Drop The Shades

What if the deepest trauma in your life became the reason you could heal others? Dr. Robert Bleck shares his harrowing story of enduring years of physical and emotional abuse as a child and how that pain shaped his path to becoming a therapist and professor. Through decades of work, he developed Source Completion Therapy, a process designed to help people finally release the trauma they’ve carried for years. In this conversation, he breaks down how unresolved pain turns into addiction, anxiety, and destructive patterns, and how confronting the source can lead to real, lasting healing. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why trauma doesn’t disappear and where it actually goes How pain turns into addictions, anxiety, and toxic patterns The 3-phase process to truly heal and reclaim your life If you’ve ever wondered whether real healing is possible, this episode might change how you see your past.

What if the key to healing isn’t doing more, but slowing down? In this episode of Drop The Shades, Dr. Emily shares her journey from years of autoimmune disease and medication to finding true healing through functional medicine and lifestyle change. In this conversation with Joseph Elisha, she breaks down how stress, inflammation, and everyday habits silently shape our health and how small, intentional shifts can completely transform it. In this episode, you’ll learn: - Why stress is one of the biggest hidden drivers of chronic illness - How small daily habits create massive long term health changes - The power of “pausing” to activate your body’s natural healing If you’ve been running on empty and searching for real answers, this episode is your invitation to slow down, tune in, and start healing from within.

What if the cracks in your life are the very thing that makes you valuable? In this reflective episode of Drop The Shades, Joseph Elisha explores the Japanese philosophy of kintsugi, the art of repairing broken pottery with gold. Through this powerful metaphor, he reframes pain, failure, and hardship as essential parts of the human story rather than flaws to hide. Instead of chasing perfection, Joseph invites listeners to see their scars, struggles, and setbacks as proof of resilience and growth. In this episode you will hear about: • Why our culture’s obsession with perfection keeps us stuck • The meaning behind the Japanese philosophies of kintsugi and wabi sabi • How embracing your “cracks” can transform shame into strength If you have ever felt broken, this conversation offers a new perspective. Your story, your scars, and your healing may be the gold that makes you whole.

What if recovery is not about willpower, but about belonging? In this powerful episode of Drop the Shades, host Joseph Elisha sits down with Beck Gee, CEO of Breathe Life Healing Centers in Los Angeles, to explore a journey shaped by addiction, secrecy, gender identity, faith, and ultimately, profound self-acceptance. From growing up in an alcoholic home to navigating sobriety, depression, and coming out as trans later in life, Beck shares how community became the lifeline that made healing possible. Together, they unpack the layers of trauma, the cost of hiding, the courage it takes to live authentically, and the transformative role of collective support in long term recovery. Key themes include: - The hidden impact of childhood trauma and family secrecy - Addiction as both escape and connection - Gender identity, faith, and the fear of losing community - Why healing happens through belonging, not isolation

What if the person you’ve been searching for is you? In this first episode of Drop The Shades, host Joseph Elisha invites you into a quiet moment of reflection. When life gets loud with responsibilities, expectations, and constant noise, it’s easy to drift away from who you truly are. This conversation is about slowing down, getting honest with yourself, and beginning the journey back home. Instead of chasing perfection or productivity, Joseph shares how simple moments of silence, honesty, and self-awareness can help you reconnect with your inner voice and rediscover what really matters. In this episode, you’ll explore: - Why we slowly drift away from ourselves - How silence and honesty help us reconnect - Small boundaries that bring you back to who you are Sometimes coming home to yourself begins with one honest question and one quiet pause. If you’ve been feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure where to start, this episode is your invitation to dim the noise and return to yourself.

This podcast is evolving. In this special episode, Joseph shares the story behind the transition to Drop The Shades—a new direction focused on helping you quiet the noise, reset your nervous system, and find calm in a chaotic world. Drawing from decades in the operating room, Joseph introduces a deeper, more personal format built around stories, reflection, and practical tools to help you step out of overwhelm and reconnect with yourself. New episodes every Friday, starting this week.

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha shares a reflective monologue on how we think about the mind—as both a noun and a verb. Drawing from personal experience, everyday stressors, and the teachings of Thich Nhat Hanh, he probes the labels we apply to our thoughts and feelings. Joseph explores the practice he calls “dropping the shades,” a method of pausing and resetting through nostalgic reconnection. He explains how this mental reset—whether through music, memory, or a moment of solitude—can help us observe our inner storms without becoming them.    Key Points From This Episode:  [00:00:00] Introduction: the concept of the mind as noun vs. verb  [00:01:30] How internal labeling shapes self-perception  [00:02:55] The metaphor of the garden and choosing what we “water”  [00:03:30] Introducing “dropping the shades” as a coping mechanism  [00:04:05] Navigating emotional rapids and life’s stressors  [00:04:21] Using nostalgia to reset and re-center  [00:05:45] Operating room metaphor: connecting, pausing, and returning  [00:06:40] Neuroscience behind nostalgia’s effect on the brain  [00:07:15] Individual ways to “drop the shades” and reconnect  [00:07:40] Closing reflections and invitation to apply the concept    Joseph Elisha on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-elisha-m-d-a9b7aab    Subscribe to this feed so you don't miss new episodes! 

