Beyond the Letter

What happens when the version of you everyone expects is no longer the real you?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Tim Ross joins Will and Sammy for an incredibly honest conversation about leadership, vulnerability, brokenness, church culture, therapy, and the journey toward becoming fully integrated.Tim opens up about the years he spent trying to fit expectations that slowly pulled him away from himself, the moment he realized he could no longer lead that way, and how he eventually found his voice again.They also talk about why leaders need safe places to be human, what happens when vulnerability gets weaponized against you, why “it’s lonely at the top” is a dangerous lie, and how brokenness can become the very place God begins to bring healing.Tim also reflects on getting canceled, learning who his real audience was, and why he would rather be fully seen, fully heard, fully known, and fully loved than spend his life protecting an image.You were never created to become the version of yourself everyone else needs.Sometimes healing begins when the real you finally comes back.--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/Tim Ross https://www.instagram.com/upsetthegram/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Why do we sometimes treat the people we love the worst?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashley have an honest conversation about anger, arguments, emotional maturity, and the sides of ourselves that often come out strongest around the people closest to us.They talk openly about conflict in their own marriage, why Ashley can become harsh with her words when she’s angry, why Adam tends to shut down emotionally, and how easy it is for couples to turn disagreements into a competition over who is right.The conversation also explores insecurity, offense, therapy, emotional growth, and the uncomfortable reality that our spouse and family often see parts of us that everyone else never does.Marriage isn’t about winning every argument.It’s about becoming healthy enough that the people you love don’t constantly receive the worst version of you.--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

What will your kids remember about you when they’re grown?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam and Will have an unexpectedly personal conversation about fatherhood, work, ministry, and the pressure of trying to build something meaningful without missing your children along the way.They share stories about their own fathers, the moments from childhood they still carry today, and how those experiences are shaping the way they raise their own kids.From learning the difference between simply being present and being an intentional father, to making sure there is still something left in the tank when you get home, this conversation is a reminder that success outside the home means very little if your family only gets what is left of you.They also talk about regret, repairing relationships with your parents, and why even fathers who feel like they missed important years with their children can still rebuild something meaningful.Because one day your kids will grow up.The question is: when they look back, will they remember that Dad wanted to be there?--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Does taking care of yourself affect the health of your marriage?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee have an honest conversation about physical attraction, body image, confidence, and why self-care matters even after you've said "I do."They share personal stories from the early years of their marriage, including struggles with weight, insecurity, intimacy, and how their relationships with their own bodies affected their connection with each other.The conversation also explores how getting older, having children, changing hormones, and building healthier habits can shape not only your physical health but also your emotional well-being and marriage.Because sometimes the problem isn't that you've stopped loving your spouse. It's that you've stopped taking care of yourself.--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

How much AI is too much for a Christian?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam sits down with Michael Whittle, founder of Pulpit.ai and VP of AI at Subsplash, for an honest conversation about artificial intelligence, faith, technology, and what AI could be doing to the way we think and relate to one another.They talk about everything from pastors using AI for sermon preparation to people turning to chatbots for relationships, counseling, and spiritual advice. They also discuss concerns about human connection, creativity, education, jobs, data centers, and whether some of the viral claims surrounding AI are actually as clear-cut as they seem.The conversation ultimately comes down to one question: where should Christians draw the line?--Data Referenced in This Video:THE "AI COULD KILL EVERYONE" STORYPirate Wires: Jacob Coxon Worked With AI Doomer PR Firmhttps://www.piratewires.com/p/jacob-coxon-worked-with-ai-doomer-firmTechCrunch: Anthropic's prospectus warns its AI could end humanityhttps://techcrunch.com/2026/09/28/anthropics-prospectus-details-losses-growth-and-yes-a-warning-that-its-ai-could-end-humanity/CNN: Anthropic's leaked IPO filing detailshttps://www.cnn.com/2026/09/29/tech/anthropic-ipo-details-leakWASHINGTON AND THE AI LABSCBS News: Trump's private dinner with Dario Amodeihttps://www.cbsnews.com/news/trump-dario-amodei-anthropic-dinner/Fortune: Trump calls AI oversight a "globalist scheme"; Altman and Amodei at the UNhttps://fortune.com/2026/09/23/trump-un-ai-globalist-scheme-altman-amodei-security-council/--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Michael Whittle https://www.instagram.com/michaelwhittle/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What does “in sickness and in health” really mean when the sickness is mental?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashley use the Lindsay Clancy case as the starting point for a bigger conversation about marriage, mental health, postpartum struggles, trauma, and personal responsibility.They talk about what happens when a spouse begins to change emotionally, how mental health can affect connection inside a marriage, and the difficult reality of supporting someone who may not feel like the same person you married.The conversation also explores how trauma can affect memory, how easy it can be for a spouse to emotionally check out, and why covenant requires more than staying committed when everything is easy.This episode wrestles with one important question:What does it really mean to love your spouse in sickness and in health?--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

Why do so many people keep starting over before anything has time to work?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Will, Sammy, and Adam talk about consistency, leadership, success, discipline, mentorship, and what it actually takes to build something that lasts.The conversation starts with lessons Will picked up while spending time with Pastor Craig Groeschel and quickly expands into a bigger discussion about why highly effective leaders think differently, why routines matter, and why successful people often stay committed to the same thing much longer than everyone else.They also unpack a lesson attributed in the conversation to Warren Buffett: sometimes success requires being willing to “watch paint dry” — staying patient and consistent instead of constantly abandoning one opportunity for another.But the conversation goes deeper than personal success.The guys ask whether a leader has really built something healthy if everything depends on that leader’s personality, charisma, or presence. Adam shares why discipleship and developing other leaders has become central to how he approaches ministry — and why multiplication matters more than simply building a platform around one person.Because sometimes the breakthrough isn’t another opportunity.Sometimes you just need to stop starting over and stay long enough to grow.--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What’s the difference between protecting your marriage and hiding problems that need to be addressed?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Ashley is back at the table with Erica and Sanaz for an honest conversation about intimacy, marriage, accountability, and the pressure many women feel to keep everything together behind closed doors.The women start by talking about mismatched sex drives, why physical intimacy can begin to feel like another task, and whether scheduling time together can actually help couples reconnect. They also discuss how daily responsibilities and mental overload can affect the desire to be intimate—even when there is genuine love for a spouse.The conversation then turns to a documentary about a pastor’s wife and a difficult question: When does staying silent to protect your husband’s reputation keep you from recognizing that you need help?They unpack why trusted friendships and outside perspectives matter, how to recognize unhealthy patterns, and what it looks like to have honest conversations when a marriage is struggling. They also discuss couples who have reached the point of separation and the work involved when both people want to rebuild trust.A healthy marriage shouldn’t require you to pretend everything is fine.--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Aaron & Erica Levyhttps://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/https://www.instagram.com/erica.levy_npbestie/--Connect with Nathan & Sanaz Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/nathanjmesa/https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

Can someone be a good person without believing in God?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam sits down with Dr. Chris Palmer for a deep conversation about atheism, morality, meaning, nihilism, truth, technology, and what happens when a culture slowly stops believing that God matters.Chris explains why he believes our generation is experiencing a crisis of meaning—overloaded with information, algorithms, competing opinions, and constant hot takes to the point that many people no longer know what to believe or why they believe it.They also talk about Nietzsche, the rise of “your truth,” whether morality can actually be grounded without God, and why a person can appear successful, happy, and morally good while still wrestling with a deeper question of meaning and purpose.The conversation also dives into the Book of Revelation, why Christians often misinterpret its symbolism, and the danger of trying to connect every new technology or headline to end-times prophecy.At the center of it all is one question:If God disappears from the way we understand reality, what replaces Him?--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Dr. Chris Palmer https://www.instagram.com/chrispalmer/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

How strict should Christian parents be with their teenagers?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashley sit down with Jimmy and Deanna, who have been married for nearly 20 years and are raising three sons, to have an honest conversation about raising teenagers in today’s culture.They talk about everything from social media, dating and Life360 to discipline, freedom, letting your kids fail, secular music, tattoos, church attendance, and knowing which battles actually matter.Jimmy and Deanna share why they refused to make every decision a fight—but also why certain things, especially their sons’ foundation in faith, were non-negotiable. They discuss the tension between guiding your teenager and controlling them, and why eventually parents have to trust that the same Holy Spirit speaking to them can speak to their children too.They also unpack why protecting your kids from every mistake may actually keep them from growing, how much freedom teenagers should have, and why your children often learn more from watching how you live than listening to another lecture.So where is the line?Should Christian parents make their kids go to church—or could forcing them eventually push them away?--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Jimmy & Deanna Mettiashttps://www.instagram.com/thepharaoh24/https://www.instagram.com/deannaprayvails/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

What happens when you stop trying to impress the people you think can open doors for you?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Will, Sammy, and Jeff talk about ambition, people-pleasing, success, obedience, waiting seasons, and learning how to recognize what God is actually doing in your life.Jeff opens up about the moment he realized he had placed too much weight on influential people, hoping the right connection would eventually unlock his future. Once he stopped treating people as his source, he began learning how to show up authentically and trust God with the opportunities that followed.The conversation also gets into needing fresh oil for new seasons, why someone else’s harvest can make your season of plowing feel like failure, and the danger of measuring your life by somebody else’s definition of success.Jeff also shares a wild story about speaking at a non-Christian business event where he felt led to give an altar call—even though he was afraid it might cost him future opportunities. More than 100 people raised their hands to respond to Jesus, reinforcing the very lesson they spend the episode unpacking: obedience matters more than protecting your image.Stop performing for people. Be faithful to what God gave you—and let Him decide which doors open.--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Jeff Osborn https://www.instagram.com/jefftosborne/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Why does dating feel so much harder than it used to?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee work through some of the biggest questions singles are asking today—dating apps, where to actually meet people, unrealistic standards, approaching someone in public, the cost of dating, and whether the dating system itself is broken.They also unpack how social media has changed expectations around attraction and relationships, why dating apps can make character difficult to judge, and why getting back into real-life communities and “third spaces” may be more important than ever.And sometimes the answer isn’t simply that dating is broken.Sometimes we also have to rethink what we’re looking for—and whether we’re actually giving people a chance.--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

What if the thing you’re assigned to do isn’t the full thing God called you to do?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam sits down with Julian Lowe for a conversation about calling, assignment, purpose, spiritual gifts, and finding the grace God has placed on your life.Julian shares how leading a church is his current assignment, while his deeper calling is to strengthen leaders—and why he believes many people become so focused on turning their purpose into a career that they stop simply doing what God called them to do.They also unpack apostles, prophets, shepherds, teachers, and evangelists, why healthy churches need different gifts working together, and what can happen when we only surround ourselves with people who think and lead exactly like us.Your position may change. Your assignment may change. But your calling runs deeper.--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Julian Lowe https://www.instagram.com/julianlowe/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Dating is hard enough without wasting years on someone you were never aligned with in the first place.In this episode of Beyond I Do, Ashlee sits down with the ladies to talk honestly about dating, situationships, past mistakes, dating apps, attraction, and what they wish they understood before marriage. They share how their own dating histories shaped the way they eventually recognized healthier relationships—and why sometimes the person who is right for you may look completely different from the “type” you thought you wanted.The conversation also gets practical about Christian dating: ask the hard questions early, stop excusing obvious red flags, and don’t compromise your faith hoping you can change somebody later.Because knowing what you want isn’t being difficult.It’s how you stop wasting time with people who were never going where you’re going.--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Aaron & Erica Levyhttps://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/https://www.instagram.com/erica.levy_npbestie/--Connect with Nathan & Sanaz Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/nathanjmesa/https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

How much honor is too much?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, the conversation starts with a viral video of a man who got a massive tattoo of Pastor Philip Anthony Mitchell on his arm—claiming it was his way of honoring a spiritual leader. That immediately raises a much bigger question: when does respect for a pastor cross the line into idolatry?The guys unpack the difference between appreciating someone’s influence and elevating them to a place they were never meant to occupy. They also talk about Christian celebrity culture, putting leaders on pedestals, and why it can be dangerous to attach too much of our faith to another person.Honor matters—but no pastor, preacher, or leader should ever take the place that belongs to God.So where is the line between respect and worship?--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Allan Walters https://www.instagram.com/alllanwalters/Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/--Get the Acts Study Guide at: https://www.adammesa.org/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Do husbands secretly want to be the little spoon?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee get into a hilarious debate after Adam admits that sometimes he just wants his wife to hold him—and Ashlee is completely unconvinced. What starts as an argument about cuddling turns into a bigger conversation about affection, emotional support, and why husbands want to feel seen too.They also talk about the pressures men carry, how easily husbands can feel overlooked in marriage, and why sometimes something as simple as a hug, a touch, or hearing “it’s going to be okay” can mean more than you realize.Sometimes your husband doesn’t need you to fix anything.He might just need you to hold him.--Get the Acts Study Guide at: https://www.adammesa.org/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

What happens when an atheist decides to live as if God is real?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam, Aaron, and Sammy react to the viral journey of a man who began practicing four simple Christian disciplines: prayer, gratitude, reading Scripture, and actually applying the teachings of Jesus. What started as an experiment eventually became something much more personal.As his habits changed, so did his convictions, behavior, and understanding of God—eventually leading him to publicly declare his faith in Jesus. The conversation also challenges believers to ask whether following Jesus has actually changed their daily life, or simply added church to their weekly schedule.Sometimes the biggest difference isn’t knowing more about Jesus.It’s actually practicing what He taught.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/ Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/--Get the Acts Study Guide at adammesa.org--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Is it wrong to find someone attractive when you’re already married—and when does attraction cross the line into lust?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee talk honestly about attraction, jealousy, temptation, intimacy, and the boundaries that protect a marriage. They unpack the difference between simply recognizing that someone is attractive and allowing that attraction to become fantasy, emotional connection, or something that begins creating distance from your spouse.They also share how past relationships and unresolved trauma affected the early years of their own marriage, and why healthy boundaries need to be established **before** temptation becomes a serious problem.Because affairs rarely begin with one huge decision—they usually begin with small compromises that feel harmless at first.--Get the Acts Study Guide at adammesa.org--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

What really happens to Christian content inside one of the largest streaming platforms in the world?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam sits down with longtime friend Jimmy, a former attorney and former Head of Global Policy for Amazon Prime Video, where his team helped oversee content ratings, descriptors, and policies governing what could—and could not—appear across the platform.Jimmy shares what it was like navigating faith inside corporate entertainment, why certain policies had to be rewritten to create a more consistent standard, and how Amazon Prime eventually began making a major investment in faith-based content. Adam and Jimmy also unpack The Chosen, House of David, the controversy surrounding creative liberties in biblical storytelling, and where the line should be drawn between artistic interpretation and actually contradicting Scripture.Later, Jimmy shares why he walked away from major corporate opportunities—including interview processes with companies such as OpenAI, Roblox, and TikTok—to pursue full-time ministry. The conversation turns toward career success, money, calling, and a lesson every believer needs to hear: praying for an opportunity does not replace becoming competent enough to handle it.From Christian influence in Hollywood to AI, leadership, career advancement, and following God when success is pulling you in another direction, this episode is a rare look behind the curtain of both big tech and faith.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Jimmy Mettias https://www.instagram.com/thepharaoh24/--Get the Acts Study Guide at adammesa.org--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What do happily married women say their husbands are doing differently?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee react to answers from married women about the qualities that make their husbands stand out—from apologizing when they’re wrong and showing patience, to communicating with kindness, providing for the family, and making their marriage a real priority.The conversation also gets into what healthy support actually looks like in marriage and parenting. Adam and Ashlee talk about how different couples divide responsibilities, why helping your spouse doesn’t always look the same in every marriage, and the importance of finding a rhythm that genuinely works for both people instead of comparing your relationship to someone else’s.They also unpack trust, social media boundaries, friendship influences, stay-at-home parenting, and what it really means for a husband to make his family a priority. At the center of it all is a simple question: what does it actually look like to be a great spouse over the long haul?----Get the Acts Study Guide at adammesa.org----Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast----Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo--_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do----Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/----Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

Beyond the Letter is officially back after a two-month break—and the team is returning with an upgraded studio, expanded interview capabilities, and a bigger vision for the conversations ahead.Adam and Sammy share what changed behind the scenes, why the podcast’s impact convinced them to keep building, and how new technology will allow guests from around the world to join the show. But as the conversation turns toward artificial intelligence, they confront a much darker side of the same technology helping make that expansion possible.What happens when scammers can clone the voice of someone you love? How do you respond when an AI-generated family member calls claiming to have been kidnapped? Could fake relationships, fraudulent endorsements and fabricated historical footage eventually become impossible to distinguish from reality?The conversation explores AI voice scams, stolen identities, cybercrime, privacy concerns, humanlike robots, AI-generated art and music, and the growing debate over whether this technology will replace human creativity or become another tool people must learn to use responsibly.AI may be powerful, useful and unavoidable—but that does not mean we can afford to be naive. As the line between real and artificial continues to blur, families must learn what is happening, prepare ahead of time, and know how to protect the people they love.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Adam and Ashlee are finally back at the table after a two-month summer break—and they have plenty to catch up on.They share what happened during their time away, reveal the major upgrades made to the Beyond I Do studio, and discuss how the new setup will open the door for more guests, remote interviews, and honest conversations about real relationships.Then the conversation turns toward marriage: What happens when one spouse always brings an opinion but rarely offers a solution? Can a husband truly lead if he remains passive? And are we expecting our spouses to change while refusing to examine our own selfishness?With their usual humor, banter, and honesty, Adam and Ashlee talk about communication, leadership, impossible expectations, deciding what to eat for dinner, and why a healthy marriage requires both people to move beyond simply identifying what is wrong.Beyond I Do is officially back—and this is only the beginning of what is coming next.----Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo--_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do----Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/----Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

