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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you love your husband but find his career boring AF, should you feign interest to spare his feelings, or be 100% honest about your disinterest? Is it acceptable to become close friends with your best friend's partner, even if your best friend doesn't approve? Has Shandy ever dated anyone who brought out the worst in them, and what are their thoughts on "breadcrumbing" in dating? Finally, if your date regularly brings you the ugliest flowers you've ever seen, does that speak to a deeper compatibility and "taste" issue? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:17 - Q1: I’m Bored To Tears When My Husband Talks About His Job—AITA? 21:16 - Q2: Can I Be Best Friends With My Best Friend’s Wife? 30:27 - Q3: I’m Still Hung Up On A Girl Who Brought Out The Worst In Me—Help! 43:42 - Q4: My New Flame Is Great But His Taste Is Not—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the second half of the season, episodes 6-9! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflix Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:02 - Episode 6 35:28 - Episode 7 48:33 - Episode 8 1:01:15 - Episode 9 1:23:46 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the first half of the season, episodes 1-5! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflix Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://monos.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for the latest offer! - Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for $10 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:22 - Episode 1 20:29 - Episode 2 32:09 - Episode 3 46:55 - Episode 4 1:13:56 - Episode 5 1:29:41 - Predictions 1:30:46 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the REUNION! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:49 - Libby & Andrew 8:27 - Vanelle & Jorge 14:59 - Pfeifer & Derrick 17:02 - Theresa & John 34:09 - Leah & Chris 42:06 - Vanessa & Logan 46:15 - Best Dressed 46:36 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the second batch, episodes 6 & 7, as well as the FINALE!  Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:07 - Theresa & John 35:14 - Pfeifer & Derrick 47:54 - Leah & Chris 51:17 - Libby & Andrew 1:04:15 - Vanessa & Logan 1:22:10 - Overall Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the first batch, episodes 1-5!  Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to buy any two cans of Olipop in-store and get paid back for one! - Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of Goodwipes at Walmart! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping & Introduction 7:22 - Theresa & John 20:49 - Libby & Andrew 34:39 - Vanelle & Jorge & Justin 59:00 - Pfeifer & Derrik 1:02:23 - Joleen & West 1:02:36 - Leah & Chris 1:06:06 - Vanessa & Logan 1:18:24 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Just 3 days before its scheduled premiere, The Bachelorette Season 22 starring Taylor Frankie Paul was abruptly cancelled. Many of you wanted to hear Shandy's take on the news and the shocking reason why. So today, in lieu of the Bachelorette Premiere recap that was meant to drop today, they're answering your burning questions Q&A style. Thanks to our sponsors! - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://Ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 60% off your first box today! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:23 - Shandy’s Honest Thoughts When Taylor Was Announced As Bachelorette 12:15 - How Did ABC Rationalize Casting Taylor? 19:10 - Did You See This Coming? 19:38 - Were You Looking Forward To Recapping Taylor’s Season? 20:07 - Thoughts On Whether Or Not Dakota “Instigated” And Strategized The Video Release 21:16 - Could Taylor’s Behavior Be “Reactive Abuse”? 24:32 - Do You Think Dakota Got Paid For The Video? 27:26 - How Much Do You Hold Jesse Palmer Responsible For His Complicity? 29:58 - How Do You Think This Situation Would Be Treated Differently If Taylor Were A Man? 31:27 - Do You Think The Show Owes The Men An Apology? 34:46 - Do You Think The Season Will Air At A Later Date? 38:40 - Did Shandy See The Premiere Screener And If So, Thoughts? 51:40 - How Do You Think The Men Feel? 55:07 - Who *Should* The Show Have Chosen? 56:51 - “How Bad Of A Person Does It Make Me That I Still Want To Watch The Season?” 57:21 - Do You Think All Of This Was A Ploy? 59:43 - Can The Franchise Recover From This?  1:05:09 - Has Modern Dating Culture Outgrown ‘The Bachelor’? 1:05:47 - How Does A Sudden Pivot Like This Affect Dear Shandy/Podcasts? 1:07:46 - “Do You Feel This Is Good, To Not Give Trash Humans A Platform?” 1:11:34 - Overall Thoughts On Taylor Frankie Paul 1:14:50 - Deep Down Is Shandy Relieved? 1:15:41 - Was Casting Taylor Frankie Paul A Mistake? 1:15:50 - What Show Is Shandy Recapping Instead? 1:17:13 - Would You Recap Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your elderly dad is juggling two girlfriends, is it acceptable to refuse to meet them? When your stepmom "forgets" your rule around holiday travel, is it better to hold firm or just keep the peace? Your boyfriend tells you you're perfect but also says he isn't "obsessed"—what's your next move? Finally, if you did a sizable favor for a friend and she never even bought you a meal as thanks, does confronting her make *you* the A-hole?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Text SHANDY to 64000 to get a Pocket Hose's FREE pocket pivot and 10-pattern sprayer with the purchase of ANY size Copper Head hose! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your night guard! - Buy any two cans of Olipop in store and we’ll pay you back for one. Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY ! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! - Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:45 - Q1: My Elderly Dad Is Juggling Two “Girlfriends”—Help! 9:47 - Q2: My Stepmom Is Ignoring My Holiday Travel Boundaries—Help! 18:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend Tells Me I’m Perfect But Also Says He Isn’t “Obsessed” With Me 34:34 - Q4: My Longtime Friend Did Nothing To Acknowledge The Favor Gave Her—AITA For Confronting Her? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering the Reunion for Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://monos.com and use code SHANDY for their latest offer! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:43 - Reunion Kick Off 5:02 - Christine & Vic 8:12 - Amber & Jordan 15:29 - Bri & Connor 19:47 - S8’s Sara & Joey 20:43 - Jessica & Chris 33:59 - Emma & Mike 42:54 - Ashley & Alex 59:14 - Brittany & Devonta 1:12:33 - S4’s Bliss & Zach 1:17:29 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 1:18:53 - Overall Thoughts 1:19:46 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering the Season 10 Finale of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 10% off for life! - Go to https://oneskin.co/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard! Time Stamps: Coming soon If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors Season 4 on #Peacock! Today is a 2-for-1 as Shandy breaks down both the Finale and Reunion!  Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:41 - Finale 16:50 - Fire Of Truth 27:45 - Reunion 49:59 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 10-11, aka Batch 3 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:33 - The Bowling Party, Cont’d 24:54 - Christine & Vic 30:58 - Amber & Jordan 37:54 - Brittany & Devonta 54:54 - Ashley & Alex 1:20:34 - Bri & Connor 1:33:53 - Emma & Mike 1:46:07 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors Season 4 on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 10. Thank you to our sponsors... - Buy two cans of Olipop in store and get paid back for one at https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:46 - Episode 10 27:36 - Round Table 39:10 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 7-9, aka Batch 2 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY for 15% off 2 or more pairs of prescription glasses! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:03 - Christine & Vic 9:34 - Amber & Jordan 12:57 - Ashley & Alex 43:30 - Brittany & Devonta 52:05 - Emma & Mike 1:03:47 - Jessica & Chris 1:19:21 - Bri & Connor 1:24:07 - Bowling Group Party 1:40:53 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's recaps are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 9.  Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60% off your first box! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:57 - Episode 9 37:45 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 1-6, aka Batch 1 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://rula.com/shandy and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60% off your first box! - Go to https://oneskin.co/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:02 - Christine & Vic 13:09 - Amber & Jordan 17:20 - Ashely & Alex 35:27 - Bri & Conner (& Chris) 53:57 - Chris & Jessica 1:02:31 - Emma & Mike (& Conner & Steven) 1:26:56- Kevan & Keya & Tyler 1:44:33 - Brittany & Devonta 1:51:37 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's recaps are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 8.  Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:25 - Episode 8 14:23 - Round Table 31:39 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

IT'S TIME, SHANDIES!!! Today's the day for volume 7 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our Q&As and caller episodes, do you find yourself wondering "where are they now?" Well, today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://monos.com and use code DEARSHANDY for an extra 10% off their Monos' Valentine's Day Sale, while it lasts! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:26 - Ep 313, Q5 From K: “Have I Been Using My Hardships As An Excuse To Not Be ’30 And Flirty’?”  10:16 - Ep 354, Q1 From K: “My Maid Of Honor Thinks I Should Have A Dry Wedding To Accommodate Our Mutual Friend—Help!”  24:15 - Ep 387, Q5 From Anonymous: “My Father Is A Squirrel Murderer—Help!”  38:52 - Ep 388, Caller Emily: “He Can’t Be Alone—Is This A Red Flag?” 56:25 - Ep 429, Q4, From Anonymous: “My Husband Gifted Himself A Solo Sex Toy For Our Anniversary—Am I Overreacting?”  1:02:23 - Ep 435, Q3, From Elle: “My Sister-In-Law Has Accused Me Of Emotionally Cheating With Her Husband—Did I Overstep?” 1:13:19 - Ep 439, Caller Catherine: “Should I Invite My Sister On A Vacation I Know She Can’t Afford?” If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 7!  Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to buy any two cans of Olipop in store and get paid back for one! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://cozyearth.com/SHANDYBOGO for buy-one-get-one PJs only available through February 8th! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:08 - Episode 7 21:16 - Round Table 38:34 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Why aren't there more single "Andy"s out there, and is finding one just a matter of luck? What does it mean if your parents tell you your husband is controlling, yet this is news to you? What to do when your two besties becomes enemies with each other, and you're caught in the middle? Finally, if you love your friends but not their pigsty of a house, should you still visit and stay as a gesture of love? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first mani system! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code "SHANDY" for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Just type https://dupe.com/ before any product URL in your browser and instantly find more affordable alternatives! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:50 - Q1: Is Finding My “Andy” Just A Matter Of Luck? 18:33 - Q2: Is My Husband Controlling Or Are My Parents Gaslighting Me? 29:47 - Q3: My Friends Have Become Enemies & I’m Stuck In The Middle—Help! 46:45 - Q4: Are Our Friends Too Filthy Or Are We Too Judgmental?  If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 6!  Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first order! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:53 - Episode 6 32:48 - Best & Worst Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Catherine is the youngest of 4, and she wishes to celebrate her big sister's big birthday with a big trip. But should she invite their middle sister, who is unlikely to be able to afford it, but who won't handle the FOMO well? Or should she keep the trip under wraps? Our second caller, Renee, deeply regrets welcoming her friend's annoying husband into her friend group. Is it possible to hit "backspace" on introducing friends to friends? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Catherine! 31:41 - Shandy Debrief 37:47 - Welcome To Caller Renee! 58:22 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering the REUNION of Love Is Blind Germany, Season 2! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out! #loveisblind #netflix #loveisblindgermany #libgermany Recap for episodes 1-4: https://youtu.be/O7Eh9JTYcd4 Recap for episodes 5-8: https://youtu.be/QtYEYfcKTGQ Recap for Finale: https://youtu.be/LUzkFx4KHDo Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:58 - Gunnar & Josy 12:41 - Andi & Yasmin 20:35 - Jan & Loan 25:07 - Jubriel & Wandi 29:08 - Konstantin & Jessi 34:12 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 4-5!  Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:58 - Episode 4 14:18 - Episode 5 35:01 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering the FINALE of Love Is Blind Germany, Season 2! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out! #loveisblind #netflix #loveisblindgermany #libgermany Recap for episodes 1-4: https://youtu.be/O7Eh9JTYcd4 Recap for episodes 5-8: https://youtu.be/QtYEYfcKTGQ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:43 - Andi & Yasmin 10:01 - Gunnar & Josy 16:14 - Konstantin & Jessi 22:32 - Overall Thoughts 22:57 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and we have a bunch of FAMILY questions today! What should you do if your friend of 15 years suddenly blocks you—seemingly over a DM with the "wrong" emoji?? If your husband's bestie-turned-family-friend commits an unforgivable sin and betrays the whole family, is it better to forgive or to cut ties? If you regularly complain about your in-laws with your sister-in-law's husband, is that overstepping and boundary? Finally, what to do about the Chatty Cathy in your life that just WILL NOT STOP TALKING?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first order! - Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60% off your Welcome Kit when you subscribe today! - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get a free can of Olipop when you buy any two cans in store! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:17 - Q1: My Friend Of 15 Years Blocked Me (Over An Emoji??)—Help! 19:57 - Q2: My Husband’s Best Friend Betrayed My Whole Family—Should I Forgive Or Cut Ties? 37:05 - Q3: My Sister-In-Law Has Accused Me Of “Emotionally Cheating” With Her Husband—Did I Overstep? 1:02:00 - Q4: I’m Introverted & Cannot Deal With The Chatty Cathy In My Life—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering episodes 5-8 of Season 2 of Love Is Blind GERMANY! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out! Recap for episodes 1-4: https://youtu.be/O7Eh9JTYcd4 Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard! - Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 20% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:15 - Konstantin & Jessi 15:29 - Jubriel & Wandi 23:04- Gunnar & Josy 34:15 - Jan & Loan 41:04 - Andi & Yasmin 58:21 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 1-3! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! - Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:04 - Andy Guesses Who’s Most “Famous” 5:53 - The Prize Money 7:07 - Traitors 10:19 - Alan Cummings 16:53 - Episode 2 30:30 - Episode 3 42:54 - Shandy’s Predictions 44:04 - Players To Watch If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering episodes 1-4 of Season 2 of Love Is Blind GERMANY! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out! Thank you to our sponsors... - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free Shipping and a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:04 - Konstantin & Jessi 19:57 - Jubriel & Wandi (& Josy) 35:41 - Gunnar & Josy 49:54 - Jan & Loan 58:35 - Andi & Yasmin (& Dustin, Celia, Nadia) 1:14:10 - Who Would We Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's a special day, Shandies! We polled you over on Instagram about what YOU wanted your last episode of 2025 to be: A 2025 Year In Review or a classic Q&A? It was an even split, so as many of you requested, today we're doing BOTH! Join us as we go down memory lane and recap 2025 together, AND as we answer some juicy Q&A questions along the way! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 55% off your custom night guard plus a FREE foam gift! - GO to https://www.factormeals.com and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:43 - Best NYC Date Night of 2025 4:55 - Best Escape Room of 2025 5:39 - Cutest Ruby Moment of 2025 7:00 - Favorite TV Show Of 2025 8:25 - Biggest Lesson Learned in 2025 13:08 - Q1: When Dating Multiple People, Should I Tell My Dates? 27:01 - Best Meal of 2025 28:25 - Best Dessert of 2025 30:03 - Favorite Person You Met In 2025 30:57 - Q2: I Have A Crush On My Close Friend’s Wife—Help! 48:40 - If You Could Relive One Day in 2025 What Day Would It Be? 52:32 - Favorite Movie Of 2025 55:10 - Favorite Book Of 2025 1:02:16 - One Situation In 2025 Which You’re Proud Of How You Handled 1:05:00 - Favorite Socks Of 2025 1:06:17 - Q3: I Want Kids But He’s On The Fence—How Do I Make Sure He Doesn’t Waste My Time? 1:18:28 - Dream Guest Of 2026 1:23:08 - Which Q&A Question Of 2025 Are You Most Curious About The Outcome Of? 1:25:59 - Proudest Moment Of 2025? 1:32:38 - 2026 Resolution If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time again, Shandies!!! 🎉 We couldn't be more delighted to welcome The Season 2 Golden Bachelor himself—International man of mystery Mel Owens—and his lovely, multi-talented winner, Peg Munson! This is a particularly unique Love Fest, because unbeknownst to Shandy, Mel and Peg watched ALL the Dear Shandy recaps of their season! And trust us, they came with NOTES. 😱 Today Mel and Peg pull back the curtain on their relationship and truth BOMBS are dropped at every turn. We get Mel's unfiltered thoughts on his infamous pre-filming podcast appearance and the very unexpected backstory of Peg's unicycle! We learn how these two complement each other, what hurdles they've overcome, and learn their incredible love and life advice. Best of all, since they watched Dear Shandy along the way, Mel and Peg aren't afraid to tell Shandy what they got right (and very, very wrong)! Finally, a hilariously disastrous Newlyweds Game that defies all the rules! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first order! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite pajamas at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Just type https://dupe.com/ before any product URL in your browser and BOOM – it instantly finds you more affordable alternatives! - Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! Referenced clip from the Eddie Murphy movie where Mel plays Bo Chandler: https://www.instagram.com/p/DR1K6aVkTdE/?hl=en More Peg: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/peg__munson TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@munsonpropertieslv Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@munsonproperties More Mel: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melowens58 TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@melowens58 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Mel & Peg! 3:07 - First Impressions 9:00 - The Unicycle 21:16 - Mel’s Infamous Podcast Appearance  25:47 - How They Complement Each Other 29:24 - Early Hurdle 30:41 - How They Fight 32:00 - Common Misconceptions 33:47- The Aha Moment 38:28 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 42:00 - #1 Piece Of Love Advice 42:34 - Working With Eddie Murphy 44:03 - Mel Knows Shandy 47:28 - The Newlyweds Game 1:01:50 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your podcast co-host disagree on whether or not to release an episode, should you compromise or stick to your perfectionism? If you know a relationship is doomed, is it still worth exploring for the experience of having "loved and lost"? If your entire family has near-daily Zoom calls, are you the A-hole for not wanting to participate? And if your husband gifts you a solo sex toy for your anniversary, is it kinky or just plain rude?