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha sits down with pastel artist Robin Frisella, PSA-MP, IAPS/MC, whose still life paintings evoke nostalgia, serenity, and emotional depth. Robin shares how a casual invitation to a pastel class ignited her lifelong artistic journey, transforming a quiet post-childraising chapter into a vibrant second act. The discussion touches on the emotional processes behind her art, the meaning she finds in vintage objects, and how her work provides a calming experience for others. They also explore themes of creative authenticity, family support, and art’s healing potential.    Key Points From This Episode:  [00:00:00] Joseph Elisha recalls discovering Robin Frisella’s work in Boston.  [00:02:38] Robin shares how a pastel class began her journey as an artist.  [00:04:15] Transition from working at a copy center to painting full time.  [00:06:56] Childhood love for drawing and early creative expression.  [00:07:32] Why she was drawn to still life over landscapes or portraits.  [00:09:05] Favorite objects to paint and their nostalgic emotional weight.  [00:10:05] The story behind her mother-in-law’s butter churn painting.  [00:11:28] How antique shops inspire her artistic compositions.  [00:12:55] Capturing emotional resonance through light and setup.  [00:14:31] Building emotional connection even with commissioned pieces.  [00:15:41] Responding to whether art is created or uncovered.  [00:16:37] Visualizing the final product and evolving it through the process.  [00:17:50] Attachment to her work and meeting collectors at shows.  [00:19:05] Managing pressure and how deadlines can sharpen creativity.  [00:19:46] Pastel as a challenging but expressive medium.  [00:21:21] Leaving areas unfinished and the beauty of imperfection.  [00:22:13] Viewers' emotional responses and what they take away.  [00:23:36] Memories from her childhood and their influence on her work.  [00:25:34] Using painting as a form of emotional reset during stress.  [00:26:44] The role and emotional pull of her signature dark backgrounds.  [00:27:42] Connection to old master traditions and family support.  [00:29:10] If not art, her love for interior decorating.  [00:29:49] Her children’s support and how her art evolved over time.  [00:31:07] Losing awareness of the world while painting.  [00:31:48] Becoming more open and confident through art.  [00:32:45] Introversion, public interaction, and creative paradoxes.  [00:33:53] What she wants future generations to take from her work.  [00:34:49] Dealing with doubt and finding reassurance through audience feedback.  [00:36:02] The only critique she’s ever received and staying true to her style.  [00:37:02] Why she’d still paint even if she never sold another piece.    Learn more about Robin: https://www.robinfrisella.com/    Joseph Elisha on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-elisha-m-d-a9b7aab    Subscribe to this feed so you don't miss new episodes! 

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha speaks with 12-year-old Madelyn Quinn and her parents, about Madelyn’s life as a heart transplant recipient. From enduring multiple surgeries in infancy to becoming a world-ranked junior golfer, Madelyn shares her powerful story of resilience, gratitude, and connection with her donor family. The conversation explores medical challenges, family dynamics, emotional healing, and the lasting impact of organ donation. Join us for a deeply human conversation about strength, purpose, and the extraordinary gift of life. Key Points From This Episode: [00:00:00] Dr. Elisha shares a personal experience with organ procurement.[00:03:30] Madelyn introduces herself and reflects on life with a donor heart.[00:07:29] Madelyn and her parents recount the emotional and medical journey.[00:14:37] Madelyn shares her "superpowers" and passion for golf.[00:18:58] The Quinn family meets their donor family for the first time.[00:24:19] Reflections on honoring the donor's legacy and the responsibility of receiving life.[00:29:52] Madelyn answers whether she would choose a different path if she could.[00:34:17] Dad discusses how Madelyn’s journey led him to a new career in transplant innovation.[00:38:30] The family recalls the exact moment they received the transplant call.[00:43:12] Madelyn shares her fears—medical and otherwise—and how she manages them.[00:50:04] The importance of organ donation and Madelyn’s message to skeptics.[00:54:59] Reflections on faith, gratitude, and the unseen hands that guide their path.[00:56:57] Dr. Elisha confirms his own decision to become an organ donor after hearing Madelyn’s story. Learn more about OneLegacy: https://www.onelegacy.org/wp/ Joseph Elisha on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-elisha-m-d-a9b7aab Subscribe to this feed so you don't miss new episodes!