In this solo episode, Adam sits down for an open Q&A and takes you behind the scenes of how Beyond the Letter actually works. From how guests are prepared before the cameras roll, to how conversations stay honest without turning chaotic, this is one of those episodes that feels like you’re getting the unfiltered “how it’s really done.”Adam also answers a mix of practical and real-life questions around hosting, communication, leadership, and the moments that unexpectedly go viral. If you’ve ever wondered what happens before an episode starts (and what we’re trying to avoid), this one pulls the curtain back while keeping the focus where it belongs: helping people grow in everyday faith and everyday life.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In today’s episode, Adam and Ashlee keep it light and hilarious as they wrap up the final Beyond I Do before the summer break. They share why the podcast is taking a short pause (hint: a big tech refresh is coming, including a 4K upgrade), and they talk about how routine-loving listeners might feel about it. Then Andy hits them with a surprise clip that instantly turns into one of the funniest moments of the season: Adam’s ongoing battle with curbs… and the now-legendary golf cart incident.They also end the episode with some real-life marriage talk in the middle of the laughs: Ashlee admits she’s been feeling a little more “needy” lately (her words), and Adam gives a practical take on why that shift might be happening. From texting during Bible Club to sharing drinks (and the boys’ backwash chaos), it’s one of those episodes that feels exactly like hanging out with them in real life.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Andy Lopezhttps://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

This week on Beyond the Letter, Adam and Sammy react to a clip of Theo Von reading John 5 and getting hit with one haunting question: “Do you want to be healed?” They unpack how it’s possible to want change… but still cling to the patterns that keep us stuck.They also break down what Jesus’ command to “pick up your mat and walk” actually costs—identity, comfort, excuses, and sometimes even the “benefits” we’ve learned to live off of. If you’ve ever felt like healing sounds good in theory, but terrifying in practice, this conversation will challenge you in the best way.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Ever look back and realize you don’t have enough videos of the people you love? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee get real (and hilarious) about “capturing the moment,” why Ashlee wishes Adam recorded more of her day-to-day life, and how quickly a simple ask can turn into a full-on marriage debate.Along the way, they call out excuses, talk about why small moments matter more than perfectly edited ones, and challenge couples to take ownership of what they say they value—because one day, you’ll wish you had more than just memories. Plus: Andy catches strays for finally going public with his girlfriend (and gets put on the spot to post the video).--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Andy Lopezhttps://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Adam and Allan talk about a trend that’s gotten louder online: people building platforms by clipping sermons, stitching content, and “calling out” other leaders for engagement. They unpack the difference between thoughtful biblical critique and straight-up clout-chasing — the kind that tears people down, fuels outrage, and makes money off someone else’s ministry.They also challenge believers to stop only complaining about what’s wrong on social media and start becoming part of the solution. If TikTok is where the next generation is living, learning, and forming opinions about faith, then mature, grounded voices need to show up there with clarity, humility, and courage — not just reactions.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Allan Walters https://www.instagram.com/alllanwalters/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

This week is a special crossover drop for Mother’s Day—part Beyond the Letter, part Beyond I Do—but fully focused on honoring the women who carry so much.Adam, Ashlee, Nathan, and Sanaz talk through what Mother’s Day should look like (and why so many people feel pressure, disappointment, or weird expectations around it). They unpack how to actually build a culture of appreciation in your home—so moms aren’t only celebrated one day a year—and why teaching your kids honor now becomes a gift to their future marriage later.They also get real about the “mom, mom, mom” season, kids sleeping in the bed, Teacher Appreciation Week chaos, and what it looks like to celebrate mothers without letting consumerism define the day. Plus—practical wisdom for single moms raising sons (and daughters) with healthy support, boundaries, and strong examples.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Ashlee Mesa https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/Nathan Mesa https://www.instagram.com/nathanjmesa/Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Sometimes marriage moments look way crazier from the outside than they actually are. In this episode, Adam and Ashlee give the full context behind their “big argument” from two episodes ago—what was happening emotionally, why it escalated, what was misunderstood, and how playful conflict can still expose real needs like rest, stress, and feeling heard. They also talk about how easy it is for people to project their own relationship pain onto a clip—when they don’t know the full story.To wrap it up, they speed-run a couples Q&A pulled from TikTok—reacting to marriage opinions and questions with honesty (and plenty of laughs). They cover things like arguing in front of the kids and what it looks like to model reconciliation, plus practical wisdom for navigating conflict without letting it turn into something bigger than it needs to be.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Adam and Sammy start with some real-life banter, then shift into a heavy (but necessary) conversation about what happens when someone builds public faith… and then starts rewriting the rules in real time. They react to a viral clip where a creator claims God accepts them “as they are” because their heart feels sincere — and they unpack why that kind of feelings-first spirituality can quietly drift into lawlessness.They talk through the difference between struggling with sin vs. excusing sin, why “God knows my heart” can become a dangerous cover, and how influence comes with weight — especially when newer believers are watching. The bottom line: Jesus doesn’t just comfort us, He transforms us. And real discipleship means submitting our desires to His Word, not asking His Word to submit to our desires.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In today’s episode, we start off with some pure fun—laughs, random rabbit trails, and the kind of real-life banter that feels like you’re sitting at the table with us. But halfway through, the conversation takes a sharp (and honestly needed) turn into something a lot of couples don’t realize they’re doing: overspiritualizing marriage in a superstition-based way.We react to a wedding trend and unpack the deeper issue behind it—how people start treating marriage like it can be “cursed,” contaminated by someone else’s “energy,” or protected by rituals… while ignoring actual wisdom, character, and spiritual authority. If you’ve ever felt anxious about vibes, jealousy, “evil eye” thinking, or letting fear shape your relationship, this conversation will help bring clarity, laughter, and a much healthier perspective.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Adam and Haron react to a viral clip where a speaker claims, “I do not believe Christ died for our sin,” critiques the sacrificial system, and calls penal substitution “problematic.” Instead of just trading opinions, they slow it down and ask the real question: what does Scripture actually say about sin, judgment, and the cross?They walk through why “penal substitutionary atonement” is a theological label (like the Trinity) used to describe what the Bible teaches—namely that Jesus carried what we deserved and paid the price our sin owed. They also address popular lines like “Jesus didn’t save us from God,” clarifying the difference between God’s love and God’s righteous judgment against sin. If you’ve ever heard a deconstruction-style argument that sounds convincing but ignores the text, this one will help you rebuild your footing on the Word.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode, we unpack a topic every marriage runs into: rest. After coming back from Japan, we talk about the difference between a “vacation” and a family trip, and how family experiences can be meaningful—even when they’re not restful. Then we react to a viral clip of a husband sitting in the car for some quiet time before walking into the house, and we get real about why so many men (and honestly, so many people) need a few minutes to decompress.But it doesn’t stop there… because the conversation turns into a real-time argument about expectations, communication, and what happens when your spouse asks, “What time are you coming home?” (and you respond in a way you probably shouldn’t 😅). If you’ve ever felt overstimulated, misunderstood, or like you just needed 10 minutes to breathe—this one’s for you.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Sammy, Allan, Gabe, and Haron break down what healthy teams are actually built on — and why talent alone can’t carry a culture. Using the lens of a coach, they talk leadership that’s practical: setting expectations, communicating clearly, and creating accountability that helps people grow instead of drift.They also get into what silently destroys teams: unclear communication, tolerating toxic behavior because someone is “good at their job,” and leaders trying to do everything themselves. If you’re building a team at church, at work, or even in your home, this conversation will help you define your culture, repeat it consistently, and defend it when it matters most.--Connect with:Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Allan Walters https://www.instagram.com/alllanwalters/Gabriel Guzman https://www.instagram.com/salinascyy/Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Life gets loud—work, schedules, pressure, responsibilities—and before you know it, you and your spouse are in the same house but living on two different planets. In this episode, Adam and Ashlee keep it real with a wide-ranging conversation that lands on one big idea: staying connected in marriage takes intention, not just feelings. They talk about what it looks like to keep choosing each other in small ways, how to communicate when you’re tired, and how to reset when you feel off.Whether you’re in a busy season, feeling emotionally distant, or just trying to keep your relationship healthy with everything on your plate, this episode is for you. It’s honest, practical, and encouraging—reminding you that healthy marriages aren’t built by big moments only, but by consistent rhythms and the humble choice to keep showing up.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Counseling has changed a lot in the last 15 years—and not just because people are more open to it. In this episode, Adam and Sammy sit down with Kenny Perdue to talk about what’s different now: the rise of self-diagnosis, internet “expert” advice, buzzwords like narcissism and gaslighting, and how those filters can shape someone’s expectations before they ever walk into a session. They also unpack why some people don’t want help—they want validation—and how that impacts growth in relationships, communication, and personal healing.Kenny shares what’s helped him stay steady after decades of ministry and thousands of counseling conversations: learning to “leave it here,” finding healthy outlets, and most importantly—always chasing the why underneath behavior. They talk about listening as an art, how vulnerability builds trust, why context changes everything, and what helps people actually make progress (especially couples). If you’ve ever felt stuck in patterns you can’t explain—or you’ve wanted help but didn’t know how to start—this conversation will give you clarity, language, and hope.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this all-guys episode of Beyond I Do, Adam is joined by Sammy and Aaron for a real conversation about what it actually looks like to celebrate your wife well—and why most men miss it. They talk anniversaries, milestone birthdays, and the behind-the-scenes sacrifices wives make that are easy to overlook (especially in busy seasons with work, church, and kids).The guys also get practical: don’t just give what you would want—learn what she wants. That means paying attention, asking better questions, and understanding how your wife’s past (and even trauma) can shape what feels loving vs. overwhelming. The goal isn’t “big gestures” for show—it’s thoughtful pursuit, consistent honor, and building a home where your wife feels seen, celebrated, and safe to be herself.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Connect with Aaron & Erica Levyhttps://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/https://www.instagram.com/erica.levy_np/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What if the “decline of Christianity” narrative isn’t the full story? In this episode, Sammy, Gabe, Sanaz, and Joseph unpack the surprising rise in spiritual openness—especially among Gen Z and younger—and why Jesus is showing up in conversations, culture, and curiosity again.They talk about what’s driving this moment (identity, meaning, boundaries, and a hunger for something real), why young men are increasingly drawn toward faith, and how the church can respond with more than hype—through discipleship, mentorship, and real-life examples worth following. Plus: practical encouragement for sharing your faith without fear, overthinking, or needing the “perfect moment.”--Connect with:Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Gabriel Guzman https://www.instagram.com/salinascyy/Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/Joseph Valcarcel https://www.instagram.com/joseph_aaron_valcarcel/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Remarrying after the death of a spouse can feel complicated—especially when it’s your parent. In today’s episode, Adam and Ashlee talk honestly about widowhood, grief, and what happens when a widowed parent starts considering dating again. Ashlee shares why the idea of her mom remarrying feels uncomfortable and emotional, and Adam offers a different perspective on companionship, healing, and what it can look like to move forward without “replacing” what was lost.This conversation is real, funny at times, and also deeply human. If you’ve ever wrestled with loyalty, family dynamics, fear of change, or what honoring the past while embracing the future can look like, this episode is for you. Whether you’re the one grieving, the one dating again, or the family member trying to process it all—there’s grace for the tension, and wisdom for the next step.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Gossip doesn’t usually show up yelling—it shows up “helpful.” Just letting you know… Keep this between us… and before you realize it, a whole story has been built off assumptions, half-truths, and someone else’s “version.” In this episode, Adam and Aaron talk about how gossip spreads, why it’s so tempting, and how quickly it can damage trust, relationships, and even a person’s reputation.They also unpack the deeper issue underneath gossip—offense, insecurity, and the desire to feel in control—and share practical wisdom for shutting it down with integrity. If you’ve ever been burned by rumors, felt the pull to “join the conversation,” or realized you were unintentionally part of the chain, this episode will help you build discernment, protect unity, and choose honesty over noise.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this special all-women episode, Ashlee is joined by Nancy and Alizé for a raw, honest conversation built around real stories they found online—and the emotions those stories bring up. From relationship expectations and “social media comparison traps,” to what it looks like to communicate needs without being petty, the girls unpack what healthy love actually looks like in real life (not just on TikTok).They also shift into deeper territory—talking about regret, healing, and how faith gives hope even when consequences feel heavy. With personal reflections, practical wisdom, and heartfelt encouragement, this episode is for anyone navigating relationship pain, shame, fear, or uncertainty and needing a reminder that God can restore, strengthen, and sustain you one step at a time.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Nancy Navas & Alize Robinsonhttps://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Adam and Ashlee get real about confrontation—why some people avoid it, why others run toward it, and how a couple can navigate conflict without letting it turn into chaos. From TSA drama to road rage stories, they unpack the difference between being good at confrontation versus being fueled by pain, trauma, or the need to feel heard. Adam also shares how his upbringing shaped his instinct to protect peace, while Ashlee explains what it feels like to find your voice without crossing the line.They also talk about respect between men and women—why “equal” doesn’t mean “identical,” and how a culture that pretends there’s no difference can produce real harm. Adam breaks down what it looks like to lead with honor, protect without controlling, and teach sons to treat women with dignity—especially in a world where people are increasingly bold, aggressive, and dehumanizing.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What makes preaching actually land—not just sound good? Sammy sits down with Dan for a behind-the-scenes convo on preaching, preparation, and how to handle the pressure to be “engaging” without losing biblical depth. They talk about why the next generation can be passionate but unclear, how to avoid building sermons around vibes instead of Scripture, and the difference between being a “great communicator” and being a faithful preacher of the text.Dan breaks down a simple framework for sermon development (starting points, observation, structure, research, illustration, and outlining), plus a practical way to study Scripture using different “views” (airplane, car, running, crawling). They also get into how pain shapes longevity, why you can’t shortcut formation, and end with the funniest on-the-spot challenge: Pick It Up & Preach It—because sometimes the best growth comes from doing the work in real time.--Connect with:Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Dan Fernandez https://www.instagram.com/danfernan/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

AI isn’t just a “work tool” anymore—it’s walking straight into the relationship world… and it’s about to get weird. Adam and Ashlee break down a new TLC story where a woman is openly dating her AI boyfriend (yes, he has a name, a personality, and access to her devices). And while the internet laughs, they ask the real question: what happens when a generation that’s already lonely, anxious, and craving affirmation discovers a “partner” who never says no, never challenges you, and can be customized to fit your every need?Then the conversation gets serious: emotional affairs with AI, VR/AR “dating,” kids having access to AI way too early, and how this could disrupt marriages even more than social media already has. They talk boundaries, mental health, parenting wisdom, and why “what’s weird now” might become normal faster than we think—unless believers learn discernment and build healthier habits today.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Adam and Sammy unpack what it actually looks like for Christians to navigate politics and social issues without turning faith into a team sport. They reflect on Adam’s recent conversation on the Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast, then zoom in on why so many political takes feel like shallow soundbites instead of thoughtful, researched convictions. The goal isn’t to tell you what to think—it’s to help you learn how to think with wisdom, clarity, and Christlike maturity.They get real about why these conversations feel so complicated: lived experience, cultural blind spots, generational pain points, and the way social media rewards outrage instead of understanding. From immigration and assimilation, to racial bias, to “limited comments” hypocrisy, Adam and Sammy challenge believers to build a diverse circle, ask better questions, do honest research, and choose unity without pretending every issue is simple. If you’ve ever felt stuck between extremes, this episode is an invitation to trade hot takes for discernment—and protect your witness while engaging the real world.--Full Leadership Podcast with Carey NieuwhofApple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/emergency-episode-pastoring-angry-people-when-to-speak/id912753163?i=1000751173095YouTube: https://youtu.be/Hle3Wg9sAcc?si=fef8kK-PrM4mXSeB--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