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40% through December 12! - Go to https://rula.com/shandy and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:59 - Q1: My Podcast Co-Host Wants To Release An Episode I Don’t Like—What Should I Do? 11:12 - Q2: Is It Better To Have Loved And Lost Than To Have Never Loved At All? 24:27 - Q3: My Entire Family Has A Zoom Call Almost Daily—Is This Normal & Do I Really Have To Join? 49:06 - Q4: My Husband Gifted Himself A Solo Sex Toy For Our Anniversary—Am I Overreacting? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, SHANDIES!!! And what better way to celebrate thanks than with a double date?? That's right: It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Andrew Spencer and Alexe Godin from Season 10 of Bachelor In Paradise! Today Alexe and Andrew whirl into the studio despite Andrew's flight being delayed and Alexe having lost her phone! They give us a peek into the delightful chaos that is their relationship and discuss whether or not Alexe should have taken ALL the money on Paradise. We learn about the cultural differences of an American dating a Canadian, how they complement each other, and what they fight about (it's not what you think!) Finally, a hilarious mess of a Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing out loud! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.manukora.com/SHANDY to get $150 off your first starter kit now until Dec 2! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to save 40% this weekend only from Thanksgiving through Cyber Monday! - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get $2 off a 4-pack of Olipop! More Alexe: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexe.godin TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexe.godin More Andrew: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/andrewzspencer TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewzspencer Time Stamps: 0:00 - Interviewing Two Ghosts 0:55 - Welcome To Andrew! 6:13 - Welcome To Alexe! 9:41 - Living In Chaos 11:54 - First Impressions 16:46 - Cultural Differences 18:49 - How They Complement Each Other 23:13 - Early Hurdle 24:45 - What They Fight About 32:02 - The Newlyweds Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Bailey Taylor Brown and Jeremy Simon from Season 10 of Bachelor In Paradise! Today Jeremy and Bailey give us a peek into their relationship and how they navigated blowback from their Paradise season. We learn the ins and outs of their dynamic that you didn't see on TV, how they complement each other, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a nail-biter of a Newlyweds Game that will keep you guessing until the very end! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Just type https://dupe.com/ before any product URL in your browser and it instantly finds you more affordable alternatives! More Bailey: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/baileytaylorbrown TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@baileytaylorbrown More Jeremy: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/j____way TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@j____way Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome to Jeremy & Bailey! 1:21 - Living Together 5:30 - First Impressions 14:03 - Three Adjectives 22:16 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 23:42 - How Jeremy’s Mom Handled The Show 25:39 - Early Hurdle 30:01 - Navigating Blowback From The Season 38:15 - How They Fight 43:27 - Common Misconceptions 45:44 - Bailey’s True Thoughts On Jeremy’s Actions On BIP 52:05 - The Newlyweds Game 1:10:00 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down the Finale and After The Final Rose for ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40%! - Go to https://rula.com/shandy and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Pajamas at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! Thank you to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for up to 40% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping + Opening Thoughts 5:04 - Finale Kick Off 22:44 - Cindy Hot Seat 35:27 - Peg & Mel In Antigua 37:55 - Proposal 41:51 - After The Final Rose 45:21 - Taylor Frankie Paul 47:21 - Bloopers 48:01 - Overall Thoughts 51:20 - Shandy Word Watch If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down Fantasy Suite week for ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get $2 off a 4-pack of Olipop! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 55% off a custom nightguard plus a FREE gift! Thank you to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for up to 40% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:23 - Antigua 6:12 - Peg’s Overnight 18:34 - Cindy’s Overnight 34:47 - Episode MVP 35:19 - Andy’s A-Game 35:29 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 36:01 - Shandy Word Watch! 37:32 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is thrilled to welcome Theresa Nist for an EXCLUSIVE in-studio conversation. You know Theresa as the winner of the mega-hit season 1 of The Golden Bachelor. She wound up engaged to Gerry Turner, their televised wedding was watched by millions, but they announced their divorce only 3 months later. What *really* happened behind the scenes, after the wedding, and after the cameras turned off? In light of Gerry's new tell-all book describing his version of events, Theresa sits down with Shandy for her most raw, unfiltered interview to date. How did it feel for Theresa to learn that Gerry wondered if he should have chosen his runner-up, Leslie? Did she mislead Gerry about quitting her career, did she misrepresent her finances, and did she read "How To Win The Bachelor" during filming, as he claimed in the book? Did she really make Gerry sleep on the sofa?! Theresa is normally very private but could not stay silent in light of the book's many accusations. Do not miss her brutally honest account. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Get up to 40% off your entire order at https://laundrysauce.com/SHANDY (their biggest sale of the year!) - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! More Theresa: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theresa_nist - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theresa_nist Past Dear Shandy episodes covering Gerry & Theresa: - Love Fest: https://youtu.be/hWCr91mBGb0?si=LOOwxXqEToxIpIBY - Golden Divorce: https://youtu.be/PyiFysUZJMc?si=OzqnEI2Ee4_gm8gS Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Theresa Nist 10:08 - Leslie 19:32 - Temper 22:22 - “East Coast Mentality” 27:44 - Finances, Her Work, The Prenup 42:18 - Lifestyle 45:00 - House Shopping 47:50 - Her Home 49:26 - Physical Intimacy 55:50 - Her Intentions 1:05:59 - Her Character 1:16:05 - Regrets 1:20:18 - Message To Gerry If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 9! Today we're breaking down the Reunion! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co/HAIR and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY10FM and use SHANDY10FM for 10 free meals plus one free item for life! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY to take the first step towards better mental health today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:31 - Jordan & Megan 11:11 - Patrick & Kacie 19:32 - Joe & Madison 29:40 - Kait 34:41 - Nick & Annie 41:58 - Anton & Ali 51:47 - Edmond & KB If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down the WTA of ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:42 - Women Tell All Kick Off 18:39 - Cheryl 20:33 - Debbie 21:34 - Mel Arrives 26:00 - Jared Fried 29:49 - Episode MVP 30:26 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down Season 2, Episode 5 of ABC's The Golden Bachelor. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping and 365-day returns! - Try Remi risk-free at https://www.shopremi.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY forup to 50% off your custom nightguard! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:47 - Episode 5 Kick Off 4:59 - Peg’s Hometown 12:50 - Debbie’s Hometown 20:37 - Cindy’s Hometown 31:33 - Rose Ceremony 36:59 - Episode MVP 37:11 - Andy’s A-Game 39:26 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 9! Today we're breaking down the finale, aka episode 12. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get $2 off a 4-pack of Olipop! - Shop at https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://manukora.com/SHANDY to save up to 31% plus $25 worth of free gifts with the starter kit! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! Thank you to our Word Watch sponsor... - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY  (Sharleen's favorite picks: Fits Everybody Scoop Neck Bralette, Fits Everybody T-shirt Bra, and Fits Everybody Boyshort) Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:21 - Anton & Ali 17:52 - Edmond & KB 35:52 - Jordan & Megan 46:23 - Shandy Word Watch 47:24 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down Season 2, Episode 4 of ABC's The Golden Bachelor. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY10FM and use SHANDY10FM for 10 free meals plus one free item for life! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:45 - Episode 4 Kick Off 4:25 - Group Date 32:39 - Cindy’s 1-On-1 37:49 - Rose Ceremony 44:01 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 44:20 - Episode MVP 44:52 - Andy’s A-Game 45:26 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 9! Today we're breaking down the third batch, aka episodes 10-11. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! Thank you to our Word Watch sponsor... - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY (Sharleen's favorite picks: Fits Everybody Scoop Neck Bralette, Fits Everybody T-shirt Bra, and Fits Everybody Boyshort) Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:19 - Anton & Ali 17:19 - Nick & Annie 30:05 - Joe & Madison 45:22 - Edmond & KB 1:07:04 - Jordan & Megan 1:26:24 - Shandy Word Watch 1:28:19 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down Season 2, Episode 3 of ABC's The Golden Bachelor. Thank you to our sponsors... - Shop Andy’s favorite Underwear at https://www.skims.com! - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY for $2 off a 4-pack of Olipop! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! Time Stamps: 0:00 - The Inaugural Andy Roast! 6:41 - Episode 3 Kick Off 7:27 - Deb’s 1-On-1 14:58 - The Next Day 18:56 - Group Date 28:41 - Back At The Mansion 35:53 - Tailgate Party 46:22 - Rose Ceremony 49:35 - Episode MVP 49:44 - Andy’s A-Game 50:28 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 9! Today we're breaking down the second batch, aka episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://dupe.com/{insert product url} and instantly find less expensive alternatives for free! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Anton & Ali 16:35 - Patrick & Anna (& Kacie) 28:22 - Joe & Madison 37:43 - Nick & Annie 57:09 - Edmond & KB 1:13:47 - Jordan & Megan 1:23:18 - Mike 1:27:56 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're breaking down Season 2, Episode 2 of ABC's The Golden Bachelor. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:40 - Episode 2 Kick Off 3:20 - Group Date 13:51 - Evening 19:05 - Debbie’s 1-On-1 / Pajama Party 27:10 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 34:33 - Rose Ceremony 34:47 - Preview 40:03 - Episode MVP 41:15 - Andy’s A-Game 41:47 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 9! Today we're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to http://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY to take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:31 - Ali & Anton 14:30 - Kacie & Patrick & Anna & Blake 41:10 - Madison & Joe 54:10 - Annie & Nick & Brendan & Kait 1:09:49 - KB & Edmond 1:32:21 - Megan & Jordan & Mike & Blake If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The newest Golden Bachelor, Mel Owens, has caused quite a stir already. Where does Shandy stand on all the drama? Today they're breaking down the Season 2 premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:00 - Our Golden Bachelor, Mel Owens 8:57 - Night One 10:17 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails 31:51 - Rose Ceremony 33:46 - The Ladies Move Into The Mansion 35:20 - Cheryl’s 1-On-1 43:16 - Group Date 49:33 - Evening 50:13 - Pool Party 52:04 - Rose Ceremony 53:02 - Episode MVP 53:39 - Andy’s A-Game 53:47 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 54:18 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You know how we feel about dating in the workplace, but does "Don't Sh*t Where You Eat" apply to hobbies? Is it acceptable to date a friend's friend's ex? If you regularly catch your husband doing you-know-what next to you while you sleep, should you address it? And you lost noticeable weight using weight loss drugs—when friends ask how you did it, to be honest or not to be honest? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Go to https://www.beekeepersnaturals.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY at checkout to get 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY10FM and use code SHANDY10FM to get 10 free meals plus a free item for life! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:22 - Q1: Does “Don’t Sh*t Where You Eat” Also Apply To Hobbies? 9:09 - Q2: Is It Acceptable To Date A Friend’s Friend’s Ex? 18:33 - Q3: Am I The A-hole, Or Is He The Jerk? 32:56 - Q4: How Do I Talk About My Weight Loss Honestly? 51:52 - Q5: How Do I Outgrow This Friendship With Grace? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 5 years old, and what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, Ruby, and everything in between! Thank you, Shandies, for HALF A DECADE of laughs, kinship and community. We absolutely adore you! Come join us in our living room to chat! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite bras and underwear at https://www.skims.com - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:33 - If Shandy Could Re-Plan Their Wedding With An Unlimited Budget, What Would It Look Like? 4:45 - Longest Time Spent Apart 7:09 - How Did Sharleen Know Andy Was “The One” And Vice Versa? 9:10 - When Was Shandy The Most Jealous? 14:00 - What Are Some Of The Little Things Shandy Fights About? 17:08 - One Word To Describe Each Other 17:57 - 3 Sex & The City Questions 20:56 - What Are Shandy’s Most Unpopular Food Opinions? 21:28 - Why Did Sharleen Move To The US & Would She Move Back To Canada? 23:56 - Is Sharleen Still Friends With Anyone From Her Bachelor Season? 25:11 - Dream Location For Sharleen’s Next Opera 27:37 - Does Sharleen Cook & If So, Asian Food? 27:56 - Sharleen’s Tips For Having Personal Style 29:35 - Having Lived In NYC His Whole Life, Has Andy Ever Owned A Car? 30:54 - What Is Andy’s Opinion On Where Movies Are Headed? 34:35 - Andy’s Best Airplane Movie 35:21 - How Does Andy Survive NYC As A Germaphobe? 36:17 - What Does Andy Do While Sharleen Plays Video Games? 36:45 - Does Ruby Have A Middle Name? 37:04 - How Is Ruby With Other Dogs? 37:47 - How Has Ruby Changed Shandy’s Lives? 39:58 - Has Shandy Considered Getting Another Pet? 40:12 - The Kitchen Faucet Behind Andy 41:39 - Anything Shandy Would Change About The Podcast? 43:20 - Who From Bachelor Nation Does Shandy Wish Would Come On? 45:21 - Does Shandy Pay Guests To Come On? 47:52 - Does Andy Have Another Job? 48:20 - Happiest Podcast Memory 49:30 - Would Shandy Consider A Live Show? 50:09 - If Shandy Could Permanently Remove One Object From The World, What Would It Be? 51:40 - Swords For Arms Or Chainsaws For Legs? 53:00 - Have A Dragon Or Be A Dragon? 55:46 - Thank You If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down the finale. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Try Remi risk-free at https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get up to 50% off your nightguard at checkout! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:34 - Episode 9 Kick Off 6:44 - “Glamping” Relationship Test 16:28 - The Next Day 19:28 - Kat & Dale’s Date 20:01 - Back At Paradise 22:12 - Evening 34:33 - Voting/Rose Ceremony 35:58 - The Next Day 38:31 - “Sharp Opinions” Relationship Test 41:35 - Back At Paradise 43:23 - Preview 50:03 - Episode MVP 50:35 - Andy’s A-Game 50:58 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

IT'S TIME, SHANDIES!!! Today's the day for volume 6 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY10FM and use code SHANDY10FM to get 10 free meals plus a free item for life! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:47 - Ep 45, Q2: “Can A Man Not Be Quite Ready For A Committed Relationship But Have Full Intention To Get There?” 9:51 - Ep 71, Q5: “Should I Re-Pursue My Former High-Paying Career At The Cost Of My Husband’s?” 18:17 - Ep 274, Q2: “My Partner Goes Out Partying Late Every Weekend—Am I Being Disrespected?” 28:47 - Ep 277, Q3: “My Friend Is Married To My Narcissist Ex And I Feel Guilty She’s Ended Up With Him—Help!” 31:59 - Ep 279, Caller Lauren: “Your Situationship Is Too Comfortable” 39:37 - Ep 281, Q2: “How Should I Handle My Toxic Ex-Worker And Her Gossip?” 47:58 - Ep 321, Q2: “AITA If I Give My Friend Unsolicited Career Plan Advice?” 50:04 - Ep 321, Q4: “I Vented About My Sister In My Journal & She Found And Read It—Help!” 54:47 - Ep 346, Q5: “How Do I Befriend My Online Match Turned Coworker?” 1:01:33 - Ep 351, Q3: “My Friend Owes Me $1000 And Is Now Ghosting Me—Help!” 1:10:37 - Ep 383, Caller Sarah: “How Do I Regain The Power In My Open Relationship?” If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 9. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY to take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:34 - Episode 9 Kick Off 6:44 - “Glamping” Relationship Test 16:28 - The Next Day 19:28 - Kat & Dale’s Date 20:01 - Back At Paradise 22:12 - Evening 34:33 - Voting/Rose Ceremony 35:58 - The Next Day 38:31 - “Sharp Opinions” Relationship Test 41:35 - Back At Paradise 43:23 - Preview 50:03 - Episode MVP 50:35 - Andy’s A-Game 50:58 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.beekeepersnaturals.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY at checkout to get 20% off your order! - Shop Andy's favorite underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:56 - Episode 8 Kick Off 5:05 - Relationship Test 13:38 - Evening 17:36 - The Next Day 26:55 - Spencer & Jess’ Date 27:41 - Back At Paradise 29:55 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 43:08 - Rose Ceremony 51:15 - Preview 51:43 - Episode MVP 52:06 - Andy’s A-Game 53:03 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're breaking down the Season 3 finale, aka episode 10! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://dupe.com/{insert product url} and instantly find less expensive alternatives for free! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:25 - Finale Kick Off 10:02 - Final Dates 15:57 - Tribal Council 26:56 - Compatibility Challenge 38:17 - Who We Would Go For 39:16 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 7. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite bras and underwear at https://www.skims.com - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:47 - Episode 7 Kick Off 5:14 - Relationship Test 11:12 - Evening 45:25 - The Next Day 55:26 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 59:00 - Voting + Rose Ceremony 1:01:37 - Preview 1:02:26 - Andy’s A-Game 1:02:24 - Episode MVP 1:03:35 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the Season 3 cast of Netflix's Perfect Match, so they're today they're breaking down the second batch, aka episodes 7-9! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY30 at checkout for 30% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:55 - The Men’s Mixer, Cont’d 9:51 - Women’s Mixer 16:10 - Evening 22:51 - 3 Days Left 31:32 - 2 Days Left 40:40 - 1 Day Left 51:55 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 6. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:08 - Episode 6 Kick Off 4:17 - Rose Ceremony 7:59 - Big Announcement 8:57 - The Next Day 9:40 - High Low What Do You Know 24:39 - Bailey & Jeremy’s Date 31:49 - Evening 40:07 - The Next Day 44:39 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 52:23 - Rose Ceremony 56:24 - Preview 56:51 - Episode MVP 59:24 - Andy’s A-Game 1:00:37 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today we're joined by the man, the legend: CLAYTON ECHARD. Clayton gives us the scoop and no-holds-barred truth on filming Netflix's Perfect Match, and what he was thinking when matching with you-know-who! LOTS of fun, laughs, and juicy tea in this conversation. We loved getting to know Clayton and think you will, too! More Clayton: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/claytonechard - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@clayton.echard - Podcast: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@BeyondTheCoverPodcast Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Clayton Echard! 2:22 - Clayton = Drama? 4:21 - Did The Perfect Match Cast Feel Different? 12:13 - Juliette 14:05 - Rachel 29:52 - Would He Do Anything Differently? 34:46 - Backlash 37:08 - Favorite & Least Favorite Thing About Filming Perfect Match Vs The Bachelor 39:15 - Rapidfire 42:55 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the Season 3 cast of Netflix's Perfect Match, so they're today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-6! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:52 - Day 1 13:56 - Day 2 15:55 - Day 3 18:41 - Day 4 25:25 - Day 5 38:41 - Day 6 51:40 - Day 7 57:05 - Day 8 58:02 - Day 9 1:04:28 - Day 10 1:06:35 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 5. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:25 - Episode 5 Kick Off 12:52 - Lea’s Date With Jonathon 18:47 - Back At Paradise 23:15 - Juicy Scene 29:35 - Nancy’s Date With Gary 32:44 - Bird Mating Dance Chemistry Test 41:18 - BIP VIP Suite 46:06 - Back At Paradise 52:21 - Day 10 55:11 - Faith’s Date With… Kathy? 57:19 - Allyshia’s Date With Sean 58:15 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 59:18 - Preview 1:02:49 - Shandy’s Episode MVP 1:03:51 - Andy’s A-Game 1:05:19 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Can you say "no" to attending your friend's destination wedding? Is it appropriate to give your 60-year old mother dating advice? What should you say when your friend wants to set up her friend with YOUR ex husband? And what to do when threesomes with your husband have left you wanting more?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY for up to 50% off your nightguard! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY30 at checkout for 30% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:43 - Q1: Can I Say “No” To My Close Friend’s Destination Wedding? 8:55 - Q2: Does My 60-Year Old Mother Need My Dating Advice? 20:05 - Q3: Threesomes With My Husband Have Left Me With More Questions Than Answers—Help! 40:43 - Q4: My Friend Says Wants To Set My Ex-Husband Up With Her Other Friend—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 4. Thank you to our sponsors... Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get a free can of Olipop when you buy any two cans! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:02 - Episode 4 Kick Off 6:02 - Gary 13:49 - Kat & Dale 19:49 - Gary’s Date With Leslie 22:01 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 41:25 - Rose Ceremony 44:30 - Aftermath 45:33 - The Next Day 47:25 - Lea & Nancy 48:17 - Faith 48:49 - Preview 51:29 - Credits 53:39 - Episode 4 MVP 54:22 - Andy’s A-Game  54:40 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 3. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY30 at checkout for 30% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:50 - Episode 3 Kick Off 4:07 - Night 5 Rose Ceremony, Cont’d 6:50 - Day 6 7:58 - The Goldens Arrive 11:01 - Andrew Spencer 18:55 - Andrew’s Date With Bailey 21:04 - Two Truths & One Lie 21:56 - Paradise Resumes 23:14 - Day 7 30:00 - Sean 36:33 - Sean’s Date With Jill 37:11- Back At Paradise 38:39 - ‘I Know What You Did Last Summer’ Exercise 43:29 - Kathy & Keith 44:26 - Paradise Resumes 46:57 - Episode MVP 48:02 - Andy’s A-Game 49:27 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 49:49 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 2. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get a free can of Olipop when you buy any two cans! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY for up to 40% off best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Mousekeeping 2:10 - Episode 2 Kick Off 8:54 - Parisa & Alli Jo 11:55 - Chemistry Test 23:24 - Paradise Resumes 33:35 - Parisa/Brian & Alli Jo/Jonathon Double Date 35:09 - Jill 37:29 - Lexi & Justin 41:17 - Susie 42:54 - The Double Date Returns 47:02 - Day 5 49:08 - Brian “Clears The Air” With Zoe 51:50 - Paradise Resumes 55:58 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 58:50 - Rose Ceremony 1:06:10 - Episode MVP 1:06:52 - Andy’s A-Game 1:07:41 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://dupe.com/{insert product url} and instantly find less expensive alternatives for free! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping?  3:27 - Overall Thoughts  6:18 - Contestants 21:17 - Paradise Is Open 23:17 - Evening 25:07 - Jess & Spencer 25:59 - Day 2 29:10 - Dale 33:28 - Dale’s Date With Kat 35:19 - Back At Paradise 41:29 - Evening 47:10 - Sam’s Date With Jess 48:08 - Back At Paradise 49:04 - Day 3/Justin’s Date With Lexi 50:12 - Evening 50:46 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 54:39 - Rose Ceremony 58:06 - Preview 1:00:12 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 1:00:53 - Episode MVP 1:02:05 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the second batch, aka episodes 8-9, plus the Reunion! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get a free can of Olipop when you buy any two cans! - Try Remi risk-free at https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY for up to 50% off your nightguard! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping 1:35 - AJ & Britney 7:31 - Bridget & Kyle 13:57 - Ashley & Marita 18:40 - Haley & Pilar 22:06 - Cocktail Party 28:27 - Haley & Pilar, Cont’d 29:58 - Haley & Magan Talk 34:24 - Dayna & Magan 42:55 - Dayna & Mel Talk 49:05 - Dayna & Magan, Cont’d 52:59 - Marie & Mel 57:10 - Reunion 57:54 - Reunion: AJ & Britney 1:01:36 - Reunion: Ashley & Marita 1:04:39 - Reunion: Marie & Mel 1:06:45 - Spotify Playlist 1:07:27 - The Definition Of Sex 1:11:38 - Reunion: Bridget & Kyle 1:11:48 - Reunion: Haley & Pilar 1:12:06 - Reunion: Dayna & Magan 1:14:35 - Shandy’s Season MVP 1:17:08 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-7, in two parts. This is Part 2 (Part 1 dropped yesterday)! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY for up to 40% off best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Continued From Part 1 - Trial Marriage: Haley & Magan 3:40 - Ultimatum Receivers “Party” 6:34 - Ultimatum Givers “Party” 12:37 - Marie Confronts Mel 16:45 - Mel Reports To Dayna 17:45 - Matching Tattoos 19:05 - Haley & Magan, Cont’d 21:22 - The Changeover 28:19 - Trial Marriage: Bridget & Kyle 29:13 - Trial Marriage: AJ & Britney 30:47 - Trial Marriage: Ashley & Marita 31:24 - Trial Marriage: Marie & Mel 32:53 - Trial Marriage: Haley & Pilar 35:28 - Trial Marriage: Dayna & Magan 44:32 - Who We Liked Best And Now Least/Vice Versa 46:13 - Shandy’s Predictions 48:47 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-7, in two parts. This is Part 1 (Part 2 drops tomorrow)! Thank you to our sponsors... Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping/Disclaimer 1:51 - Joanna Garcia Swisher 3:37 - The Couples’ Final Night/Morning 8:27 - Speed Dating 13:24 - Cocktail Party 14:22 - Magan Visits Dayna 15:47 - Dating Week 22:40 - The Choice 30:29 - Trial Marriage: Britney & Marita 33:03 - Trial Marriage: Ashley & Bridget 36:37 - Trial Marriage: Kyle & Pilar 51:25 - Trial Marriage: AJ & Marie 59:07 - Trial Marriage: Dayna & Mel 1:06:58 - To Be Continued… Part 2 Drops Tomorrow! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it socially acceptable to send your friends and family a gift registry to celebrate your law school commencement? If you promised an old friend you'd dedicate your novel to her, is it OK to change your mind? If you became platonic friends with a Hinge date, is it acceptable to want to de-escalate that friendship, and how should you go about it? Finally, what to do when you love your man but NOT his poor oral hygiene?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping & a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:40 - Q1: I’d Like To Celebrate My Law School Graduation With A Gift Registry—Thoughts? 19:55 - Q2: I Promised A Friend I’d Dedicate My Book To Her But I’ve Changed My Mind—Help! 28:20 - Q3: How Do I Drop My Hinge-Date-Turned-Friend?  39:36 - Q4: I Love Him But Not His Poor Oral Hygiene—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Natalie is in the deep depths of heartbreak after the guy she thought was her future abruptly ended things. Because his reasons were logistics-based, would she be foolish to wait for him? Our second caller, Carlie, has a thriving business but is haunted by her secret feelings for her married business partner. Are these feelings something she should act on, or is there a way to manage or overcome them? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY when signing up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off your annual membership! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY to take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Natalie! 20:41 - Shandy Debrief 23:46 - Welcome To Caller Carlie! 55:01 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you learn you were "cuttable" from the guest list, should you still bother going to the wedding? If you're engaged but not actually sure about marriage, is that your gut talking or typical wedding cold feet? If you know for a fact that your friend's fiancé has a habit with the "White Lady", do you tell the friend? And your platonic friend is wonderful but her eyelash extensions are holding her back—do you tell her, and if so, how?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off any annual membership! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:39 - Q1: I Was “Cuttable” From The Guest List; Should I Still Go? 5:03 - Q2: I Wasn’t Invited To A Wedding & Have Never Felt So Excluded—Help! 17:33 - Q3: My Gut Is Telling Me I Can’t Marry Him, But… 27:25 - Q4: Should I BLOW The Whistle On My Friend’s Fiancé’s Extracurricular Activity Of Choice? 46:31 - Q5: My Friend’s Eyelash Extensions Are Over The Top—How Do I Tell Her? Referenced Bachelorette Recap (about natural nails): https://youtu.be/YjNpLxsRqh4?si=x8vMnHKlxLvIBH4E If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Emily who has been in a casual long distance situationship with a guy who claims he needs to be single. However, his dating app activity says otherwise and his actions seem to show he really cares. She's caught real feelings... should she see where this "fling" goes, or is this guy a giant red flag? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily! 36:57 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you always beat your man at the board games he introduced you to, how can you mend his love of them? If your friend loses the key to your building that you gave her as a favor, does that deserve punishment? Is it OK to "therapy police" your husband? And if you find out your dad has been killing squirrels in his spare time, what should you do?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off any annual membership! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:55 - Q1: Beating My BF At Board Games Has Made Him Lose Interest In His Hobby—Help! 13:04 - Q2: Should I Ignore My Friend’s Birthday Because They Ignored Mine? 21:16 - Q3: My Friend Lost The Key To My Building That I Gave Her As A Favor—Shandy, What Would You Do? 27:09 - Q4: My Husband And I Always Fight About This—Am I In The Wrong? 36:44 - Q5: My Father Is A Squirrel Murderer—Help! 48:05 - Q6: Am I Wrong For “Therapy-Policing” My Husband? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

SIDEBAR IS BACK, BABY! This series was created for our most random thoughts and discussions to live, and we can't wait to read yours in the comments! Shandy saw their quarterly in-theater movie—what did they think? Is it possible to get better at holding your pee? Can you guess the cost of two juices in NYC? Are police officers staring at their phones while on the job? Did Shandy like White Lotus Season 3? Are commercials good for you? What are YOUR favorite commercial jingles? What is the least delicious type of potato? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping & a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Shandy In-Theater Movie Review 6:19 - Peeing 8:25 - White Lotus Season 3 12:24 - Patrick Schwarzenegger 13:40 - The Cost Of Juice 16:11 - Cops On Their Phones 19:26 - Recognizing Faces 26:15 - Waiting 29:39 - Guns N’ Roses 32:07 - Commercials 38:06 - Fingerling Potatoes If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — ⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

SURPRISE!!! Today we're joined IN STUDIO by Love Is Blind's Joey and Sara! Going into this recording we truly had no idea what was going to happen. Would this be a group friend hang or a Tell All-turned-Love Fest?? Today Joey and Sara officially set the record straight on the dating rumors and what it has been like being on the receiving end of so much online hate. Sara shares her side of the story when it comes to Monica's betrayal accusations, and Joey shares the ways in which he's been misunderstood. LOTS of fun, laughs, and juicy tea in this conversation. We loved getting to know the REAL Sara and Joey and think you will, too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - The first 1000 Shandies get a $100 credit at https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or by using code SHANDY at sign up! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! More Sara: - Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/saracarton_ - TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@saracarton More Joey: - Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/joeykid34 - TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@joey_exotic Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Joey & Sara! 4:00 - Are They Or Aren’t They Dating?? 7:53 - Monica 21:58 - The Love Square 25:08 - Online Hate, The Hardest Parts & Misconceptions 41:42 - That Bachelor Audition 44:07 - Exclusivity 46:27 - They Rank Their Relationship 47:56 - How They Complement Each Other 49:56 - How They Annoy Each Other 54:31 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined  1:10:17 - The Newlyweds Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

He's baaaack! It's been 2 years since we first had Ramit Sethi on and he was such a hit, we had to bring him back! Today's money convo might not only help with your marital arguments, but it could also help with your personal finances given the shaky market right now. Today we cover everything from how to have healthy conversations around money, tackling Lifestyle Creep, whether or not you can afford to have a baby, to—thanks, tariffs—what to with your money RIGHT NOW. Listen on to get rich! Our first episode with Ramit: https://youtu.be/G4jCHDdi4XA?si=zhGP3fAbTj8-1OC2 Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! More Ramit: The Book, 'Money For Couples': https://amzn.to/42TOdZp Youtube:    / @ramitsethi   Instagram:   / ramit   Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Website: https://ramitsethi.com Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi, Again! 2:40 - Why A Book For Couples? 3:58 - “Our Only Source Of Marital Argument Is Money” / The 4 Times Couples Talk Money 7:35 - Discrepancy in Earning/Spending 13:43 - When Shandy First Spoke About Money / When To Start 18:28 - “How Do I Not Get Upset When My Husband Buys $600 Watches Without Consulting Me?” 22:35 - Keeping Money Separate 26:43 - “How Do I Deal With Being The One In The Friend Group With The Least Amount Of Money?”/Keeping Up With The Joneses 37:20 - Lifestyle Creep 39:29 - Your Four Key Numbers 42:52 - Pay Off Low Interest Debt Or Invest? 45:04 - “Now Is Different” 46:26 - Gold, Silver & Bitcoin? 48:48 - “Can I Afford To Have A Baby?” 53:19 - “My Parents And I Are Soon To Come Into A Large Sum of $$; What Should We Do With It?” 54:58 - Sharleen’s Stupid Question (But Some Of You Will Thank Her!) 57:20 - Given The Tariffs, What You Should Be Doing With Your Money Right Now If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Sarah who is in a long term, long distance, *polyamorous* relationship. While she has agreed to all the terms, she doesn't feel prioritized or valued. Is this her anxious attachment style rearing its head or is it the relationship itself? And can she regain the power in this dynamic? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah! 40:30 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if your mother-in-law keeps sending you money as a way to control you? As a guy in today's dating climate, is it assertively sexy or just plain pushy to reach back out to a past flame? And is it possible for your dream baby name to be "cursed"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY for a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:37 - Q1: My Mother-In-Law Keeps Trying To Control Us With Money—Help! 15:23 - Q2: I’m Still Thinking About Her… Should I Reach Back Out? 32:52 - Q3: Should I Still Use My Dream Baby Name? 46:52 - Q4: Our Friends Booked Their Wedding One Week Before Ours—Should We Still Go? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by Hannah who is juggling a lot in her personal life: a loving husband, 2 kids AND a loving girlfriend. But while things seem peachy, Hannah's parents—with whom she's extremely close—do NOT approve. How can she gain their acceptance of her poly lifestyle? Or how can she learn to accept their lack of acceptance? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off any annual membership! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Hannah! 24:43 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