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha welcomes back Dr. Joseph Scherger, a leading voice in longevity and functional medicine. The conversation explores the fundamentals of anti-aging strategies—from supplements like metformin, NAD, and resveratrol to stem cell infusions and photobiomodulation. Dr. Scherger shares his insights on healthspan vs. lifespan, discusses cutting-edge therapies including plasma exchange and senolytics, and emphasizes the transformative power of diet, exercise, and sleep. Tune in for a deep look at accessible and advanced approaches to staying healthy longer and aging smarter.  ______________________________________________________________________    [00:00:00] Introduction of Dr. Joseph Scherger and focus on anti-aging medicine  [00:02:02] The rise and plateau of healthspan vs. lifespan in modern society  [00:04:00] Importance of nutrition, environmental toxins, and food quality  [00:06:50] Exploring supplements like Metformin, NAD, and resveratrol  [00:09:06] Discussion on Rapamycin and its mixed results in human longevity  [00:12:28] Role of senolytics and clearing zombie cells for healthy aging  [00:15:56] Epigenetic clocks and tracking biological vs. chronological age  [00:17:00] Light therapy and its growing role in treating neurodegenerative conditions  [00:18:34] Dr. Scherger’s five most cost-effective longevity strategies  [00:21:06] Quality and timing of supplement intake  [00:23:48] Stem cell therapies: regulation, sourcing, and medical potential  [00:27:29] Use of PRP and stem cells for joint injuries like rotator cuff tears  [00:30:08] How stem cells detect and repair damage in the body  [00:31:25] Why insurance doesn’t cover stem cell therapy and associated costs  [00:32:14] GLP-1 drugs like Ozempic and Monjaro and their role in weight loss and longevity  [00:33:43] Philosophical reflections on extending human lifespan  [00:36:22] Impact of hip fractures on elderly health outcomes  [00:38:57] The four cornerstones to aging well: bones, muscles, gut biome, and brain  [00:40:34] Epigenetics and lifestyle’s role in gene expression and aging  [00:43:56] Can older adults in their 60s and 70s benefit from starting now?  [00:46:02] Rise of longevity clinics and elite interventions in anti-aging medicine 

In this episode, I take a hard look at the cost of political assassination — not just in the moment, but in the waves it sends through history and society. From the shot that killed Archduke Franz Ferdinand and set off World War I, to the attempt on Donald Trump that only deepened his support, we see a pattern: violence doesn’t silence a movement, it often strengthens it. What drives a person to believe a bullet is more powerful than dialogue? And what does it say about us, as a nation once seen as the standard of democracy, when we accept violence as a form of speech? This is a conversation about what we lose when dialogue dies — and why we have to do better…

In this episode (upon reflection on an embarrassing moment at home!), Dr.  Elisha explores why silence unnerves us, why we drown it out with constant noise, and why stillness may be the very thing we need most. From Susan Cain’s Quiet and the overlooked power of introverts, to the hush that falls in the operating room when a patient goes under anesthesia, Joseph reflects on what silence reveals, what we run from, and how to reclaim it. With humor, honesty, and practical steps, he invites listeners to stop running, sit with themselves, and discover the clarity, presence, and freedom waiting on the other side of stillness.

In this episode, Dr. Joseph Elisha explores the Japanese art of Kintsugi—the practice of repairing broken pottery with gold—and how it mirrors the way life breaks us, heals us, and makes us more whole than before. Through stories, reflection, and urgency for our times, he challenges us to rethink our scars not as flaws to hide, but as the very seams that make us strong, valuable, and beautifully human.

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In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha speaks with Anyse Smith — educator, public interest attorney, and fierce advocate for the unhoused. Once in the throes of addiction and homelessness, Anyse recounts the turning point at a Riverside motel that launched her into recovery, community service, and ultimately law school. She shares hard-earned lessons on trust, shame, healing, and the underestimated humanity within addiction. With warmth and clarity, Anyse details how her experiences shape her legal work and her run for city council, offering a rare window into the complex realities of substance abuse, recovery, and redemption. ____________________________________________________________ [00:00:00] Intro [00:02:59] Anyse describes her California upbringing and her move to the Coachella Valley. [00:04:11] She outlines the progression of her addiction and how trauma and loss contributed to her substance use. [00:08:54] Anyse explains how addiction led her to unemployment, couch-surfing, and ultimately being unhoused. [00:12:44] She reflects on the deception, guilt, and family fallout common in addiction. [00:17:50] Anyse recalls the moment she hit rock bottom in a Riverside motel. [00:21:15] She discusses her early recovery, including two relapses before committing to sobriety. [00:23:57] Her first night at the Coachella Valley Rescue Mission and the reality of shelter life. [00:27:40] Why the Gateway Program at CVRM was transformative for her recovery. [00:29:43] Anyse shares how faith slowly returned to her life and recovery journey. [00:31:04] She reflects on initial judgments and how hearing others’ stories reshaped her outlook. [00:34:22] Why sobriety remains her greatest and hardest-won accomplishment. [00:35:29] How her relationship with her father evolved, including his own shift into addiction medicine. [00:37:42] The societal perception of homelessness and the importance of hearing individual stories. [00:40:49] How her law practice serves formerly incarcerated and unhoused clients. [00:43:04] How her church and singing community supported her reintegration. [00:44:45] The moment she’s most proud of — and the mindset she’s least proud of. [00:46:15] Why she wouldn’t change her past, despite the pain. [00:47:17] What she’d say to her late mother if given the chance. [00:48:28] Her run for Palm Desert City Council and why she believes lived experience belongs in office.

