Celebrate Kids Podcast with Dr. Kathy

In today's episode Dr. Kathy explores the idea of Fawning, when a child seems agreeable but is actually suppressing opinions, ideas, and insight because he or she doesn't want to offend or cause problems. Co-host Wayne Stender pushes Dr. Kathy to help us consider when kids might be fawning and when they might legitimately don't have something to add to conversation or situations. It's a great discussion to give perspective on awakening courage in your child, especially if they are naturally a peacemaker or quiet. Pick up the book that speaks best to this topic: Start With The Heart>>

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore why telling an anxious child to "just relax" often does not work and what parents can do instead. They discuss how stress affects the developing brain and how the Eight Great Smarts can help parents respond more personally. Parents will be encouraged to approach anxious kids with compassion and be a steady presence who points them toward the security and peace found in God.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore how sleep, nutrition, physical activity, and screen habits work together to shape a child's health and development. They discuss how physical well being can influence security, identity, belonging, purpose, and competence, while encouraging parents to model the habits they hope to see in their kids. Families will be challenged to make gradual, realistic changes together and view caring for the body as an important part of helping kids flourish.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore the often hidden cost of caregiving and what happens when loving someone else causes our own needs to continually move to the bottom of the list. They discuss sacrifice, burnout, identity, asking for help, and the importance of remembering that caregivers matter too. Listeners will be encouraged to seek support while remaining rooted in Christ and to recognize that caring for themselves can help them continue to love and serve others faithfully.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore new teen focused safeguards in ChatGPT and what they can, and cannot, do for young people. They discuss emotional dependence, study tools, discernment, and the temptation to let AI replace the struggle and relationships that make learning meaningful. Parents will be encouraged to help teens use technology wisely while forming them to recognize trustworthy voices and stay rooted in relationships and truth that AI cannot replace.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore new neuroscience showing that the brain is built not only to remember the past, but to imagine possible futures. They discuss how security, identity, wonder, and the Eight Great Smarts can help kids picture who they might become without forcing them into a parent's preferred path. Parents will be encouraged to slow down, ask better questions, create opportunities for exploration, and help children develop confidence that God can guide them toward a future they cannot fully see yet.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the pressures parents face as their children return to school, particularly the urge to ensure high achievement through tutoring and extra activities. Drawing on insights from Jennifer Wallace's research, which highlights the importance of a "mattering mindset," Dr. Kathy emphasizes that children's long-term success is rooted in their belief in their inherent worth and ability to positively impact the world. The discussion delves into the societal expectations of parenting, the push for children to excel, and the need for a balance between achievement and self-worth. Tune in for valuable insights on fostering motivation and self-esteem in kids. Order 8 Great Smarts>> Order Start with the Heart>>

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore why more young people are disengaging from education and work and why the answer may begin much earlier than adolescence. They discuss the importance of security, identity, belonging, purpose, and competence, as well as the role that parents, schools, churches, and communities can play in helping kids discover that they are capable and created to contribute. Parents and leaders will be encouraged to look beyond early warning signs and instead help children recognize the gifts and purposes God has already placed within them.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore new research showing how severe early childhood stress can leave lasting biological effects while also emphasizing that those effects do not have to determine a child's future. They discuss the difference between healthy stress that builds resilience and traumatic stress that overwhelms, as well as the importance of presence, patience, compassion, and safe relationships in helping children heal. Parents will be encouraged to look beneath behavior and remember that consistent, loving adults can play a powerful role in rebuilding security and hope.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore new research showing how warm, responsive caregiving can shape a child's developing brain and even buffer against some early risks associated with ADHD. They discuss the power of eye contact, conversation, play, and simply responding when kids reach for us, while also considering what parents may lose when screens repeatedly pull their attention away. Parents will be encouraged to remember that it is never too late to become more present and that small, intentional moments of attention can build connection and trust.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore new research suggesting that the impact of screens may depend less on simple time limits and more on how, when, why, and with whom kids use them. They discuss the difference between screens as toys and screens as tools and why parents need to know their individual children when setting boundaries. Parents will be encouraged to move beyond fear based rules and instead teach kids to use technology with wisdom, balance, curiosity, and discernment.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the importance of play in childhood and how it shapes children's self worth and resilience. Highlighting a recent statement by Senator Lincoln Fillmore, Dr. Kathy reflects on the nostalgic view of childhood, emphasizing the shift from unstructured play to a more programmed and supervised environment. Fillmore argues that this change is hindering children's development of crucial life skills such as perseverance and self confidence. The episode dives into the balance between safety and the necessity of allowing children the freedom to explore, learn, and grow independently. Join us for valuable insights on fostering independence in children and the critical role of play in their development.