This episode is pure chaos in the best way. Adam and Ashlee bounce from marriage money talk to “Mrs. Adam Mesa” identity jokes, to why taking your spouse to their “dream place” might actually make things worse. Ashlee opens up about her shopping habits (hello, TikTok dopamine), what it felt like realizing it was getting out of hand, and why letting Adam take the wheel financially has actually brought peace—not punishment.Then the conversation takes a HARD left into the dream farm era: Highland cows, goats, chickens, barns from Lowe’s, and why Adam is now publicly refusing responsibility for “the cow fund.” Oh—and somewhere in the middle, a homeless man in Nashville confirms Adam is a black man (his words, not ours), and the episode ends with… both Adam and Ashlee casually admitting they’ve been arrested before. Yeah. It’s one of those episodes.--Contribute to Ashlee's Cow Farm:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aq5WXmQQooo--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Sammy sits down with Ray Clark, young adult pastor at Grace Church Houston, for a powerful conversation about what’s really happening in young adult ministry right now. Ray shares the story of how God has grown their young adult community, what changed when they simplified their services, and why today’s young adults are more hungry for prayer, worship, and the Word than many people realize.They also dive into a deeper conversation about holiness, consecration, and what it means to cut out what’s merely common so we can grow closer to God. From practical ministry insights to personal conviction, this episode is full of encouragement for young adults, pastors, leaders, and anyone wanting to fall in love with Jesus again and live a life that is truly set apart.--Connect with:Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Ray Clark https://www.instagram.com/rayanthonyclark/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack manipulation in marriage and relationships—from subtle “shame tactics” to using outside voices to force a spouse to agree, forgive, or comply. They react to a viral moment where an Olympic athlete publicly admits cheating and frames it as a dramatic apology, and they explain why “public gestures” can sometimes be more about pressure and image than true repentance and repair.They also talk about what healthy transparency looks like versus emotional abuse, why couples often try to “prove they’re right” by pulling in friends, family, or even pastors, and how isolation (“decisions in a vacuum”) leads to even worse choices. Plus: a real-life example of how small misunderstandings can spiral, why strong marriages recover quickly, and how to pursue accountability without humiliating the person you love.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Conflict is unavoidable—but division doesn’t have to be. In this episode, Sammy hosts a table talk with Gabe Joseph and Sanaz on what healthy conflict resolution actually looks like in real life. They swap hilarious “after the sermon” moments, then get honest about times they handled tension the wrong way—like trying to speed-run unity, speaking truth with the wrong tone, or committing a spouse to plans without checking first (we’ve all been there).From there, the conversation turns practical: how to recognize fight/flight/freeze/fawn responses, why it’s often more important to know someone’s trauma response than their love language, and how to approach conflict without assumptions so the other person doesn’t immediately go defensive. They also hit tools that actually work—Matthew 18, asking “What are you hearing me say?”, learning to listen without filling in gaps, and choosing reconciliation over being “right.”The big takeaway: conflict can either create distance or strengthen trust—and the difference is humility, timing, and learning how this specific person receives correction and care.--Connect with:Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Gabriel Guzman https://www.instagram.com/salinascyy/Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/Joseph Valcarcel https://www.instagram.com/joseph_aaron_valcarcel/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Love gets tossed around so casually in culture that a lot of couples don’t realize they’re chasing a feeling while neglecting the foundation. In this episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack what love truly is—and what it isn’t—through a deeper dive into Song of Solomon. They confront three common cultural lies: that real love should be effortless, that your spouse should “climb your walls” to earn access to your heart, and that love is proven by how strongly you feel in the moment.Instead, they lay out a biblical picture of love that costs something: pursuit (you don’t drift into closeness—you choose it), vulnerability (love doesn’t demand someone scale your trauma—love invites you to come out of hiding), and sacrifice (love isn’t validated by emotions—it’s revealed by what you’re willing to give). Along the way, they keep it real with marriage stories, parenting parallels, and a practical reminder: feelings shift, seasons change, but covenant love stays anchored in commitment, maturity, and Jesus-shaped character.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In today’s episode, Adam and Sammy talk about what it looks like for church leaders to stand firm in a politically charged moment—without turning the pulpit into a weekly news recap or a social media battlefield. They unpack why the loudest voices often live on the “fringes,” how pastors can feel pressured by ultimatums from both sides, and why “I don’t care who gets offended” isn’t a fruit of the Spirit. If you’re leading people (or trying to stay grounded as a believer), this conversation is a guide for clarity, courage, and emotional maturity in a chaotic culture.They also get practical: how to disagree without personal attacks, why asking better questions matters (“why do you ask?”), and how discipleship starts with identity before behavior change. Along the way, they highlight the difference between ideology-shaping and sin-addressing, the dangers of algorithm-driven thinking, and why real influence should build bridges—not burn them. The goal isn’t silence. It’s wisdom. It’s holding the line with conviction and compassion.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Marriage changes you—sometimes in the sweetest ways, and sometimes in the most surprising ones. In this Valentine’s Day special, Adam and Ashlee sit down for a “Then, Now, Next” conversation: what they thought marriage would be like in year one, what’s actually been the biggest surprise along the way, and what they’re hoping their marriage looks like five to ten years from now. It’s honest, funny, and way more relatable than the picture-perfect version of love we all imagine at the beginning.They also revisit the kinds of hard conversations couples tend to avoid early on—friendships, family dynamics, intimacy, and expectations—and why healthy marriages don’t happen by accident. If you’re married, dating, engaged, or even single and preparing for the future, this episode gives you practical questions you can bring to your own table—because sometimes the best Valentine’s gift isn’t a reservation… it’s a real conversation.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

A viral boxing clip sparks a deeper conversation about identity, perseverance, and what happens when embarrassment hits you mid-fight. Aaron is joined by Gabe and Sanaz as they unpack the moment a boxer gets rocked—his toupee flips back, the crowd goes wild, and he has a split second decision to make: spiral in shame or stay locked in. What makes the clip unforgettable isn’t the hair—it’s that he throws the distraction to the crowd… and keeps fighting until he wins.From there, the conversation turns into a real-life mirror: how often do we lose momentum because of a small mistake, a public moment, or someone else’s opinion? They talk about the difference between feedback in the locker room vs. criticism from the crowd, why distractions feel louder than the mission, and how confidence grows when your identity is anchored in something deeper than performance. If you’ve ever tripped in public (or stumbled in your purpose) and wanted to disappear, this episode is your reminder: don’t quit the fight—keep your eyes on the win.--Connect with:Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/Gabriel Guzman https://www.instagram.com/salinascyy/Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

It’s a Women’s Beyond I Do episode—and Ashlee is joined by Sanaz and Erica for a marriage Q&A that gets real fast. Instead of generic advice, they lock in on one core issue that quietly wrecks a lot of homes: when a wife starts feeling like a mother-manager instead of a partner… and when a husband starts living like he’s being “raised” instead of leading alongside her. They talk about the mental load, the constant “why is this STILL on the table?” moments, and how the smallest repeated patterns can snowball into big resentment if nobody addresses it.From there, they give practical language for course-correcting without blowing up: how to ask for help before you hit your breaking point, why being seen and appreciated matters more than “perfect fairness,” and how to navigate hard conversations without shutting down—especially when one spouse needs resolution now and the other needs time to process. Plus: a powerful perspective shift—learning to love what your spouse loves, and letting marriage become a mirror that shapes your patience, maturity, and relationship with God.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Sanaz Mesa & Erica Levyhttps://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/https://www.instagram.com/erica.levy_np/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

This week on Beyond the Letter, Sammy hosts a conversation on teamwork—what it really takes to build healthy teams, healthy culture, and healthy leadership in everyday life. Joined by his wife Chandler and their friend Haron, they unpack why collaboration matters more than ever, how unity can exist without everyone thinking the same, and why “going far” requires learning to stay connected even through disagreements. From leadership circles to friendships and family rhythms, the thread is simple: you don’t have to carry everything alone.They also go practical with holistic health—body, mind, relationships, and spirituality—sharing a framework Chandler uses in her counseling work (biopsychosocial + spiritual) and how healthy habits shape strong teams over time. The episode closes with a powerful culture takeaway: culture isn’t just what we do—it’s why we do it… and the language we repeat is what we end up defending. Plus, Andy jumps in with a Gen Z perspective on building “teams” even when you’re introverted or your circle is small.--Connect with:Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/Chandler Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Check out Adam's website!https://www.adammesa.org/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Sometimes the quickest way to drain the joy out of marriage is turning your relationship into a strict routine, a running scoreboard, or a daily critique session. In this episode, Adam and Ashlee talk about keeping marriage fun—not by ignoring real issues, but by refusing to nitpick each other to death. They react to a viral “just let them be” video and unpack what it looks like to have a relationship where you support each other’s hobbies, rhythms, naps, and personality quirks… without making everything a fight. Because not every annoyance deserves a confrontation—and not every preference deserves a rule.They also get real about what does need a conversation: when stress, exhaustion, or overwork starts changing who you are. From folded laundry sitting on the table to Disney passes, date nights, and learning to enjoy what your spouse enjoys, this episode is all about grace, teamwork, and healthy communication. Adam and Ashlee also share a serious warning about how “punishment patterns” (like withholding affection or constantly creating tension) can quickly spiral into bigger damage. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s building a marriage that feels safe, light, and full of joy again.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Sammy hosts with Haron and Fuego as they react to Druski’s viral “megachurch” skit—and talk about why it hit such a nerve. They unpack the difference between mocking faith vs. mocking the performance of faith, and why so many people take a painful experience and turn it into a blanket statement: “this is why I don’t do church.” From there, the conversation turns into a real look inward: hypocrisy, accountability, and how leaders can invite trusted voices in, “watch the film,” and stay centered on God instead of image.They also zoom out to what people don’t always see behind the curtain: the impact, resourcing, missions, and restoration work that healthy churches are doing quietly. Plus, Andy jumps in with Gen Z perspective—why young people are spiritually curious but often lack biblical foundation, and why a skit shouldn’t become someone’s whole theology. The big takeaway: don’t let viral moments push you away from Jesus or the local church—let it spark honest reflection, deeper discipleship, and a return to the Word.--Connect with:Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/Fuego Padilla https://www.instagram.com/iamfuegopadilla/--Check out Adam's website!https://www.adammesa.org/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack a viral dating idea: “I want my man to be the leader of his friend group.” And they push back hard—because status isn’t the same thing as integrity. They talk about why chasing the “head honcho” can actually be a red flag, and why what you really want to look for is something deeper: initiative, discipline, character, humility, and the ability to lead in a healthy way—not just perform confidence for attention.The conversation goes further into something most people don’t connect to dating: friendships. Adam and Ashlee get real about how unhealthy relationships can spill into your marriage, your peace, and your family—and why maturity sometimes means letting go of friendships you’ve outgrown, setting standards, and refusing to carry someone else’s chaos. They also talk about “surface-level” friendships, one-sided relationships, and what healthy community actually looks like when you’re trying to build something lasting with your spouse and kids.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Adam sits down with his friend Lester to talk about finances, wise choices, and the systems that help you win with money at any age. They start with Lester’s personal story—how losing his dad young exposed the harsh realities families face when finances aren’t protected—and why that experience sparked a passion for financial education. From there, they break down the difference between having money goals and actually building a repeatable plan that turns goals into real progress.They get practical: high-yield savings, emergency funds, “forced savings,” paying off debt with the snowball method, and how much you’d need to save in your 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond to build a strong retirement foundation. Adam and Lester also talk about common traps—credit cards, lifestyle spending, “get rich quick” hype—and why a steady system often beats a flashy strategy. If you want to reset your financial story, build long-term security, and live with freedom and generosity, this conversation is a solid place to start.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Lester Baron https://www.instagram.com/globalmoneymaster/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode, Adam and Ashlee get real about devices, boundaries, and raising kids in a screen-saturated world. They unpack a viral “90s childhood” parenting trend (VCRs, landlines, no streaming, classic consoles) and talk about the difference between intentional family connection vs. parenting that turns into strict rule-based control. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep your home grounded without becoming extreme—or accidentally creating curiosity and rebellion later—this conversation is for you.They also share what’s working in their own house right now: no iPads Monday–Friday, weekend structure, and a focus on building maturity over age-based rules. Adam and Ashlee talk through ADHD, dopamine-chasing, teaching kids why boundaries exist, and how to stay consistent in public settings (especially when other parents’ rules get… complicated). Plus: media discernment, nostalgia vs. your kids’ real interests, and how to shape character through sports, discipline, and everyday decisions.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en

In this wide-ranging, honest, and hilarious conversation, Adam is joined by Sammy and Jermaine to unpack one of the most misunderstood parts of the Christian life: evangelism. From old-school street preaching and “Way of the Master” style encounters to modern, relational approaches rooted in encouragement and authenticity, this episode explores what it really means to share your faith in today’s culture. The guys reflect on past experiences — from cold-calling strangers in malls to praying for people at festivals — and wrestle with why so many Christians feel intimidated, awkward, or unqualified when it comes to talking about Jesus. They break down the difference between treating people like projects versus treating them like people, and why relationships, patience, and spiritual discernment matter more than perfect scripts. Along the way, things get very Beyond the Letter as they roast Jermaine’s beard, debate frosted tips, reminisce about wild evangelism stories, and expose how fear, comfort, and instant-gratification culture have quietly killed bold faith. This episode is both practical and challenging — reminding listeners that sharing the gospel isn’t about pressure or performance, but about being present, available, and willing to take a small risk that could change someone’s eternity. --Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Jermaine Baker https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

A viral “Grandma Cam” clip sparks a real conversation: Is it okay for parents to take a vacation with only their biological kids… and leave out the in-laws? Adam and Ashlee react in real time, talk through why this idea blew up, and break down the difference between intentional quality time vs. subtle exclusion. They get into the heart of what makes family dynamics healthy (or toxic), especially when adult children get married and start building families of their own.From navigating different family cultures to setting boundaries that actually protect relationships, this episode gets practical fast. Adam shares what he’s seen through years of counseling and pastoring—how unspoken expectations, poor communication, and “holiday faking” can quietly fracture families over time. If you’re married (or planning to be), this is one of those conversations that helps you think clearly, love well, and build a family culture that lasts.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

As the new year begins, Adam challenges the way we typically think about New Year’s resolutions. Instead of short-lived goals and burst motivation, this solo episode invites listeners to shift toward rhythms—sustainable habits and frameworks that actually shape a healthy life.Adam walks through six practical frameworks designed to help you close the previous season well, recognize what drains you versus what gives you life, and build routines that support long-term growth. Rather than chasing pressure or comparison, the focus is on alignment—aligning your values, pace, and priorities so your life produces real fruit.This conversation is both reflective and actionable, encouraging listeners to stop carrying what no longer belongs, protect what’s working, and intentionally design a year that is spiritually grounded, emotionally healthy, and relationally strong. If you’ve ever felt discouraged by resolutions that don’t last, this episode offers a wiser and more sustainable approach to the year ahead.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

After walking through their family’s recent experience with an ADHD diagnosis, they unpack the frustrations many parents and adults feel toward the education system and its one-size-fits-all approach to learning. Adam shares his own journey with ADHD, how school nearly convinced him he wasn’t capable, and why discipline—not excuses—became the key to thriving in adulthood.Together, they talk through practical disciplines they’ve found helpful for both children and adults with ADHD, the dangers of turning diagnoses into crutches, and how to advocate for your child without lowering expectations. This episode isn’t anti-medication or anti-school—it’s pro-wisdom, pro-discipline, and pro-understanding how God uniquely wires people to thrive.Whether you’re parenting a child with ADHD, navigating it yourself, or simply trying to build better rhythms in the new year, this conversation brings clarity, hope, and a lot of real-life perspective.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

This one starts hilarious and ends way deeper than expected. Adam, Sammy, Jeff, and returning co-host Will Chung kick things off with holiday chaos, inside jokes, and stories that make you say, “Wait… y’all really did that?!” But the conversation pivots into something real: how leaders can look “put together” on the outside while still carrying old patterns on the inside.They talk burnout, capacity, and the difference between abstinence and actual recovery—how you can stop destructive habits but still be chasing the same inner need through “better-looking” addictions like work, ministry, or achievement. They unpack the question “What’s wrong with me?” vs. “What happened to me?”, how trauma shows up in the body, and why Sabbath, rhythms, and honest self-awareness matter if you want longevity. It’s funny, reflective, and surprisingly freeing—especially if you’ve been running on fumes.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Jeff Osborne https://www.instagram.com/jefftosborne/Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