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha talks with 17-year-old wheelchair tennis champion Charlie Cooper. From being born with spina bifida to ranking #1 in the U.S. and #3 globally in junior wheelchair tennis, Charlie shares the challenges and triumphs that shaped his path. They explore how a chance encounter at a guitar shop led to a life-changing discovery of tennis, the emotional and physical toll of early surgeries, his deep-rooted Christian faith, and his mission to inspire others. Charlie opens up about family dynamics, sacrifices, and his hopes beyond sports.  ____________________________________________________________   [00:00:00] Intro  [00:01:14] Charlie’s background and diagnosis with spina bifida  [00:02:55] Discovering tennis through a chance meeting at a guitar shop  [00:04:36] The role of faith in Charlie’s mindset and resilience  [00:06:05] Explanation of spina bifida and its effects on Charlie’s mobility  [00:08:01] Impact of Charlie’s condition on his younger sister  [00:12:24] Early surgeries and hospital experiences  [00:17:23] First time trying wheelchair tennis and initial reluctance  [00:21:03] Emotional freedom and equality found on the court  [00:24:24] Charlie’s realization of his competitive potential  [00:27:08] Winning the US Open and reflecting on his journey  [00:31:16] Handling defeat with gratitude and maintaining faith  [00:34:30] Goals for transitioning to professional play  [00:37:12] Influence of Charlie’s faith on others and younger players  [00:38:36] Charlie’s interfaith upbringing and grandfather’s conversion  [00:41:15] Fear of future regrets and desire to inspire  [00:45:13] Career aspirations beyond tennis, including sports agency  [00:47:53] Dedication of Charlie’s father and family support  [00:51:59] Sacrificing social life for professional aspirations  [00:53:46] Mentorship from top wheelchair tennis players  [00:56:49] Favorite opponents and tennis inspirations  [00:58:00] Injury prevention and physical training routines 

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha welcomes Dr. Shaan Patel, founder and CEO of Prep Expert and Shark Tank entrepreneur. Shaan shares his inspiring story of overcoming an average SAT score to achieve perfection, launch a successful test-prep business, and become a board-certified dermatologist. The discussion traverses his childhood in a budget motel, his parents' immigrant sacrifices, and the resilience that propelled him through rejection to success with Mark Cuban on Shark Tank. Shaan also explores entrepreneurship, telemedicine, and why standardized tests matter more now than ever. ____________________________________________________________ [00:00:00] The impact of asking children, "What do you want to do when you grow up?" [00:01:16] Dr. Elisha's personal story about identity and completing med school [00:04:03] Shaan Patel's upbringing in a motel and the value his immigrant parents placed on education [00:05:17] Shaan’s initial struggles with standardized testing and journey to a perfect SAT score [00:07:28] From book rejections to launching Prep Expert [00:09:31] Growing Prep Expert during medical school breaks [00:10:01] Lessons on empathy and education from Shaan’s childhood environment [00:13:17] Dealing with rejection and embracing the underdog mentality [00:15:00] Parental influence and leading by example [00:20:56] Shaan's Shark Tank audition and securing a deal with Mark Cuban [00:26:57] Insights into working with Mark Cuban [00:28:56] What Prep Expert offers and the value of test preparation beyond exams [00:31:29] Entrepreneurship as freedom versus residency constraints [00:33:35] The risks and uncertainties of entrepreneurship [00:37:09] The importance of prioritizing helping others over making money [00:40:18] Are standardized tests valid measures of intelligence? [00:41:30] How test preparation builds essential life skills [00:44:31] The most important advice Shaan plans to give his child [00:46:30] Balancing career, entrepreneurship, and family life [00:51:18] Advice for healthcare providers considering entrepreneurship

In this episode of I’ll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha sits down with Ron Cukier, whose life story spans survival, loss, and renewal. Born to Holocaust survivors, Ron opens up about the deep family traumas that shaped him and the decades-long battle with alcohol and drugs that nearly cost him everything. He recounts how a wrong number led him to his wife, how hitting rock bottom saved his life, and why sobriety remains the foundation of his success. From faith and family to honesty about addiction, Ron’s story is a testament to resilience and the power of never giving up. ____________________________________________________________ [00:00:00] Introduction to Ron Cukier’s family background and Holocaust legacy [00:01:09] The impact of generational trauma and survival stories [00:02:43] Early childhood, faith, and growing up in Boyle Heights [00:06:14] How Ron’s mother’s hope and faith kept her alive [00:10:31] College life, privilege, and the seeds of addiction [00:14:27] First experience with alcohol and early drinking stories [00:18:12] Short-lived marriages and escaping through Europe [00:26:00] Meeting Danielle through a wrong number call [00:29:59] Addiction deepens and Danielle leaves [00:33:06] Hitting rock bottom and entering rehab [00:35:32] Detox, rehab lessons, and the turning point [00:38:05] Finding community and support in meetings [00:40:02] Staying sober and giving back to others [00:42:01] Faith, a higher power, and rebuilding life [00:48:58] Mentors, his mother’s influence, and life lessons [00:50:52] Reflections on antisemitism and generational strength [00:53:10] Final thoughts on speaking up, hope, and resilience Joseph Elisha on LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-elisha-m-d-a9b7aab