In this episode of Celebrate Kids, Wayne Stender shares exciting updates from their recent meeting with book publishers before Dr. Kathy explores new data that shows a shift in teen perspectives in technology. She dives into a new trend in identity dysphoria, and gives helpful tips to connect being created on purpose with a purpose for a purpose. Resources in this podcast: Five to Thrive>> Start with the Heart>>

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy shares her journey of personal growth and the importance of allowing young people the space to explore their paths without the pressure to get it right immediately. Drawing on her experiences as a teacher and professor, she emphasizes that change is a natural part of life and growth. The discussion shifts to the future of parenting, highlighting a recent Gallup survey that explored parents' perceptions about their children's readiness to launch into adulthood. Dr. Kathy encourages parents to embrace the journey of raising their children, preparing them to thrive as young adults in an ever-changing world. Join her as she offers insights and reflections on navigating the challenges and uncertainties of parenting.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore how parents can help children develop confidence in the way God created them while navigating a culture filled with competing messages about gender and identity. They discuss the importance of grounding kids in Scripture, security, belonging, and identity in Christ while also teaching them to treat others with respect and compassion. Parents will be encouraged to speak truth clearly and help kids understand that genuine love does not abandon truth, especially when a child is confused or hurting.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore what parents gain and risk losing when AI becomes part of family life. They discuss how technology can be a useful tool for learning, while reminding parents that information can never replace relationships, curiosity, presence, and truly knowing a child. Parents will be encouraged to protect the quiet, ordinary moments when trust grows and to ensure AI supports their parenting rather than replacing the conversations and connections their kids need most.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Wayne Stender and Dr. Kathy discuss the critical issue of loneliness, particularly among young people. Dr. Kathy shares her perspective as a single adult, emphasizing that being alone does not equate to being lonely. Wayne highlights the importance of understanding this distinction and encourages listeners to recognize that solitude can be a fulfilling experience. The episode also touches on alarming statistics indicating that about one in six people globally experience loneliness, with the highest rates found in adolescents aged 13 to 17. Tune in to explore the nuances of loneliness and discover ways to foster connection and understanding among young people.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore why screens may affect children differently at key stages of development and what kids need from parents that technology cannot provide. They discuss the importance of love, touch, interaction, working memory, and real world experiences while helping parents think beyond simply limiting screen time. Parents will be encouraged to consider not only how much screen time their children have, but what that screen time may be replacing and whether their kids are getting the attentive, face-to-face relationships they need to grow well.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore why sleep is essential for kids as families transition back to school. They discuss why tired brains struggle with attention and self control, and how parents can gradually rebuild healthy sleep rhythms without turning bedtime into a battle. Parents will be encouraged to see rest not simply as a health habit, but as an important part of helping children grow physically, emotionally, academically, and spiritually.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore why friendships matter so much as kids head back to school and how parents can help prepare them for the social challenges ahead. They discuss belonging and security while offering practical ways to teach kids how to introduce themselves, ask good questions, respect others, navigate disagreements, and step confidently into new relationships. Parents will be encouraged to see friendship skills not as something kids simply figure out, but as important tools we can intentionally teach and model.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore why rejection can hit kids especially hard and how social media and a sense of belonging can intensify the pain. They discuss the importance of helping children build a broad, secure identity so one failure or painful rejection does not become the whole story. Parents will be encouraged to respond calmly and remind them that their deepest identity and sense of belonging are secure in Christ.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the idea of parenting that goes beyond merely raising well behaved children. She challenges the notion that the primary goal of parenting should be to produce obedient kids who do the right things at the right times. Instead, Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of encouraging children to be comfortable in their own skin and to embrace their true selves. Drawing on insights from Elizabeth Tenty's article in Motherly, the discussion highlights four key practices of parents with well behaved kids: listening to their children, validating emotions, explaining decisions, and maintaining consistent boundaries. Join us as we explore a more holistic approach to parenting that nurtures individuality and self acceptance in children.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender discuss what children may lose when parents prevent friendships between boys and girls. They explore the difference between wise protection and fear based decisions and how healthy friendships can teach empathy, respect, communication, and biblical community. Parents are encouraged to seek wisdom from Scripture and help their children see others not as threats or objects, but as people created in the image of God.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore the surprising power of asking others for help. Drawing on modern research and Jesus' conversation with the Samaritan woman, they explain how freely choosing to help someone can strengthen affection and build a sense of belonging. Parents will discover practical ways to invite children to contribute, serve their siblings, and recognize that they are wanted and valuable members of their family and community.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Wayne Stender and Dr. Kathy Koch explain how unstructured time outdoors builds wonder, creativity, emotional regulation, and resilience. They share practical ways to help children enjoy nature through their unique smarts and show how creation can restore perspective by reminding kids that God is bigger than the challenges they face.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender examine what happens when children are viewed primarily in terms of economics and productivity. They discuss the pressure to raise high performing kids and the importance of recognizing each child as uniquely created by God. Parents are encouraged to see children not merely as expenses, but as gifts who bring belonging and joy to family life.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Wayne Stender discusses the vital role of children in today's society, challenging the common notion that they are merely the future of the church. He shares an insightful conversation with his son about the purpose of kids in a family and their role in shaping culture. Wayne emphasizes the importance of recognizing children as active participants in the present rather than just a legacy for the future. The segment features Dr. Kathy, who delves into the perspectives on what purpose kids serve in our culture, helping listeners navigate these complex thoughts. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that encourages a deeper understanding of the significance of children today.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the challenges faced by parents and caregivers, especially those who are navigating the complexities of raising children while also caring for aging relatives, a situation known as being a "sandwich carer." With an estimated 1.3 million people in the UK in this role, the episode explores the emotional toll and feelings of isolation that can arise when juggling these responsibilities. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of acknowledging struggles and the reality that faith does not exempt individuals from challenges. Tune in as she provides insights and encouragement for those feeling overwhelmed, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their journey.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Wayne Stender introduces the newly launched book, "Raising Gender Confident Kids." He emphasizes the importance of understanding gender as a God-ordained element of our identity, meant for our good and His glory. The discussion revolves around fostering gender confidence in children amidst a culture facing gender confusion. Dr. Kathy encourages parents to celebrate and accept the unique design God has for each individual. Listeners are invited to support the ministry by purchasing the book at CelebrateKids.com. Join us as we explore how to guide our kids in embracing their gender identity with confidence.

