IN IT with Jordan Harper and Ashley Buckler

If you've ever sat in your car and cried from the overwhelm (like Jordan did this morning), you already know what mental load is. Paige Connell built a loyal following for giving women the words for what they're carrying. In this episode, she breaks down why the mental load never feels shorter, why "just tell me what to do" doesn't actually help, and the step-by-step process she used to redistribute the work in her own marriage, including a spreadsheet, a two-hour couch conversation, and the 18 months it took to get it right. She also gets into why making the invisible labor visible matters more than any individual task, what it actually means to feel seen, and how to set minimum standards so you and your partner are finally working from the same page. This one's worth clearing your head for. To enter the giveaway: Screenshot your favorite episode & share and link it to your stories and tag @in.it.podcast on Instagram! You'll Win: $1,000 worth of Barefaced products, a year's worth of Toning Pads, and some of our favorite products including red light therapy treatments and items we hand-picked with you in mind (a $3K+ value)! Find Paige Connell on Instagram, TikTok, LinkedIn or her website. Follow Jordan Harper on Instagram Follow Ashley Buckler on Instagram

Consider this your handwritten thank you note for an amazing first week of IN IT. New to Barefaced? Start here: ⁠Take the Barefaced AI Skin Analysis⁠ Your simplified skincare routine: ⁠Shop the Core Four⁠ ⁠⁠ ⁠Follow Jordan Harper on Instagram⁠ ⁠Follow Ashley Buckler on Instagram⁠

Before you book that laser, read this. Jordan has spent the last decade experiencing the treatment room from both perspectives: as a provider and patient, and the biggest mistake she consistently sees is jumping into in-office treatments before the skin is properly prepped. In this episode, she breaks down the ideal order of operations, starting with building a consistent daily routine and working your way up to more advanced treatments like CO2 lasers. She also unpacks what “collagen banking” really means, how microneedling actually works, and why choosing the right provider is ultimately more important than choosing the right treatment. And yes, a good provider should sometimes tell you no. We're getting into all of it. New to Barefaced? Start here: Take the Barefaced AI Skin Analysis Your simplified skincare routine: Shop the Core Four Hydrolyzed Collagen study Follow Jordan Harper on Instagram Follow Ashley Buckler on Instagram

If you've ever looked at your husband and felt something closer to resentment than romance, you're not broken. Dr. Tracy is a couples therapist and psychologist who has spent nearly 20 years sitting across from couples with young kids, busy careers, and the creeping feeling that this wasn't what they signed up for. In this episode, she gets into the patterns that keep couples stuck, why resentment isn't a red flag but contempt is, and the three questions you can ask every night that replace years of miscommunication. We're taking notes. Dr. Tracy’s Website Dr. Tracy on Instagram Dr. Tracy’s relationship pattern quiz Dr. Tracy's Book: I didn’t sign up for this Eve Rodsky’s Fair Play Deck Follow Jordan Harper Follow Ashley Buckler

You've tried the products and treatments. You're not seeing results. Here's why. Jordan Harper built Barefaced around one observation: women were spending real money on treatments without the foundation their skin actually needed first. In this episode, she tells her full story, from a pivotal dermatologist appointment at 15 years old to launching a skincare brand out of her garage while six months pregnant, and breaks down the Core Four: the exfoliant, antioxidant, retinoid, and sunscreen that make everything else work. No guesswork. No gimmicks. Just skin that functions. New to Barefaced? Start here: Take the Barefaced AI Skin Analysis Your simplified skincare routine: Shop the Core Four Follow Jordan Harper on Instagram Follow Ashley Buckler on Instagram

You're in your 30s or 40s. You're building something, raising someone, and trying to take care of yourself at the same time. The questions are piling up: about your health, your hormones, your relationships, your ambition. Most days, no one in the room has the right answers. IN IT is where those questions get taken seriously. Jordan Harper is a board-certified nurse practitioner, founder and CEO of Barefaced, and a mom of four. Ashley Buckler is Barefaced's Chief Brand Officer and the kind of person who blends ambition with romanticizing life. Together, they bring in leading experts — and occasionally each other — to work through the topics that actually matter in this chapter: hormones, mental load, marriage, mindset, perimenopause, parenting, ambition, and everything in between. No highlight reels. No hustle culture. No toxic optimism. Just honest conversations and better information, so you can move through this season of life with more clarity and less noise. These are foundational years. Make them count.