At long last, we're joined by Carolina from season 29 of The Bachelor! Today Carolina dishes the behind-the-scenes dirt on being the season's "villain" and shares the many things Grant told her off camera. She also provides loads of juicy context for the season's most polarizing scenes. Did Grant act like a player? What did Rose *really* tell Carolina off camera? Have she and Dina patched things up? And is Mean Girl Mob Mentality a thing? We devoured this candid conversation with the open book that is Carolina and we think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Head to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Carolina: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itscarolinasofia - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itscarolinasofia Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Carolina! 1:37 - Was She Ever A Contender For Bachelorette? 2:43 - Did She Know She’d Become The “Villain”? 6:32 - Was There A Moment When Things “Turned”? 9:24 - That Dancing Group Date 11:44 - Things Grant Said 15:15 - Relationship Management 18:03 - The Season’s “Great Leader” Culture 24:16 - Rose & The “Player” Vibes 35:12 - Juliana 38:44 - The Scotland Group Date 43:10 - Dina 48:50 - Women Tell All 51:06 - True Friends 51:57 - Her Honest Thoughts on Grant 53:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today we're joined by Love Is Blind's Meg and Mason, aka the couple we WISH we got to watch make it to the altar! Shandy is thrilled to welcome Meg and Mason IN STUDIO for this candid conversation! Today Meg and Mason dish on their relationship (are they or aren't they dating??), what it was like watching the show back, and whether or not they wish they'd stayed on all season. Meg shares how it *really* felt watching back Mason and Madison's scenes, and they share whether or not Madison is the reason they broke up. We learn what got cut from the Reunion as well as their true thoughts on those "receipts"! Lots of fun (and tea) in this conversation—we loved chatting with these two and think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! More Meg: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meggofueggo - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@meggofueggo More Mason: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masonhoracek - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@masonhoracek Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Meg & Mason! 4:29 - Why Now And Not Then? 8:11 - Their Private “Big Reveal” - good spot for thumbnail 10:09 - First Impressions 13:46 - Did They Date Other People? 15:56 - Watching It All Back 20:09 - Madison 35:25 - Mason’s Response To Viewers Who Felt He Led On Both Women 38:05 - Do They Wish They’d Stayed On The Show For The Experience? 42:26 - The Reunion 55:32 - The Receipts 57:44 - How Mason Ended Up On The Show 59:52 - How They Complement Each Other 1:01:40 - Would They Have Met Without The Show 1:03:43 - How They Fight 1:05:57 - The Newlyweds Game 1:14:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

NEW EPISODE SERIES ALERT!!! Dear Shandy has been faithfully relationship-focused for 4.5 years, but we've decided it's about time there was a dedicated space for all the long lost topics and tangents. The Sidebar was created for our most random thoughts and discussions to live, and we can't wait to hear about yours in the comments! What did Shandy think of season 2 of Severance? Would you ever go skiing alone? Do Canadians get road rage? Is reaching at the dinner table really so bad? What was Andy's worst ever "you're welcome"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping + a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:32 - Severance Season 2 (Spoiler Alert) 20:42 - Skiing Alone 25:12 - Laughing Alone 29:27 - Canadians In Cars 33:11 - Reaching At The Dinner Table 36:22 - Andy’s Worst You’re Welcome 41:03 - What Dogs Think About When They Do Tricks 42:58 - Pretty Privilege If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down the Season 29 Finale & After The Finale Rose! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://ThriveMarket.com/SHANDY for 30% off your first order plus a FREE $60 gift! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:28 - Finale Kick Off 6:45 - Litia Meets Grant’s Family 14:40 - Juliana Meets Grant’s Family 19:06 - Juliana Final Date 20:29 - Litia’s Final Date 26:52 - The Next Day 28:59 - Neil Lane 33:47 - The Breakup 38:02 - Litia Hot Seat 44:10 - The Proposal 44:41 - After The Final Rose 51:02 - Bachelor In Paradise Announcement 59:54 - Overall Thoughts/Revisiting Our Bet 1:02:46 - Andy’s A-Game 1:03:15 - Fashion 1:04:39 - Shandy Word Watch 1:05:35 - Reviewing Our Night One Predictions 1:07:48 - Discussion With Our Shandies If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there a polite way to tell your friends not to bring their messy kids to your new place? Is the way your partner criticizes reality TV contestants' looks a red flag? If you and your partner of nearly 20 years simply cannot agree on where to live, what to do? And finally, what to do if your partner doesn't seem to care about his hygiene! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:18 - Q1: My Friends Want To Bring Their Messy Kids To My Brand New Condo—Help! 13:54 - Q2: My Husband & I Fight Over Reality TV—Help! 32:54 - Q3: We Differ On Where We Want To Live—Is This A Dealbreaker? 54:21 - Q4: I Love My Boyfriend But Not His Skid Marks—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down Fantasy Suites for season 29! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/FACTORPODCAST and use code FACTORPODCAST for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to save up to 40%! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:38 - Episode 8 Kick Off 4:33 - Juliana 11:24 - The Next Morning 14:44 - Zoe 19:52 - The Next Morning 23:41 - Litia 36:56 - The Next Morning 39:16 - Rose Ceremony 48:22 - Grant With His Family 49:45 - Andy’s A-Game 53:36 - Fashion 56:02 - Shandy Word Watch 59:02 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down Women Tell All for season 29! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY when signing up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:23 - Women Tell All Kick Off 16:45 - Alexe 18:50 - Sarafiena 21:20 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives 24:08 - Dina 27:15 - Carolina 33:34 - Grant 40:23 - Snow White Sponsored Segment 46:11 - Andy’s A-Game 47:26 - Fashion 49:17 - Shandy Word Watch 54:27 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the Weddings & Reunion for Season 8! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.skims.com to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:37 - Ben & Sara 16:03 - Joey & Monica 31:58 - Dave & Lauren 37:31 - Devin & Virginia 50:45 - Mason & Meg (& Alex & Madison) 1:02:15 - Danile & Taylor 1:10:12 - Odds & Ends If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you keep having dirty dreams about a friend's husband, is that a type of cheating? Are you too picky for not entertaining men who pursue you "second", *after* showing interest in your friend? If you get a work opportunity that feels better suited to a friend, should you hand over the job? And the age old question: what to do when trapped in Group Text Hell?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:29 - Q1: How Do I Decline My Grandmother’s Offer Of Her Engagement Ring? 11:54 - Q2: I Keep Having Dirty Dreams About A Friend’s Husband—Help! 25:14 - Q3: Am I Too Picky For Not Wanting To Be Second Choice? 35:29 - Q4: Am I A Bad Friend If I Accept This Work Opportunity? 53:22 - Q5: I’m Trapped In Group Text Hell—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 6 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:16 - Episode 6 Kick off 3:21 - Juliana’s Hometown 10:10 - Zoe’s Hometown 27:18 - Litia’s Hometown 38:58 - Dina’s Hometown 43:57 - Los Angeles 47:10 - Rose Ceremony 49:49 - Andy’s A-Game 50:05 - Fashion 50:33 - Shandy Word Watch 53:43 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 10-12! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://www.thuma.co/SHANDY to receive $100 off your first bed purchase! - Go to https://www.ThriveMarket.com/SHANDY and get 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift! - Go to https://www.acorns.com/SHANDY or download the Acorns app to get started! Time Stamps: 0:00 - (No) Housekeeping 0:23 - Joey & Monica 9:21 - Devin & Virginia 25:24 - Daniel & Taylor 36:23 - Dave & Lauren 47:53 - Alex, Madison, Mason, Meg 56:26 - Ben & Sara 1:09:01 - Ben & Sara Wedding 1:15:13 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 5 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Visit https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:22 - Episode 5 Kick Off 7:56 - Juliana’s 1-On-1 21:31 - Group Date 37:46 - Litia’s 1-on-1 45:15 - Rose Ceremony 50:40 - Andy’s A-Game 51:07 - Fashion 53:09 - Shandy Word Watch 55:37 - Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/FACTORPODCAST and use FACTORPODCAST to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:08 - Joey & Monica 14:10 - Devin & Virginia 28:29 - Daniel & Taylor 49:08 - Dave & Lauren 1:07:29 - Ben & Sara 1:15:27 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 4 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:57 - Episode 4 Kick Off 9:08 - Dina’s 1-On-1 15:09 - Back At The Hotel 16:41 - Group Date 42:37 - Serafiena’s 1-On-1 48:52 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 1:06:19 - Rose Ceremony 1:07:14 - Andy’s A-Game 1:07:39 - Fashion 1:08:49 - Shandy Word Watch 1:10:30 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping + a rechargeable frother! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Time Stamps: 1:41 - Joey & Monica 9:02 - Ben & Sara 18:55 - Devin & Brittany 24:23 - Devin & Virginia 31:07 - Mason & Meg 40:09 - Mason & Madison 57:37 - Mason & Meg Final Scene 1:05:28 - Alex 1:05:46 - Alex & Madison 1:18:16 - Dave 1:19:04 - Dave & Molly 1:26:06 - Dave & Lauren 1:33:27 - Daniel & Taylor 1:38:56 - 24 Hours Later 1:42:07 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 3 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 8:24 - Episode 3 Kick Off 9:22 - Group Date #1 27:06 - The Next Day 30:13 - Carolina’s 1-On-1 34:37 - The Next Day/Beverly 39:23 - Group Date #2 43:59 - Evening/Litia’s Dinner 45:37 - Back At The Mansion 47:25 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party/Prom 55:14 - Rose Ceremony 55:39 - Andy’s A-Game 56:02 - Fashion 57:43 - Shandy Word Watch 59:27 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

One of the most common questions Shandy has received over the years has been around keeping the *SPARK* alive in a long term relationship. Who better to help us answer that age old question than legendary writer and sex educator Emily Nagoski, PhD! You know Emily for "Come As You Are", the mega bestseller that—no biggie—REDEFINED WOMEN'S SEXUALITY. Her latest book, "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections", could not be more on topic for today's conversation! Today Emily teaches how to navigate mismatched libidos, expert tips for orgasming, the 4 big questions couples need to ask themselves, and how to find time for sexy time in a schedule full of to-do lists! Do not miss this one! Thank you to our sponsor! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! More Emily Nagoski: - Emily's latest book, Come Together: https://amzn.to/4hMmlMU - Website: https://www.emilynagoski.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enagoski - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@emilynagoski Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Emily Nagoski! 3:29 - Long Term Relationship Sex Myths 7:34 - Mismatched Libidos 12:57 - Creating Context/The 4 Questions 15:59 - When You Wish You Wanted It More 17:43 - Sense Of Obligation 26:38 - Orgasm 41:12 - Control 43:51 - Long Term Relationships 48:10 - Body Confidence 50:36 - Emily’s Vibrator Picks 52:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 2 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.thuma.com/SHANDY to receive $100 off your first bed purchase! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:38 - Episode 2 Kick Off 4:06 - Group Date #1 21:13 - The Next Day 21:48 - Alexe’s 1-On-1 27:53 - Group Date #2 38:20 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 40:47 - Rose Ceremony 42:58 - Andy’s A-Game 44:33 - Fashion 46:10 - Shandy Word Watch 48:40 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by The Golden Bachelorette herself, the one and only Joan Vassos, and her fiancé, Chock Chapple! Today Joan and Chock chat apartment hunting in NYC, their early relationship hurdle, and of course, how they fight! Plus, Andy gets to ask Chock about his name! Finally, a delightfully juvenile Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! More Joan: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/joan_vassos TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@joanvassos More Chock: https://www.instagram.com/chockchapple TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@cchapple Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Joan & Chock! 2:08 - The Name Chock 4:47 - Was It Love At First Sight? 8:34 - Three Adjectives 10:38 - New York & Decorating 13:28 - How They Complement Each Other 18:33 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 24:15 - Early Hurdle 30:16 - How They Fight 34:41 - Beliefs That Have Changed 42:02 - The Newlyweds Game 52:17 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.thrivemarket.com/SHANDY to get 30% off your first order plus a free $60 gift! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:48 - Episode 1 Kick Off 12:07 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails 18:57 - Grant’s Toast 19:59 - Notable 1-On-1 Time 44:11 - First Impression Rose 44:26 - Rose Ceremony 44:36 - Previews 45:28 - Andy’s A-Game 47:01 - Fashion Police 49:36 - Shandy Word Watch 53:06 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick Nick Tramontin's brain since we recapped his season of The Ultimatum, and that day is officially here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled everyone's favorite Tortured Artist agreed to join us! Today Nick shares the most common misconceptions about him, whether or not he thinks Netflix plied him with alcohol on purpose, his HONEST thoughts on Sandy, Mariah and Vanessa. We also find out whether or not it's possible to make great art without being a little bit "tortured". Bonus: We get the dirt on Bob Ross and Nick judges Andy's own "La Banane" painting! 🍌 We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Nicholas: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicholas.tramontin/ - Art: https://nmtcollection.com/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Nicholas Tramontin! 1:50 - Why He Went On The Ultimatum 5:30 - Did He Really Want To Marry Sandy? 7:15 - Have He And Sandy Ever Been To A Swingers Party? 8:12 - What Did He Learn About Himself? 9:26 - Does He Feel Like The Show Preyed On Him Regarding Alcohol? 10:45 - What Response Has Surprised Him? 11:07 - Vanessa 15:25 - What Did He Expect To Happen? 16:05 - His Homeschooling 16:57 - Does He Wish He’d Left The Show 18:21 - Mariah 20:20 - What Has He Learned About Human Nature? 22:28 - Most Common Misconception 27:54 - His Art 32:25 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Tortured? 34:48 - Does He Feel His Paintings From The Show Were Some His Better Work? 35:50 - Is It Ever Hard Letting His Art Go? 38:08 - Who Is His Favorite Artist? 41:00 - “Dating An Artist Is Hard” & The Creation Of Art 43:45 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Sensitive? 44:30 - Dogs 45:39 - His Girlfriend 46:39 - Does He Feel Gratitude To Sandy? 47:47 - Rapid Fire 49:49 - Does He Believe In Ultimatums? 51:05 - Is He A Cuckold? 51:45 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Happy 2025, Shandies!!! We're excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... we're back with volume 5 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to discover SKIMS intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping & News 6:05 - Episode 91, from Caller Kiera: “My Boyfriend’s Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?” 9:44 - Episode 133, Q1 from Jess: “I Always Seem To Catch The Ick From My Dates—Am I Being Too Picky?” 14:42 - Episode 184, Q5 from Anonymous: “The Guy I’ve Been Seeing For 1.5 Years Won’t Commit—Snap Me Out Of It” 19:07 - Episode 189, Q4 from Liz: “I Am In Love With A Man 28 Years Older—Am I Wasting My Youth?” 31:10 - Episode 231, Q4 from Maybe Shallow: “I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic Flaw—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow?” 35:29 - Episode 304, Q1 from One Bored Babe: “Does Healthy = Boring?” 41:55 - Episode 307, Q3 from Triply Baffled: “Strangers Constantly Ask Me A Question I Hate—How Should I Respond?” 45:55 - Episode 313, Q6 from Sarah P: “My Aunt’s Sold A Belonging Of My Grandparents’ That I Really Wanted—Should I Let This Grudge Go?” 58:35 - Episode 321, Q1 from Passenger Princess: “Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery?” 1:02:42 - Episode 340, Q4 from Songless Bird: “My Boyfriend Dislikes My Singing So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter?” 1:05:57 - Episode 346, Q4 from KB: “I’m The Paparazzi In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help!” If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by Love Is Blind's latest (and coolest) power couple: the iconic Taylor Krause and Garrett Josemans, now the Josemans-Krauses! Today Taylor and Garrett chat their true first impressions of one another, the early relationship hurdle they're still navigating, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a competitively uncompetitive Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Get to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! More Taylor: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/chinesediscobaby TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@chinesediscobaby More Garrett: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/garrett.josemans TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@garrettjosemans Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Garrett And Taylor! 2:04 - Their Surnames 7:13 - First Impressions & How Those Have Changed 12:47 - How They Complement Each Other 17:13 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 22:10 - Early Hurdle 31:53 - Having A 5 Year Plan 33:19 - How They Fight 36:32 - Common Misconceptions 39:36 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 42:39 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game 57:25 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the third batch of season 3, aka the Finale and Reunion! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:51 - Cliffhanger: Sandy & JR 10:44 - Ultimatum: Zaina & JR 14:37 - Ultimatum: Mariah & Caleb 20:34 - Ultimatum: Sandy & Nick 29:54 - Ultimatum: Aria & Scotty 33:58 - Reunion: Mariah & Caleb 39:54 - Reunion: Aria & Scotty 46:23 - Reunion: Zaina & JR 56:26 - Nail QR code 58:57 - Vanessa & Dave 1:14:57 - Reunion: Sandy & Nick 1:19:53 - Final Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's our last non-recap episode of 2024 and today's all about reflecting on past year! In keeping with tradition, we're answering YOUR questions about our personal bests and worsts of 2024. THANK YOU, lovely Shandies, for yet another year of being the friends we've never met (but in some cases have!) Happy, happy holidays and see you in 2025! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to save over 35% on your order now through January 12! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/50SHANDY and use code 50SHANDY to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE gift AND a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:01 - Favorite Place Visited 8:07 - Best Animal Encounter 9:17 - Favorite Meal 10:14 - Best Movie 11:00 - Best Escape Room 12:19 - Best Experience 16:09 - Favorite Pair Of Andy’s Socks 16:20 - Best Food With Cheese Eaten 19:34 - Best Thing You Spent Money On 21:28 - Worst Movie 23:21 - Worst Book 26:25 - Least Favorite Show That We Recapped 26:35 - Biggest First World Problem 28:53 - Worst Reality TV Villain 30:26 - Biggest Podcast-Related Lesson Learned 38:23 - Most Memorable Fan Encounter  41:38 - Will You Consider Becoming Full-Time Podcasters in 2025? 44:53 - Hardest Lesson 49:00 - New Routines 54:40 - Proudest Moment 57:15 - F*ck, Marry, Kill: Japan, Ireland, New Zealand? Items mentioned: 5-minute journal: https://amzn.to/4iDIHkK Nodpod eye mask: https://bit.ly/41EpJEO If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the second batch of season 3, aka episodes 6-8! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://lolavie.com and use code SHANDY15 to get 15% off your order! - Go to https://acorns.com/SHANDY or download the Acorns app to start saving and investing for your future today! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:43 - Trial Marriages, Cont’d 2:01 - Zaina & Scotty 7:54 - Aria & Caleb 11:33 - Sandy & JR 17:29 - Nick 24:17 - The Changeover 37:55 - Second Trial Marriages 38:46 - Sandy & Nick 53:01 - Zaina & JR 1:00:19 - Mariah & Caleb 1:04:07 - Aria & Scotty 1:10:40 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:11:51 - Who We Think Is The Cuckold Couple 1:12:55 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your maid of honor feels you should have a dry wedding to accommodate your mutual friend, are you the A-hole for taking issue with that? Is it normal for your boyfriend to follow numerous "Instagram models", or is it just today's culture? If you dig up past dirt on your husband's phone, who's more wrong: him for lying, or you for spying? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:18 - Q1: My Maid Of Honor Thinks I Should Have A Dry Wedding To Accommodate Our Mutual Friend—Help! 7:45 - Q2: I Hate That My Boyfriend Follows Several Instagram Models—Am I Overreacting? 24:01 - Q3: I’ve Sleuthed My Husband’s Phone And Found A Past I Can’t Get Over—Help! 43:52 - Q4: I Can’t Stand My In-Laws’ Gift Giving Etiquette—Am I Wrong? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandies, you asked, and you shall receive! By VERY popular demand, Shandy is recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 3, episodes 1-5! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:05 - Introduction 11:37 - Couples’ Final Night Together 14:44 - Speed Dating 19:02 - Dating Week 29:08 - The Choice 33:10 - Trial Marriages 1:07:25 - Girls’ Night/Boys’ Night 1:14:50 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:18:09 - Who We Think Is The Cuckold Couple 1:18:49 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the FINALE and REUNION for season 7, aka episodes 10-12! Thank you to our sponsors... - Shop the Skims Holiday Shop at https://www.skims.com/shany! #skimspartner - Get a free travel bag with your first OneSkin order over $79 with code TRAVELGIFT at https://www.oneskin.co! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:20 - Alex & Tim 9:47 - Hannah & Nick 31:13 - Marissa & Ramses 48:10 - Reunion: Monica & Stephen 50:07 - Reunion: Leo & Brittany 51:23 - Ashley & Tyler 1:04:03 - Garrett & Taylor 1:09:45 - Special Announcement If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, SHANDIES!!! It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! We're all told not to quit growing up, but when you're an adult making adult decisions, is it ok to be a "quitter"? Is there anything wrong with a "sexless" but otherwise happy marriage? And if your friend who owes you $1000 then has the audacity to ghost you, what should you do? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:50 - Q1: Is It OK To Be A Quitter? 10:58- Q2: Is A Sexless Marriage Destined For Failure? 25:20 - Q3: My Friend Owes Me $1000 And Is Now Ghosting Me—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to get up to 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE gift AND a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 + 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY to get $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://www.goodamerican.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get $50 off your first pair! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:51 - Garrett & Taylor 18:08 - Monica & Stephen 36:10 - Marissa & Ramses 1:02:29 - Hannah & Nick 1:14:10 - Ashley & Tyler 1:25:39 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO lovely callers: Sally and Cat! Sally's situation is from several years ago but she still wonders if she was the A-hole for sharing what her husband told her about their mutual acquaintance. Where is the line when it comes to "breaking" the Bro Code, and are you the A-hole if you're the one to then share that information? Cat, meanwhile, is at a crossroads with two platonic friendships. She has felt disappointed by both friends, and being a direct person, she's willing to air her grievances head on. But with the passing of time and different priorities, are some friendships simply meant to fade? Listen on for the Shandy take! Are you interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sally! 21:21 - Shandy Debrief 26:22 - Welcome To Caller Cat! 56:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to get 15% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.storyworth.com/DEARSHANDY to save $10 on your first purchase! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY15 to get 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:46 - Garrett & Taylor 16:12 - Ashley A & Tyler 25:13 - Monica & Stephen 40:06 - Marissa & Ramses 48:41 - Alex & Tim 1:01:40 - Leo & Brittany 1:12:09 - Hannah & Nick 1:34:23 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand Finale of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 27% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to get up to 40% off your order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.fromourplace.com and enter code SHANDY at checkout to receive 10% off sitewide! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:34 - Finale Kick Off 10:25 - Bora Bora 43:55 - After The Final Rose 50:08 - Grant If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find out your therapist used to be your mother's therapist, should you "break up" with them, and if so, how? If your friend keeps asking bothersome requests of you, is there a way to get them to stop? If your partner is against marriage, is that a dream you should let go? And if you tend to play photographer to your friend group but are saddened when they never seem to reciprocate, is this a fixable friendship dynamic? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - A Very Random Introduction 3:15 - Q1: How Do I Break Up With My Therapist? 11:15 - Q2: How Do I Get My Friend To Stop Asking Me This Question? 21:04 - Q3: I Love My Partner But She Never Wants Marriage Or Kids—How Do I Bury These Dreams? 32:38 - Q4: I’m The “Paparazzi” In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help! 52:18 - Q5: How Do I Befriend My Online Match-Turned-Coworker? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All for the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Skims Bras at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a free gift + a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to http://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY to get $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.fromourplace.com and enter code SHANDY at checkout to receive 10% off sitewide! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:18 - Men Tell All 36:50 - Bloopers 41:30 - Preview 44:02 - Andy’s A-Game 46:52 - Shandy Word Watch 48:34 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://www.goodamerican.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get $50 off your first pair! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://hexclad.com/SHANDY for 10% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - If you’re 21+, go to https://bit.ly/viiashandy and use code SHANDY to receive 15% off! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:36 - Episode 7 Kick Off 11:58 - Guy’s Overnight 39:45 - Pascal 42:04 - Pascal’s Overnight 51:51 - Andy’s A-Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find yourself in a flirty dynamic with your (married) boss, is this pre-mistress territory? If your sister is interested in your brother-in-law but you question their compatibility, how honest should you be? If your friend sleeps with the ex of another friend of yours, is this friendship-ending messy behavior? And how do you make friends if you're not "pretty"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/FREESHANDY for 10 free meals! - Get a free travel bag with your first OneSkin order over $79 with code TRAVELGIFT at https://www.oneskin.co! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:49 - Q1: Am I About To Become The Mistress? 18:39 - Q2: My Sister Is Interested In My Brother-In-Law—What Should I Do? 29:37 - Q3: My Friend’s Recent Behavior Disgusts Me—Is She Too Messy? 45:39 - Q4: Can I Avoid Visiting My In-Laws? 1:01:40 - Q5: I Wish I Had More Friends & Think It’s Because I’m Not “Pretty”—Shandy’s Advice? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to http://lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:27 - Guy’s Hometown 13:14 - Pascal’s Hometown 28:50 - Jordan’s Hometown 37:09 - Chock’s Hometown 49:00 - Rose Ceremony 1:00:14 - Andy’s A-Game 1:00:38 - Shandy Word Watch 1:02:11 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! - Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SHANDY at https://www.oneskin.co! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:50 - Episode 5 Kick Off 12:41 - Keith’s 1-On-1 18:43 - Mark 24:55 - Back On The Date 32:58 - Group Date 39:46 - Mark’s 1-On-1 47:47 - The Next Day 50:27 - Rose Ceremony 56:06 - Andy’s A-Game 57:44 - Shandy Word Watch 1:00:36 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When in a relationship, is it inappropriate to get dinner alone with your opposite-sex friend and his parents? Is closure within reach when the object of your affection was hot and cold to begin with? And if your boyfriend tells you your singing annoys him, is that a nothing burger or dealbreaker territory? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:00 - Q1: In A Relationship, Is Getting Dinner Alone With An Opposite-Sex Friend And Their Parents Appropriate?  13:00 - Q2: Should I Reach Out To My Hot-And-Cold Date For Closure? 23:20 - Q3: Am I The A*****e For Feeling Neglected By My Friend Since She Met Her New Boyfriend? 33:23 - Q4: My Boyfriend Told Me My Singing Annoys Him So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter? 55:22 - Shandy’s Favorite Flavors If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Skims Bras at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on $75+! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Get a free travel bag with your first OneSkin order over $79 with code TRAVELGIFT at https://www.oneskin.co! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SHANDY at https://www.oneskin.co! - Go to https://cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off 5:04 - Group Date 22:59 - The Next Day 26:00 - Jordan’s 1-On-1 33:50 - Guy’s 1-On-1 39:33 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 51:19 - Rose Ceremony 53:35 - Andy’s A-Game 54:26 - Shandy Word Watch 57:27 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:03:30 - F***, Marry, Kill If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:37 - Episode 3 Kick Off 6:02 - Pascal’s 1-On-1 13:18 - Sharleen’s Frant 25:14 - Group Date 39:45 - Jonathan’s 1-On-1 49:13 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 57:20 - Gerry 1:03:21 - Rose Ceremony 1:03:53 - Andy’s A-Game 1:04:09 - Shandy Word Watch 1:07:48 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you name your friend your baby's guardian but she doesn't live up to the role, is it OK to rescind the title? Does not wanting to attend your friends' kids' birthday parties make you an A-hole? How to choose between Mister Nice Guy and Mister Good In Bed? And finally, the age old question: Just HOW does one go about hitting on their COUSIN?!?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 2:19 - Q1: I Celebrate My Friend’s Birthdays But She Often Forgets Mine—Is She A Hypocrite Or Are We Not As Close As I Think? 11:43 - Q2: Am I The A*****e For Not Wanting To Attend My Friend’s 2-Year Old’s Birthday Party? 16:32 - Q3: My Baby’s Guardians Have Really Disappointed Me—Can I Rescind Their Role? 37:37 - Q4: How Do I Hit On My Cousin? 46:26 - Q5: Mister Nice Guy Vs Mister Good In Bed—How Do I Choose? 59:25 - Q6: To Dye Or Not To Dye My Grey Hair? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - If you’re 21+, go to https://bit.ly/viiashandy and use code SHANDY to receive 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping & Random Question 3:11 - Episode 2 Kick Off 8:52 - Group Date #1 18:26 - Chock’s 1-On-1 25:34 - The Next Day 27:40 - Group Date #2 34:40 - BBQ 46:59 - Rose Ceremony 52:26 - Andy’s A-Game 55:21 - Shandy Word Watch 57:19 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere of the Golden Bachelorette! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.keepertax.com/shandy for a free trial plus 10% off your subscription! - Shop the Skims Soft Lounge Collection at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.huel.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Our Word Watch sponsor! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: Coming soon! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 4 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received a particularly fabulous selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel seen, understood, and like we're in the company of found family. We love you guys! Come join us in our living room to chat! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! Previous Anniversary Q&As... 1 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE9711623600.mp3?updated=1694617411 2 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:47 - What Advice Would You Give Aspiring (But Intimidated) Podcasters? 3:58 - What’s The Best, Most Non-Intrusive Way To Approach You In Person? 6:00 - If You Could Only Watch One TV Show For The Rest Of Your Life, What Would It Be? 15:38 - Is Andy Tired Of Watching The Bachelor Yet? 18:51 - Which One Of You Would Win Survivor?  22:01 - What Animal is Truly The King Of The Jungle? 24:15 - If Asked, Would You Both Host A Reality TV Show? 25:07 - What Type Of Natural Disaster Are You Most Afraid Of? 28:31 - At 4 Years Of Podcasting, What Is More Frustrating Than When You Started And What Is Less? 35:37 - When Are Andy And Thomas Reuniting? 35:36 - When Wiping, Do You Bunch Or Fold Your Toilet Paper? 36:26 - Describe Yourself As A Kitchen Utensil 37:51 - Do You Break Your KitKats Or Bite Into Them With Disregard For The Breaking Line? 40:25 - What Is Something New That Ruby Has Brought Out In Your Relationship? 43:15 - How Did You Choose Ruby’s Name? 44:07 - I Know Sharleen Loves Video Games But Has Andy Ever Played One And Enjoyed It? 47:46 - If You Could Each Go Back And Tell Your Partner’s Younger Self Something, What Would It Be? 51:45 - How Many 3-Year Olds Do You Think You Could Fight Off Before They Overtook You? 55:29 - If You Could Drop Everything Right Now, Money Is Not An Object, Where And How Would You Go And Live? 58:40 - Thank You If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does breaking a promise more than once make you a "bad" friend? What about costing your friend $$$ because you bailed on her birthday? If your roommate won't stop "complaining" about getting hit on—after always wanting to get hit on—how should you proceed? And another GYM question!!! Woohoo! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off science-driven skincare! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:35 - Q1: Am I Delusional For Wanting To Be Friends With This Ex? 11:47 - Q2: Am I A Bad Friend If I Break My Promise Twice? 27:06 - Q3: My Friend Bailed On My Birthday Trip At The 11th Hour—How Do I Address This? 45:53 - Q4: My Roommate Keeps “Complaining” About Getting Hit On—What Should I Say? 1:05:45 - Q5: This Gym Guy Is So Honest But Also Confusing—What’s My Next Move? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the shocking FINALE of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your purchase of $75 or more! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Visit http://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use the code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:00 - Jenn’s Family In Hawaii 27:58 - Devin’s Final Date 30:26 - Doctor Odyssey 31:42 - Marcus 38:19 - Neil Lane 40:26 - Record Scratch 1:00:33 - Proposal 1:13:09 - Golden Bachelorette Preview 1:13:43 - Andy’s A-Game 1:19:12 - Fashion 1:22:32 - Shandy Word Watch 1:23:35 - Night One Predictions 1:24:35 - Overall Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by a Bachelor Nation POWER COUPLE who has been married for nearly a year. You got to know Caelynn on Colton Underwood's season of The Bachelor, and Dean on Rachel Lindsay's season of The Bachelorette, but it was on season 6 of Bachelor in Paradise where we saw them escape reality TV, hand-in-hand! Today Caelynn and Dean chat their true first impressions of one another, the ways in which their partner isn't what they might have predicted for themselves, what the biggest misconceptions about them are, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a relaxed but very fun Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! More Caelynn: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/caelynnbell TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@caelynnbell Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@CaelynnBell More Dean: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/deanie_babies TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@deanie_babies Blog - https://www.deaniebabies.com/ Caelynn & Dean: Podcast - https://www.instagram.com/help_i_suck_at_dating Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Caelynn & Dean Bell! 3:42 - Their New Surname 8:25 - First Impressions 21:13 - The Podcast 26:33 - How They Complement Each Other 33:39 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 40:07 - How They Fight 45:22 - Common Misconceptions 52:01 - What They’ve Learned Through Working Together 58:18 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 59:15 - The Newlyweds Game 1:12:00 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're doing double, we're breaking down both Episode 8 and Men Tell All of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Visit http://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use the code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your purchase of $75 or more! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:53 - Episode 8 Kick Off 2:27 - Devin’s Overnight 12:50 - Jonathon’s Overnight 19:05 - Marcus 24:30 - Marcus’ Overnight 38:03 - Episode 9 Kick Off 41:58 - Rose Ceremony 46:00 - Men Tell All 51:00 - Sam M’s Hot Seat 56:10 - Jonathon’s Hot Seat 56:47 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives Promo 58:10 - Grant 1:00:53 - Jenn  1:14:03 - Andy’s A-Game 1:14:40 - Fashion 1:19:20 - Shandy Word Watch 1:22:28 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's guest has come hotly requested by many of you and we're so happy to dissect the not-so-happy topic of childhood trauma with her. Anna Runkle, aka the one and only  @CrappyChildhoodFairy , is the author of the upcoming book "Re-Regulated" (releases October 1, 2024 - preorder below). She has amassed a whopping 860K+ Youtube subscribers with her content covering how to heal from Complex PTSD—or as she has coined, Childhood PTSD. If you struggle with regulating your emotions, if you get stuck in “looping,” repetitive, negative thoughts, if you struggle with anxiety, depression or overwhelm, or if you always find yourself with unavailable or inappropriate partners, it's highly possible a childhood of neglect or abuse might be to blame. Anna knows the experience well because she lived it herself. Today she breaks down the symptoms of CPTSD as well as her tried and true techniques to regulate your emotions and regain control of your life and your relationships. Listen on to heal! Thank you to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! More Anna Runkle, Aka Crappy Childhood Fairy: - Preorder Anna’s Book, Re-Regulated: https://re-regulated.com - Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@CrappyChildhoodFairy - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crappychildhoodfairy - Free Daily Practice Course: http://bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Anna Runkle, Aka The Crappy Childhood Fairy! 3:00 - What Is CPTSD? 4:18 - Loneliness And How It Relates To Childhood 5:59 - Can One Truly Heal Childhood Trauma? 7:15 - Anna’s Story 15:25 - What Do These Patterns Look Like? 17:40 - Anna’s Techniques 20:35 - Is To Heal To Find Closure Or Forgiveness? 26:25 - What An Adult Child Should Do About A Parent Who Still Exhibits The Behavior From Their Crappy Childhood 30:53 - What If The Adult Child Is The Sole Provider For That Parent? 32:50 - “My Codependent Mother Wants To Be My Friend. Is It Ok To Tell Her I Need A Parent?” 