In today's episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy considers a new report that unveils what happens to kids who use AI frequently. Exploring the findings of how trust shifts to technology, Dr. Kathy highlights insights from research she's done on why kids learn and retain knowledge and wisdom better when they're taught by an adult versus a screen. She gives important tips on how we can guide our kids well inside this cultural moment.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the complexities of grief and honoring loved ones, particularly through the lens of a listener's dilemma about naming her child after a deceased sister. The discussion with Dr. Kathy and host Wayne Stender emphasizes the importance of navigating emotional challenges without sugarcoating experiences. Dr. Kathy highlights the necessity of addressing feelings of confusion, sadness, and doubt, and reassures listeners that it's okay to struggle with these emotions. The episode also delves into the listener's relationship with her mother, who pressures her to honor her late sister by sharing memories and naming her child after her. Dr. Kathy offers insights on balancing personal choices with family expectations while fostering healthy discussions about loss and remembrance. Tune in for a compassionate exploration of dealing with grief and the pressures that come with it.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the impact of smartphone use on children's mental health, particularly those under the age of 13. Citing a significant study published in the Journal for Human Development and Capabilities, she discusses how early smartphone exposure is linked to suicidal thoughts, emotional regulation issues, and lower self-worth, especially in girls. The study, which analyzed data from nearly 2 million individuals across 163 countries, highlights the detrimental effects of social media, sleep disruptions, cyberbullying, and strained family relationships associated with early smartphone use. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of observing children's behaviors and interests to guide their development, advocating for mindful engagement and opportunities for discovery away from screens.

Hope isn't wishful thinking or pretending life is easy. It's a discipline that can be practiced and cultivated in our homes every day. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore fascinating research identifying hope as one of the strongest predictors of success in education, relationships, health, and resilience. Together, they discuss practical ways parents can nurture hopeful children by being present, cultivating gratitude, embracing purposeful challenges, and ultimately helping their children place their hope in the faithfulness of God.

What if one of the best things you could do for your child's emotional health took only twenty minutes a day, and cost absolutely nothing? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore fascinating research showing that just twenty minutes outdoors significantly lowers stress hormones and strengthens resilience. Together they discuss why nature has become one of childhood's forgotten gifts and how parents can reclaim ordinary moments outside as part of raising emotionally healthy, resilient kids.

Some children answer questions immediately. Others need minutes, or even days, to think before they respond. In a fast paced world, those slower processors can easily be mislabeled as indecisive or anxious. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore new research showing that deep verbal thinkers often process life more thoroughly than others realize. Together, they discuss how parents can distinguish between unhealthy rumination and healthy reflection while learning to nurture children according to the unique ways God designed them to think.

Gratitude is often treated like a nice family exercise, but research suggests it's far more powerful than that. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore a large international meta analysis showing that gratitude strengthens resilience, improves relationships, enhances sleep, and shapes character. Together, they discuss why gratitude is one of the foundational virtues parents can cultivate and how every family can practice it in ways that fit the unique ways God designed their children to learn.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the complexities of diagnosing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in children. She discusses the challenges faced by scientists and psychologists in recognizing this condition, particularly due to children's limited communication skills and emotional awareness. Highlighting recent advancements, Dr. Kathy shares insights on an innovative AI system developed by researchers at the University of South Florida. This system analyzes physical data—such as head positioning, gaze, and facial expressions—to better understand and identify PTSD in children. Tune in to learn how these developments could transform the approach to mental health treatment for kids, making it more effective and accessible.

Short form videos may entertain our children, but are they changing the way their brains learn? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy examine new neuroscience showing how fragmented media disrupts memory and deep learning. Together they discuss why each of the Eight Great Smarts requires sustained attention to mature, and how parents can cultivate environments where wisdom, not just information, can grow.