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha sits down with Brandt Kuhn, Managing Director and Partner at Beacon Pointe. Brandt shares how his early career was shaped by the 2008 financial crisis and what ultimately brought him back to the Coachella Valley. They explore the realities of financial planning, addressing everything from risk and taxes to fatherhood and the role of money in our mental wellbeing. Brandt unpacks financial myths seen on social media, explains the real impact of debt, and shares how his nonprofit work and family values shape his approach to money. This wide-ranging conversation blends grounded advice with reflections on community, resilience, and what it means to live a rich life. ______________________________________________________________________ [00:00:28] Introduction of Brandt Kuhn and overview of his professional and personal background. [00:02:08] Why Brandt returned to the Coachella Valley and started his financial planning career. [00:04:05] Early influences and how a meeting with a financial advisor shaped his path. [00:06:12] How becoming a father changed his financial priorities and planning approach. [00:08:22] Common misconceptions about financial planning and the complexity of the system. [00:12:14] Joseph Elisha reflects on the lack of financial education in medical school. [00:16:21] Brandt's perspective on the anxiety caused by money and the importance of building margin. [00:18:57] Thoughts on economic shifts, job security, and the need for adaptable education. [00:20:29] Distinction between knowledge and service economies and the impact of automation. [00:23:44] Brandt's view on rising labor costs, automation, and the evolving workforce. [00:26:30] Financial myths on social media and concerns over 'get rich quick' content. [00:29:18] Risk management in financial planning and adapting to client life stages. [00:30:59] Trends in how the wealthy spend—on homes, experiences, and modest living. [00:34:31] The generational shift toward lifestyle balance over endless work. [00:38:28] How Brandt stays grounded amid managing hundreds of millions in assets. [00:40:34] Brandt’s nonprofit work and its impact on his personal and professional values. [00:42:51] Teaching kids about money and the realities of household budgeting. [00:45:33] Financial myths and facts: markets, housing, and economic uncertainty. [00:52:22] The role of hope and optimism in facing financial challenges. [00:56:03] What defines a rich life for Brandt Kuhn—emphasis on time over wealth. [00:57:27] Final insights on building real wealth and overcoming early investing fears. Links: Beacon Pointe Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1sYqRME1BlueSBz9BlG3eQ   Most recent Macro & Markets – May 2025 - https://youtu.be/GIGdwQc_EJk?si=ZoFT-FwEJkkcqdHW   Beacon Pointe Palm Desert Website - https://beaconpointe.com/contact-us/california-palm-desert/

In this episode of I’ll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha speaks with Dr. Joseph Scherger, a renowned authority in integrative medicine, on rethinking modern healthcare. Dr. Scherger shares why he believes extended time with patients and lifestyle-based interventions are key to reversing chronic diseases. They explore how processed food addictions formed, the role of gut flora, and how habits like nutrition, physical activity, and stress management form the six pillars of health. Dr. Scherger also shares his thoughts on supplements, the rise of GLP-1 medications, and his shift into a personalized care model—while touching on cognitive decline and the future of primary care. [00:00:0] Dr. Scherger’s career and how the Marcus Welby model influenced him [00:04:41] Time constraints in primary care and the importance of extended consultations [00:06:33] The role of lifestyle and nutrition in reversing chronic illness [00:07:46] Addictive nature of processed foods and historical development [00:12:05] The impact of gut flora and microbiome on overall and mental health [00:14:06] Antibiotics’ effect on gut health and strategies to restore microbiome [00:20:17] Importance of vitamin D, magnesium, and B vitamins in aging [00:25:17] Insights on prehistoric diets, microbiome diversity, and modern parallels [00:29:26] Farm-to-table and whole food approaches to diet [00:30:05] Rise in cognitive decline, Alzheimer’s, and the potential for reversal [00:33:50] Dale Bredesen’s work and The Ageless Brain [00:37:38] Impact of sugar on cognitive health and neurodegeneration [00:38:48] GLP-1 medications (e.g., Ozempic) and their effects on appetite and addiction [00:43:31] Dr. Scherger’s transition from Eisenhower to private concierge practice [00:48:25] Shortages in primary care and systemic inefficiencies in healthcare