The holidays are here, and Adam & Ashlee are keeping it light, loud, and hilarious. This episode is basically a Christmas living room moment—full of roasts, playful jabs, inside jokes, and the kind of marriage banter that only works when you actually love each other. They also take a second to shout out everyone who showed love in their Spotify wrapped and supported Beyond I Do all year—seriously, it means more than you know.Then they jump into a super relatable holiday question: what do you even gift someone who “already has everything”? Adam and Ashlee talk gift-giving styles, why thoughtful gifts hit deeper than expensive ones, and why “cash/gift cards” might actually be the most practical love language for some people (without the pressure and expectations 😅). Plus—if you’re watching on Christmas Day… there may or may not be coffee involved. 👀☕️--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam sits down with Dr. Paul Pitts III for a deeply grounding conversation about salvation, assurance, and the gospel’s steady power in everyday life. Together, they unpack why assurance isn’t ultimately found in emotional highs, personal performance, or constant self-examination—but in the finished work of Jesus: His righteous life, His sacrificial death, and His victory over sin as an eternal covenant for all who believe. They also talk through how God often moves through “ordinary” means—Scripture, prayer, church, repentance, and faithful consistency—when our generation is trained to chase novelty and instant results.They also go straight at two of the most common spiritual questions: “How do I know I’m saved?” and “Why hasn’t anything changed yet?” Dr. Pitts reframes assurance as assurance of the Savior, not obsession over the self—reminding listeners that feelings can follow truth, but they shouldn’t lead it. Adam and Dr. Pitts explore what sanctification actually looks like over time, why Jesus isn’t a quick-fix genie, and how real spiritual growth often happens slowly—but surely—when Christ remains the point. If you’ve ever felt stuck, numb, doubtful, or tired of the “what’s next?” mindset, this episode brings you back to the anchor: Jesus is enough, and the gospel still works.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Dr. Paul Pitts III https://www.instagram.com/paulpitts3/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Marriage doesn’t just reveal who you are—it forms who you’re becoming. In this episode, Adam and Ashlee sit down with Nathan and Sanaz for a real (and hilarious) conversation about how spouses change each other over time—and why that’s actually part of God’s design. They talk about what it means to “see potential” in your spouse, how encouragement can pull out the best in someone, and why character matters more than shared hobbies when you’re building a life together.They also get super practical about the day-to-day stuff: learning each other’s strengths, dividing responsibilities without keeping score, and having hard conversations without resentment. Plus, they dig into a powerful idea: marriage isn’t about holding someone’s past over their head—it’s about covering, healing, and walking forward as one. If you’ve ever felt stuck in “roommate mode,” or wondered how to inspire growth without becoming controlling, this one’s for you.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Nathan & Sanaz Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/nathanjmesa/https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What happens when someone who barely knows the Bible actually starts reading it—and it wrecks them in real time? In this episode, Adam, Sammy, Fuego, and Sanaz sit down to talk about the raw, disruptive power of God’s Word and what it really looks like to disciple people who know almost nothing about Jesus, church, or Scripture.They start with a wild childhood snake story (yes, a real python on a bucket of cookies used as a sermon illustration on temptation) and use it as a picture of how sin looks harmless until you reach for it. From there, the conversation zooms out to our current moment: a generation that’s biblically illiterate, de-churched, and yet deeply hungry—like the viral influencer who started reading the Bible on camera, got confronted by Jesus’ teaching on lust and dehumanizing people, and found his desires changing just from engaging Scripture.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Fuego Padilla https://www.instagram.com/iamfuegopadilla/Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode, Adam and Ashlee respond to the viral “cab-light theory” — the idea that men suddenly “turn their light on,” get serious, and commit to the next girl who shows up… even if they just told the last one they “weren’t ready.” They unpack whether it’s really “right person, wrong time,” or if it’s often a lack of discipline, standards, and honesty in dating.They also talk about Christian sexual ethics, moving in together, “playing house,” and why so many couples give each other all the benefits of marriage with none of the covenant. Ashlee shares how past relationships and breakups shaped her insecurities, Adam shares from years of pastoring couples, and together they offer super practical (and pretty direct) advice on boundaries, timelines, engagement, and why you can’t change someone who never wanted marriage in the first place. If you’re single, dating, or parenting teens/young adults, this one is a must-listen.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Sammy slides into the host chair and is joined by Haron and special guest Allan Walters—three former youth pastors who’ve spent years discipling the next generation. Together they tackle one big question: are you actually called, or just chasing influence?Allan shares how a lifelong desire to help people, plus years of youth and young adult ministry, slowly revealed his calling—not through a “burning bush moment,” but through consistent burdens and faithfulness. Haron talks about getting saved, starting a random campus Bible study, serving on Skid Row, and discovering that calling usually shows up as a conviction to help people long before it looks like a platform.If you’ve ever thought, “I feel something… but I don’t know if it’s really a calling,” or you’re torn between ministry, creativity, and influence, this conversation will help you slow down, get honest, and refocus on the One who’s actually calling you.--Connect with:Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/Allan Walters https://www.instagram.com/alllanwalters/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What do you do when it feels like your spouse cares more about their friends’ opinions than yours? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee react to a viral clip of a husband who says his wife “respects her friends more than her husband,” then unpack what respect in marriage really looks like. They talk about the difference between wanting respect and demanding control, how roles and finances can affect respect, and why so many couples feel unseen or unheard in their own home.Ashlee also gets honest about how she vents and processes with friends, why she is extremely careful about how she talks about Adam, and why your “venting buddy” can either protect or poison your marriage. Adam shares a fresh story from their own home about Christmas-tree stress, short tempers, and what it looks like to NOT take everything personally, but still communicate honestly and grow. If you’ve ever wondered how much to share with friends, how to protect your spouse’s character, or how to balance forgiveness with boundaries, this conversation is for you.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In a world where one comment, clip, or TikTok can reshape your entire reputation, this episode hits different. Adam sits with Aaron and Jermaine to break down how social media has changed the way we see people — and how fast a single moment can follow you for years.From a viral post misidentifying Adam as “the rudest pastor ever” (for something that wasn’t even him — and happened 15 years ago) to a local business collapsing overnight after one filmed interaction, the guys unpack why today's culture gives you zero room for mistakes. They explore borrowed offense, digital dogpiling, and why people online judge with no context but full confidence.But this episode goes deeper. The conversation becomes a masterclass in conflict, character, and relationships — how to apologize well, how to repair trust, and why so many people today don’t actually know how to restore anything. They talk parenting, marriage counseling, generational wounds, timeliness drama 😂, and the humility required to build healthy relationships that don’t crumble at the first misunderstanding.If you’ve ever been misunderstood, misrepresented, or misread — online or in real life — this episode is a must-watch.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Jermaine Baker https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What do you do when someone flirts with you… and you’re married? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee sit down at the table to talk about real-life moments of getting hit on at airports, stoplights, DMs, and even the doctor’s office – and how they choose to respond as a husband and wife. They unpack why it’s not always about the other person being “threatening,” but often about our own security, personality, and the health of our marriage.From joking about “being an Indiana 10” to sharing serious stories about boundaries, exes sliding into DMs, and how quickly “innocent” attention can become a doorway for the enemy, Adam and Ashlee walk through how they process attraction, jealousy, and honesty. They talk about knowing your spouse’s personality, setting wise boundaries without becoming controlling, confessing when you crossed a line, and why your ultimate security has to be rooted in God – not in your spouse’s flawless behavior. If you’ve ever wondered, “Should I tell my spouse when someone flirts with me?”, this one is for you.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What do you do with those moments where you think God spoke…but you’re not totally sure? In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam sits down with Sammy, Julian, and Harrison to talk all things prophecy—the real, the wild, and the actually healthy.Julian shares some crazy stories, including a prophetic word that ended up covering a husband in a freak motorcycle accident and a vision about a blue-haired student that led to a literal life-saving moment. The guys unpack how prophetic gifts work alongside Scripture, why craving “a word” without loving the Bible is dangerous, and how God often moves through instincts and ideas, not just dramatic moments on a stage.They also talk about prophetic creativity in business and ministry, how to practice hearing God without getting weird, and even tell a hilarious story about almost throwing hands in Newport over a parking mishap. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is that God or just me?” this convo will help you slow down, test what you’re sensing, and grow in hearing God’s voice in a grounded, biblical way.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Julian Lowe https://www.instagram.com/julianlowe/Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Harrison Domingue https://www.instagram.com/harrisondomingue/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this week’s episode, Adam and Ashlee sit down for a completely unscripted, last-minute conversation that turns into one of their most honest Q&A sessions yet. From dreams they’ve never fully said out loud to the habits that help (and hurt) their marriage, they walk through a set of intentional life-planning questions designed to help couples get clear, get connected, and get real about their future together.They open up about insecurity, confidence, routines, parenting, schedule strain, and the pressures of balancing ministry, marriage, and family life. Adam shares why honesty and self-awareness matter more to him than perfection, while Ashlee talks about confidence, health, and what it feels like to carry unspoken expectations. Together, they unpack how far they’ve come, what they used to disagree on, and what they hope the next season of marriage looks like.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

From backwash debates and water-bottle slander to championship soccer and college football chaos, this episode is all about sports, kids, and character. Adam, Aaron, and Haron unpack how youth sports can become one of the best classrooms for resilience, humility, and real-world discipleship—if we let them be more than a place to chase highlight reels. Adam shares stories from his son Matthias’ back-to-back championship soccer seasons: learning to play defense instead of chasing the spotlight, dealing with the pain of feeling like you “lost” personally even when your team wins, and being pushed to celebrate others even when you’re disappointed in yourself. The guys talk about how parents can either fuel entitlement (“my kid has to be the star”) or form character by helping their kids embrace their actual role on the team. They also get into coachability—showing up on time, body language, attitude, receiving correction—and why those traits matter more than raw talent in both sports and life. Adam pulls back the curtain on his time pastoring future NFL players, including a brutal story of a second-string running back who missed a Super Bowl moment because he couldn’t be coached. From youth leagues to D1 and the pros, they wrestle with American individualism, money, fame, and how all of it shapes the way we see team, family, church, and calling. If you’re a parent, coach, athlete, or just someone trying to raise (or become) a healthy adult in a me-first culture, this conversation will hit home. -- Connect with: Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/ Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this special live episode recorded at Daniel and Jackie Groves’ church, Adam and Ashlee dive into a transformative conversation about what it truly means to love well in marriage—not by achieving perfection, but by embracing honesty, healing, and spiritual alignment. Rooted in 1 Corinthians 13, they explore how declaring “I am patient, I am kind” isn’t pretending to be something we’re not—it’s prophesying who God is shaping us to become. Love becomes less about performing and more about surrendering to divine transformation.They also unpack the reality that our past doesn’t magically vanish when we get married or come to Christ. Every wound, decision, and old relationship comes into the new season with us unless we intentionally pursue healing. Adam and Ashlee break down the **three layers of intimacy—spiritual, emotional, and physical—**and explain why so many couples stay frustrated when these layers are built in the wrong order.One of the most freeing truths from this conversation: it is not our job to fix our spouse. It’s our job to intercede for them. When we stop trying to be the Holy Spirit in our marriage and instead bring our partner before God, we release the pressure—and make room for true transformation.Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, this episode calls you to build a love that lasts by letting God shape every layer of it.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Daniel & Jackie Groveshttps://www.instagram.com/degroves/https://www.instagram.com/jackiengroves/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Adam and Jermaine dig into the surge of Christian films and series—and what it really takes to translate Scripture to the screen with integrity. They unpack where creative license helps (and where it hurts), why the end message has to remain faithful, how scholar/pastor councils shape scripts, and the practical production tensions that come with timelines, budgets, and audience expectations.They also talk through recent and upcoming Bible-based projects, the importance of context and theology in pivotal scenes, and how live AI fact-checking can keep conversations sharp without slowing the flow. If you care about story, Scripture, and craft, this one’s for you.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Jermaine Baker https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