More teenagers are turning to AI chatbots for friendship advice, family conflict, and even romantic conversations. But what happens when artificial relationships begin replacing real ones? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why God designed adolescents to learn conflict, empathy, forgiveness, and resilience through real people, not perfectly agreeable machines. Together, they unpack why AI can never satisfy our deepest relational needs and how parents can prepare children to use technology wisely without sacrificing the relationships that shape character.

Summer brings something many parents dread: bored kids. The familiar cry of "There's nothing to do!" often sends adults scrambling for activities or handing over a screen. But what if boredom isn't a problem to solve? What if it's one of the greatest opportunities for growth? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why unstructured time builds competence, creativity, resilience, and self discovery. Together, they unpack research showing that boredom becomes one of God's most powerful classrooms when parents resist the urge to entertain and instead help children learn to engage with the world around them.

For years, many people assumed mothers were biologically wired for parenting while fathers simply learned on the job. But new research is revealing something remarkable: fatherhood changes men, too. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore how becoming a dad literally reshapes a man's hormones and heart. More importantly, they discuss why Scripture has always pointed to the unique and complementary role of fathers in raising secure and confident children. Whether you're a dad, a mom, a kid, or simply want to encourage the fathers around you, this conversation offers hope and a renewed vision for one of God's greatest callings.

What happens when your child develops a tic or another behavior they can't control? For many parents, the first response is fear. But what if constantly focusing on the struggle actually makes it harder for the child? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss how parents can help children develop an identity rooted in who God says they are rather than in a diagnosis or a physical challenge. Together, they explore the importance of seeing the whole child and helping children discover purpose and hope even in the middle of things they cannot control.

Many parents dream about living close to their adult children and grandchildren, imagining spontaneous visits and a deep family connection. But what happens when moving closer doesn't actually create the relationships we hoped for? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore the deeper need beneath proximity: belonging. Together, they discuss how grandparents, their adult children, and grandchildren can build relationships rooted not in obligation but in purpose and genuine delight. If you've ever wrestled with family expectations or maintaining meaningful multi generational relationships, this conversation offers biblical wisdom and practical encouragement.

Australia's social media ban for children under 16 has generated headlines around the world, but perhaps not for the reasons many expected. Three months after the law took effect, most teenagers were still finding ways around it. Did the policy fail? Maybe not. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why true formation is rarely measured in months. Instead, they discuss how parents shape character over the years through consistent habits and patient discipleship. If you've ever wondered whether your parenting is making a difference, this conversation offers a hopeful reminder that God's work in our children is often slow, quiet, and deeply transformative.

Family vacations aren't just about getting away; they're opportunities for formation. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why travel can become one of the most powerful developmental experiences in a child's life. They discuss how new environments awaken curiosity, strengthen relationships, activate learning, and help children discover the unique ways God designed them. Whether your family is taking a cross country vacation or simply spending an afternoon exploring a local park, this conversation will encourage you to see summer adventures as opportunities to disciple your children.

Summer creates a unique opportunity for families. Without the constant rhythm of sports and homework, children suddenly have more freedom and more choices about how they'll spend their time. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why the parent child relationship remains the strongest protective factor in a world filled with screens, social media, online gaming, and AI chatbots. They discuss how parents can help children discover curiosity, awaken their God given gifts, and build memories that shape a lifetime of faith.

When a child's mental health begins to unravel, our first instinct is often to build better systems. But are systems enough? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss a California school struggling to care for students amid a growing mental health crisis and ask a deeper question: What do children actually need to flourish? They explore why genuine relationships, not simply more programs, remain one of God's primary ways of bringing healing, hope, and resilience to children.

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In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy examine a heartbreaking story that raises an important question for every family: What happens when children lose the ability to find joy in ordinary life? As concerns grow about social media's impact on identity, comparison, and emotional health, they discuss how parents can help their children discover lasting joy through relationships, purpose, and the presence of God.  

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the emotional challenges parents face as they prepare for significant transitions in their children's lives, such as entering the workforce or pursuing higher education. She explores how to guide kids through these pivotal moments, emphasizing the importance of discerning the right path for each child. The episode also highlights the partnership with Summit Ministries, a dynamic organization offering students opportunities to deepen their understanding of the Christian faith through engaging summer programs. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating these critical decisions and supporting your child's future.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we delve into the significant concerns parents have regarding their children's mental health in today's digitally connected world. Host discusses a recent Pew Research Center report revealing that 40% of U.S. parents are extremely worried about their children struggling with anxiety or depression, surpassing fears related to physical dangers such as kidnapping or substance abuse. Dr. Kathy explores the impact of these worries on parental behavior and the importance of focusing on the light amidst the darkness. Join us as we unpack the balance between natural parental fears and the hope found in a supportive, faith-based perspective.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we dive into the important topic of boredom and its impact on children. Dr. Kathy discusses the challenges parents face when their kids experience boredom and how this can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms, including substance use. Recent research highlights the necessity of teaching children to manage boredom effectively, as it is a natural part of life. Dr. Kathy also examines the shift in reasons behind teen vaping, noting that many now turn to it as a means of relaxation amidst rising stress levels. This episode offers valuable insights and strategies for parents to help their children build resilience and navigate feelings of boredom in a healthy way. Join us as we explore these crucial issues and equip ourselves to lead our kids well.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss the emotional weight of the sandwich generation, parents raising children while also caring for aging parents. They offer encouragement to humbly ask for help and to trust God with seasons that feel too heavy to carry alone.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy talk about how financial and medical stress, as well as family pressure, affect children. They reflect on how parents can be honest without overwhelming kids, and how security in God helps families mature through hard seasons.