34:47 - Does Childhood Trauma Affect One’s Own Decision To Have (Or Not Have) Children? 39:00 - Anna’s Own Twice Daily Practice 44:33 - Analysis Paralysis 48:24 - “Why Don’t I Remember My Childhood?” 49:09 - Narcissism 50:16 - The Word “Because” 53:35 - The Parent’s Perspective 57:22 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Hometown Week of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your purchase of $75 or more! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:05 - Devin’s Hometown 14:56 - Jeremy’s Hometown 28:32 - Jonathon’s Hometown 33:42 - Marcus’ Hometown 36:34 - Pub Man Chat 42:39 - Rose Ceremony 45:43 - Previews 46:02 - Grant 48:51 - Andy’s A-Game 51:12 - Fashion 55:18 - Shandy Word Watch 59:07 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance boyfriend suddenly stops texting you without warning to go play video games, is that a sign of disrespect or a silly nothing burger? If your friends say they'll visit but routinely show up late (or not at all), what's a Shandy to do? If your dating situation makes you feel like one of the final two women on The Bachelor, how long is too long to give him to make his choice? And if your friend's public breastfeeding makes you uncomfortable, is it OK to say so? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:04 - Q1: My Boyfriend Didn’t Make Me Feel Prioritized—Am I Overreacting? 12:21 - Q2: Our Friends Are Chronically Tardy And Have Even Stood Us Up—Help! 21:33 - Q3: I Feel Like I’m Final Two On The Bachelor—How Long Do I Give Him To Decide? 46:06 - Q4: I Told My Friend She Should Be Done Breastfeeding—AITA? 55:56 - Q5: My Brother’s Habit Is Driving Me Nuts—Tell Me What To Do, Shandy! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use the code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:14 - Episode 6 Kick Off 7:08 - Marcus’ 1-On-1 19:48 - Group Date 44:27 - The Next Day 46:00 - Jeremy’s 1-On-1 51:12 - The Next Day 1:04:34 - Rose Ceremony 1:05:52 - Andy’s A-Game 1:06:06 - Fashion 1:11:44 - Shandy Word Watch 1:15:36 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's that time again, Shandies!!! We're back with volume 4 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:30 - Episode 61: Q2, from M: https://youtu.be/kNoYuDE8Pp0?si=nLXIbkxAV-AOfquD 5:54 - Episode 139: Caller Emily: https://youtu.be/wHMVz9lKNCA?si=232hcGf_EwATI4pJ 12:59 - Episode 182 - Q3, from M: https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos?si=pbqYK3YhbUFHew6H 26:01 - Episode 206: Q5, from Jess: https://youtu.be/r4HxaRb6V6o?si=vlKL7Ma_UISDEvBv 32:15 - Episode 235 - Caller Cierra: “https://youtu.be/Kb6eHaAoyKs?si=CqKfWSoOsXQQOqX8 37:19 - Episode 245 - Q1, from Anonymous: https://youtu.be/4qeFKaVTQxA?si=aYNdxdgdE6ISqHLu 44:57 - Episode 247 - Caller Elizabeth: https://youtu.be/-vDRYxqpFPs?si=aF2s7oW8YzXDKOVF 48:48 - Episode 274 - Q4, from Carlie: https://youtu.be/U9h3heqGdpQ?si=upXNLSNZ4cm7sT-X 54:18 - Episode 277 - Q4, from J: https://youtu.be/0Ry4ja3wptk?si=4zFWEjzMkytrQCxV 57:35 - Episode 281 - Q3, from Anonymous: https://youtu.be/cUZ57oKjNMk?si=61lkrg5pihkvuWQW 1:04:36 - Episode 306 - Caller Erin: https://youtu.be/T5abB9KuNIU?si=4TnKBUHQt2A51mJ7 1:08:26 - Episode 309 - Q4, from J: https://youtu.be/jOI51eF3XRs?si=Z8XbR6nEHfznFLDT 1:15:48 - Episode 316 - Q5, from L: https://youtu.be/SfJyODiCxR0?si=W9NO-Y2admzFLUkR If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use the code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:39 - Episode 5 Kick Off 11:58 - Rose Ceremony 14:04 - The Next Day 15:28 - Jonathon’s 1-On-1 25:40 - Group Date 40:50 - Grant’s 1-On-1 45:14 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 47:41 - Rose Ceremony 2 48:15 - Previews 48:45 - Andy’s A-Game 49:43 - Fashion 57:33 - Shandy Word Watch 1:00:55 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by lovely Elaine. She's on the exciting precipice of transitioning from grad school to career, but she feels a sense of obligation to her longtime boyfriend who's followed her to support her dreams. When it comes to the sacrifices we make for a relationship, is there such a thing as quid pro quo? Listen on for the Shandy take! Are you interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new PRIVATE sessions! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elaine! 34:39 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps, and we're joined by a very special guest, Wells Adams, bartender extraordinaire and host of Your Favorite Thing podcast! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Shop the Skims Soft Lounge Collection at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Catch Wells on his own podcast, Your Favorite Thing, co-hosted by Brandi Cyrus: - iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-favorite-thing-with-wells-brandi/id1270288526 - Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/4eP4DEMKMf8nKqFDfricmB - Youtube: www.youtube.com/@yftpodcast Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:55 - Episode 3 Kick Off 2:53 - Spencer’s 1-On-1  8:09 - Group Date #1 28:34 - The Next Day 28:50 - Group Date #2 32:24 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 41:48 - Rose Ceremony 43:13 - Andy’s A-Game 45:39 - Fashion 49:23 - Shandy Word Watch 52:24 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a guy you meet online copies something from your dating profile and pastes it to his while you're still dating, is it a secret message or just straight-up plagiarism? If you know you're bi-curious but your (straight) wedding isn't far away, is it now or never to act on your curiosity? And if your sister purposely reads your journal and finds the not-so-nice things you wrote about her, who's the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop the Skims t-shirt shop! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:35 - Q1: Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery? 13:17 - Q2: AITA If I Give My Friend Unsolicited Career Plan Advice? 26:58 - Q3: Might Bi-Curiosity Kill This Cat? 46:02 - Q4: I Vented About My Sister In My Journal & She Found And Read It—Help! 59:05 - Q5: To What Lengths Should My Friend Go To Get Paid Back By Her Ex? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:55 - Episode 3 Kick Off 2:53 - Spencer’s 1-On-1  8:09 - Group Date #1 28:34 - The Next Day 28:50 - Group Date #2 32:24 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 41:48 - Rose Ceremony 43:13 - Andy’s A-Game 45:39 - Fashion 49:23 - Shandy Word Watch 52:24 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:28 - Episode 2 Kick Off 4:54 - Group Date #1 20:57 - Marcus’ 1-On-1 26:58 - Group Date #2 38:47 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 47:05 - Rose Ceremony 37:38 - Fashion 49:50 - Andy’s A-Game 51:49 - Shandy Word Watch 55:40 - Shandy's Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We're thrilled to debut a new series in our episode lineup, A Day In The Life! These are episodes dedicated to meaningful, intimate conversations with your favorite people! Our first ever A Day In The Life guest is none other than Dave Neal, standup comedian and host of The Rush Hour podcast! This is a man who never seems to sleep, and our curiosity finally got the best of us so we decided to ask him for ourselves: Where does he find the time to do so much? What's the hardest thing about running his empire? Where is the weirdest place he's ever recorded, and what has been a "pinch me" moment in his meteoric growth? Listen on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% off! More Dave Neal: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dnealz/ - The Rush Hour Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bachelor-rush-hour-with-dave-neal/id1651903715 - Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DaveNealComedian - Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TashaAndDave Our Love Fest with Dave and Courtney: https://open.spotify.com/episode/58ISPLY0eDbs3aZgU6ajjP?si=LfM1QAuZTr6voWSAbrI5Qg Referenced video of Dave watching The Bachelor with Gilbert Galon (our producer Gabby's brother): https://youtu.be/eDvnH94Awfs?si=rPT0Dl06I0alykw4 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Dave Neal! 6:42 - A Day In Dave’s Life 8:30 - Is It Ever Too Much? 15:22 - How Does His Online Business Affect His Comedy And Vice Versa? 18:52 - What’s The Hardest Part Of The Dave Neal Empire? 41:10 - The Clayton Echard Story 50:05 - Has He Ever Recorded In His Underwear 51:56 - Does He Have Help? 53:35 - Dave Neal Vs Reality Steve 57:35 - Imposter Syndrome 1:05:04 - Anyone He’s Been Starstruck To Have Met 1:12:38 - What Did Dave Neal Want To Be When He Grew Up? 1:14:43 - His Top 3 Podcasts  1:18:26 - How Did A Baseball-Loving, American Shirt-Wearing, Blue-blooded American Male Get Into Reality Dating TV? 1:20:03 - Rapid Fire Questions 1:26:32 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off science driven skincare! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:27 - Episode 1 Kick Off 7:04 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails 15:24 - Jenn’s Toast 15:58 - Notable 1-On-1 Time 20:17 - Truth Or Dare 22:36 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d 35:31 - First Impression Rose 37:14 - Andy’s A-Game 38:41 - Fashion 40:40 - Shandy Word Watch 43:40 - Shandy’s Predictions 53:32 - Wild Cards If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're seeing is TOO good-looking, how to escape the insecurity spiral? If you've planned your friend's bachelorette party AND bridal shower and she can't even remember your birthday, is it worth the confrontation or does she get a bride pass? And if he was the right guy at the wrong time, when circumstances change, could the time be right? Finally, Shandy gives a pep talk to a Shandy newly out of a situationship of 14 YEARS. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop the Skims t-shirt shop! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:32 - Q1: The Guy I’m Seeing Is TOO Attractive—Help! 14:41 - Q2: I’ve Planned Her Bachelorette AND Bridal Shower And She Can’t Even Wish Me A Happy Birthday?? 22:31 - Q3: Was It Right Guy But Wrong Timing? If So, What If Circumstances Have Changed? 33:20 - Q4: My Future Sister-In-Law Doesn’t Seem To Like Me—What Should I Do? 43:21 - Q5: I’m Newly Out Of A 14-Year On-And-Off-Again Situationship—Help Me, Shandy! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Caller sessions are back in session! Today we're joined by two lovely callers: Our first caller, Ali, has found herself PLANNING the reunion of an old friend group. However, she's been feeling ostracized and like maybe she's outgrown this circle. Should she simply not attend the reunion that she's planned, or is that more trouble than it's worth? Our second caller, Kat, is a Shandy who we've actually met in person (in Switzerland!) Her close relationship with her aunt has been strained lately and she's not sure why or what to do. Is it better to let this sleeping dog lie, or should she confront her beloved aunt? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Ali 18:25 - Shandy Debrief 26:11 - Welcome To Caller Kat 44:23 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By very popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the third and final batch of season 2, aka the grand finale! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to http://www.OliveandJune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first Mani System! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:04 - Finale 30:05 - Final Tribal 39:08 - Credits 39:34 - Overall Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your guy says ILY in the heat of the moment but later on "forgets" this happened, is that a sign you need to end things? If your 19 year old sister starts dating a 34 year old, can you express your disapproval or should you back off? And if your family sells a possession of your grandparents that you wanted and even offered to pay for, should you hold onto that grudge and confront them? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYAPPS and use code SHANDYAPPS to get FREE appetizers for life! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:29 - Q1: Was He Sleep-Talking When He Said He Loved Me? 13:10 - Q2: Was I The A-Hole For Fact-Checking My Guy? 20:54 - Q3: I Hate That My 19 Year Old Sister Is Dating A 34 Year Old—Am I Just Being An Age Gap Hater? 33:31 - Q4: Am I The A-Hole For Not Wanting To Visit My Friends In New York? 41:29 - Q5: Have I Been Using My Hardships As An Excuse To Not Be “30 And Flirty”? 53:09 - Q6: My Aunts Sold A Belonging Of My Grandparents That I Really Wanted—Should I Let This Grudge Go? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By very popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the second batch of season 2, meaning episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop the Skims t-shirt shop and get free shipping on orders over $75! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 2:30 - Episode 7 17:03 - Episode 8 29:30 - Episode 9 1:04:57 - Andy’s A-Game 1:06:25 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 1:06:51 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 2, meaning episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:02 - Episode 1 19:49 - Episode 2 34:56 - Episode 3 46:21 - Episode 4 1:06:26 - Episode 5 1:15:33 - Episode 6 1:29:41 - Andy’s A-Game 1:32:48 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 1:34:17 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is officially on the Dawg Side! As you may know, 3 months ago we adopted a small dog named Ruby! We hadn't planned on doing a fur baby episode, but it came so hotly requested (and we were so touched by the enthusiasm!), we couldn't help but oblige. Today we're answering YOUR questions all about our pup, her adoption story, and whether or not the famed Cat Person (Andy) has been converted. Warning: unfettered gushing ahead! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box, plus 20% your next month! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! 0:00 - Introduction 1:35 - Ruby’s Adoption Story 10:28 - Andy’s Adjustment To Dog Person 12:23 - Ruby’s Personality 14:52 - Tips For Fellow Germaphobes 16:10 - What Took You So Long? 20:22 - But I Thought Andy Was A Cat Person? 21:05 - Does Ruby Give Cat Vibes? 21:12 - What Are Your Favorite Dog Toys? 21:58 - Has Andy Been Giving Ruby More Attention Than Sharleen? 24:38 - Who Watches Ruby When You’re Away? 24:50 - What Is Your Favorite Thing Ruby Does? 26:34 - Have There Been Any Hurdles/What Have You Learned About Yourself? 31:26 - What Kind Of Food Do You Feed Ruby? 31:31 - How Does Ruby React To Sharleen’s Singing? 32:02 - Who Is The Stricter Parent? 32:42 - Nicknames 33:34 - Where Does Ruby Sleep? 34:39 - Is Having A Dog What You Expected? 37:36 - What’s Been The Hardest Part Of Having A Dog? 39:12 - Did You Buy Pet Insurance? 39:15 - Who Is Ruby’s Favorite? 40:44 - How Has Ruby Changed Since You Got Her? 41:04 - How Has Ruby Changed Your Life? 46:44 - In Conclusion If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You met your boyfriend shortly after getting laid off—with a new job lined up, is it morally wrong to never tell him about the layoff? If you're single and sharing an Airbnb with couples and even some families, should you pay the same amount for a room in the rental, even if there's only one of you? If your friend unexpectedly invites her boyfriend on your planned girls trip, are you the a-hole if you pull out? And finally, what to do if you simply *dislike* your best friend's fiancé?? Where does Shandy stand on unintentional door slamming? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Shop the Skims t-shirt shop at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYSWEET for FREE dessert for life! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 0:53 - Q1: If I Have New Job, Is It Morally Wrong Not To Tell My Boyfriend I Got Laid Off From My Previous Job? 6:22 - Q2: I’m The Single Friend In A Large Trip Of Couples And Their Kids—Am I Being Unreasonable About This Airbnb Split? 14:21 - Q3: My Friend Added Her Boyfriend To Our Girls Trip—AITA For Wanting To Pull Out? 30:53 - Q4: My Boyfriend Bailed On Driving Me To My Hometown & I Had To Pay $$$ For A Flight Instead—AITA For Wanting Him To Help Cover The Cost? 46:07 - Q5: My Best Friend’s Fiancé Is Just “OK”—How Do I Get Over The Fact That She Deserves Better? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Attachment Styles are at the core of SO many relationship dynamics yet so few of us know much beyond "secure", "anxious", and "avoidant". Isn't it about time we learned WHY we behave the way we do so we can learn how to stop getting in our own way? We're thrilled today to be joined by Eli Harwood, aka  @attachmentnerd , therapist, author, and attachment theory expert! Eli has amassed a massive following on Instagram with her attachment expertise and analysis. She is the author of "Securely Attached: Transform Your Attachment Patterns Into Loving, Lasting Romantic Relationships" and the upcoming "Raising Securely Attached Kids: Using Connection-Focused Parenting To Create Confidence, Empathy, and Resilience", so we could not be in better hands! Today Eli breaks down those famed Attachment Patterns (spoiler alert: there's WAY more to this than secure, anxious, and avoidant!) and how and why we as adults behave the way we do in our relationships. (As Andy puts it at one point, Attachment is "EVERYTHING"!) We learn how much of a role gender plays, why some of us are different in platonic vs romantic relationships, and how much is nature vs nurture. There are also parenting questions for our caregiver Shandies out there! Shandy also gets personal with their own experiences that have shaped their own attachment patterns. Finally, the big question: HOW DO WE HEAL? Eli has the answers you've been waiting for and manages to deliver them in the most relatable and easy-to-understand way. As Shandy puts it, you just might see your childhood flash before your eyes! Listen on for a masterclass in YOURSELF. 🤯 Thank you to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! More Eli Harwood, Aka Attachment Nerd: - Books: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/series/0DV/attachment-nerd/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentnerd - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentnerd - Website: https://attachmentnerd.com Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Eli Harwood, Aka @AttachmentNerd! 3:20 - What Is Attachment Theory? 6:21 - Can I Have More Than One Attachment Style? 9:48 - Attachment Pattern Breakdown 20:38 - Are Our Attachment Styles Set In Stone? 22:43 - Where Or How Do We Heal These Wounds? 26:32 - More Attachment Pattern Breakdown 31:39 - Can I Have BOTH Polar Opposite Attachment Styles? 34:21 - Does The Caregiver’s Gender Matter? 34:31 - How Much Is Nurture Vs Nature? 36:47 - Is There A Connection Between Which Caregiver And Which Type Of Adult Relationship (Eg. Romantic Vs Platonic) ? 38:38 - Shandy Asks Questions For “Friends” 43:23 - Where Does Attachment Rank In Terms Of Difficulty To Change? 45:53 - Is Finding Your “People” A Form Of Healing? 46:28 - Does The Anxious-Avoidant Romantic Dynamic Ever Work? At What Point Is It Not “Worth It”? 57:51 - Tips For Anxious Types When They Spiral In The Wrong Direction 1:02:44 - How To Know If A Child Is Securely Attached 1:04:56 - How Self Aware Is The Parent Who Even Asks These Questions? 1:07:24 - Is Your Grief As Bad As You Think It Is? 1:07:43 - 4 Steps For Raising Securely Attached Kids 1:11:00 - Andy Plays Devil’s Advocate 1:15:36 - What If Your Child Is Behaving Inappropriately? 1:19:39 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is marriage necessary, or even at all what it's cracked up to be? If your partner struggles in the friendship department, how can you help? How should you respond to a question you hate being asked? And finally, an epic Am-I-The-A*****e question! Where does Shandy stand on unintentional door slamming? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save 35%! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:40 - Q1: To Marry Or Not To Marry? 9:11 - Q2: I Feel Weird Contributing To My Friend’s “Honey Fund” As A Wedding Gift—Thoughts? 