When convictions clash at the dinner table, how do you keep peace without caving? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack how to handle family tension around faith—especially when relatives get offended or try to “Bible-bully” you. The core posture: a holy “don’t care” toward drama, not toward people. Hold your own convictions, honor others’ dignity, and refuse the bait. From navigating Catholic–Protestant differences (like communion etiquette and boundaries at Mass) to dealing with non-practicing relatives who still police your faith, this conversation offers level-headed language, real scripts, and a healthier way to love family without surrendering your walk with Jesus.You’ll hear how to separate emotions from truth, set clear boundaries with kindness, and keep inviting loved ones into your life even if they decline your church, baptism, or beliefs. The win? Living with consistent peace, character, and self-control so your life—not an argument—does the preaching. “I’m at peace with my convictions. I love you. You’re always invited.”--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this solo episode, Adam gets practical about why so many young adults feel stuck at work—and what to do about it. No fluff, no finger-wagging. He lays out a clear four-part framework Gen Z (and anyone, really) can use to actually thrive: (1) build a personal foundation (character, routines, emotional control, time management), (2) level up relationally (real communication, conflict resolution, healthy boundaries, understanding personality types), (3) grow professionally (initiative, problem-solving, excellence, true professionalism), and (4) lock in purpose (make career moves that align with your values and long-term life rhythm).You’ll hear practical examples—from showing up on time and owning mistakes, to speaking clearly in person (not outsourcing your voice to AI), to earning recognition by solving real problems instead of chasing constant pats on the back. If you’ve wondered why “doing your job” hasn’t led to momentum—or how to turn discipline into opportunity—this episode gives you a straightforward playbook you can start using today.-Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee unpack the Hebrew concept of Selah—a sacred pause to reflect, rest, and simply sit in God’s goodness. In a culture obsessed with sharing every highlight, this conversation challenges us to slow down and rediscover the beauty of presence over performance.The discussion explores how modern life—and especially social media—has blurred the line between connection and validation. We’re reminded that real relationships don’t need an audience, and our most meaningful moments don’t require applause. Whether in marriage, friendship, or faith, we’re called to build Selah moments that anchor us in gratitude, stillness, and authentic community.This episode is a refreshing call back to rhythm—to embrace hallelujah (praise), amen (agreement), and Selah (rest) as a lifestyle that keeps our hearts centered on what truly matters.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam is joined by Sammy for a powerful conversation on the intersection of faith, thought life, and technology. Drawing from Jesus’s words in the Sermon on the Mount, the discussion explores how sin begins not with our actions, but with the thoughts we allow to take root in our minds.As AI and digital media increasingly blur the lines between fantasy and reality, this message couldn’t be more relevant. The group unpacks the pattern—head, heart, hands—revealing how our thoughts shape our hearts and eventually guide our actions. From virtual temptation to mental renewal, the call is clear: transformation begins with a renewed mind. Inspired by Romans 12 and the Greek idea of metanoia (a complete change of mind), this conversation challenges believers to guard their thoughts, resist digital distortion, and pursue holiness from the inside out.-Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee dive into one of the most essential yet often unspoken aspects of marriage—affection and intimacy. From exploring how our upbringing shapes the way we express love to discussing the biblical foundation for emotional and physical closeness, this conversation gets real about what it means to love well.The two share honest insights about creating a safe space for open communication, understanding love languages, and cultivating both spiritual and physical connection in marriage. They remind us that intimacy is not just about romance—it’s about reflecting God’s love through grace, honesty, and intentionality. Whether you’re married, engaged, or preparing for the future, this episode offers wisdom on how to build stronger, more connected relationships rooted in God’s design.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Pastor Adam sits down with Sammy, Fuego, and Joseph to talk about the tension between recognition and humility in today’s culture. As believers, how do we navigate moments of success and influence without losing sight of the One who gave us the gift in the first place?Drawing from Romans 16 and the example of Paul, the conversation reveals that honor and recognition aren’t the problem—it’s our posture that matters. Whether you’re leading, creating, or simply serving in your calling, this discussion challenges you to examine your motives: are you seeking applause, or impact? The group reminds us that influence is a tool, not a trophy, and that true greatness is measured by humility and obedience to God.This episode is a timely reminder to be in the world but not of it—using your gifts to influence culture without compromising your integrity or devotion to Christ.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Fuego Padilla https://www.instagram.com/iamfuegopadilla/ Joseph Valcarcel https://www.instagram.com/joseph_aaron_valcarcel/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee unpack what it really means to steward your faith, health, and relationships well. Drawing from the story of Job, they explore how God’s presence never changes—even when life feels heavy or uncertain. The real shift happens when our perspective does.This honest conversation challenges us to take personal responsibility in our walk with God and see service not as a burden, but as a joy. Whether it’s managing our time, caring for our bodies, or deepening our spiritual discipline, we’re reminded that everything we have is a gift meant to honor Him. Growth doesn’t happen through shortcuts—it comes through consistency, humility, and a heart willing to serve.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Season 4 of Beyond the Letter launches with a powerful conversation on stewardship, discipline, and personal responsibility in our walk with God. Adam is joined by Pastor Diego, Aaron, and Jermaine to unpack how faithfulness in the small things can transform every area of our lives.Through the story of Job, we’re reminded that God’s closeness never changes—only our perspective does. True discipleship requires ownership, not excuses, and this episode challenges us to view serving God not as a burden, but as a privilege. From managing our faith and finances to caring for our health and relationships, we’re called to be wise stewards of all God entrusts to us.This discussion will inspire you to shift your mindset from survival to stewardship—doing the hard, daily work of discipleship and finding joy in the process.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Diego Mesa https://www.instagram.com/pastor_diego/Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/Jermaine Baker https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee sit down with Sammy and Chandler to tackle one of the most important topics in marriage—how to handle conflict in a healthy, God-honoring way. From the “Four Horsemen” of relationship conflict—criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling—to the power of empathy and self-awareness, the conversation is packed with wisdom for every couple.Drawing from Ephesians 4:2–3, they explore how humility, patience, and gentleness are key to resolving disagreements without damaging connection. The group also discusses how tools like StrengthsFinder can help us better understand both our own tendencies and our spouse’s, aligning beautifully with Proverbs 20:5: “The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.”This honest, practical, and often humorous discussion will inspire you to approach conflict not as a battlefield—but as an opportunity for growth, grace, and deeper intimacy.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam is joined by Sammy and Jermaine for a powerful conversation on the connection between physical health and spiritual well-being. Inspired by Luke 2:52—where we read that “Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man”—they reflect on the reality that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit.The discussion highlights how caring for our physical health directly impacts our ability to serve God and others. Through the story of one individual’s weight loss journey, the episode draws out a moving metaphor for spiritual transformation: with God’s strength and the support of community, even the greatest obstacles can be overcome. This conversation challenges us all to examine how we steward our bodies, and how greater discipline in health can unlock new doors for growth, service, and intimacy with God.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Jermaine Baker https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee keep it real with laughter, stories, and insights about navigating marriage in everyday life. From funny moments—like insecurities about voice or running late—to deeper truths about balancing work, family, and relationships, the conversation shows that marriage is built on more than big moments.At its core, this discussion is about mutual understanding and the power of forgiveness. Every couple has quirks, but thriving marriages are marked by patience, adaptability, and the grace to grow together. Whether you’re newly married, engaged, or learning from a distance, this episode reminds us that differences don’t have to divide us—they can actually strengthen the bond when met with love and humility.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam addresses the growing trend of viral videos and popular teachings that misrepresent the Bible. Many ideas sound spiritual but don’t stand on the foundation of Scripture.Adam challenges us to dig deeper than surface-level faith, reminding us that God’s Word is the ultimate standard of truth. Using examples from Exodus and beyond, he shows how misinterpretations can lead us astray—and how rightly dividing Scripture keeps us rooted in God’s design. This conversation is a call to believers everywhere: don’t just accept what sounds good, study God’s Word for yourself. Only then can we stand firm, refute falsehood, and walk in truth.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee unpack the powerful link between our physical health and our spiritual well-being. While modern culture often treats fitness as vanity, Scripture reminds us in 1 Corinthians 6:19–20 that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit.Together, they explore how diet, exercise, and lifestyle choices not only shape our physical health but also impact intimacy, emotional connection, and spiritual growth in marriage. This conversation challenges us to view taking care of our bodies as more than a personal goal—it’s an act of honoring God and building stronger relationships. By tending to both body and spirit, we can step into more fulfilling marriages and deeper faith.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Pastor Adam and the team take us on a journey through the rich history of the Church. From standing during the reading of Scripture to the rhythms of communion, the conversation invites us to reflect on how ancient traditions and practices can still shape our worship today.This isn’t just a history lesson—it’s an invitation to root ourselves deeper in the timeless truths of our faith. By exploring the unity and diversity that has characterized Christian worship across two millennia, we’re encouraged to be curious, reflective, and intentional in how we live out our faith in the present. How can our current practices connect us more meaningfully to God and to the global family of believers across time?--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee tackle one of the most relevant challenges couples face today: social media and boundaries with the opposite sex. While the Bible doesn’t mention Instagram or DMs, the principle from Matthew 5:28 about guarding our hearts still applies in the digital age.This conversation is a call to honor our commitments by setting healthy boundaries online and offline. It’s not about legalism—it’s about cultivating purity, protecting our relationships, and reflecting Christ in everything we do. Whether married, dating, or preparing for your future spouse, this episode challenges us to consider: how can our online choices strengthen rather than sabotage our most important relationships?--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In our journey of faith, we often encounter moments of struggle and temptation. This episode explores the powerful story of a new believer's transformation, reminding us that becoming a child of God is not about perfection, but about progress. Joined by Aaron and Sanaz, Adam reflects on how the narrative echoes Peter's denial of Christ, showing that even in our weakest moments, God's love remains steadfast. Malachi 3:3 paints the image of God as a refiner of silver, reminding us that trials and temptations serve to purify us, shaping us into Christ's image. As we navigate our struggles, we’re encouraged to embrace the refining process, trusting that God watches over us and never leaves us in the fire longer than necessary. Our journey isn’t about instant change but about gradual transformation through His grace.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/Pastor Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee dive into the realities of working alongside your spouse and balancing leadership with humility. From managing defined roles to honoring each other’s unique gifts, the conversation unpacks how mutual respect and servant leadership can transform both marriage and ministry.Through laughter, transparency, and practical wisdom, Adam and Ashlee remind us that unity doesn’t mean uniformity—true strength in relationships comes from valuing one another’s perspectives, communicating with clarity, and extending grace in the process. Whether you’re married, dating, or simply navigating leadership in your community, this episode offers encouragement to lead with love and lean on God’s design for unity.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this powerful episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam, Pastor Sammy, and special guest Miles Minnick dive deep into what it means to be a bold witness in unexpected places. Miles shares his compelling testimony—from a life fraught with struggles, including teen fatherhood and drug use, to the moment he heard God’s call to make music and committed to following it before any results came. Pastor Andrew Carter, who planted a church from scratch and welcomed Myles into his congregation, offers insightful reflections on shaping spiritual culture and empowering emerging voices. This conversation echoes the courage of Daniel in Babylon—standing firm in faith while navigating cultural influence. The episode challenges us all to embrace our God-given platforms—whether that’s music, business, or creative expression—and ask: How can I be salt and light where I already am? If you’ve ever wondered how faith intersects with culture, this episode is for you. --Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Pastor Andrew Carter https://www.instagram.com/andrewfcarter/Miles Minnick https://www.instagram.com/miles.minnick/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam dives into the biblical principle of Sabbath rest and why it’s essential for marriage, family, and personal faith. From God modeling rest after creation in Genesis to Elijah’s story of exhaustion and divine renewal, we’re reminded that rest is not laziness—it’s obedience.This conversation challenges us to examine our own rhythms of work and rest. Are we simply taking days off, or are we cultivating true Sabbath—spiritual rejuvenation, family connection, and intimacy with God? Through practical insights and scriptural truths, Adam encourages couples to embrace God’s design for rest, trusting that it leads to renewed energy, creativity, and deeper spiritual vitality.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam and the team dive into the tension between dreaming big and staying faithful in the daily disciplines that move those dreams forward. Using the story of David—who went from shepherd to king—as a reminder, they emphasize that small, consistent steps of obedience often pave the way to the fulfillment of God-given visions.The conversation also challenges us to identify the areas where we most need help—whether it’s discipline, clarity, or simply learning to embrace joy—because those very areas may hold the key to unlocking our full potential. This episode is a call to trust God’s timing, cultivate faithfulness in the small things, and courageously pursue the dreams He’s placed in our hearts.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Jermaine Baker https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee Mesa dive into one of the most overlooked yet powerful aspects of marriage: communication. Drawing from James 3, they explore how the tongue—though small—has the power to set entire relationships on fire or steer them toward peace and love.Together, they challenge us to reflect on the impact of our words: are we speaking life into our marriage, or unknowingly sowing seeds of conflict? With biblical wisdom and real-life application, this conversation offers practical encouragement for cultivating healthier communication, building trust, and strengthening intimacy. Whether you’re newly married or years into the journey, this message invites you to see your words as instruments of healing and growth in your relationship.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam Mesa and the team dive into the importance of authenticity and vulnerability in our spiritual walk. They explore how speaking life into others and affirming their God-given gifts not only strengthens relationships but also builds up the Church as a whole. Drawing inspiration from biblical examples like Daniel and Joseph—who modeled servant leadership long before they held influence—the conversation highlights the power of humility, consistency, and excellence in representing Christ. The group also challenges us to reflect on how our words, both in person and online, reflect our faith. Are we using our voices to encourage, uplift, and bring light into dark spaces? This episode is a call to embrace vulnerability, affirm the gifts in others, and lead with integrity—allowing God to use us as living examples of His love in every area of life.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Aaron https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/Pastor Haron https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this thought-provoking episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee Mesa unpack the biblical model of leadership and submission in marriage. Drawing from the Garden of Eden, they reflect on how God’s design for husbands and wives points us toward love, respect, and mutual support.The conversation emphasizes that submission is not weakness or loss of value, but a recognition of God-given roles that strengthen the family. With Christ as the example of servant leadership, this discussion invites couples to embrace God’s order in a way that fosters unity, deepens faith, and creates homes built on grace and trust.Whether you’re married, preparing for marriage, or seeking to better understand God’s design, this episode will equip and encourage you to walk in His wisdom together.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this powerful discussion, Adam and the crew unpack the hunger for authentic faith among young believers today. Contrary to the narrative that Gen Z is running from God, this generation is seeking Him in His purest form. The conversation challenges us to strip away cultural adaptations of Jesus and instead present the raw, transformative power of the Gospel.A moving story of a young woman who broke down in tears after hearing the simple truth of salvation reminds us of Romans 1:16 — that the Gospel itself is “the power of God for salvation.” Together, the hosts reflect on how we can avoid diluting the message with unnecessary additions and instead boldly proclaim Christ’s redemptive work. Inspired by Gen Z’s boldness to take the Gospel to school quads and city streets, this episode calls us to cultivate the same passion and authenticity in our own walk with God.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Chelsie Baham https://www.instagram.com/chelsiebaham/Vivi Diaz https://www.instagram.com/viviiidiaz/Allan Walters https://www.instagram.com/alllanwalters/Christian De La Rosa https://www.instagram.com/christian__delarosa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Adam and Ashlee are back — and this time, they’re putting each other on the spot with a round of fun, random questions. From imaginary arrest records and life-swaps to cartoon alter-egos (yes, there’s a Care Bear involved), nothing is off-limits.Along the way, you’ll hear about missing license plates, loud tooth-brushing, sun-induced sneezing fits, and why Ashlee will absolutely step in if anyone disrespects Adam — even at 6 AM in an airport. It’s all love, laughs, and just enough roasting to keep things interesting.Whether you’re married, dating, or just need a good laugh, this episode shows that sometimes the best way to grow together is to have fun and not take yourself too seriously.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Alize & Nancyhttps://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What if deepening your faith meant asking more questions instead of having all the answers? In this thought-provoking episode, the crew explores how curiosity and open-mindedness can strengthen our walk with God. Looking at the example of Jesus—who welcomed people from every background and engaged with their stories—they unpack how respect, patience, and humility create space for meaningful spiritual conversations.This isn’t about watering down your beliefs—it’s about living them out with Christ-like love in a divided world. When we lead with empathy instead of defensiveness, we become a light that draws people in, even those who see life differently.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Pregnancy isn't just a physical journey—it’s a deeply spiritual one. In this powerful episode, Ashlee Mesa is joined by guests Alize and Nancy to unpack the highs and lows of motherhood through a lens of faith. From morning sickness and fear to unexpected complications, this conversation draws from the stories of Sarah, Hannah, Elizabeth, and Eve to show how God shapes both body and soul in the process.Whether you're expecting, hoping to be, or simply supporting someone in the journey, this episode will stir your heart toward deeper trust in God’s timing and plan. It’s a reminder that we’re not alone—that even in the waiting, the pain, and the uncertainty, God is working. And through it all, community, prayer, and faith are the anchors that carry us.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Alize & Nancyhttps://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In a world driven by likes, shares, and endless scrolling, how do we stay spiritually grounded? In this timely episode, the team unpacks the subtle yet powerful ways social media can shape our identity, relationships, and even our walk with God. With Proverbs 18:1 as a backdrop, they challenge us to examine whether we’re using these platforms as tools for genuine connection—or letting them pull us into isolation, comparison, and performance.This conversation is a heart check for believers navigating life online. Are we being discipled by our feed or by our faith? If we’re called to be in the world but not of it, that includes how we post, comment, and engage. Tune in for real talk on how to keep your digital life aligned with your spiritual one.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What do you do when your spouse is going through something heavy—and you're not sure how to help? In this heartfelt episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack the power of showing up with empathy and patience when your partner is facing grief, anxiety, or health struggles. Rooted in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, this conversation is a reminder that marriage isn’t about convenience—it’s about commitment, especially when things get hard.Whether you're walking through a tough season or preparing for one, this episode will challenge you to think long-term, love sacrificially, and stay grounded in grace. Because real support isn’t about fixing—it’s about being present, and trusting God to work in the middle of the mess.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Andy Lopezhttps://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Sometimes we chase a promise so hard, we end up building something God never asked for. In this episode, the guys dive into the tension between trusting God’s timing and taking matters into our own hands. Using the story of Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar as a reference point, they explore what it means to accidentally “birth an Ishmael”—a version of purpose that we have to sustain ourselves—when God is calling us to wait for His “Isaac.”It’s a conversation about patience, obedience, and surrender—especially for anyone navigating calling, relationships, or big life decisions. If you’ve ever been tempted to rush the process, this episode will challenge you to pause, seek clarity, and trust that what’s truly from God won’t need to be forced.--Connect with:Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Pastor Jeff Osborne https://www.instagram.com/jefftosborne/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Control might feel like safety—but in marriage, it can become a silent wedge. In this heart-check of an episode, Adam and Ashlee dive into what it means to truly trust God in your relationship. Whether it’s trying to force outcomes, micromanaging your spouse, or holding onto fear disguised as “leadership,” they unpack how surrendering control creates space for both people to thrive spiritually and emotionally.Grounded in faith and full of practical insight, this conversation challenges couples to examine their dynamic and re-center on grace, trust, and God’s guidance. If you’re ready to release the pressure of perfection and walk in peace together, this episode is your sign. --Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== --Connect with Andy Lopezhttps://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

As artificial intelligence reshapes how we live, work, and connect—what does it mean for our spiritual lives? In this episode, Adam and the crew unpack how tools like AI can support, challenge, and even disrupt our walk with God. From digital Bible apps to algorithm-driven connection, they explore both the opportunity and the danger of technology becoming a substitute for intimacy with the Father. Drawing from the story of Adam and Eve, this conversation reminds us that no matter how advanced our tools become, nothing can replace genuine human relationship and divine connection. As the Church enters the digital age, we’re challenged to use these tools with wisdom—anchored in truth, led by the Spirit, and committed to staying fully human.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Weddings are beautiful — but they’re not just about the flowers, the dress, or the guest list. In this week’s episode, we talk about what it means to enter marriage as a sacred covenant, not just a celebration. From the meaning of communion at your ceremony to the weight of commitment before God, this convo challenges couples to keep Christ at the center — even in the chaos of planning.If you’re engaged, dating, or even already married, this one will reframe how you see your wedding day and the lifelong promise that follows.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this powerful roundtable conversation, Adam is joined by Sammy, Kevin, Ben, and Daniel to talk about what it really means to prioritize your home as your first ministry. Inspired by Jesus’ love for children and the call to servant leadership, they reflect on how spiritual formation starts in the family. From bedtime Bible readings to reshaping daily routines, this episode unpacks the practical ways we can lead our households with intentionality and humility.Whether you're a parent, future parent, or someone trying to lead with purpose in your home, this conversation will challenge you to shift your focus from public success to private faithfulness. Because at the end of the day, the most important ministry you’ll ever have might be sitting right across the dinner table.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Daniel https://www.instagram.com/worldwidelovecampaign/Kevin Seo https://www.instagram.com/thekevinseo/Ben Chung https://www.instagram.com/btek_benchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What does it look like to truly wait on God’s timing—especially in love? In this moving episode, Adam and Ashlee sit down with Eric and Thalia Bradley to unpack their 40-year journey of sexual purity before marriage. Their story is a powerful reminder that faithfulness is never wasted, and that God’s promises often exceed what we could ask or imagine. Rooted in 1 Corinthians 6, their testimony challenges cultural norms and highlights what it means to honor God with your body and trust Him with your future.Whether you’re single, dating, or struggling to stay the course, this episode will stir your faith and encourage you to embrace God’s timing over your own. Through honesty, grace, and spiritual wisdom, the Bradleys share how patience and obedience led to a love story that only God could write.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Eric & Thalia Bradleyhttps://www.instagram.com/p/DG1ydCBveSp/https://www.instagram.com/thali_j_lira/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What does it mean to be Christian and compassionate in a divided world? In this timely episode, Adam and Will dive into the biblical mandate to care for the marginalized—especially the widow, the orphan, and the foreigner. Drawing from Deuteronomy, Proverbs, and the life of Jesus Himself (who was once a refugee), they challenge believers to approach modern immigration not just with policy opinions, but with a heart shaped by the gospel.This conversation invites you to reflect on how your faith shows up in how you treat the vulnerable. Are we more loyal to our political ideologies than to Christ’s example? Or are we willing to become “spiritual medics” in a broken world—offering dignity, love, and healing where it’s needed most?--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

How can you raise godly children if your marriage isn’t united? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack the power of unity in parenting and why your relationship as husband and wife sets the tone for your entire household. From handling in-law dynamics to the biblical principle of "leaving and cleaving," they share how oneness in marriage creates stability, safety, and spiritual clarity for your kids.This conversation is full of practical insight on conflict resolution, modeling Christ-like behavior, and making sure your faith isn’t just taught—it’s lived. If you’re a parent, planning to be one, or just want to build a marriage that speaks louder than your words, this episode will challenge and encourage you to lead with love, humility, and unity.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

How do you honor God while building something big? In this raw and motivating episode, Adam is joined by Pastors Sammy, Aaron, and Fuego to unpack the intersection of creativity, calling, and entrepreneurship. They open up about the highs and lows of starting businesses, leading ministries, and staying faithful to God's voice in an era where hustle and hype can easily drown out purpose.From battling self-doubt and burnout to navigating risk, resistance, and revenue, this episode is full of practical wisdom and spiritual fire. Whether you're launching a brand, growing a ministry, or simply trying to steward your gifts well, this conversation will help you embrace the tension between dreaming big and staying grounded in God.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/Pastor Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Pastor Fuego Padilla https://www.instagram.com/iamfuegopadilla/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What are the non-negotiables that keep a marriage grounded when life gets busy—especially with kids in the picture? In this practical and honest episode, Adam and Ashlee talk about how parenting has challenged and strengthened their relationship. They unpack the values that keep them aligned, the systems they’ve put in place to stay connected, and how they navigate tough moments without losing sight of what matters most.From spiritual rhythms to dividing up household responsibilities, this conversation offers wisdom for couples trying to balance family, faith, and each other. If you’re in the thick of parenting—or just want to build a healthier foundation before you get there—this one’s for you.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What happens when your brain doesn’t shut off—but you're still called to lead? In this raw and relatable episode, Adam sits down with Pastor Will to talk about how they each navigate life, ministry, and mental health while living with ADHD. From rapid thoughts and decision fatigue to overcommitting and emotional overload, they get honest about the behind-the-scenes struggle that high-functioning leaders often carry.This conversation isn't about excuses—it's about awareness. Through biblical insight and real-life experience, they share how ADHD impacts their leadership, relationships, and connection with God… and how they’ve learned to manage it with grace, rhythm, and Spirit-led discipline. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your mind or misunderstood in your calling, this episode will remind you: you’re not broken—you’re just built different.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this inspiring episode of Beyond I Do, hosts Adam and Ashlee Mesa sit down with Lester and Kirsten Baron—longtime friends and cherished members of the Patria community. Together, they dive into the journey of building a life side-by-side in marriage, business, and parenthood. From pursuing separate careers to launching a financial planning practice together, the Barons share the real and raw moments that shaped their path—including their experience with infertility and the beautiful story of adopting their daughter.This honest conversation is full of insight on navigating life as partners, staying grounded in faith, and holding onto vision through every season. Whether you’re married, running a business, or walking through your own challenges, you’ll find encouragement and hope in their story.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Lester & Kirsten Baronhttps://www.instagram.com/globalmoneymaster/https://www.instagram.com/kirsten_baron/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