Argentina is taking a strong stand to show dads how they want them to behave. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss the responsibility of fatherhood and why engaged dads matter deeply to children. They reflect on culture and the biblical picture of a father who keeps watching for his children.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss the growing presence of screens at family meals and why the dinner table matters for belonging. They explain how an undistracted presence helps children feel known and loved.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we dive into the importance of fostering a love for reading in children, especially during the summer months. Wayne Stender discovers insights from Dr. Kathy, highlighting research that shows reading is crucial for summer learning and can significantly impact children's reading achievement, particularly for those from low-income families. Recent surveys reveal a concerning decline in the number of kids who read for fun, with only 42% of nine-year-olds and just 17% of 13-year-olds engaging in daily reading. Tune in for practical tips on how families can encourage reading habits and create enjoyable reading experiences together.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids daily podcast, "Facing the Dark," we explore the profound joys and fears of parenting, particularly around helping children discover their true identities as created by God. Dr. Kathy discusses insights from a recent Summit Ministries blog that examines the modern identity crisis, linking it to a historical trend of Western individualism and the questioning of truth. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding how choices are presented to children and the significant impact this has on their self-identity. Tune in as we delve into these critical topics and reflect on the balance between guiding our kids and allowing them to become who they are meant to be.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the concerning trend of negative self-perception among kids today, which is often exacerbated by societal narratives labeling them as an anxious generation. She explores the implications of these self-definitions, questioning their healthiness and how parents and educators can respond effectively. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of speaking truth, positivity, and encouragement into the lives of children to counteract these negative labels. Additionally, she highlights the partnership with Summit Ministries, a program that offers engaging camps where teens can explore significant questions in a supportive community, fostering both personal growth and friendship. Tune in for valuable insights on nurturing resilience and self-esteem in today's youth.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the complexities of technology, particularly cell phones, and their impact on children. Reflecting on a poignant conversation about hopes for the next generation, she explores how kids recognize the negative aspects of technology but feel compelled to keep using it due to societal pressures. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of not just banning technology, but also providing meaningful alternatives to fill the void. Additionally, she highlights the support from their ministry partner, Summit Ministries, which offers a two-week worldview camp that helps kids engage with cultural dynamics and personal development. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating technology in today's world.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the essential qualities that contribute to children's success, inspired by an article from CNBC by Susan Domenez. The episode highlights five key elements identified in successful children's stories: the importance of optimism, the need to understand and tailor motivation to each child, the idea that learning and empowerment can occur in any environment, the value of a genuine love for knowledge alongside hard work, and the role of parents as loving coaches. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the significance of applying knowledge, which she defines as wisdom, as a crucial component of this journey. Join us as we explore how to cultivate these traits in children to help them thrive.

In this episode, Wayne Stender explores the profound idea that a good life is more important than simply having a good job. He and Dr. Kathy define a good life as one filled with fulfillment, connection, joy, commitment, growth, service, and learning. Dr. Kathy encourages listeners to reflect on what a "good job" means to them, emphasizing aspects like providing for family, flexibility, and personal maturity. The conversation aims to deepen the understanding of how our careers can align with our overall life satisfaction and personal development. Additionally, Wayne highlights the importance of awakening different smarts in children through art, mentioning the work of Creating a Masterpiece, which offers structured art education to help kids thrive creatively and emotionally. Tune in for insights on prioritizing life fulfillment while navigating career choices.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses a concerning trend revealed in a recent HarperCollins survey from the UK, which shows a significant decline in the interest of parents reading aloud to their children. Less than half of parents of kids up to 13 find reading aloud fun, and only 29% of children aged 5 to 13 view reading as enjoyable rather than just a school subject. The episode highlights alarming statistics showing a decrease in literacy rates in the U.S., with nearly 28% of adults ranking at the lowest literacy levels. Dr. Kathy discusses the critical importance of reading aloud for children's development, emphasizing how it fosters a love for reading and helps children navigate challenges in life with the understanding that there is always a conclusion. Tune in to learn more about the impact of reading on children's growth and the urgent need to reinvigorate the joy of reading in homes.