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha is joined by Lauren Del Sarto, founder of Desert Health and co-founder of Good Vibes Sound Bath. They explore Lauren’s remarkable journey from organizing Wall Street events to pioneering platforms for holistic wellness and integrative medicine. Lauren opens up about her battle with breast cancer, the alternative treatment path she chose, and how it reshaped her perspective on health. She also shares how fearlessness returned through equestrian pursuits and discusses the explosive popularity of floating sound baths. Join this warm and revealing conversation about resilience, purpose, and creating space for healing in a noisy world. [00:00:00] Introduction to Lauren Del Sarto and her background [00:04:13] Founding Desert Health and focusing on positive health journalism [00:05:34] Career path from Wall Street to event marketing to wellness publishing [00:09:44] Impact of childhood moves on adaptability and people skills [00:12:50] Vision behind Desert Health as a bridge between medical and natural care [00:14:49] Lauren's breast cancer diagnosis and decision to pursue cryoablation [00:17:58] Effects of an anti-inflammatory diet on tumor size [00:21:24] Advocating for cryoablation and clinical trials [00:24:25] Importance of integrative care teams [00:26:41] Overcoming fear to return to competitive horseback riding [00:30:45] Views on mortality and the power of presence [00:33:44] Founding Good Vibes Sound Bath and its viral growth [00:36:32] Description of the floating sound bath experience [00:40:51] Volunteering with Coachella Valley Volunteers in Medicine [00:42:29] Receiving Trailblazer and Health Influencer Awards [00:44:17] Regret around father’s end-of-life care [00:47:00] Personal values: integrity and positivity [00:48:41] Reflections on authenticity and staying true to oneself [00:53:53] Mentoring youth through the Health Academy student column [00:56:24] Where to find Desert Health and Good Vibes Sound Bath Links: Lauren Del Sarto on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauren-del-sarto-5b14b47 Connect with Lauren: [email protected] Desert Heal News: http://www.deserthealthnews.com/ Good Vibe Sound Bath: https://www.goodvibessoundbath.com/

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, we explore the recent Palm Springs bombing—not just as a tragic local event, but as a lens into the silent conflicts so many carry within. Through reflections on childhood trauma, parental mental health, and the human need for control, we take an emotional journey from confusion to compassion, asking hard questions about violence, suicide, and the societal shame that surrounds mental illness. What unfolds is not just a recounting of a tragedy, but a call to listen more closely—to ourselves and to each other. If we hope to prevent future losses, we must begin by creating space for honesty, vulnerability, and healing. This is an episode about fragility, resilience, and the radical power of empathy in a world that often feels like it’s falling apart.

Welcome to this special episode of I’ll Ask The Question Around Here, where I talk about Mother’s Day; what it means to me, and to the world. Motherhood, as seen through the lens of two remarkable women—my mother and my mother-in-law—is not a role defined by ease or perfection, but by resilience, complexity, and quiet determination. My mother’s stroke in 1980 reshaped our family forever, yet she refused to let it define her. Though she lost physical function, she never relinquished her role as the family’s emotional anchor. Her unwavering presence and commitment, even while married to a man grappling with depression, revealed a strength that surpassed physical ability. At first, I saw her constant giving as self-neglect, but I came to realize it was her way of asserting her completeness, of reclaiming her identity in the face of loss. Similarly, my mother-in-law, Patricia, lived a life marked by trauma, loss, and reinvention. Surviving domestic violence, the death of a child, and fractured family dynamics, she eventually found peace in a rural retreat and redefined herself. Though her earlier years as a mother were marked by hardship and absence, she later became a powerful presence in our children’s lives, showing that motherhood is not a fixed state but an evolving act of love and courage. Her decision to step away, once seen as abandonment, became an act of self-preservation that allowed her to heal and return stronger. Mother’s Day, then, is far more than a celebration—it’s a reflection on the expectations, grief, gratitude, and quiet heroism that shape maternal relationships. It’s a day that carries both beauty and pain, honoring those who gave everything, those who couldn't, and those who are still figuring it out. For many, it’s not simple. There are unspoken hopes, disappointments, and the weight of societal expectations. But whether you're a mother, grieving one, estranged from one, or simply holding complex feelings—your experience matters. Today, let’s hold space for all forms of mothering and all the people doing their best to show up, with honesty, forgiveness, and grace.

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha sits down with Kim Meltzer, co-founder and CEO of Destination Esports, affectionately known in the gaming world as the "Esports Mom." From a childhood shaped by personal loss to trailblazing a hospitality-driven approach in the global gaming industry, Kim shares how nurturing others became her calling. They discuss the evolution of gaming culture, the mental health dynamics surrounding screen time, and how faith, motherhood, and perspective have guided her path. Kim also shares insights into planning major Esports events and her mission to reshape perceptions of the gaming community through her own podcast.  ____________________________________________________________   [00:02:47] Kim Meltzer introduces her gamer tag origins and entry into the gaming industry.  [00:05:48] Her career pivot from hospitality to working with Activision’s Call of Duty launch.  [00:07:49] Becoming the “COD Mom” and her growing role in the global gaming scene.  [00:10:15] How grief and early life experiences shaped her nurturing nature and professional drive.  [00:13:45] Faith’s quiet but central role in her journey and mentorship style.  [00:18:06] Working at Focus on the Family and exploring spirituality across faith lines.  [00:21:48] What goes into planning a major Esports event from a logistics and care perspective.  [00:26:12] Addressing screen dependency and helping gamers find balance in real life.  [00:29:36] Transferable skills from gaming to careers in surgery, military, and engineering.  [00:31:02] How trust and communication play a critical role in mentoring gamers.  [00:33:10] Rocket League’s role in building community between players and families.  [00:35:37] The distinction between casual gaming and competitive Esports.  [00:36:54] The utility of AI in gaming and broader industries, including Esports development.  [00:40:19] The challenge of politics and profit-over-purpose in the gaming world.  [00:43:25] Starting the Esports Mom podcast to share behind-the-scenes stories and life lessons.  [00:45:50] Kim’s focus on shifting perspectives rather than changing the industry.  [00:48:27] Her five-year vision rooted in family, travel, and continued growth.  [00:52:23] Reflecting on life’s biggest lessons and learning from early struggles.  [00:55:04] The legacy Kim hopes to leave rooted in love, impact, and authentic living.  Links:    Kim Meltzer on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimmeltzer  Destination Esports: https://destinationesports.com/  Joseph Elisha on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-elisha-m-d-a9b7aab 