How do you know if it’s God’s voice or just your own thoughts? In this deep-dive episode, Adam, Sammy, and Will unpack the tension between being emotionally led vs. Spirit-led, and why so many believers wrestle with discerning God’s voice in their everyday lives. He breaks down the dangers of assuming God always affirms your desires—and how the Holy Spirit often challenges, corrects, and sanctifies us rather than just co-signing our feelings.Drawing from both Scripture and lived experience, this conversation brings clarity to confusing moments in faith, relationships, and major decisions. If you’ve ever questioned whether it’s your emotions, your trauma, or truly God speaking… this episode will help you pause, discern, and follow with confidence.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/ Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What does it really mean to be led by the Holy Spirit in relationships? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee—joined by pastors and marriage coaches George and Tondra Gregory—dig into what spiritual discernment looks like when you're choosing who to marry, how to navigate conflict, or just trying to figure out if you're on the same page as your spouse. It’s not just about hearing an audible voice from heaven—it’s about walking in daily partnership with the Holy Spirit, especially when your emotions, opinions, or logic want to take the lead.Together, they break down common misconceptions about what being “Spirit-led” means, why timing matters, and how to build a relationship rooted in surrender instead of self-will. Whether you're dating, married, or in a season of waiting, this episode offers a real, biblical perspective on what it looks like to let God lead your love life.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with George & Tondra Gregoryhttps://www.instagram.com/georgeagregory/https://www.instagram.com/tondragregory/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

When the door doesn't open, is God saying "No"... or just "Not yet"? In this faith-stirring episode, we dive into the power of perseverance through the lens of Walt Disney’s relentless dream to build Disneyland—despite 300+ bank rejections. Through that story and Scripture, we explore how God often uses delay to develop character, and how enduring trials can actually prepare us for the purpose He’s promised.James 1:12 reminds us that the one who “perseveres under trial” is blessed—and that's the kind of faith we’re after. Whether you’re in a season of waiting, disappointment, or doubt, this conversation will encourage you to trust that God isn’t withholding your breakthrough… He’s preparing you for it.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Al Nassar: https://www.instagram.com/al.j.nassar/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What happens when your spiritual walk is strong—but your spouse's isn't? In this raw and honest episode, Adam and Ashlee dive deep into the emotional and spiritual tension that arises when couples find themselves spiritually unequally yoked, even after marriage. They unpack the biblical responsibility of the believing spouse, offer encouragement from personal experience, and share tools to avoid bitterness, pride, and disconnection.Whether you're married to someone who’s lost their fire or you're the one who’s struggling, this conversation is packed with grace and real talk. It's not about dragging your spouse to church—it’s about modeling Jesus in the quiet, everyday faithfulness. Tune in for a powerful reminder that even when your marriage feels uneven, God is still working in both hearts.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this solo episode, Adam unpacks the rising tension between Catholicism and mainline Christianity, not from a place of debate, but from honest cultural observation. Why does it feel like some Catholic leaders are targeting Protestants more than unbelievers? Is unity still possible with so much division in how we worship and understand authority? From personal DMs to viral TikToks, Adam offers a pastoral perspective on the Catholic Church’s public stance, the challenges of tradition vs. transformation, and how to stay centered on Jesus through it all.Rather than getting caught in theological weeds, this episode takes a seat at the lunch table—where real conversations happen. It’s a call to humility, spiritual awareness, and the kind of unity Jesus prayed for in John 17. Whether you’ve got Catholic roots or just questions, this one’s for you.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Can a Christian marriage survive when only one person is willing to fight for it? In this raw and deeply honest episode, Adam and Ashlee tackle one of the toughest realities many couples face: what to do when your spouse checks out. With biblical wisdom from 1 Corinthians 7:12-16 and real-life counseling insights, they explore how faith, patience, and self-work play a role in standing strong when the other person has given up.They also dive into the different ways men and women communicate distress, how to recognize emotional breadcrumbs before it’s too late, and why personal healing is often the first step to marital healing. Whether you're in the thick of it or supporting someone who is, this conversation brings perspective, hope, and the challenge to stay anchored in God's calling—even in the loneliest seasons of marriage.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What happens when pastors, IV therapy, and artificial intelligence collide? In this hilarious and eye-opening episode, the crew explores how AI—especially ChatGPT—is shaping the way we approach leadership, study Scripture, manage relationships, and even recover from burnout. From naming your chat assistant to feeding it your life story, we discuss how far AI has come and how it’s quietly integrating into ministry, therapy, sermon writing, and daily life.But the conversation doesn’t stop at tech. The guys also reflect on boundaries, ethics, and spiritual caution when using tools that feel almost prophetic. Whether you’re a skeptic or already feeding your macros into the AI overlords, this one will leave you laughing, reflecting, and wondering just how far this technology will go.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

This episode gets real about the emotional rhythms of marriage—how we process things differently, how we misread each other, and what it means to feel truly seen and appreciated. Adam and Ashlee unpack how emotional awareness, resilience, and regular feedback have strengthened their relationship over time.They talk about why words of affirmation still matter (even 10 years in), how unspoken expectations can wear a couple down, and why understanding each other’s emotional wiring is key to a lasting connection. Whether it's about navigating anger, sensitivity, conflict, or unmet needs, this conversation will challenge you to be more intentional in how you love, listen, and lead in your relationship.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this powerful and convicting episode, we dive into the urgent reality of child exploitation and human trafficking — not just overseas, but right in our own communities. Drawing on the example of Jesus and the radical story of a missionary praying for a known drug trafficker, we’re reminded that no one is beyond the reach of redemption.Romans 10:13 declares, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved,” and this episode unpacks what that means in the darkest of places. We challenge listeners to confront injustice with fearless faith, ask hard questions about how we live out the Gospel, and consider what it means to stand in the gap for the most vulnerable.This is more than a conversation — it’s a call to action. --Connect with LIFE IMPACT: https://lifeimpactintl.org/ --LANA VASQUEZ on Beyond the Letter EPISODE 4: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=67d33-43Ldw--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Lana Vasquez: https://www.instagram.com/lanavasquez/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this heartfelt episode, we explore the beauty and challenges of intimacy in marriage through the lens of Ephesians 5. How do couples stay connected—physically, emotionally, and spiritually—especially after kids, stress, or past trauma? This conversation dives deep into the ways love mirrors Christ’s relationship with the Church, emphasizing the importance of communication, healing, and seeking both divine wisdom and practical support. Whether you're newlywed or years in, this message is a powerful reminder that nurturing your marriage honors God and strengthens your family.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this compelling episode of Beyond the Letter, we unpack the true meaning of biblical manhood, spiritual fatherhood, and mentorship within the body of Christ. Drawing from Jesus’ command to care for widows and orphans, we explore how "orphans" in Scripture often referred to the fatherless—and how that truth challenges today’s believers to step into roles of spiritual parenting.Discover why every man of faith needs three vital relationships: a father figure, a mentor, and a brother. These roles not only foster spiritual growth and accountability, but also reflect the heart of Christ in a broken world.Whether you're a young believer seeking guidance, or a seasoned Christian ready to pour into others, this episode calls us to rise above individualism and build a legacy of faith that transcends bloodlines. Join us as we learn how to embody Christ-like leadership, healing, and belonging in our churches and communities.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee explore how the wrong voices can quietly unravel even the strongest marriages. From TikTok satire that touches on uncomfortable truths to stories from real counseling sessions and their own experiences, they unpack the importance of choosing your inner circle with wisdom.Whether it’s venting to the wrong friend, taking advice from someone who doesn’t know your relationship, or oversharing frustrations that breed bitterness, they challenge couples to think critically about who they trust with their marriage. Ashlee reflects on the power of discretion, while Adam shares hard-earned lessons about mentorship, accountability, and emotional maturity.Through honesty, humor, and spiritual insight, this episode is a guide to guarding your relationship — not from people, but from the patterns that often come with them.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam, Aaron, Haron, and Jermaine sit down to talk about how faith and fitness show up in real life. We get into the discipline it takes to stay consistent—whether that’s in writing a devotional, showing up to the gym, or just trying to follow Jesus day by day.There’s a lot of real talk in this one—about staying motivated, hitting walls, and how our spiritual lives affect the way we care for our bodies. We share personal stories, small wins, and what we’ve learned along the way. If you’re working on your faith, your physical health, or both, we think this conversation will resonate with you. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Aaron https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/ Pastor Haron https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/ Jermaine https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/-- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i --Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! *** SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode of Beyond I Do, we explore the evolving dynamics between baby boomers and millennials within the modern family. Why do so many millennials feel unheard by their boomer parents? And how can families move past the tension to build stronger, more unified relationships? From differing parenting styles to conflicting values around marriage, work, and child-rearing, generational gaps can strain even the closest families. We dive into these issues with honest dialogue, relatable stories, and actionable strategies to create deeper connection. Whether you're navigating in-law tension, raising children with grandparent input, or trying to communicate across generational lines, this conversation offers tools to help families thrive together.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Join us for a powerful episode of Beyond the Letter featuring worship artist Ryan Ellis!From finding unexpected lessons in golf to discovering the healing power of music, Ryan shares his inspiring journey of faith, resilience, and creativity. Hear about his deep encounters with the Holy Spirit, the impact of personal loss, and how vulnerability fuels his songwriting.👉 Ryan also previews exclusive songs from his upcoming headline tour — you don't want to miss it!✨ Topics Covered: • How golf taught Ryan about faith • Healing through worship music • Grieving with God’s hope • Behind the scenes of his new tour🔔 Subscribe for more conversations on faith, creativity, and personal growth!--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Ryan Ellis https://www.instagram.com/ryanellis/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/#RyanEllis #FaithAndMusic #ChristianPodcast #WorshipMusic #BeyondTheLetterPodcast

Join Anthony and Marie Pinedo on Beyond the Letter as they share their powerful journey from military life to a purpose-driven family built on faith, healing, and service. In this heartfelt episode, the Pinedos open up about overcoming PTSD, navigating financial stress, and transitioning into civilian life—all while raising a Christ-centered family and building authentic community. This conversation dives deep into what it means to live beyond surface-level faith, embracing the hard work of restoration, leadership, and legacy. Their story is a testament to the power of vulnerability, the importance of spiritual resilience, and the calling to serve others no matter the season.Whether you’re navigating your own transition, supporting a loved one, or simply seeking inspiration, this episode offers hope, wisdom, and a reminder that God writes purpose into every part of our story.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Join us for a powerful and insightful episode of Beyond the Letter as two pastors dive deep into the diverse streams of thought within Christianity. Through personal stories, they unpack the complexities of faith, the role of mentorship, and the ongoing balance between hustle and rest in spiritual leadership. With honest reflection and practical wisdom, they explore how curiosity, humility, and perseverance shape both personal growth and pastoral leadership. Whether you’re a church leader, believer, or simply exploring your faith, this episode invites you to think deeper, grow wider, and embrace the rich tapestry of Christian thought.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this powerful episode of Beyond I Do, we explore the delicate balance between honoring our parents and establishing healthy boundaries in our relationships. The key spiritual lesson here is that honor doesn't mean blind obedience or allowing disrespect. We're reminded of the commandment to 'Honor your father and mother' (Exodus 20:12), but we also see how this principle evolves as we grow into adulthood and form our own families.The conversation draws interesting parallels between our relationships with our earthly parents and our relationship with God - both require respect, open communication, and sometimes difficult conversations. As we navigate these complex family dynamics, we're encouraged to seek unity, practice forgiveness, and prioritize our spouse and children while still maintaining loving connections with our parents.👉 Subscribe for more real conversations on faith, love, and marriage.🔔 Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode of Beyond I Do.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, we explore the latest trends in Bible reading across America—and what they reveal about faith today. Which ethnic groups are most engaged? How are different generations approaching Scripture? And most importantly, can digital church truly replace in-person community? Join us as we break down the stats, talk digital discipleship, and unpack how technology is reshaping the Christian experience. If you're passionate about faith, culture, and the future of the Church, this conversation is for you.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Strengthen your marriage with timeless wisdom. In this powerful episode of Beyond I Do, we sit down with two incredible women—Miss Paula Johnson (30 years married) and Miss Evelyn Joyce Cooper (48 years married)—who share over 75 years of combined marriage experience.They open up about: • The keys to long-lasting love • How to overcome marriage struggles with faith and unity • The role of prayer, community, and selflessness in a thriving relationshipWhether you’re newly married or have decades together, this episode offers biblical, practical, and heartfelt advice to help your relationship grow stronger through every season.👉 Subscribe for more real conversations on faith, love, and marriage.🔔 Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode of Beyond I Do.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Join us for a powerful episode of Beyond the Letter with Pastor Adam and special guest Pastor Mark Francey of Oceans Church.Explore the bold vision behind Baptize America—a nationwide movement uniting churches for one of the largest mass water baptisms in history. From the shores of California to the heart of every state, discover how God is calling His Church into a fresh wave of unity, renewal, and revival.In this episode, Pastor Mark shares his personal journey, the supernatural moments that shaped Oceans Church, and the prophetic spark behind Baptize SoCal, Baptize California, and now Baptize America. Hear how this simple yet profound act of faith—water baptism—is transforming lives and igniting hearts across the nation.Whether you’re a church leader, a believer, or simply exploring faith, this conversation will stir your spirit and invite you to be part of something historic.🗓️ Mark your calendar for May 3rd and June 8th—find out how you and your church can join in, volunteer, and be part of this Kingdom moment.🔔 Subscribe for more conversations that awaken faith and vision👍 Like, comment, and share to help spread the word--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Mark Francey https://www.instagram.com/markfrancey/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/__#BaptizeAmerica #OceansChurch #Revival #BeyondTheLetter #PastorMarkFrancey #WaterBaptism #KingdomMovement #ChurchUnited #UnityInChrist

🔹 How do structure and free-spiritedness coexist in marriage? Join us for an inspiring episode of Beyond I Do as we explore the love story of Heron & Cass Kaiza—a pastor and teacher navigating faith, marriage, and personal growth.💬 What You'll Learn:✔️ How Heron's structured nature balances Cass's free spirit✔️ The challenges & joys of marriage in ministry✔️ Overcoming communication & financial hurdles✔️ The power of friendships & community in relationshipsWhether you're married, dating, or love hearing unique relationship stories, this episode blends wisdom, humor, and heartfelt reflections.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Easter is one of the most significant holidays in history—but what does it really mean? In this episode of Beyond the Letter, we dive into the concept of sacrifice, redemption, and transformation, exploring how these ideas shape our understanding of faith, morality, and personal growth.We unpack penal substitutionary atonement—the belief that Jesus’ death on the cross was an act of reconciliation between humanity and God—and why this idea is often debated or misunderstood today. Whether you come from a faith background or are simply curious about deeper spiritual questions, this conversation challenges us to reflect on forgiveness, grace, and what it means to confront our own imperfections.As Easter approaches, let’s take a moment to reflect on the bigger picture—what sacrifice and redemption mean in our own lives and how they can shape the way we move forward. Join us for an open, thought-provoking discussion that invites everyone to the table.📢 We’d love to hear your thoughts—drop a comment!📲 Subscribe for more deep and real conversations👍 Like & Share to keep the dialogue going--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Haron https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/__#faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

🌟 In this heartfelt episode of Beyond I Do, we dive into the transformative power of love, faith, and resilience in overcoming life’s toughest challenges. Join us as we share the inspiring journey of an interracial couple navigating societal prejudice, family disapproval, and, ultimately, acceptance. Drawing parallels to the biblical story of the prodigal son, this episode reminds us of the importance of unconditional love and embracing our loved ones despite differences and past conflicts.❤️ Key Takeaways You'll Learn:How prayer and faith can strengthen relationships.Why communication is essential in overcoming challenges.The power of resilience and daily commitment in love and marriage.📖 Biblical Inspiration: The story of the prodigal son sheds light on how forgiveness and acceptance can transform our lives and relationships.👉 Don't miss out! This episode is packed with personal stories, practical advice, and heartwarming moments that will inspire you to deepen your relationships, nurture acceptance, and foster perseverance within your family and community.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, we delve into the transformative impact of experiential therapy and the importance of mental health awareness on the path to personal healing. Learn how addressing past trauma and engaging in intensive therapy can strengthen relationships and enhance overall well-being. We also explore the challenges of balancing personal growth, family responsibilities, and church leadership, offering valuable insights and encouragement for those facing similar journeys. Join us for an honest conversation about self-awareness, healing, and achieving a truly fulfilling life.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/__#faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

Join us for a powerful episode of Beyond I Do as we welcome Dana and Diane Hall to share their inspiring journey as a blended family. Dana, a retired NFL player, and Diane open up about the real challenges and victories of merging their families, offering heartfelt wisdom on love, faith, and forgiveness. Learn how their faith has been the foundation of their relationship and how they are actively involved in the church’s Forward Program, a ministry focused on healing and deliverance. Whether you're navigating the complexities of a blended family or simply seeking encouragement in your own relationships, this conversation is filled with invaluable insights. Tune in for practical advice, faith-driven inspiration, and a testimony of God's grace in family life. ✅ Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share to help others find encouragement in their journey!-- Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community! www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do-- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Join us for a powerful discussion on balancing ambition and faith in this episode. Can you strive for greatness while staying humble? We break down a viral speech by Timothée Chalamet, reflect on Tiger Woods' mindset, and explore how Christians can pursue excellence without making success an idol. Plus, hear an inspiring message from Chris Pratt on using your platform for good.We also dive into starting a podcast, setting boundaries, and maintaining influence responsibly. Whether you're chasing a dream or deepening your faith, this conversation is for you. Watch now and take your ambition to the next level—without losing your way!--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/__#faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