In this episode, we delve into the changing landscape of teen employment, noting a significant decline in the percentage of teens working since the late 1970s. Recent statistics reveal a slight recovery post pandemic, with around 38% of teens aged 16 to 19 actively seeking jobs as of May 2024. Surveys indicate that part-time work is beneficial for youth, helping them understand budgeting and financial responsibility. Join us as we discuss these themes and share insights on how to support children in their financial journeys.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the concerning trend of negative self-perception among today's youth, highlighting how many kids define themselves through a lens of anxiety and mental health challenges. She explores the implications of this self view and its potential to become a self fulfilling prophecy. Listeners are encouraged to consider effective ways to speak truth and positivity into this generation's lives. The episode also features a special mention of Summit Ministries, a partner organization that offers enriching two week camps for teens, providing them with an opportunity to engage with peers, ask important questions, and build community through both educational and fun activities.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Wayne Stender introduces a heartfelt discussion with Dr. Kathy on the challenges faced by children of divorce and their parents. They explore the feelings of disconnection from faith that often arise during such tumultuous times and emphasize that God understands the pain associated with divorce. The episode encourages listeners to recognize that not every light in their lives will guide them positively, urging caution and reflection in their journeys. Tune in for insightful perspectives and support for navigating these difficult emotions.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss the national conversation about gender identity, children, medical care, and parental responsibility. They explore why parents must speak truth with compassion, and help children build a secure identity rooted in Christ.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the importance of getting kids outside and engaging with nature, especially during the summer months. The discussion arises from concerns parents face when their children prefer indoor activities, like reading, over outdoor play. Dr. Kathy explores the benefits of nature for children's health and development, referencing a recent study from Finland that shows significant advantages for kids who play in natural environments compared to those in urban daycare settings. Listeners are encouraged to think critically about how to inspire their children to appreciate the great outdoors. Tune in for practical insights on fostering a love for nature in our children!  

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy talk about the growing concern around declining reading scores and the rise of screen based learning. They explore why reading is more than an academic skill and how it forms attention, imagination, empathy, wonder, wisdom, and identity.

In this episode of Celebrate Kids, Wayne Stender discusses the importance of nurturing different intelligences in children. Dr. Kathy then emphasizes how giving kids opportunities to explore new and challenging activities can help them discover their capabilities and prepare for future success. The episode highlights the value of creativity and artistic expression, featuring the resource Creating a Masterpiece, which offers step-by-step guidance for parents and children to engage in various art projects. By awakening different "smarts," especially visual-spatial intelligence, families can foster growth and self-discovery. Tune in to learn more about embracing challenges and the significance of art in development.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy talk about the tension parents feel when raising independent kids in an anxious culture. Using stories of children walking to the library, running errands, and practicing small responsibilities, they explore how competence, confidence, character, and resilience grow through wise, supported independence.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy talk about a neighborhood using simple WiFi "tin can phones" to help kids call friends and build real life connection without smartphones. Together, they explore why conversation skills must be taught, why belonging grows through practice, and how parents can help kids develop confidence and relational maturity in a screen shaped world.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne Stender and Dr. Kathy Koch step into one of the most common and uncomfortable parenting conversations: How do we explain where babies come from without confusing or misleading our kids? The discussion is sparked by a popular podcast moment in which a celebrity mom offers a simple explanation: "When two people love each other enough, their love gets them a baby." While well-intentioned, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why answers like this, though emotionally appealing, can quietly create confusion or misunderstanding in a child's mind. Using a memorable ice-skating analogy, the episode acknowledges how slippery these conversations can feel for parents. But avoiding them doesn't make kids safer; it just sends them elsewhere for answers. Dr. Kathy explains why parents must be the trusted authority on questions about bodies, intimacy, and life, and why clarity matters even when the details are age-appropriate and gradual. Rooted in Psalm 139, the episode reassures parents that a child's worth is never defined by how they were conceived, but by who created them. When kids eventually learn the fuller story of biology, relationships, or even painful family circumstances, honest foundations help them feel secure rather than misled. Wayne and Dr. Kathy encourage parents to speak the truth with care, to name body parts accurately, to explain intimacy appropriately, and to always frame life as something intentionally crafted by God. Kids can handle reality when it's delivered with love, wisdom, and patience. This episode equips parents to step onto the ice with confidence, helping their children grow in understanding without fear, and letting truth become a bright light that cuts through confusion later in life.