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha speaks with Sabby Jonathan, a respected accountant, former mayor of Palm Desert, and dedicated community leader. Sabby recounts his remarkable family history of surviving war-torn Europe, building a new life in Israel, and eventually immigrating to North America. Together, they explore how the immigrant experience shaped his values, work ethic, and commitment to public service. Sabby shares insights into defining success, the power of gratitude, and the importance of giving back to one's community. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about resilience, legacy, and the American dream. ____________________________________________________________ [00:00:30] Joseph's personal immigration story and introduction to success beyond the hustle [00:02:06] Sabby Jonathan's background: family history escaping Nazi and Soviet persecution [00:05:09] Sabby’s parents’ journey to Palestine and the founding of Israel [00:06:18] Life under British Mandate and the early state of Israel [00:10:02] Immigrating to Canada and then the U.S.; early challenges adapting [00:12:07] Learning English, experiencing culture shock, and embracing opportunity [00:16:29] Overcoming challenges as an Iranian-American during the hostage crisis [00:17:37] Sabby's father's career as a tool and die maker and cultural passions [00:22:27] Reflections on childhood freedom, resilience, and parental influence [00:27:21] Teaching autonomy and decision-making to children [00:30:58] The immigrant drive: work ethic, gratitude, and understanding opportunity [00:34:00] Core ingredients for a successful life: health, love, and making the most of blessings [00:36:59] Defining success beyond monetary achievement [00:40:24] Why Sabby chose to serve his community through civic engagement [00:43:26] The concept of Tikkun Olam and the call to heal the world [00:46:02] Sabby’s pride in his family and reflections on raising good people [00:47:22] Meeting Wendy, marriage longevity, and partnership [00:51:31] The impact of generational trauma and maintaining resilience [00:55:15] Engaging with disagreement and countering antisemitism [00:56:24] Sabby's wish to be remembered as "a good guy" Links: Joseph Elisha on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-elisha-m-d-a9b7aab

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha sits down with Dr. Keith Alexander, a Coachella Valley orthodontist whose career journey spans the circus ring, Hollywood soundstages, and a thriving dental practice. Keith shares how his early ambitions in acting led him to clown college, Ringling Bros., and eventually roles alongside Robin Williams and Johnny Depp. The conversation sifts through his transitions from performing arts to orthodontics, how humor remains central to his life and work, and the challenges and joys of entrepreneurship. They also probe the deeper emotional role comedy can play and the importance of living each day with intention and joy. ____________________________________________________________ [00:00:00] Keith Alexander’s background and introduction [00:02:00] Moving from upstate New York to Hollywood to pursue acting [00:04:14] Getting his start in the film industry and working with Robin Williams [00:07:04] Auditioning for clown college and joining the Ringling Bros. circus [00:09:29] Earning the clown name "Hallelujah Hal" and his experiences on tour [00:13:31] Winning “funniest person” award at the circus [00:15:04] Early roots in performance and discovering theater at age 13 [00:19:10] Using humor in dentistry and daily life [00:21:30] Creating a joyful workplace for staff and patients [00:25:36] How personal and emotional depth influence comedic personas [00:26:05] Reflecting on a key moment acting on The Tonight Show [00:28:03] Public speaking and interpersonal connection in his dental practice [00:29:40] High energy personality and feedback from family and staff [00:31:04] Patient reactions to humor in clinical settings [00:34:34] Challenges of entrepreneurship and building a practice from scratch [00:36:17] Misconceptions about dentistry and patient apprehension [00:38:30] Meeting his wife and the story of their online connection [00:40:00] Dreaming of running a children’s theater if not a dentist [00:42:09] Involvement in local theater productions in Palm Springs [00:45:22] Top three life highlights: marriage, daughter’s birth, opening his practice [00:48:56] What sets his orthodontic practice apart from others [00:50:10] Final reflections on joy, connection, and gratitude Links: Joseph Elisha on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-elisha-m-d-a9b7aab

