Keller https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Marriage-Facing-Complexities-Commitment/dp/1594631875

We’re back! Season 6 is here! Today we dive into all of your wonderful questions…and there are A LOT of them. Join us as we cover as many as possible!  Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog   Resources Mentioned:   Tim Keller Podcasts on Marriage and Gender Rolls: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/timothy-keller-sermons-podcast-by-gospel-in-life/id352660924i=1000522332522 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/timothy-keller-sermons-podcast-by-gospel-in-life/id352660924i=1000522636818 The Meaning of Marriage: By Tim Keller https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Marriage-Facing-Complexities-Commitment/dp/1594631875

Listen up fathers! Today’s episode is all for you. We walk through 6 things you need to be an intentional father in our time. We share stories of failure and success and share the global impact of becoming a man who grasps a full vision of fatherhood. Enjoy!  Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give  Blog: https://www.intentionalparents.org/blog  

Today we talk about the power of God‘s presence with us! Have you ever felt like all you can do is use all your willpower to change your circumstances or hardships? Have you ever tried to be OK by forcing your will? Today we talk about how Psalm 23 gives us more insight into how we can live in the midst of a messy life and experience peace and joy!  Follow us on instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser @philmcomer @dianewcomer   Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Passionate-Jesus-Followers-Intentional/dp/0310347777   Website: intentionalparents.org Support: https://www.intentionalparents.org/give  Blog: https://www.intentionalparents.org/blog