Screens do more than entertain children; they shape habits, identity, attention, and belonging. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy unpack new health concerns about rising screen use among kids and teens while exploring the deeper heart needs driving attachment to technology. They discuss why screens often become substitutes for security and identity, while offering parents practical ways to rebuild rhythms that strengthen real connection and healthy character formation.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore one of the most challenging conversations parents are navigating today: helping kids build healthy identity in a culture filled with competing voices. Drawing on insights from Raising Gender Confident Kids, they discuss why identity confusion often runs deeper than surface level questions and how parents can become intentional builders of security, identity, belonging, purpose, and confidence in their children.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy respond to recent reports of teen violence in public spaces and ask what may be happening beneath the behavior. They discuss anger, emotional regulation, isolation, authority, and why parents must move toward kids with truth, courage, accountability, and compassion before culture pulls away from them.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the pressures teenagers face to be exceptional, referencing a 2024 study from the University of Indiana. The study reveals that over half of surveyed teens feel pressured by expectations surrounding their achievements, future plans, and even their appearance. As graduation approaches, the conversation often shifts to what comes next for students, amplifying this pressure. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the dangers of these expectations and encourages a shift in perspective, highlighting the benefits of being average and the importance of allowing kids to explore their paths without the burden of needing to be extraordinary. Tune in for insights on how to support kids during this pivotal time in their lives.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the concept of "dry texting," which refers to minimal responses in text conversations that lack depth and engagement. She discusses how this trend may lead to conflict-averse behavior and poor communication skills in children. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of encouraging children to elaborate on their thoughts and feelings rather than settling for one-word answers. She suggests using more engaging questions, such as "What intrigued you today?" to foster richer conversations and help children practice effective communication. Tune in to learn how to cultivate better dialogue with your kids and support their emotional development.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses how to determine when children are ready for more responsibilities and how to adjust our conversations and interactions with them as they mature. She addresses the various societal benchmarks like getting a driver's license, voting, and registering for the military, and offers guidance on approaching these discussions. The episode also features a sponsorship message from Summit Ministries, a ministry focused on shaping the hearts and minds of young people with a biblical worldview. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating the journey of raising children and helping them mature in their understanding of themselves and their faith.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the concept of launching children into adulthood and the importance of broadening their definition of success. Drawing from a recent article by Jamie Richardson in Business Insider, she discusses the benefits of having adult children live at home, particularly in helping them navigate unfulfilling careers and relationships. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the value of redefining success beyond traditional metrics, focusing instead on health, wisdom, and happiness. This broader perspective encourages young adults to connect with their true selves and articulate their own definitions of success as they prepare to launch into the world. Tune in for insights on parenting and guiding kids toward meaningful adulthood.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the concerning statistics surrounding children affected by parental substance abuse. With nearly 19 million children in the United States having at least one parent with a substance use disorder, the episode emphasizes the emotional and psychological impacts on these kids, who may feel undervalued and unimportant. The discussion highlights the need for pediatricians to screen for mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, and ADHD in these children, as they are more prevalent in this demographic. Dr. Kathy also notes the various forms of addiction parents may struggle with, including alcoholism and marijuana use, underscoring the urgency to address these issues and support affected families.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Wayne Stender delves into the evolving landscape of education, emphasizing the importance of fostering a love for learning over traditional metrics like grades and GPAs. Drawing from Proverbs 4:13, Dr. Kathy stresses that instruction and a desire for knowledge should be the focus, rather than the pressure of achieving honor roll status. The discussion touches on the historical shift towards standardized education and critiques the current free market approach, highlighting a recent interview with Arne Duncan, former Secretary of Education, who pointed out the lack of coherent educational goals and strategies at the national level. Dr. Kathy encourages parents and educators to prioritize meaningful learning experiences for children amidst the complexities of modern education.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the importance of getting children outside to play and engage with their environment. She highlights a long-term study linking physical activity in teenagers to lower symptoms of depression, emphasizing that those who maintain or increase their activity levels are less likely to experience mental health issues. Dr. Kathy explores the challenges some kids face in enjoying outdoor play due to sensory sensitivities and other barriers, offering insights into how parents can encourage outdoor activities in a positive way. Tune in for practical tips and a deeper understanding of the connection between physical activity and mental well-being in children.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the critical issue of student engagement in education. She highlights the findings from a recent Brookings Institution survey revealing that only one-third of children are enthusiastic about school by age 13, contrasting sharply with parents' perceptions. Dr. Kathy addresses the reasons behind children's boredom and disinterest in learning, emphasizing the importance of making education relevant and beneficial. She also explores how parents can respond to their children's frustrations with school, acknowledging that while some level of boredom can build resilience, it can also lead to a diminished love for learning. Tune in for valuable insights on fostering enthusiasm in education and maintaining a positive learning environment for children.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy talk about how teens are forming opinions through social media and AI, even while doubting the credibility of what they find. They unpack why uncertainty affects security, identity, and confidence, and how parents can teach kids to evaluate truth with wisdom.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy talk about teens who say "not every home is safe" and why some kids seek belonging in risky places. They unpack how parents can build homes marked by safety, attention, correction without criticism, and meaningful connection.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss the common habit of using screens to calm kids in cars, restaurants, airports, and other stressful moments. They explore why screens can weaken emotional regulation over time and how parents can gradually help children build patience and self control.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy talk about Pizza Hut's returning Book It program and whether rewards help or hurt a child's love of reading. They explore how parents can motivate reluctant readers, make reading relational, and build habits that last longer than the reward.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss rising reports of sadness and hopelessness among teens and what those struggles can look like in everyday family life. They explore how parents can notice changes without panic and guide children toward the steady truth of who they are in Christ.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we delve into the significant benefits of outdoor play for children. Dr. Kathy discusses how spending time outside can alleviate anxiety and feelings of loneliness in kids, while also providing them with a broader perspective on life by encouraging them to look towards the horizon. She joins the conversation to offer insights and encouragement for parents struggling to get their kids off devices and engaged with nature. The episode emphasizes the importance of outdoor activity, highlighting a recent NPR report that suggests spending at least two hours outside each day can greatly protect children's eyesight. The episode also features a brief mention of Summit Ministries, a two-week camp designed to deepen teens' understanding of a Christian worldview. Tune in for valuable tips on fostering a love for the outdoors in your children!