Join us for an inspiring episode as we explore love, relationships, and personal growth. Our guests share real-life experiences, from unexpected beginnings to defining moments in their partnerships. Learn how they overcame challenges, embraced new perspectives, and found joy in life’s meaningful moments. Whether you're navigating your own relationship or love heartfelt stories, this episode offers wisdom, humor, and valuable insights. Tune in for a conversation that celebrates the beauty and complexity of human connections.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Join us for a powerful episode of Beyond the Letter as we sit down with Ruslan—rapper, podcaster, and digital influencer—to discuss his journey of faith and influence in the digital age. We dive into his rise in media, the challenges of balancing authenticity with outreach, and the evolving role of new believers in the church.Ruslan also shares insights on modern discipleship and gives us a sneak peek into his upcoming Bless God Summit—an event designed to inspire and equip those passionate about faith, virtue, and community.Don’t miss this insightful conversation on the intersection of faith, culture, and influence!--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Ruslan KD https://www.instagram.com/ruslankd/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/__#faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

Join us for an inspiring conversation with Edward and Cozette Bradley, a couple celebrating 45 years of joyful marriage. In this episode of Beyond I Do, the Bradleys reveal their secrets to a lasting, faith-filled relationship, including how they raised godly children, stayed committed through challenges, and leaned on prayer and resilience in difficult times. Hear their powerful testimony of overcoming adversity, including Edward’s battle with illness and a life-saving liver transplant. Whether you’re single, newlywed, or married for decades, this heartfelt story of love, faith, and perseverance offers valuable wisdom for every stage of life.📌 Don’t miss this moving journey of faith, family, and enduring love!--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Welcome to a powerful episode of Beyond the Letter! Today, Adam takes a deep dive into self-reliance vs. trusting God, exploring how postmodern beliefs shape our views on success, fulfillment, and faith. With no co-hosts to interrupt, this episode delivers raw, unfiltered insights on whether our achievements are truly our own or part of a greater divine plan.🔥 In This Episode: • Is self-reliance a biblical concept? • The spiritual consequences of taking credit for success. • God’s role in human accomplishments. • Do modern self-help theories align with scripture? • Understanding common grace in everyday life.If you're curious about how Christian faith intersects with modern success culture, this discussion will challenge your perspective!👍 Like, comment, and subscribe to support the channel! Find us on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more. Your ratings help bring Beyond the Letter to more listeners!--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/__#faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

Join us for a conversation with Sammy and Chandler Rodriguez, a couple balancing church ministry, family life, and personal growth. They share their experiences navigating new parenthood, career shifts, and faith, offering honest insights on marriage, mental health, and building a strong community. Hear how they stay grounded in their calling while adapting to life’s changes. Whether you're interested in ministry, personal development, or navigating transitions, this episode has something for you.Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real talk on love, faith, and relationships.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this powerful episode of Beyond the Letter, we dive into the complexities of mental health, personal struggles, and the search for true healing. Our hosts discuss a viral social media project from an individual documenting his "Last Supper" as he considers medically assisted termination of life—raising important questions about the intersection of faith, therapy, and the pursuit of hope.We explore how trauma shapes mental health, the different ways generations approach these challenges, and the impact of both Christian and secular counseling. Through raw conversations and personal insights, we unpack what it truly means to heal—whether through faith, therapy, or a combination of both.If you're seeking hope, deeper understanding, or a faith-based perspective on mental health, this episode offers a heartfelt and thought-provoking discussion.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/__#faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashley dive into one of the biggest relationship questions: When should you start talking about marriage? We break down the tension between expectations and reality in dating, how different values shape your future together, and why timing matters. From setting healthy boundaries to avoiding the trap of rushing into intimacy, this conversation is packed with wisdom for singles, couples, and married folks alike.Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real talk on love, faith, and relationships. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do-- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, we dive into viral sermon clips that have sparked debate across social media. From the denial of Christ’s atonement to redefining hell, we examine whether these teachings align with biblical truth or drift into dangerous theology. We discuss the importance of scriptural context, historical theology, and the responsibility of church leaders in handling doctrine accurately. If you care about sound teaching and want to understand the impact of misleading theology, this conversation is for you. Subscribe for more in-depth discussions, and let us know your thoughts in the comments.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/__#faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

Welcome to a special episode of Beyond I Do, where we dive deep into love, marriage, and family dynamics in an open and unfiltered conversation. This week, we’re joined by special guests Aaron, Erica, Colin, and Eileen, who bring real-life experiences, cultural insights, and faith-filled wisdom to the table.In this episode, we discuss what it truly means to build a strong foundation in relationships—whether you’re dating, engaged, or married. From navigating cultural differences to raising a family with faith and intention, we explore the highs and lows of love and commitment. We also break down the importance of financial stewardship in marriage, offering practical advice on managing money as a couple and planning for the future.Plus, with Valentine’s Day around the corner, we take a moment to reflect on what love really looks like beyond the flowers and chocolates. Whether you're looking for dating advice, marriage wisdom, or a fresh perspective on faith and finances, this episode has something for you. If you’ve ever wondered how to date with purpose, strengthen your marriage, or manage finances as a couple, this conversation is packed with insight, humor, and practical takeaways to help you on your journey.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Join hosts Adam and Will as they get real about the challenges and joys of pastoral ministry. From balancing marriage and family with church leadership to navigating tough decisions, they share unfiltered insights, funny moments, and practical wisdom. Dive into topics like setting healthy boundaries, empowering women in leadership, and staying grounded in faith amid life's demands. Whether you're a pastor, aspiring leader, or just curious about the realities of ministry, this candid conversation is for you. Tune in for honest talk, laughs, and a behind-the-scenes look at what it truly takes to lead with faith today!--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/__#faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In this episode of "Beyond I Do," we explore the complex dynamics of leadership and communication in marriage. We dive deep into the unspoken expectations that can either lead to misunderstandings or strengthen the bond between partners. Through real-life stories and humorous anecdotes, we discuss how couples can align their dreams, responsibilities, and leadership roles in the home. Learn how to effectively communicate, manage finances, share household tasks, and understand each other’s strengths to build a healthier relationship. Tune in for valuable insights on how clear expectations and open communication can transform your marriage into a stronger, more unified partnership. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In our journey of faith, we often encounter seasons of transition and growth. This discussion reminds us of the importance of building our tribe - a community of believers who share our values and support our spiritual journey. Just as Joshua sent spies into Jericho, we too must venture into new territories, both physically and spiritually. The story of Rahab teaches us about God's redemptive power and how He can use anyone, regardless of their past, for His divine purpose. As we navigate life's challenges, let's remember that isolation can be dangerous, but intentional connection with God and others can lead to tremendous growth. We're encouraged to be authentic in our relationships, understanding that true depth comes not from the length of time we've known someone, but from shared values and experiences. How can we create spaces in our lives for meaningful connections that push us closer to God and His purpose for us? -- Connect with: Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/ Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/ Pastor Haron https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In this thought-provoking discussion, we delve into the complex topic of beauty standards and self-presentation from a Christian perspective. While no specific scripture is directly cited, the conversation echoes themes from 1 Peter 3:3-4, which reminds us that true beauty comes from within. We explore the delicate balance between taking care of our outward appearance and nurturing our inner selves. The dialogue challenges us to consider: Are we presenting ourselves authentically, or are we playing a character? This connects to the broader spiritual journey of discovering our true identity in Christ. As we navigate societal expectations and personal convictions, we're encouraged to seek wisdom in how we present ourselves, always remembering that our primary goal is to glorify God. This message invites us to reflect on our motivations and to cultivate a heart that values inner beauty while being mindful of how we represent our faith to the world. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In our journey of faith, we often encounter challenges in our relationships, especially within marriage. Today's discussion reminds us of the importance of unity and effective communication in our partnerships. Just as Christ and the Church are meant to be one, we too are called to strive for unity in our marriages. This unity isn't about one person always getting their way, but about both partners feeling heard, valued, and working together towards a common goal. We're reminded of Ephesians 5:31, which says, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' This oneness requires intentional effort, open communication, and a willingness to understand our partner's perspective. By focusing on unity rather than winning arguments, we can build stronger, more Christ-centered relationships that reflect God's love to the world around us. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/ Jermaine Baker https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our journey of faith, we often encounter the challenge of raising spiritually and emotionally strong children in a world that seems to coddle and overprotect. This conversation delves into the importance of allowing our children to face and overcome obstacles, drawing parallels to how God allows us to face trials to build our spiritual resilience. Just as we're called to 'consider it pure joy' when facing trials (James 1:2-4), we're encouraged to view our children's struggles as opportunities for growth. The discussion emphasizes the need to balance love and discipline, teaching our children to be socially adept and respectful while nurturing their independence. This approach not only prepares them for the world but also mirrors how our Heavenly Father guides us - with love, discipline, and opportunities for growth. As we reflect on this, we're challenged to examine our own parenting styles and how they align with biblical principles of raising godly, resilient children. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this powerful discussion, we explore the essence of the Christian life and what it truly means to follow Christ. The conversation delves into the transformative power of encountering Jesus, emphasizing that Christianity is not about moralism or self-improvement, but about a radical change of heart through the work of the Holy Spirit. We're reminded of Ezekiel 36, where God promises to remove our hearts of stone and give us hearts of flesh, causing us to obey Him. This supernatural transformation is at the core of the Christian experience, moving beyond mere behavioral changes to a fundamental shift in our desires and identity. As we consider our own faith journeys, we're challenged to examine whether we've truly experienced this heart transformation or if we're still relying on our own efforts to live a 'good' life. The message encourages us to seek a genuine encounter with Christ, allowing His Spirit to work in us, rather than striving for moral perfection in our own strength. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In this powerful conversation, we witness the transformative power of faith and community. We see how a couple's journey from a life of motorcycles and worldly pursuits to one centered on Christ can radically change not just their own lives, but the lives of their children and those around them. The story reminds us of the biblical narrative of Paul's conversion - a dramatic shift from persecutor to apostle. Just as Paul's life was completely reoriented by his encounter with Jesus, we see how this couple's lives were fundamentally changed by their decision to fully commit to Christ. This transformation wasn't without its challenges - letting go of old friendships, changing habits, and navigating a new way of life. Yet, through it all, we see the fruits of their faithfulness: a stronger marriage, a united family, and a deep sense of purpose. This story encourages us to examine our own lives and ask: Are we fully committed to Christ? What areas of our lives might God be calling us to surrender? How can we, like this couple, be a light in our communities and raise our families in the way of the Lord? -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance between parental guidance and allowing our children to develop their own faith journey. The conversation draws parallels to the biblical story of Joshua and Rahab, reminding us that God's plan often unfolds in unexpected ways. We're challenged to consider how we can create a safe space for open dialogue about faith, values, and life's complexities within our families. The use of tools like conversation boxes and games to facilitate these discussions offers practical ways for us to engage with our loved ones on deeper spiritual matters. As we reflect on this, we're encouraged to examine our own approach to parenting and mentoring, always seeking to lead with love, wisdom, and an understanding that God's grace extends to all of us in our imperfections. - Connect with: Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/ Pastor Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/?hl=en Pastor Erica Levy https://www.instagram.com/erica.levy_np/ Nancy Navas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our journey of faith, we often face transitions that test our resolve and challenge our relationships. This conversation reminds us of the importance of unity in marriage and family, especially during times of change. We see how open communication, vulnerability, and the willingness to seek God together can strengthen our bonds. The story of Joshua leading the Israelites into the Promised Land parallels our own experiences of stepping into new seasons with faith and courage. Just as Joshua had to trust God's plan, we too must lean on His guidance when facing the unknown.This message encourages us to embrace change as an opportunity for growth, to involve our children in our faith journey, and to seek wisdom from our spiritual community. As we navigate life's transitions, let's remember that our ultimate identity is in Christ, not in our roles or achievements. How can we better support each other and rely on God's strength during times of change in our own lives? -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this powerful discussion, we explore the transformative power of commitment in our spiritual journey. The conversation highlights how cynicism and skepticism can hinder our growth, while faith and perseverance can lead to profound spiritual experiences. We're reminded of the early Christian martyrs, particularly through the story of a 3rd-century believer in Germany who carried a scroll with scriptures, even when it was dangerous to do so. This parallel challenges us to examine our own dedication to faith in the face of modern challenges. The message emphasizes the importance of rooting ourselves in a church community, even when it's imperfect, drawing inspiration from the Apostle Paul's teachings on unity and love. As we reflect on this, we're encouraged to put on our spiritual 'seatbelt' and commit to growth, allowing God's word to change us rather than trying to change it to fit our preferences. This perspective shift can lead to a renewed sense of purpose and joy in our faith journey. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/ Jermaine Baker https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our journey of faith, we often encounter moments where we feel God's presence in unexpected ways. This conversation reminds us of the shepherd's light that guided the way to Jesus. Just as the shepherds followed a divine sign, we too can experience moments where we feel God's guidance in our lives. However, it's crucial to discern between genuine spiritual experiences and our own projections. The story shared about misinterpreting a dimmed light as a divine sign humorously illustrates how easily we can mistake everyday occurrences for spiritual interventions. This serves as a gentle reminder to approach our faith with both openness and critical thinking. As we navigate our spiritual paths, let's remain receptive to God's presence while also grounding ourselves in wisdom and discernment. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

As we reflect on the past year and look forward to the new one, we're reminded of the importance of gratitude and perspective in our spiritual journey. The conversation highlights how easily we can become discontent with our blessings, forgetting that what we consider mundane might be a luxury to others. This echoes the biblical principle of contentment found in Philippians 4:11-13, where Paul learned to be content in all circumstances. We're challenged to see God in every aspect of our lives, much like finding Waldo in a crowded picture. This practice of gratitude not only transforms our own hearts but also becomes a powerful testimony to others, potentially opening doors for evangelism. As we enter the new year, let's strive to be thermostats rather than thermometers in our environments, actively spreading joy and positivity instead of merely reflecting the mood around us. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/ Pastor Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/?hl=en -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our journey of faith and relationships, we often grapple with the question of timing - especially when it comes to marriage. This conversation delves into the biblical perspective on dating and engagement, reminding us that while there's no set timeline, there's wisdom in patience. The discussion touches on Ephesians 5:25, where husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church. This powerful metaphor challenges us to examine our relationships through a spiritual lens. Are we cultivating Christ-like love in our dating lives? Are we seeking to honor God in our pursuit of a partner? These questions invite us to reflect on our own motivations and actions. The conversation also highlights the importance of character evaluation during dating, urging us to look beyond surface-level compatibility and seek evidence of spiritual maturity. As we navigate the complexities of modern dating, let's remember that our ultimate goal is to glorify God in our relationships, trusting His timing and guidance in our journey towards marriage. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In our spiritual journey, we often grapple with the tension between biblical truth and cultural pressures. This conversation delves into the challenges of shepherding people through complex issues, particularly around sexuality and identity. The key message is about creating a safe space for honest exploration while remaining grounded in Scripture. Romans 12:1-2 reminds us to be 'living sacrifices,' not conforming to the world but being transformed by the renewal of our minds. This passage emphasizes the importance of surrendering our whole selves to God, including our struggles and desires. As we navigate these sensitive topics, we're encouraged to approach them with compassion, curiosity, and a willingness to learn from others' experiences. This balanced approach allows us to hold firm to biblical principles while showing Christ-like love and understanding to those wrestling with their faith and identity. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/ Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In today's discussion, we explore the profound impact of understanding and appreciating our loved ones' love languages. Drawing from Dr. Gary Chapman's 'The Five Love Languages,' we're reminded that each person has unique ways of giving and receiving love. This insight isn't just about improving relationships – it's about deepening our capacity for empathy and selflessness, qualities that are at the heart of Christ's teachings. As we reflect on how Jesus demonstrated love in various ways – through acts of service, quality time with disciples, affirming words, and physical touch in healing – we're challenged to broaden our own expressions of love. By learning to speak our partner's love language, we're not just strengthening our relationships, we're growing in our ability to love as Christ loved us. This journey of understanding and adapting reminds us of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, where love is described as patient, kind, and selfless. As we apply these principles, we're not just improving our marriages or friendships, we're cultivating a more Christ-like character in our daily lives. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this powerful discussion, we're reminded of the importance of staying focused on our true calling as believers. The story of Jesus feeding the 5,000 in John 6 is highlighted, showing how success in God's eyes often looks different from worldly success. We see Jesus intentionally 'weeding out' the crowd, focusing on the 12 disciples rather than chasing after popularity. This challenges us to reflect on our own motivations - are we chasing numbers and recognition, or are we truly focused on obeying God's calling for our lives? The conversation encourages us to embrace our humanity and limitations, recognizing that it's God who breathes life into our efforts and makes them grow. As we navigate the challenges of social media and public ministry, we're urged to find healthy rhythms of release and to prioritize feeding our souls rather than our egos. This message is a powerful reminder to stay grounded in our faith, even as we engage with the modern world. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/ Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/ Pastor Fuego Padilla https://www.instagram.com/iamfuegopadilla/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our journey of faith, we're often challenged to navigate the complexities of family life, especially in blended families. This discussion reminds us that building a strong foundation in Christ is crucial, whether we're newlyweds or bringing children from previous relationships. The emphasis on developing a voice of leadership while showing grace and patience echoes the biblical model of Christ's leadership in the church. We're encouraged to create intentional moments of connection, like family dinners, where we can discuss our faith openly. This practice aligns with Deuteronomy 6:7, which instructs us to talk about God's commandments with our children in our daily lives. The message challenges us to reflect on how we're cultivating a Christ-centered home environment and invites us to consider ways we can better integrate our faith into our family dynamics. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In our journey of faith, we often encounter moments that challenge our understanding of success and spirituality. This conversation delves deep into the heart of what it means to truly encounter God in our daily lives. We're reminded of Moses' transformation, from a man of great achievements to someone who simply desired God's presence above all else. This powerful biblical narrative invites us to reflect on our own priorities. Are we chasing accomplishments and spiritual experiences, or are we seeking a genuine, intimate relationship with God? The discussion challenges us to redefine success not by our achievements, but by our ability to be fully present - with God, our families, and in every moment. It's a call to slow down, to find God in the ordinary, and to value relationships over religious performance. As we navigate our own spiritual journeys, let's consider: How can we cultivate a deeper connection with God that transcends our busy schedules and societal expectations? -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Julian Lowe https://www.instagram.com/julianlowe/ Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/ Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our journey through grief, we're reminded that it's not a process with a defined end, but rather a stone we carry in our pocket - always present, though its weight may lessen over time. This powerful metaphor invites us to embrace our grief as part of our ongoing spiritual journey. Just as Jesus wept for Lazarus, we too are allowed to grieve, even as people of faith. The story of Hannah in 1 Samuel teaches us about the importance of allowing others to grieve without trying to 'fix' their pain. As we support loved ones through loss, we're called to simply be present, echoing God's promise in Isaiah 43:2 that He is with us through the waters. This message challenges us to cultivate empathy, patience, and understanding in our relationships, recognizing that each person's grief journey is unique and deserving of respect. How to Lament Well https://youtu.be/0g9ELH6yloE?si=eP8-HAcZeauVqGS2 Navigating Grief https://www.youtube.com/live/UU-t804pMFo?si=xeczai--EubGVEKn Care & Counseling at Patria https://www.patria.church/care-and-counseling -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In our journey of faith and leadership, we're reminded that true influence isn't demanded, but earned through genuine care and investment in others. The story of Jehoshaphat in 2 Chronicles 20 teaches us a powerful lesson: our first emotion doesn't have to be our last. When faced with overwhelming odds, Jehoshaphat's initial fear gave way to faithful action as he stood before his people and called for prayer and fasting. This narrative encourages us to acknowledge our fears but not be immobilized by them. Instead, we're called to take that next step in faith, trusting that God will guide us from what we know to what we need to know. As we navigate our own challenges, let's remember that leadership isn't about perfection, but about progress and the courage to keep moving forward, even when we're afraid. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Gerald Brooks https://www.instagram.com/geraldbrooksministries/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