18:06 - Q3: Strangers Constantly Ask Me A Question I Hate—How Should I Respond? 31:58 - Q4: My Fiancé Has No Friends—How Can I Help Him? 48:45 - Q5: Am I The Asshole—Door Slamming Edition If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Caller sessions are BACK, baby! This is our SECOND Caller episode of 2024 (!) and we're thrilled we're joined by a lovely (and lively!) caller named Erin. Erin, whose relationship began with beautifully romantic gesture. However, 2+ months in, there are still kinks that need ironing. Erin is quick to defend her boyfriend, but when are excuses just... excuses? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Erin! 42:39 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This episode is a surprise all around because Shandy had absolutely zero intention of recapping their experience officiating their friends' wedding. However, on Instagram you requested this with a fiery passion that couldn't be ignored! So today is all about Shandy as WEDDING OFFICIANTS! As you may know, on Saturday April 26th, 2024, Shandy officiated the wedding of Nick Viall and Natalie Joy, their longtime friends. This episode will contain reflections on the experience, tips (and regrets!) for those planning their own weddings/officiant speeches, unexpected moments, and overall takeaways! Listen on for this unique Dear Shandy episode! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! 0:00 - Introduction 2:37 - How/When Did Nick & Natalie Ask You To Be Officiants? 5:58 - How Did You Make The Decision To Officiate As A Couple? 6:10 - Was One Of You The “Official” Officiant? 8:13 - Would You Have Accepted For Any Couple In Your Life Or Only A “Special” Couple? 9:05 - How Did You Prepare? 11:27 - What Sort Of Planning Did You Do With The Couple? 14:50 - Humor 17:20 - How Much Did You Share With The Couple Beforehand? 17:43 - Have Either Of You Ever Officiated A Wedding Before? 17:47 - Since You’ve Known Nick Longer Was It Difficult To Make It Feel Equally Personal For Natalie? 18:59 - Were You Nervous? Who Was More Nervous? 22:55 - Overall Tips/Regrets 25:31 - Did It Make You Nostalgic For Your Own Wedding? 28:58 - Do You Feel More Responsible To Stay Together Now? 29:38 - Can Shandy Officiate My Wedding? 30:40 - How Did You Enter The Ceremony? 30:58 - The Couple’s Vows 31:07 - Unexpected Moment 33:05 - Was The Baby A Part Of The Ceremony? 33:23 - Did Nick Cry? 34:08 - Did You Cry? 35:06 - How Are You Friends With Nick? 38:28 - Did You Ride The Mechanical Bull? 39:09 - Was There Anyone Who Made You Starstruck? 40:22 - Did They Tell You What To Wear? 40:47 - Sharleen’s Looks 44:04 - Did You Bring Ruby? 44:50 - People Article Misspellings 46:44 - What Was Your Favorite Things About Savannah? 48:02 - Overall Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a tumultuous relationship history, is "boring" maybe a good thing? If you feel yourself becoming resentful in your relationship because your sacrifices outnumber your partner's, what to do? And not one, not two, but THREE heavy-hitting platonic friendship questions! What does Shandy consider a "friendship-reconsidering" level crime? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: Does Healthy = Boring? 10:35 - Q2: My Friend Accused Me Of “Bitching & Complaining” And Our Friendship Is Suddenly Over—What Happened?! 23:50 - Q3: My Friend Moved Out Of Town And Now Zoom-Joins Our In-Person Hangs—Am I The A*****e For Disliking This? 33:46 - Q4: Should I Let My Friend’s Outrageous Wedding Request Make Me See Her Differently? 46:03 - Q5: I’ve Sacrificed More For This Relationship Than My Boyfriend Has And Am Feeling Resentful—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

At the heart of so many relationship questions we've received—and relationships in general—is a common thread: EMPATHY. This "healing force", as our esteemed guest calls it, has the power to not only heal our relationships with others, but with ourselves. So why do so few of us understand its powers? Today we're honored to be joined by THE foremost expert on empathy, Dr. Judith Orloff, dubbed “the godmother of the empath movement.” Dr. Orloff is a board-certified psychiatrist and the New York Times best-selling author of several books, including 2017's landmark "The Empath’s Survival Guide" and her latest, "The Genius of Empathy: Practical Skills to Heal Your Sensitive Self, Your Relationships, and the World". Today she helps dispel the misconceptions around empathy, demonstrates how to draw healthy boundaries, and explains the transformative, healing power of SELF-empathy. She explains why it's OK that your partner isn't the same empathy "type" as you, whether or not you can have too much empathy, and how to approach someone whose beliefs you fundamentally disagree with. Today's conversation is the warm hug you needed and will hopefully inspire healing in your more complicated relationships, especially the one you have with yourself. Thank you to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with just a few taps! More Dr. Judith Orloff: - The book, "The Genius Of Empathy": https://bit.ly/3U6uCRk - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/judith.orloff.md - Website: https://drjudithorloff.com Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To The Legendary Dr. Judith Orloff! 3:41 - What Is Empathy & Empathy Vs Compassion 5:10 - What Are Her Thoughts On The Term “Empath” Becoming Mainstream? 6:52 - The Biggest Misconceptions About Empathy 10:32 - Drawing Boundaries 16:19 - Is Empathy Something We’re Born With? Nature Vs Nurture 17:31 - Can One Really Become *More* Empathic? 20:38 - The Empathy Types 23:13 - Mismatched Empathy In Relationships 29:19 - Tips For Self Empathy 31:24 - How Can I Make Empathy Work In A Way That Isn’t Ultimately To My Disadvantage? 34:04 - Is Self Awareness A Prerequisite to Self Empathy? 34:54 - Tips For Avoiding Empathy-Deficient Types 37:10 - When It Feels Like Someone Doesn’t Deserve Empathy 39:19 - Empathy Vs Enablement 43:29 - Is There Such A Thing As Too Much Empathy? 45:12 - Sharleen’s Takeaways 46:11 - Tips For Empathizing With Someone Whose Beliefs You Fundamentally Disagree With 49:06 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Just 3 weeks after our Love Fest with Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist, the couple announced in a Good Morning America interview that, after only 3 months of marriage, they're getting divorced. Many of you wanted to hear our take on this bombshell news, particularly in the wake of such a recent Love Fest. So today, in a first-of-its-kind bonus episode, we're answering your burning questions Q&A style. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! Our Love Fest with Gerry and Theresa: https://youtu.be/hWCr91mBGb0?si=y_xga_xJH9MhReo3 Referenced "bet" of Andy's: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ce-GWUtDbhq/?igsh=Znhkamk2bGhrNDAw Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 2:41 - How Shocked Is Shandy? 6:46 - When Did You Record The Love Fest With Gerry & Theresa? 7:29 - Was Dear Shandy The Source Of The Tea That They Were Living Apart? 10:07 - Why Do You Think It Didn’t Work Out? 16:20 - When Recording The Love Fest, Did You Sense Anything Was Off? 20:28 - Do You Think They Were Honest On Your Love Fest? 20:39 - Did ABC Push Them To Come On Dear Shandy? 21:20 - Is There A Dear Shandy Love Fest Curse? 26:07 - Did Andy Bet Money On How Long They Would Last? 27:00 - Do You Think 3 Months Was Enough To Determine It Wouldn’t Work? 27:10 - If You Two Met At Gerry & Theresa’s Age And Lived Far Apart, What Would You Have Done? 29:00 - Does This Make You Love The Golden Bachelor Less? 29:44 - Do You Think Gerry Will Get Back Together With Leslie? 30:25 - Should Golden Bachelor Follow A Love Is Blind Format And Cast People From The Same City? 31:06 - Should The Franchise Scrap Golden Bachelorette? 32:27 - Why Do You Think They Did The Televised Wedding & Do You Think Production Feels Guilty? 34:37 - Bonus Question  35:03 - Closing Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

She's baaaack! For the first time ever, and by popular request, we've brought BACK a Hot Topic guest to pick up where we left off! Our first episode with Maria Avgitidis—4th generation matchmaker and host of the Ask A Matchmaker podcast—was such a hit that you asked for more! In case you missed our Confessions Of A Matchmaker episode with Maria, aka Part 1, it's here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-shandy/id1525795747?i=1000597672805 Today Maria returns to answer follow up questions from Part 1, but also to give us her tough-love and honest take on the rules of dating. Sharpen your pencils, Shandies, because Dating School is in session! How is swipe culture affecting dating today? What's Maria's 12-Date Method, and her Pre-Date 3-2-1 Prep? Who pays on the first date, and does she believe in living together before getting engaged? Finally, what is Maria's "controversial" opinion, and will Shandy agree or disagree? As always, Maria's brutal honesty is a breath of fresh air and Shandy's delighted to welcome her back! Thank you to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! More Maria: - Agape Match: https://agapematch.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermaria - Ask A Matchmaker Podcast: https://plinkhq.com/i/1521530338?to=page Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome BACK To Matchmaker Maria! 2:41 - How Does She Define Her 93% Success Rate? 8:49 - What’s The Most Awkward Conversation She’s Had To Have With A Client? 11:38 - Decisions Paying Clients Make That Frustrate Her 16:21 - What Would She Say To People Who Think Her Matchmaking Fees Are Too High? 24:46 - How Swipe Culture Affects The World Of Matchmaking 29:01 - The 12-Date Rule 40:30 - Pre-Date 3-2-1 Prep 47:44 - Who Pays On The First Date? 52:29 - Maria’s Controversial Opinion 56:30 - What If Someone Never Gets Asked On A Second Date? 59:39 - Living Together Before Getting Engaged 1:09:01 - Moving For Love & “Importing” 1:14:53 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How important is "niceness" in a partner, and is it enough? If you have a massive crush on someone out of town, how do you escalate from casual, sporadic dates to long-distance relationship? If you and your partner agree to boycott an establishment and he lies about having caved, is this a red flag? Finally, an epic Am-I-The-A*****e question, board game edition! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 0:54 - Q1: Is “Nice” Enough? 7:06 - Q2: My BF Lied About Visiting An Establishment We Had Agreed To Boycott—Is This A Red Flag? 21:28 - Q3: I Have A Huge Crush On A Girl & Don’t Know How To Escalate Things—Help! 42:37 - Q4: The Transient Nature Of My Career Has Left Me Unmotivated To Date—Help! 53:08 - Q5: Am I The A*****e, Board Game Edition If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's GOLDEN Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by a couple whose love story they are very familiar with, as Charity's season was hotly recapped here at Dear Shandy! The world fell in love with Charity & Dotun's relationship, and Shandy is thrilled to have them join for what can truly be described as a double date! Today Charity and Dotun give the juiciest, most satisfying and SPECIFIC answers about their first impressions, common misconceptions, beliefs that have changed, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a hilariously exhausting Newlyweds Game, exhausting because too much fun was being had! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! More Charity: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/charitylawson TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@charity.lawson More Dotun: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dotunolubeko TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@dotunolubeko Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Charity & Dotun! 4:20 - Is Shandy Together? 5:23 - First Impressions 20:20 - How They Complement Each Other 23:10 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 31:50 - Early Hurdle 35:59 - How They Fight 42:25 - Most Common Misconception 49:49 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 55:33 - The Newlyweds Game 1:14:53 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down the Finale and After The Final Rose! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:39 - Finale Kick Off 3:07 - Joey’s Family 10:31 - Daisy’s Final Date 17:52 - Kelsey’s Final Date 22:15 - Proposal Day 24:51 - Daisy & Kelsey 28:18 - The Breakup 35:27 - The Proposal 37:14 - After The Final Rose 42:07 - Bachelorette 51:10 - Andy’s A-Game 52:12 - Shandy Word Watch 53:32 - Night One Predictions 54:58 - Special Introduction If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's GOLDEN Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by none other than the Golden Bachelor himself, Gerry Turner, and his blushing bride, Theresa Nist! The world stopped to watch these two fall in love late last year, then again when they tied the knot on live television in January, and Shandy is beyond thrilled to host this exclusive post-wedding interview! (Psst: turns out Theresa is a Shandy!!!) Today Gerry and Theresa describe how they complement each other, their love languages, what their early hurdle has been (spoiler alert: it's ongoing!), and of course, how they fight! Finally, a delightful Newlyweds Game revealing many fun tidbits about this beautiful couple! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! More Gerry: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/goldengerryturner/ More Theresa: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theresa_nist/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Gerry & Theresa! 2:34 - First Impressions  6:32 - Three Adjectives 8:13 - How They Complement Each Other 13:00 - Gerry Becoming Golden Bachelor 15:29 - Love Languages 16:46 - Early Hurdle 22:24 - How They Fight 25:27 - Common Misconceptions 28:01 - Beliefs That Have Changed 30:29 - Love Advice 32:17 - The Newlyweds Game 44:14 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 10, aka Women Tell All! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:30 - Women Tell All Kick Off 4:17 - The Hashing Out Of Drama 12:11 - Lexi Hot Seat 12:55 - Jenn Hot Seat 16:39 - Maria Hot Seat 24:23 - Tulum/Last Week’s “Cliffhanger” 29:59 - Rose Ceremony 31:17 - Rachel Hot Seat 35:32 - Joey Hot Seat 36:16 - Bloopers 39:32 - Previews 40:05 - Shandy Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the Reunion! Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping + Surprise For Andy 1:33 - Overall Thoughts 6:13 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 7:56 - Amy & Johnny 9:25 - Jeramey, Sarah Ann & Laura 19:11 - Trevor 25:04 - AD & Clay 31:52 - Highlights 36:36 - Jessica & Jimmy 40:05 - Megan Fox 43:31 - Chelsea 45:39 - Brittany & Kenneth 48:26 - Matthew 50:13 - Chelsea & Kwame 50:56 - The End If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9, aka Fantasy Suites! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 35%! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:58 - Episode 9 Kick Off 2:31 - Rachel 8:38 - Kelsey 15:13 - Daisy 23:56 - Cliffhanger 30:39 - Andy’s A-Game 32:00 - Shandy Word Watch 35:20 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the finale, episode 12! Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:42 - Chelsea & Jimmy 16:53 - Bachelorette Party 18:24 - AD & Clay 42:55 - Amy & Johnny 47:07 - Ending Moments & Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Hometowns! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:13 - Kelsey’s Hometown 14:20 - Rachel’s Hometown 28:14 - Daisy’s Hometown 36:20 - Maria’s Hometown 48:34 - Rose Ceremony 52:53 - Andy’s A-Game 53:19 - Shandy Word Watch 55:00 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the third Netflix release, episodes 10 and 11! Thanks to our sponsor... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:59 - Amy & Johnny 6:22 - AD & Clay 17:30 - Laura & Jeramey 24:50 - Sarah Anne 33:01 - Chelsea & Jimmy 53:43 - Jessica 57:46 - Trevor 59:33 - Chelsea & Jimmy, Cont’d If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/DEARSHANDY50 and use code DEARSHANDY50 to get 50% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:39 - Episode 7 Kick Off 4:00 - Daisy’s 1-On-1 8:19 - Evening 12:02 - The Final Group Date 15:06 - Evening 24:30 - Kelsey A’s 1-On-1 26:33 - Evening 31:59 - Rose Ceremony 33:56 - Andy’s A-Game 35:46 - Shandy Word Watch 38:51 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the second Netflix release, episodes 7-9! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:32 - Amy & Johnny 6:56 - Brittany & Kenneth 22:28 - AD & Clay 35:55 - Chelsea & Jimmy 48:59 - Jessica 51:59 - Chelsea & Jimmy, Cont’d 54:08 - Laura & Jeramey 1:05:48 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDYFREE for 40% off plus a free welcome bundle! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY for 50% off! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:46 - Episode 6 Kick Off 4:56 - Group Date 9:46 - Evening 24:19 - Kelsey T’s 1-On-1 27:21 - Evening 29:37 - Maria’s 1-On-1 32:55 - Evening 34:34 - Lexi 36:54 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 43:50 - Rose Ceremony 47:45 - Andy’s A-Game 49:27 - Shandy Word Watch 52:22 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first release of season 6, meaning episodes 1-6. Because there is so much to cover, we're dividing this recap into two parts. This is part 2 of 2! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:59 - Chelsea & Jimmy 11:14 - Jessica & Jimmy 15:33 - Chelsea & Trevor 18:15 - Post-Fight & Breakups 22:49 - Chelsea & Jimmy, cont’d  27:58 - Beach Party 33:01 - After The Party 37:14 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first release of season 6, meaning episodes 1-6. Because there is so much to cover, we're dividing this recap into two parts. This is part 1 of 2! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:00 - Matthew 4:36 - Amy & Johnny 8:30 - Brittany & Kenneth 19:33 - AD & Clay 34:02 - Sarah Ann & Jeramey 40:21 - Laura & Jeramey If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by Bachelor Nation's latest power couple, Brayden Bowers and Christina Mandrell! These happen to be two "villains" Shandy never believed were villains in the first place, and it was so fun to finally hang out IRT to hear behind-the-scenes tidbits and learn about their relationship dynamic! Today Brayden and Christina share their thoughts on true "contentment", how they overcame their early hurdles, and of course, how they fight! We're also treated to an exclusive Brayden-and-Andy freestyle rap and beatbox performance! Finally, a hilariously chaotic Newlyweds Game you do NOT want to miss! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! More Christina: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/christinamandrell More Brayden: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/braydenbowersofficial TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@braydenbowersofficial Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Brayden & Christina! 3:01 - Did Being “Villains” Help Bond Them? 6:27 - The Beginning 9:02 - Brayden’s Near-Death Experience & Subsequent Realizations 16:31 - Contentment & Brayden On His Season 22:12 - How They Complement Each Other 26:35 - How They Fight 37:29 - How Brayden Is So Zen 42:04 - Early Hurdle 49:46 - Common Misconceptions About Their Relationship 52:23 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed Since Finding Each Other 54:51 - The Newlyweds Game 1:12:21 - Brayden Freestyles While Andy Beatboxes!!!!!!!!!!!! 1:16:18 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down this week's back-to-back episodes, episodes 4 & 5! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off 3:29 - Lexi’s 1-On-1 17:12 - Evening 8:58 - Group Date 11:27 - Evening 16:04 - The Next Day/2-On-1 Date 26:07 - Evening 29:46 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 36:15 - Episode 5 Kick Off 37:03 - Rose Ceremony 39:58 - Kelsey A’s 1-On-1 41:36 - Evening 43:56 - Group Date 49:10 - Evening 51:16 - Rachel’s 1-On-1 52:10 - Evening 53:36 - The Next Day 53:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 1:02:23 - Rose Ceremony 1:02:56 - Andy’s A-Game 1:03:51 - Shandy Word Watch 1:06:20 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