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we delve into the significant benefits of outdoor play for children. Dr. Kathy discusses how spending time outside can alleviate anxiety and feelings of loneliness in kids, while also providing them with a broader perspective on life by encouraging them to look towards the horizon. She joins the conversation to offer insights and encouragement for parents struggling to get their kids off devices and engaged with nature. The episode emphasizes the importance of outdoor activity, highlighting a recent NPR report that suggests spending at least two hours outside each day can greatly protect children's eyesight. The episode also features a brief mention of Summit Ministries, a two-week camp designed to deepen teens' understanding of a Christian worldview. Tune in for valuable tips on fostering a love for the outdoors in your children!

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the vital role of reading aloud to children and its profound benefits on their development. Citing research from the Early Childhood Longitudinal Study, she highlights that a significant percentage of four-year-olds are not read to regularly, which can impact their vocabulary, reading comprehension, and motivation. Dr. Kathy shares insights on the positive outcomes linked to parents reading to their kids as young as one to two and a half years old, emphasizing that reading at least five books daily can expose children to an impressive 1.4 million words by the time they enter kindergarten. Tune in for practical tips on how parents can easily incorporate reading into their daily routines, fostering a love for reading and enhancing their children's literacy skills.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the idea of preparing children for the challenges of the world by intentionally placing them in difficult situations. Host discusses the overwhelming amount of social science research available to help parents and adult leaders navigate the mental health crises and emotional challenges faced by kids today. The conversation highlights the importance of fostering mental toughness and resilience in children, encouraging them to embrace struggles as opportunities for growth. Featuring insights from Dr. Kathy Cooke, the episode offers practical advice for Christian parents on equipping their kids to face inevitable challenges with confidence and strength. Tune in to discover how to transform fear into readiness for life's obstacles.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the importance of remembrance in education. Wayne discusses the overwhelming pressure students face today, with numerous graduation requirements and expectations. Drawing on research and biblical concepts, the segment emphasizes the need for students to take time to reflect on their learning and the positive experiences they've had. Dr. Kathy highlights Connecticut's graduation requirement, which asks students to assess their own learning growth over four years. This episode encourages parents and educators to facilitate moments of remembrance, shedding light on the significance of acknowledging past achievements and God's influence in students' lives.

What happens when a parent's identity becomes built around being needed? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy talk about the quiet crisis many parents face as children grow older and need them differently. They explore the difference between identity, purpose, and competence, why parenting must be rooted in Christ rather than control, and how parents can model a whole, healthy life for their children.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the challenges faced by today's children and the pressures they encounter in various environments, including school, church, and family life. She reflects on the shifts in children's behavior and performance over the years, sparked by a Reddit discussion among teachers about the noticeable changes they have observed since they began teaching. With insights on how to communicate positively and supportively with our kids, Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of understanding and guiding them through these complex cultural moments. Join us as we explore ways to encourage our children and cultivate resilience in the face of modern life's pressures.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy and Wayne Stender discuss the challenges parents face when trying to nurture their children's faith, especially when it seems like their efforts aren't yielding the desired results. They emphasize the importance of having meaningful conversations that go beyond faith discussions, engaging with kids on various topics that interest them. The episode features insights from Dr. Kathy, who highlights findings from George Barna's American Worldview Inventory Report. This report reveals that many adults are open to the idea of God under certain conditions, presenting both a troubling reality and a powerful opportunity for fostering faith in children. The conversation aims to equip parents with the understanding that having a trusted person in a child's life is crucial for building their faith. Tune in to explore how to guide children in their spiritual journey without overwhelming them. The insights from this podcast reference Dr. Kathy's work Start with the Heart>>

As debates over gender identity and medical care for minors grow louder across the country, parents are left asking a deeper question than politics alone can't answer: how do we help our children know who they are? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss identity formation and why parents must be the clearest, most trusted voices in their children's lives. This is a conversation about speaking truth with love and helping kids find their identity in Christ rather than confusion.

Some children seem easy to raise. They do not ask for much, and they rarely create conflict. But what if that "easy" child is not thriving at all? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why quiet, low maintenance children are often overlooked, how unmet needs can hide behind calm behavior and what parents can do to make sure every child feels seen and deeply loved.