In this episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, Dr. Joseph Elisha sits down with Alex Young, daughter of rock legend Eric Burdon of The Animals. Alex opens up about her unconventional upbringing, balancing the weight of her father's fame with a deep commitment to building a grounded, meaningful life. They discuss the emotional toll of growing up with an absent parent, the trials of young motherhood, addiction, and the healing power of music. From her early career in dentistry to her late-in-life pursuit of songwriting, Alex shares a compelling journey of resilience and rediscovery. She even gives us a preview of her first original song. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about forging identity in the shadow of legacy.    _______________________________________________________________     [00:00:00] Alex Young’s introduction and her connection to Dr. Joseph Elisha  [00:01:55] Growing up in the Coachella Valley and a surreal local experience  [00:03:00] Life as the daughter of Eric Burdon and the absence of a father figure  [00:06:08] Raising a family young and finding a sustainable career in dentistry  [00:08:28] Losing her mother and how it changed her outlook on life  [00:09:14] Returning to music and learning guitar as a creative outlet  [00:11:06] Unexpected on-stage performances with the band War  [00:15:07] Witnessing her father’s induction into the Rock Walk  [00:19:28] Positive memories of her dad and touring with The Animals  [00:22:04] The impact of Eric Burdon’s music and his role in blues history  [00:24:08] Stories about her dad from friends and his wilder days  [00:26:20] Jimi Hendrix connection and personal family myths  [00:29:11] Being the ‘Egg Man’ in the Beatles song and her dad’s take  [00:34:14] How growing up affected her approach to parenting  [00:39:26] Grieving her mother and the emotional significance of belongings  [00:44:55] Periods of homelessness and motivation for career stability  [00:48:32] First time hearing pride from her father about her music  [00:51:11] Her mother’s early life, trauma, and love for Eric Burdon  [00:56:35] Advocacy for mental health and early diagnosis in children  [00:59:51] Live performance of Alex’s original song  [01:02:47] Future musical goals and possible debut album name  Podcast Website:   https://www.josephelishamd.com/ Joseph Elisha on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-elisha-m-d-a9b7aab     

In this inaugural episode of I'll Ask The Questions Around Here, host Dr. Joseph Elisha sits down with Norma Castaneda, a trailblazing entrepreneur and community leader from the Coachella Valley. Norma opens up about her upbringing on a citrus farm, the sudden loss of her father at 19, and the resilience that propelled her through challenges as a single mother. The conversation touches on her career journey from Bighorn Development to Fidelis Health Group, her deep-rooted faith, her approach to leadership, and her passionate involvement in education and healthcare. With grace and candor, Norma reflects on adversity, identity, and her enduring commitment to uplifting others. Chapters (00:00:00) Introduction to the podcast and guest Norma Castaneda(00:02:27) Norma shares her roots growing up on a ranch in La Quinta(00:04:37) The impact of losing her father at 19 and taking on early responsibilities(00:06:21) Her early career start at Bighorn Development and shift to HR leadership(00:08:09) Journey into healthcare consulting and leadership at Fidelis Health Group(00:11:08) The role of faith and family in overcoming life's challenges(00:13:25) Navigating life as a single mother and raising three successful children(00:17:37) Processing divorce, emotional recovery, and forgiveness(00:22:26) Being a Latina woman in male-dominated industries(00:25:52) A cultural clash during business travel in Japan and asserting her voice(00:26:19) Best advice received: let go quickly and never stop learning(00:28:28) Battling imposter syndrome and quieting self-doubt(00:33:23) Advice for aspiring entrepreneurs: failure is part of the process(00:36:03) Norma's vision for a future clinic and foundation(00:38:30) Influence of her parents and service-oriented upbringing(00:40:07) Fun fact: Norma was Queen Scheherazade in the 1990s(00:41:42) Looking back: letting go of fear and trusting the process(00:43:06) Norma on being a loyal friend and always making time for loved ones(00:44:45) Admitting to overcommitting but honoring all responsibilities(00:47:11) Caring for her mother with dementia and its emotional toll(00:50:09) Norma's definition of success: peace, purpose, and impact(00:53:37) On not being a crowd pleaser and staying true to herself(00:54:50) Integrity as the most valued trait in business and personal life(00:55:49) Why courage is essential to living and leading with integrity(00:58:40) HR perspective: assessing people with patience and compassion(01:01:29) Valuing coachability and attitude over long résumés(01:03:06) Philanthropic impact through College of the Desert and Eisenhower(01:07:14) On being vulnerable and embracing life's imperfections Links Podcast Website: https://www.josephelishamd.com/ Joseph Elisha on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-elisha-m-d-a9b7aab Norma Castaneda on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/normacastaneda

I’ll Ask The Questions Around Here is a podcast that explores the unexpected intersections of life, from science and culture to family dynamics and mental health. Hosted by Joseph Elisha, M.D., the podcast features conversations spanning a wide range of topics—from challenging yet crucial discussions to lighter, more comforting subjects. Each episode aims to educate, inspire, and entertain by providing a unique perspective from a fascinating guest, leading to captivating and unexpected conversations.