For our first Hot Topic episode of 2024, we wanted to shake things up a bit! We often bring on therapists to discuss matters of the mind, but since so many of us struggle with overthinking and analysis paralysis, Sharleen felt it was time for a different conversation. What if we weren't haunted by the choices not chosen, the pros and cons lists, the indecision that keeps us from feeling truly confident in our decisions? What if, instead of attempting to "logic" our way through life, we listened to—gasp!—our *intuition*? Our guest today is Natalie Miles, acclaimed channel, psychic medium, writer and author of the best selling book “You Are Intuitive. Trust Your Truth. Take Back Your Power.” But whether or not you believe in psychic abilities, this conversation is still for you. Natalie is not here to change your beliefs, but rather to help you tap into your OWN intuitive gifts, the "higher power energy" inside you that is there to guide you towards your truest self and most fulfilled life. Today, with Natalie's help, we discuss intuition vs instinct, intuition vs hopes/goals, and how to distinguish between intuition and anxious thoughts. She gives us tips on getting out of our head and into our body, explains why Google isn't your friend, and inspires you to notice the part of yourself so many of us have lost touch with. That's right, Shandies, today we're going a bit woo-woo (or as Andy puts it, wee-woo), and we hope you're as inspired by this conversation as we were! More Natalie Miles: - The Book, "You Are Intuitive": https://youareintuitive.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnataliemiles - "Things That Die" Podcast: https://natalie-miles.com/things-that-die - Natalie's upcoming series, "Everyday Intuition" begins Feb 18: https://natalie-miles.com/everyday-intuition (use code SHANDY11 for 11% off) Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Natalie Miles! 4:21 - What Is ∞, this “Higher Power” intuitive energy? 6:30 - Is Everyone Intuitive? 7:33 - Intuition Vs Instinct & Andy On The Woo-Woo Scale 15:29 - How Did Natalie Find Conviction And Come To Trust In Her Own Intuitive Gifts? 20:57 - Are There People With Bad Intuition? 21:53 - How To Distinguish Between Intuition And Anxious Thoughts 29:13 - Where’s The Line Between Trusting Our Intuition And Being “Realistic”? 33:00 - Where’s The Line Between Our Intuition And Our Hopes And Goals? 36:34 - Getting Out Of The Head And Into The Body 39:18 - Googling 43:17 - Dreams 46:00 - Bravery 49:03 - Noticing And Believing 52:14 - Death And Endings 54:20 - Mourning The “Death” Of Paths Not Chosen 56:33 - What Natalie Wants You To Take Away From This Conversation 58:01 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:43 - Episode 3 Kick Off 5:18 - Group Date #1 10:10 - Evening 20:05 - The Next Day 22:17 - Jenn’s 1-On-1 23:42 - Evening 26:58 - Group Date #2 28:23 - Evening 31:20 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 37:47 - The Next Day/The Pool Party 52:12 - Preview 52:18 - Credits 53:03 - Andy’s A-Game 54:22 - Shandy Word Watch 57:08 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What are Shandy's thoughts on giving it another go with an ex who used to give you The Ick—Is it "Once Ick, Always Ick"? If your generosity with friends feels under appreciated, is it worth bringing up? And if your bestie plans an elaborate Bachelorette party getaway, as a bridesmaid, does not wanting to go make you the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box and 2 free wellness shots per box while subscription is active! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: I’m Interested In Trying Again With My Newly Single Ex-Turned-Friend Who Used To Give Me The Ick—Shandy’s Advice? 11:08 - Q2: How Should I Handle My Toxic Ex-Coworker And Her Gossip Mill? 23:36 - Q3: I Was Generous With My Friends But Was Shown Little Appreciation—Who’s The A-Hole Here? 38:04 - Q4: AITA For Not Wanting To Attend An Entire 8-Day Bachelorette Getaway? 46:04 - Q5: I’m Furious My Mother-In-Law Is Backing Out Of A Very Costly Agreement—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://magicspoon.com/SHANDY to grab a variety pack and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save five dollars off your order! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:02 - Episode 2 Kick Off 3:56 - Group Date #1 13:09 - Evening 19:49 - Daisy’s 1-On-1 22:08 - Evening 24:20 - Group Date #2 27:17 - Evening 32:15 - The Next Day 34:02 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 45:14 - Rose Ceremony 45:51 - Andy’s A-Game 46:50 - Shandy Word Watch 49:03 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Lauren. She's found herself in a longterm, on-and-off yet surprisingly comfortable FWB situation with a "friend". It's time for this to end.... or is it? Is there actually any harm in enjoying the comforts of familiarity? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Lauren! 20:14 - The Question 22:10 - Shandy Sleuthing 41:13 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:09 - Joey 4:06 - Premiere Kick Off 5:57 - Night One 7:40 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails 13:19 - Joey’s Toast 15:38 - Notable 1-On-1 Time 32:42 - Lea & Her “Special Card” 37:27 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d 40:17 - First Impression Rose 41:22 - Rose Ceremony 42:29 - Andy’s A-Game 43:38 - Shandy Word Watch 45:05 - Shandy’s Predictions 49:19 - Shandy’s Wild Cards If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! In Episode 10, Shandy told a caller not to put "doesn't drink" in her dating profile—3 years and a sober social movement later, have they changed their tune? If your mother-in-law calls just to chat on the phone too often for comfort, how to ease phone-talking anxiety or to lessen the pressure without hurting anyone's feelings? And what if your husband wants to give your baby daughter a middle name you hate? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:27 - Q1: You Once Told A Shandy Not To Put “Doesn’t Drink” In Their Dating Profile—3 Years Later, Do You Still Feel This Way? 8:51 - Q2: My Mother-In-Law Calls Too Often And It Gives Me Anxiety—Help! 27:14 - Q3: My Friend Is Now Married To My Narcissist Ex And I Feel Guilty She’s Ended Up With Him—Help! 38:04 - Q4: My Husband Wants To Honor His Grandmother Using Our Daughter’s Middle Name But I Don’t Like The Name—Help! 49:19 - Q5: My Husband Won’t Watch Rom-Coms With Me! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Happy 2024, Shandies!!! We're back from our vacation and so excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... today is our 3rd installment of UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:07 - Episode 42: Caller Maya - https://youtu.be/gwJyzdS8NgM?si=pS0LVXjKgqE091IT 7:40 - Episode 154: Q6, from S - https://youtu.be/qyYKy-XiJ1A?si=NFZjCWlELmF_TU5u 12:00 - Episode 170: Q5, from Scared of Falling: https://youtu.be/7kVFN__wbAU?si=-uthJ85Sod6YgX64 14:41 - Episode 183: Caller Rosemary - https://youtu.be/pJdsPIfB3es?si=miKOsexlois7Oet4 20:28 - Episode 193: Caller 2, Siobhan - https://youtu.be/4DPlS4HCDLc?si=Qfgi7lzIZCdDeq-7 25:23 - Episode 197: Q3, from Pickle - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho?si=rwsAq2x_UwIWh6zX 35:47 - Episode 218: Q7 from C - https://youtu.be/W0GWXzZwU0c?si=uZ0NTC7aXui3vNmU 39:55 - Episode 239: Q2 from K - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb 43:47 - Episode 239: Q4 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb 46:57 - Episode 239: Q5 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb 51:56 - Episode 263: Q3 from N - https://youtu.be/Ofw1rNoMDiw?si=EjX_gcIlbYVpLaWo 55:15 - Episode 270: Q4 from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/ga4wgRlzIjE?si=WatAdVjOraPqTWaO 1:02:20 - Not An Update But A Shandy Letter The referenced article written by the Shandy from the final letter: https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973 If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's our last episode of 2023 and today's all about reflecting on past year! We're blending 2 ideas today: keeping with tradition in highlighting our Best Q&As of the year, as well as answering YOUR questions about our personal favorites/bests of 2023. After this, we'll be taking a 2 week break, so we'll see you back here on Jan 11! THANK YOU, Shandies, for another fantastic year of kinship and laughs. We wish you the happiest holiday season and will see you soon! XOXO Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order! 0:00 - Introduction 1:31 - Favorite Book of 2023 3:56 - Favorite Escape Room of 2023 4:52 - Favorite Animal Interaction of 2023 7:07 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 270, Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car 18:20 - Favorite Socks of 2023 18:51 - Favorite Beauty Finds of 2023 20:54 - Favorite City Visited in 2023 21:18 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q2: My Friend Group Imploded Over Pickleball—Help! 37:03 - Favorite Restaurant of 2023 39:33 - Favorite Way We Grew As People in 2023 42:31 - Favorite Outfit of 2023 43:04 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 206, Q7: The Ethics Of Tickling 52:41 - Favorite Green Thumb Tip of 2023 54:10 - Favorite Video Game of 2023 54:23 - Favorite Ad Jingle of 2023 56:32 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 245, Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts? 1:10:20 - Favorite Movie of 2023 1:12:23 - Favorite Deep Conversation of 2023 1:14:55 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q5: I’ve Been In An Arranged Marriage For 13 Years & Missed Out On Romance—Help! 1:28:04 - Favorite Moment of Self-Insight of 2023 1:33:21 - Favorite Song We Performed in 2023 1:34:21 - Thank You Shandies! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it acceptable for your best friend to give her boyfriend a key to your shared apartment? For guys wanting to approach women outside the apps, but don't know where to start, Andy gives his 101 tips. Are we all addicted to our phones, and what's an otherwise happily married couple to do when screen time routinely becomes fight time? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:34 - Q1: My Roommate Gave Her Boyfriend A Key To Our Shared Apartment—Am I The A*****e For Being Upset? 11:05 - Q2: My Partner Goes Out Partying Late Every Weekend—Am I Being Disrespected? 24:25 - Q3: Shandy’s Advice To Men On How To Approach Women IRL 42:39 - Q4: Our Marriage Is Good But Our Phone Addiction Isn’t—Any Advice? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:45 - Finale Kick Off 5:17 - Kat & John Henry’s Date 11:40 - Back On The Beach 12:57 - Eliza & Aaron B’s Date 14:45 - Back On The Bach 26:24 - The Next Day 28:35 - Kenny & Mari 29:24 - Wedding 32:28 - Rave Wedding Reception 41:16 - The Next Day 41:29 - “Take Time & Think” 43:19 - The Couples Make Or Break 50:21 - Overnights 55:04 - Proposal Day 59:35 - Where Are They Now Montage 1:03:02 - Credits 1:05:00 - Andy’s A-Game 1:06:02 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand FINALE! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.marinelayer.com/SHANDY15 to get 15% off your entire order! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:05 - Finale Kick Off 1:32 - Theresa Meets Gerry’s Family 2:34 - Evening 3:35 - Leslie Meets Gerry’s Family 10:35 - Evening 25:40 - Live: Leslie 33:05 - Back In Costa Rica  36:06 - Proposal 37:34 - Shandy’s Bet 40:16 - After The Final Rose 42:05 - Joey 44:32 - Special Announcement 47:50 - Overall Thoughts 50:23 - Shandy Word Watch 52:08 - Reviewing Night One Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 9! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.StoryWorth.com/DEARSHANDY today and save $10 on your first purchase! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY to get 25% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:37 - Episode 9 Kick Off/Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 34:55 - Rose Ceremony 40:59 - Credits 42:22 - Andy’s A-Game 45:00 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Are we ALL pre-date sleuthing one another online, and should you mention what you found to your date? If you're dating someone "perfect", what does it mean when you keep thinking about your ex? And if someone who routinely got in car accidents asked to borrow your new car, what would you say? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://hellofresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for free breakfast for life! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: My Pre-Date Googling Revealed Something About My Date—Should I Bring It Up With Him? 12:33 - Q2: My Grandmother Has Passed But Wanted Me To Have Her Wedding Ring—How Do I Bring This Up With Family? 24:23 - Q3: My Boyfriend Is Perfect But I Keep Thinking About My Ex—Help! 39:50 - Q4: We’ve Gone From Friends To Dating To Friends Again—Shandy’s Take? 56:30 - Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car 1:06:55 - Announcements If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by two lovely callers. It may be very early in their relationship but "C" and her boyfriend are madly in love—would moving in this early on ruin a good thing? Our next caller, Hannah, is childfree by choice, yet her boyfriends never seem to believe her when she says this. Are they all jerks who don't believe a woman when she tells them who she is, or is she the common denominator in the types she's attracting? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller C! 20:53 - Shandy Debrief 22:59 - Welcome To Caller Hannah! 48:42 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Fantasy Suite Week! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.StoryWorth.com/DEARSHANDY today and save $10 on your first purchase! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40% off the Cuddle Blanket now! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY to get 25% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off the new Cuddle Blanket! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:00 - Episode 8 Kick Off 4:11 - Leslie’s Overnight 5:31 - Evening 15:31 - The Next Morning 18:02 - Theresa’s Overnight 20:02 - Evening 23:48 - The Next Morning 25:22 - Credits 30:07 - Andy’s A-Game 35:15 - Shandy Word Watch 37:49 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 8! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY to get 25% off your first order! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:08 - Episode 8 Kick Off 4:03 - Michael’s Date 4:45 - Back On The Beach 8:38 - Back On The Date 10:24 - Jordan & Tayler 14:13 - Jordan’s Date 16:57 - Evening 36:18 - The Next Day 36:53 - Double Date 38:58 - Katie Thurston 44:49 - Paradise Roast 51:17 - The Next Day 51:22 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 52:54 - Andy’s A-Game 53:18 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick the lovely Katie Thurston's brain since we first recapped her Bachelorette season 2.5 years ago, and at long last, that day is here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled this former Bachelorette and current star of F-Boy Island could make the time to join us! Katie's had a very busy and very public last 3 years, so today we talk the ins and outs of watching yourself back on TV, whether contestants behave differently IRL versus on TV, what she's learned about human nature after being on the receiving end of MILLIONS of opinions. What has been the key difference between dating "civilians" versus celebrities, has her notoriety helped or hurt her love life, and has her time on TV changed her personal relationships? And for our longtime Shandies, don't worry, Andy also brings up THOMAS! Multiple times. (See time stamps!) Don't miss Katie on Season 3 of F-Boy Island, currently airing on Hulu and the CW! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for a free Gentle Body Scrub with your razor kit subscription! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! More Katie: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekatiethurston - Comedy: https://beacons.ai/katiethurston Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Katie Thurston! 2:47 - How Has She Navigated Honoring Her Needs While Accommodating Production? 4:49 - The Most Common Misconception About Being The Lead Of A Dating Show 7:06 - Backlash That Has Surprised Her 7:45 - Thomas 8:31 - Have People She Met On TV Been Totally Different IRL? 9:52 - Has She Ever Felt Her Choices Were Misrepresented? 12:51 - What Have The Last 3 Years Taught Her About Herself? 15:00 - What Has She Learned About Human Nature? 17:34 - Resilience 19::49 - Parasocial Relationships 21:45 - Is IRL Dating Easier Or Harder Now? 23:54 - Dating “Civilians” Vs Celebrities 27:03 - Is Dating On TV A Microcosm For Dating IRL? 28:20 - Thomas 29:21 - Would She Always Pick Someone On TV That She Would Have Picked IRL? 30:34 - How Has What She’s Looking For In A Partner Changed? 33:21 - How Notoriety Affects Personal Relationships  38:30 - Does She Consider Herself A Private Person? 39:18 - In What Ways Is Her Personality Suited To This And In What Ways Is It Not? 43:35 - Would She Have Had The Courage To Pursue Comedy Without All This? 48:53 - One Regret & One Choice She’s Proud Of 51:30 - Blake Moynes 53:22 - Her Social Media Habits 54:26 - True Or False 55:17 - Thomas 56:20 - True Or False, Cont’d 59:02 - Shandy Debrief 1:04:02 - Thomas If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Women Tell All. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Our Word Watch sponsor! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off the new Cuddle Blanket! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:47 - Overall Thoughts 3:56 - Women Tell All Kick Off 7:30 - Unseen Footage 11:32 - Joan’s Hot Seat 18:19 - Ellen’s Hot Seat 23:20 - Gerry 30:25 - Rose Ceremony 34:46 - Faith Hot Seat 39:04 - Bloopers 41:55 - Previews 42:23 - Andy’s A-Game 43:01 - Shandy Word Watch 44:37 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order! - Go to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack! - Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:03 - Episode 7 Kick Off 11:27 - The Next Day 11:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 34:36 - Rose Ceremony 39:51 - The Next Day 48:43 - Previews 49:27 - Credits 49:42 - Andy’s A-Game 52:19 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does it make you the A-hole to crush on someone you know is unavailable? When your guy is a winner but his kissing is terrible, can you teach an old dog new tricks? And in a romantic relationship, where's the line between the "no eggshells" rule and shared humor? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: Am I The A-Hole For Crushing On An Unavailable Co-Worker? 6:24 - Q2: My Wonderful Husband Is A Terrible Kisser—Are My Hot Make Out Days Over? 15:33 - Q3: I Have Fallen For My Best Friend—Help! 34:06 - Q4: In A Relationship, How Does The “No Eggshells” Rule Apply To Humor? 47:18 - Q5: A Guy At My Gym Makes Me Uncomfortable—Shandy’s Take? 1:01:32 - Q6: My In-Laws Make Comments About My Hot Dad—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://drinkAG1.com/SHANDY for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D + 5 travel packs with your order! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsor! - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:00 - Episode 6 Kick Off 1:49 - Theresa’s Hometown 16:00 - Faith’s Hometown 24:34 - Flashpoint 27:27 - Leslie’s Hometown 33:53 - Los Angeles 38:49 - Rose Ceremony 40:38 - Previews 41:19 - Credits 41:43 - Andy’s A-Game 42:29 - Shandy Word Watch 43:24 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:44 - Episode 6 Kick Off 12:56 - Genevie 23:02 - Becca 30:33 - Genevie’s Date 32:24 - Back At The Beach 35:10 - Becca’s Date 36:31 - Evening 42:10 - Charity 46:28 - Credits 47:01 - Andy’s A-Game 48:27 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.