Happy Thanksgiving Beyond I Do family! Today we bring you a special episode as we briefly discuss bringing in new family traditions, the importance of rest, and tease a big milestone that will be celebrated in a future episode... -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In our spiritual journey, we often face seasons of growth and stagnation. This discussion reminds us that true spiritual vitality comes not from religious performance, but from actively engaging in discipleship. The story of Moses, who spent 40 years as a shepherd before leading the Israelites, teaches us that God's timeline often differs from our own. We're encouraged to embrace the monotony, knowing it's in these seemingly uneventful periods that God is preparing us for greater purposes. The key to overcoming spiritual apathy lies in shifting our focus outward - actively listening to others, discipling new believers, and finding ways to serve. By doing so, we not only grow in our faith but also experience the joy of making heaven bigger. Let's challenge ourselves to write a list of 100 things we're grateful for, reminding ourselves of God's faithfulness even in dry seasons -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/ Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In this powerful discussion, we explore the transformative power of forgiveness and reconciliation in our relationships. The story of Joseph and his brothers from Genesis serves as a poignant backdrop, reminding us that even in the face of betrayal and hurt, God can bring about restoration. We're challenged to examine our own hearts and consider how we handle conflict and correction. Are we quick to cut people off, or do we pursue reconciliation with patience and grace? This message encourages us to view our relationships through a lens of long-term growth and discipleship, recognizing that God often uses friction to refine our character and deepen our faith. As we navigate the complexities of friendships, marriages, and mentorship, we're reminded that true spiritual maturity is often forged in the crucible of challenging relationships. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance between our faith and political engagement. The central message revolves around Jesus' response to the question of paying taxes to Caesar (Mark 12), highlighting how He masterfully avoided political simplicity, vacancy, and supremacy. This teaches us that as believers, our primary allegiance should be to God's kingdom, transcending earthly political divisions. We're challenged to examine our hearts and ask: Are we more American than we are followers of Christ? The conversation reminds us that our identity in Christ should inform our political views, not the other way around. It encourages us to love both the King (righteousness and holiness) and the Kingdom (care for the marginalized and vulnerable), finding a Christ-centered balance in our civic engagement. As we navigate complex political landscapes, let's remember that our ultimate goal is to draw people closer to Christ, not to win political arguments. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In this powerful discussion, we explore the transformative power of unconditional love and the impact of making difficult choices guided by faith. The story of taking in a troubled young family member mirrors the biblical narrative of adoption and redemption. Just as God adopts us into His family, we're called to extend that same grace to others, even when it's challenging. This experience teaches us about patience, perseverance, and the importance of community support in our spiritual journey. We're reminded that sometimes, answering God's call means stepping out of our comfort zone and embracing uncertainty. The parallels drawn between raising a child with a difficult past and our own spiritual growth are striking – both require consistent love, discipline, and faith in God's plan. This message encourages us to reflect on how we can show Christ's love in practical, sacrificial ways, even when it disrupts our lives. It challenges us to consider: How can we be the hands and feet of Jesus in our families and communities, especially to those who may be difficult to love? -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this powerful discussion, we explore the profound impact of Bible translation and its significance in spreading God's Word. The central theme revolves around the Illuminations project, which aims to translate the Bible into every known language by 2033. This endeavor reminds us of God's desire for all people to hear His message in their own tongue, echoing the miracle of Pentecost. As we reflect on this, we're challenged to consider our role in making Scripture accessible to all. Are we taking for granted our easy access to God's Word? How can we support efforts to bring the Bible to those who don't have it in their language? This conversation invites us to appreciate the power of God's Word and our responsibility to share it, reminding us that we are part of a greater mission to spread the Gospel to every corner of the earth. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/Jermaine Baker https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our journey of faith and marriage, we often underestimate the power of community. This conversation reminds us that building strong, Christ-centered relationships isn't just beneficial—it's crucial for our spiritual growth and marital health. We're challenged to step out of our comfort zones and invite others into our lives, not just superficially, but in ways that allow for genuine accountability and support. The discussion echoes the wisdom found in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: 'Two are better than one... If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.' By cultivating these deep connections, we create a network of support that strengthens our marriages, deepens our faith, and helps us navigate life's challenges. As we reflect on this, let's consider: How can we be more intentional about building meaningful community in our own lives? Are we willing to be vulnerable and transparent with others for the sake of growth? -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance between personal convictions and Christian unity. The conversation centers around Romans 14, where Paul teaches about not judging others for their religious practices. We're challenged to consider how our preferences in worship styles, holiday celebrations, or even dietary choices can sometimes create unnecessary divisions within the body of Christ. The key takeaway is that while we may have different convictions on non-essential matters, our focus should remain on Christ and loving our fellow believers. This message encourages us to examine our hearts and ask: Are we allowing our personal preferences to become stumbling blocks for others? How can we better embrace diversity within the church while maintaining our core beliefs? As we reflect on these questions, we're reminded that our unity in Christ should transcend our differences, fostering a community of love and acceptance. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Alyssa Cano https://www.instagram.com/alyssabcano/ Colin Barrier https://www.instagram.com/_wadeinthewater/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance between personal interests and family responsibilities in marriage. While no specific scripture is directly referenced, the conversation echoes the biblical principles of mutual respect and understanding found in Ephesians 5:21-33. We're challenged to examine our own relationships and consider how we can better support our spouses' individual pursuits while maintaining a strong family unit. The dialogue highlights the importance of open communication, shared calendars, and setting clear expectations. As we reflect on this, we're encouraged to ask ourselves: Are we truly present for our loved ones? Are we allowing space for personal growth within our marriages? This message reminds us that a healthy relationship requires both togetherness and individual freedom, urging us to find that sweet spot where both partners can thrive. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this enlightening discussion, we're reminded of the profound connection between our finances and our faith. The story of Joseph in Genesis serves as a powerful illustration of how God can turn even our most challenging circumstances into opportunities for growth and blessing. Just as Joseph's brothers meant harm, but God used it for good, we too can trust that our financial setbacks or struggles might be preparing us for a greater purpose. This conversation challenges us to view our money management not just as a practical skill, but as a spiritual discipline. By aligning our financial decisions with God's wisdom, we're not only stewarding our resources well, but we're also positioning ourselves to be more generous and impactful in God's kingdom. Let's reflect on how we can approach our finances with both faith and wisdom, trusting that God can use our obedience in this area to bless others and further His plans. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In this powerful discussion, we delve into the complexities of marriage and the importance of open communication. The central theme revolves around how misunderstandings can arise even in the strongest relationships, and how we must be vigilant against allowing insecurities to take root. We're reminded of the biblical principle found in Ephesians 4:26, 'Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.' This story beautifully illustrates how addressing issues promptly and honestly can prevent small misunderstandings from growing into larger problems. The conversation also touches on the dangers of comparing our private struggles with others' public personas, especially on social media. As believers, we're encouraged to focus on nurturing our relationships in private, rather than seeking validation through public displays. This message challenges us to examine our own relationships, confront our insecurities, and prioritize open, honest communication with our partners. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this enlightening discussion, we explore the profound concept of spiritual gifts and their role in the modern church. The conversation delves into the 'fivefold ministry' mentioned in Ephesians 4 - apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds, and teachers. We're challenged to consider how these gifts manifest in our contemporary context and how they can be fully utilized to build up the body of Christ. This message encourages us to embrace our unique spiritual gifts, recognizing that unity in the church doesn't mean conformity, but rather diverse gifts working together towards a common purpose. As we reflect on this, we're prompted to consider: How are we using our God-given gifts to serve the church and reach our communities? Are we creating space for all gifts to flourish, or are we limiting ourselves to traditional roles? -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/- -Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/__#faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our journey of faith, we often encounter the challenge of balancing our personal lives with our spiritual commitments. This conversation reminds us of the importance of prioritizing our marriages and relationships, even amidst the demands of ministry and family life. The biblical principle of 'leaving and cleaving' from Genesis 2:24 is beautifully illustrated here, as we're encouraged to establish healthy boundaries with extended family and invest in our core relationships. Just as Christ prioritized His relationship with the Father, we too must make intentional efforts to nurture our closest bonds. This may mean scheduling regular date nights, taking couple retreats, or simply creating space for honest communication. By doing so, we're not only strengthening our marriages but also modeling Christ's love to the world around us. Let's reflect on how we can better prioritize our relationships and create a legacy of love and commitment in our families and communities. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this enlightening discussion, we explore the profound impact of humility and optimism in spiritual leadership. We're reminded of the power of staying grounded in our faith, even as we grow in influence. The conversation draws parallels to biblical figures who maintained their humility despite their elevated status. We're challenged to consider: How can we cultivate a spirit of humility and optimism in our own spiritual journeys? This message encourages us to reflect on our approach to leadership and service, urging us to focus on loving God's word and His people above all else. It's a call to embrace a Christ-centric life, where we revolve around Him rather than expecting Him to revolve around us. As we contemplate these insights, we're invited to examine our own hearts and motivations in our walk with God. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our journey of faith, we often encounter the challenge of balancing our personal lives with our spiritual commitments. This conversation reminds us of the importance of prioritizing our marriages and relationships, even amidst the demands of ministry and family life. The biblical principle of 'leaving and cleaving' from Genesis 2:24 is beautifully illustrated here, as we're encouraged to establish healthy boundaries with extended family and invest in our core relationships. Just as Christ prioritized His relationship with the Father, we too must make intentional efforts to nurture our closest bonds. This may mean scheduling regular date nights, taking couple retreats, or simply creating space for honest communication. By doing so, we're not only strengthening our marriages but also modeling Christ's love to the world around us. Let's reflect on how we can better prioritize our relationships and create a legacy of love and commitment in our families and communities. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

As we reflect on this journey of faith and community, we're reminded of the power of authenticity and diverse perspectives in our spiritual growth. The conversation highlights how a simple act of sharing our experiences can become a catalyst for transformation in others' lives. Just as the early church in Acts 2:42-47 devoted themselves to fellowship and breaking bread together, we see the importance of creating spaces where believers and seekers alike can engage in genuine dialogue. This modern-day 'table fellowship' through media reminds us that our faith isn't meant to be lived in isolation, but in community. It challenges us to consider: How are we using our voices and platforms to invite others into a deeper understanding of God's love and grace? -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Jermaine Baker https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ Nancy Navas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ Alize Robinson https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance of defending our spouses and maintaining personal accountability in our relationships. While the Bible doesn't directly address this topic, we can draw wisdom from Ephesians 5:25, which calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church. This love isn't about blindly defending, but about nurturing growth and maturity. We're challenged to consider: When should we step in to defend our spouse, and when should we allow them to handle situations independently? This reflection invites us to examine our own reactions, biases, and communication patterns within our marriages. Are we fostering an environment of mutual respect and growth, or are we enabling harmful behaviors? By embracing humility and open communication, we can create stronger, more Christ-centered partnerships that reflect God's love to the world around us. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this powerful discussion, we explore the profound concept of humility in leadership and ministry. The conversation draws parallels to the biblical story of King Saul and David, reminding us that true success isn't about personal glory, but about stewarding God's vision. We're challenged to consider: Are we building our ministries around a person, or around God's mission? The speakers emphasize that humility isn't about false modesty, but about prioritizing the vision God has given us over our own desires for recognition. This message encourages us to reflect on our own motivations in serving and leading. Are we seeking to amplify our own voice, or are we committed to amplifying God's message? As we navigate our faith journey, let's remember that God often requires humility from us - we can choose it willingly, or He may bring circumstances that humble us. This conversation invites us to embrace true humility, recognizing that our role is to be stewards of God's vision, not kings of our own kingdoms. -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/ Abe Camacho https://www.instagram.com/abecamacho/ Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our journey of faith and relationships, we often encounter clichés that seem to offer simple solutions. However, as we delve deeper, we realize that true wisdom lies beyond these surface-level statements. One such cliché we explored is 'Happy wife, happy life.' While it may sound appealing, we discovered that making our spouse's happiness the sole focus can lead to unhealthy patterns and neglect of God's greater purpose for our marriages. Instead, we're called to seek a vision for our family that aligns with God's will, balancing our desires with discipline and long-term goals. This reminds us of Proverbs 29:18, 'Where there is no vision, the people perish.' By focusing on God's vision for our lives and marriages, we can build stronger, more purposeful relationships that weather the storms of life and grow deeper with time. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

Join us for a transformative episode where we reflect on our recent retreat experience with Young Guns and how we can learn to operate in the prophetic realm, as well as discern the difference between real and false prophets. Listen as Pastor Adam and Sammy give their prophetic experiences they received at Young Guns and how it changed their lives. Have you ever received a prophetic word that changed your outlook on life? Let us know in the comments! -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/ Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In this powerful discussion, we delve into the sacred bonds of marriage and the importance of maintaining strong boundaries. While no specific scripture is directly quoted, the message strongly echoes the principles found in Ephesians 5:33, which calls husbands to love their wives and wives to respect their husbands. We explore how seemingly innocent interactions can potentially dishonor our spouses and compromise the sanctity of our marital covenant. The conversation challenges us to examine our own behavior, asking whether we're truly putting our spouse first in all situations. Are we, perhaps unknowingly, inviting temptation or disrespecting our partner through our actions? This message reminds us that building trust takes time and consistent effort, but it's crucial for a thriving, God-centered marriage. As believers, we're called to be different from the world, setting an example of faithfulness and mutual respect in our relationships. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

In this powerful discussion, we explore the delicate balance between personal growth and organizational leadership in ministry. The conversation reminds us of the biblical principle found in 1 Corinthians 12, where Paul describes the church as a body with many parts. Just as each part of the body has a unique function, we learn that leaders must recognize their strengths and weaknesses, understanding when to step forward and when to empower others. This insight challenges us to reflect on our own roles within our faith communities. Are we trying to do everything ourselves, or are we allowing others to use their God-given talents? The discussion also touches on the importance of perseverance, echoing James 1:12, which promises a crown of life to those who remain steadfast under trials. As we navigate our own faith journeys, let's remember that growth often comes through consistency and dedication, not constant change. This message encourages us to stay committed to our callings, trusting that God will use our faithfulness to bear fruit in His perfect timing. Let us know your thoughts about the episode! What resonated with you? what did you disagree with and why? What has been your experience with these topics? -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/ @andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/ __ #faith #podcast #inspiration #authentic #christianpodcast

In our spiritual journey, we often grapple with the question of how to balance our individual relationship with God and our shared faith experiences. This discussion delves into the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries in our spiritual lives, especially when it comes to dating relationships. We're reminded that while praying together and supporting one another's faith is beautiful, there's a level of spiritual intimacy that's best reserved for marriage. The wisdom shared encourages us to focus on observing how potential partners live out their faith in everyday actions, rather than engaging in deep Bible studies together before marriage. This approach helps protect our hearts and ensures we're building relationships on a solid foundation of character, not just shared religious knowledge. As we navigate our faith journeys, let's remember that true spiritual growth comes from how we apply God's word in our lives, not just how well we can recite it. -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com